>be me 5 years ago (25+ now, 20+ then)
>fall for the looksmaxing meme (that normies recently started spamming with on r9k, that's why I write this post)
>get the best suiting haircut I could get, visited a hair stylist
>basically guy took my pic and we checked many different hairstyles on computer
>go to some good barber every 3 weeks, pay shit ton of money for that
>get the most expensive clothes I could get (a shit ton of them) - not too serious (I was only 20 then) and not too childish
>work out my ass off for long time, every 2nd day with every 8th day being free from work out
>go on a diet which helped me clear my skin from almost any pimples, my skin got really good
>a beautician helped me with skin as well
>as I said, clothes are all good as well, without any wrinkles
>make sure my hygiene is on point, wash myself very good once or twice a day, wear good, manly perfumes
>completely looksmaxed in all departments but not too much where it's gay looking
>my social skills and my talking skills are fucking skyrocketing thanks to college and it's many presentations that I had to do
>my self esteem and confidence are enormously high
>happy with myself, happy with life, thinking that I will be able to get a girl I would want I started looking around
>and here's where the shit hit the fan
>try to get a gf on uni - failure
>try to get a gf at some parties - failure
>try to get one on the internet - MAJOR FAILURE (literally 1 out of 100 would reply, 3 out of 4 of those would be ham beasts)
A true incel story everyone should read. It's all about your genes
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>"okay, it must be something wrong with me" - I thought and I started reading books on dating, human psychology, etc.
>paid a shit ton of money for dating coach and advices videos and books
>try again, and the results - they are the same
>no fucking gf for YEARS of keeping myself in the looksmaxed state, while working on myself in any way possible
>start and try to get gf in some hobby circles - cooking school was one, botany school another - super failures
>I actually invested a lot of time into those hobbies because I knew those were some that would attract many women, which they did
>still not enough
>after 3 years I was completely baffeled, I couldn't realize what was the problem
>still, I persisted, kept myself looksmaxed and all
>the results were still the same - women starting to act weirded out after I made some moves, typical "let's be friends though" lines and shit
>I actually tried with so many girls that people in my class in college somehow heard about "that pathetic, needy guy from your class" - that being me
>I became a laughing stock, maybe nothing serious, but still...
>completely stopped looking for a gf, but was completely lost in my mind - "WHY DIDN'T IT WORK OUT"
>then I found by an accident one single youtube channel - FACEandLMS
>he had a couple of videos on his channel at that time (less than one year ago is the time we are talking about here)
>they crushed me
>the red pills were so hard to swallow, that as a typical blue pilled guy I tried to "DESTROY" his videos
>in fact, he destroyed my comments
>my plan was to watch all of his videos and point them out one by one, point out all the "problems" with them in my video
>start watching them one by one and after a very short while I realized... THERE ARE NOT FUCKING PROBLEMS WITH ANY OF HIS VIDEOS
>the red pill was swallowed, I finally understood what was the problem with all this time - and the problem was ME
>the best argument that totally crashed me was "men who get to have a gf don't have to TRY, they don't have to wear special clothes, do this or that, but they still get women"
>he backed it up with many of actual arguments and proofs, like, a good looking guy aproaching any woman makes her all smiley, giggly, opened towards him etc. without even saying ANYTHING
>or a very good dude acting like an autist/psychopath - as well
>then I placed myself in that position, I had all of this - clothes, hairstyle, hygiene, hobbies, social skills, confidence, etc. And it meant fucking nothing
>I finally, completely realized - it's all about how you look, your genes, and nothing else matters
>the only thing looksmaxing will do for you is that the girl that will like you EITHER WAY, she will be more appreciative of you taking care of yourself if you do than don't
>looksmaxing doesn't make or break you - GENES do
And just to end this post I will say that today I don't even try because I know it's in vain. I have FACE's video portion on my yt channel as well, I agree with him that much.
I suggest EVERYONE to watch his videos one by one (I will put them on the end of this post). LOOKSMAXING and TRYING are blue pill bullshit notions that are meant to make
men feel a little bit better, that there is still hope for them, that if they stard doing something they will make it, that their fate is in their hands. It's supposed to make
them feel like they are in control. But it's a false control. It's supposed to keep them in tact, instead of being infuriated, frustrated, stripped of any will to do anything,
because that would be bad for (((THE POWERS THAT BE))).
You don't have to believe my story, I just wanted to post it here because I don't want other men go through all of this like I did and then finding out what the harsh truth is
when they are already deep into this shit, because then it hurts very much. And I felt like I had to make this post because seeing how many shitfaces started flooding our board
with this blue pilled bullshit makes my blood boil (what is their goal - I think I know but I will leave it to myself).
I also made it so that people don't fuck their life up... I made myself to be a laughing stock, but who knows, maybe if I live in some western country (I live in East Europe),
there would be at least one lawsuit against me because one of those women would sue me for ((("RAPE"))) because she didn't like the fact some uggo approached her.
Watch out there,guys.
inb4butIknowuglyguyswithcutegirlfriends
Except they are more rare than 25 year old (and up) female virgins.
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Damage control incoming...
weird how this faceandlms guy sounds like someone who would go on r9k and advertise his channel
Is this all you got, damage controlling normie shitface?
Anyone got the Ben Garrison version of this pic?
It's not to be understated that face matters.
At least you can still lift weights. A strong physique helps.
What diet change did you do to improve your skin? I still get zits at the age of 24, and I eat healthy (actually healthy, not "I'll have a diet coke"-"healthy")
>What diet change did you do to improve your skin?
Basically something close to IBS type of diet because I have IBS as well (the diarrhea version, not the one with constipations).
No wonder you never became satisfied, you indulged in hobbies for the simple reason of impressing females, sorry lad they can smell a try hard from miles away.
Try to have some genuine interest next time.
>It's all about the hobbies!
>It's a snake!
this guy has a lispy voith
I didn't go as far as you but I also worked extremely hard. So far my failures are mainly before I can even make a move, though. I may have everything else, but every woman around me is married with kids, and there are very few women to begin with.
Women can sense desperation in a man. Desperation is more off-putting to women than f.e.x a weak jawline.
Try tinder?
IBS diet?
I'm close to resorting to tinder, in spite of the horror stories I keep hearing. I'll probably give in to it around this time next year.
SHILL ADVERTISING POST.
SAGE AND REPORT.
These posts tell you everything you need to know. You haven't cultivated anything other than a desire for a gf and that is why you fail. Women come to you when you have genuine merit. Being cultured, learned, and interesting is more attractive than being LOOKSMAXED or even good looking itself.
I think the girl he makes fun of in the video is a really cute and nice girl, and I would love to sniff her feet
there's a snake loose in the hostle!
>want to start approaching random girls on uni because it seems like my only choice at this point
>afraid I will be ruining their day because I'm ugly and become known as 'that guy' in campus
I'm kinda thinking about just killing myself, at this point. Maybe some people are just not meant to know love.
Nice digits, by the way.
I'm fucking laughing @ you and all you tards that spend your life chasing women, I do chase women once in a while
What kind of expensive clothes? You realize it's the outfit that matters not the pieces right?
I've never bought clothes for the sake of impression, I've never worked out for the sake of impression, fuck I don't think I've even hit on a girl for the sake of impression
>tried everything in the book hav u normie?
>I would tell u to killyourself but that's illegal
>I can just see it: you've done the ezpz, you probably don't even work out hard, you do bs like "take up space" and probably walk up and tap a guy on the shoulder who's talking to a girl "be alpha" shit
I used tinder and that was a mistake, I only got like two matches one black girl who I didn't find attractive and an overweight girl I didn't find attractive, the thing with tinder is that you NEED good pictures and a good bio, some selfie wont do it
Honestly, there *is* merit to what you're saying, but also there's merit to what the anons are saying about girls being able to sniff desperation.
Looks (genes) is one thing, but socioeconomic status (SES) is another. Taken individually, people can only judge you by your looks and the personality you irradiate. But in any social context, your SES will also be taken into account. For example whether you are alone in a club, approaching girls and looking otherwise clueless and obviously not enjoying the party otherwise, vs being with a group, laughing, being obnoxious, having a good synergy, etc. The latter will have a higher SES and thus will attract more positive attention. People will be able to tell that you have social value to offer because you are not driven by the sole goal of making value out of girls you cold approach, but that you actually have enough value by yourself to begin with, that you don't need to *approach people* but instead people choose to hang out and approach *you*.
It's a long story but it's pretty scientific. Lotsa experiments done.
How to get a higher SES? Well, SES, is pretty much created in your childhood. The wealth, education of your parents as well as their personalities and ability to raise you. You can change your SES at any point in life but as with anything else, it becomes harder the older you are.