>be me >get a really cute girl's number on wednesday >had my eye on this girl for over 10 months and was really excited i got her number >this is the first time i ever got a girl's number >elated that i am finally free on Jow Forums >text her friday night >we start talking about some random stuff >she just stops texting me mid conversation and hasn't replied since >mfw i'm now back here again
Brother you are weak and pathetic. You must find strength in yourself and realize eve is but a demon who wishes to make you suffer. Through strength we find health, through health we find happiness, through happiness we find kindness, through kindness we form bonds, through bonds we find love. Do not fall for the sin of eve for she will bring you ruin like our father Adam.
Adrian Evans
>through kindness we form bonds, through bonds we find love. I'm not gay though...
Julian Myers
Post texts so we can analyze where you went wrong
Justin Myers
Girls do this shit all the time OP, even to normies. You still have a chance.
Jason Davis
So what do I do?
original fucking flying nigger monkeys just end my life now
Blake Jones
I don't envy you my brother. Your road is much harder because you must suffer the sin of Eve. Never the less you can grow from the teaching of adam and still find love through friendship of your fellow man. Never succumb to eve's teaching for she will make you weak and pathetic
Adam Walker
Bump
Also origano
Thomas Gonzalez
>texting on friday night >person stopped talking you're a fucking retard
Ian Collins
We were just talking about music and she stopped texting. I guess I'm too boring or something.
Ayden Rodriguez
She said she was just watching a movie at her house; she wasn't out doing anything.
Blake Robinson
it doesn't matter, it's friday night you silly incel and she's not your gf or anything
Josiah Smith
So what am I supposed to do now? Is it just over?
Jaxon Powell
lmao, talk to her some other time or wait for her to text you
Post the conversation OP, your actual conversation. A third party can easily identify where you went wrong.
Cameron Thompson
what have you texted her since then
Jaxon Martinez
I didn't text anything else since she dropped out of the conversation abruptly.
Camden Morales
SHOW US WHAT YOU SAID LEADING UP TO THAT YOU APE
Jason Mitchell
Don't give up user, you've managed to get a girl's number somehow, many robots haven't come so far yet. You're improving somehow and giving up would be a waste, find out why she didn't text you again.
Michael Green
I literally just asked her if she listened to some album before. That's it.
Dylan Hughes
and this was just yesterday? could be any number of reasons, speculating about it won't do anything but make you more anxious. just text her something chill tonight like "what's up hbu?" and see where it goes from there
Parker Campbell
What album was it?
Ryder Wright
Won't that be weird though, as the last message was a question I asked.
Parker Thomas
Some industrial music; the type of shit she listens to.
Adrian Ramirez
I haven't gotten her number but she gave me her name, introduced herself and asked if I had any plans this weekend. I cannot stop analyzing the whole thing over and over
Jackson Russell
> I was texting this girl >haven't gotten her number hmm
Jaxon Morales
you either said some weird shit before that, the circumstances leading up to getting her number were weird, or she fell asleep/went out and forgot to reply back
are you handsome? do you sperg out? were you getting one word replies? were you double texting? conversing is simple, it's going back and being able to analyze what you said and what she said in return that lies the intricacies of not acting like an idiot to a girl
Logan Myers
I'm not OP this was a genuine IRL interaction my dude
Cameron Ortiz
>I'm talking to this girl >she stopped talking ok
Samuel Smith
She also said "we need to continue this talk later" and I said "I look forward to that"
What could that all mean?!?
Jaxson Peterson
no it won't be weird, just because she didnt respond to a question you asked yesterday, conversations sometimes end abruptly. it'll be weird if you keep asking multiple times.
Noah Allen
also, don't ask her why she didn't respond, just move past it, unless there's a really good reason to bring it up, which there almost definitely won't be
Joshua Smith
Come to think about it, the responses I were getting were pretty short. They were complete sentences but were basically one word answers.
Chase Hernandez
sending screenshots is really the only way youre getting any better advice at this point. all you've gotten is based on speculation
Connor Sanchez
Do you need the whole thing or just the last couple messages back and forth?
Grayson Brooks
as much as you're comfortable with, more is better
Oliver Rodriguez
This is the last part of the conversation and probably the most relevant.
You should have tried setting up a time to hang out in person, then you could have sperged out about music to her face and then bond over listening to some together.
Jaxon Harris
to me this is very friendy. you are talking to her because you want to take her out some place special, not a music critic giving her history channel 1 hour documentary information about the origins of jazz, cunt.
Cooper Garcia
You sound like you're taking her on a tour guide she never agreed to go on
Brody Peterson
So what do I do now. And I wasn't trying to critique her, I just sperg out sometimes.
Cameron Cooper
ASK HER ON A DATE OR SOMETHI
Jace Moore
Tell me exactly what to say so I don't fuck it up again.
Luke Collins
you're pretty stiff, you could do to loosen up a bit, ask less direct questions possibly. but I don't see anything here that would suggest she's put off by your talking to her, just bored probably.
Landon Long
>ask less direct questions Like what?
Camden Miller
It's up to you to fuck this up, not us.
Andrew Miller
If she did that it means she's playing games with you, cut contact.
David Hill
What kind of pussy can't handle 1 rejection?
Juan Gomez
be less formal, instead of asking "Do you listen to Sisters of Mercy, KMFDM or Laibach?", say something like "That's cool, I like Laibach they did a lot for industrial music" with whatever words you'd use. if you text her again, just focus on being more easy-going.
Camden Collins
What should my opening texting her again be? Just something simple like "what are you up to?"
Lucas Price
or just say "that's cool i fckn love sisters of mercy" you know, then shell either say "i fckn love them too" or "i haven't heard about them whats they about?" you know
Jordan Perry
>elated that i am finally free on Jow Forums
you will never be free of us
Christian Ramirez
yeah that'd be fine
Thomas Thompson
She doesn't seem interested in you. She's giving single-sentence responses while you write paragraphs. Bad sign.
Isaac Sanders
a piece of advice, have some tv show on in the background or play a video game or somethng when you text her, so you have something to distract yourself with while waiting for answers. whatever you usually do to take your mind off things - good luck
Lucas Hernandez
Never say too much at once. Always one reply at a time unless you're close enough to know it will go smoothly either way.
The bulk of the convo should be roughly 50/50 her and you. I see a lot of blue shit in your pic.
You didn't ask her about what she likes about the stuff she likes or why, you just darted about with your overly descriptive tour guide without acknowledging her feelings or delving into her perceptions. You're chucking too much dead information at her. There's no fun there.
Joseph Walker
he wasn't giving her a lot to work with, it doesn't mean she's definitely not interested
Jose Collins
Is this fixable though? or is it over?
Robert Ward
you've had one conversation with her, no it isn't over. take it easy. you haven't sperged out, you just weren't the most interesting conversation partner man
Landon Price
When should I text her again?
Isaac Lee
very spergy, op. Next time use texting for setting up dates or to talk about something you really need to. Keep convos like this irl and not through text
Gabriel Peterson
sometime in the evening, tonight is fine if you want, just chill first and try to take your mind off it.
Easton Howard
wait a few days to see if she responds if she doesnt, then ask her out to hangout