I need advice, robots. I really like someone, or rather I am beginning to like someone, but they are not a virgin...

I need advice, robots. I really like someone, or rather I am beginning to like someone, but they are not a virgin. I am a virgin myself but I cannot help but feel a bit disgusted and uncomfortable with the fact that they have been with someone else. Should I get over myself and attempt to accept them anyway, or should I be with another virgin as I would ideally like?

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I Don't know what the right thing for you to do is. I know how you feel though. I loved a girl, but after she had sex with a different guy, I feel disgusted. Not with her, but with the fact that I still love her. I could never have sex with her without feeling overwhelming disgust with myself.

Helps if you imagine you both getting sick together and barfing everywhere and still doing sex later.
It all washes off, all the cum, piss, vomit, shit, snot. And blood, girls have blood going on.
The reality of intimacy is people are fucking disgusting, you included, so don't be afraid to get a bit dirty.

If its just the fact they've had other partners, well you weren't around at the time. You can't hold people responsible for things they don't know about.

That's really the problem with being disgusted about this, its unreasonable.

Realistically, I'd probably not actively pursue that person in a romantic way (The reason being I could easily befriend them and have them hook me up with their friends). But if they were actively reaching out to me romantically out of their own effort, then, hey, why not?

You should be with who you love. After you aren't a virgin anymore, you will regret letting this person go if you love them.

at least you won't cripple the girl's first experience + no blood or expectations on her side

b+

>That's really the problem with being disgusted about this, its unreasonable.
No its not, your analogy doesn't hold water. Imaging you the blood of someone you murder on you, you can wash off the blood but not the fact you are a killer. Sex should be a way to bond with the mother of your child. When you have a kid together you are tied together forever and it will last forever through the grandchildren and on and on. Just fucking random people cheapens this, makes us into nothing better than animals that drive cars.

>Sex should be a way to bond with the mother of your child.
Wrong.
you ARE aware that it takes more than a hump and dump to breed a child, right? ever heard of "trying for a baby"?
Sex is pleasant for the purpose of bringing people who feel compatible to one another to attempt a bit of procreation, which is just sex. it's not a mythical soulbonding.
the last gf I fucked wasn't a virgin either, but took my innocence.
to her, it was the first time it felt like "a soulbonding" too. Look, the world isn't shaped by how you brood over the past, it's shaped by the way you treat and accept the presence.
In that moment, a woman has chosen to be intimate with you, to share a moment of beauty. it's your choice if you treat it like a worthless act of satisfaction or an intimate bonding.
we're not living a movie, or a story. things happen and the unique thing about real life is that you have to be more aware of the present than the past.

chances are you wont be with the girl you lost your virginity to for the rest of your life.
just like she was going to get the right man in her first relationship.
it's how humans work. we feel, we fight, we change eventually.

also most people i talked to who are older and had a lot of experience said that at some point they realized that all of this "only pure virgins" shit is really not that important

>chances are you wont be with the girl you lost your virginity to for the rest of your life.
Not OP but holy fuck that's depressing
Well jokes on that statistic because I won't have sex until I know I'll be with her until we die