Why is it so hard to get sex and relationships? Why do people act like it's easy...

Why is it so hard to get sex and relationships? Why do people act like it's easy? I'm not even trying to whine about being an incel or whatever. I just find it genuinely difficult to get any and I don't understand people who act like it's super easy.

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I reported your post for possible terrorist activity, no tolerance towards incels. I hope you lose your job and die

My guess is that you missed on on socialising with your peers when you were younger, and as a result that gap grew wider and wider over time. Now you basically have no ability to socially connect on a meaningful level with people around your age, which makes it difficult for you to find friends, much less a relationship partner.

I wouldn't be surprised if this were the case. I have almost no friends and the ones I do have don't exactly know how to get women, although one does have a gf.

It isn't easy, at all.
Normalfags have everything handed to them on a silver platter and think the whole world revolves around their experiences.

I am 5'9" 220lbs hairy as an ape and 30% autistic, and my girlfriend is easily an 8/10 or better, she's a 10 to me because she fits certain fetishes but w/e. It's fucking easy only as long as you have confidence.

Confidence is 100% the key. It's hard to build up confidence when it's been beaten down by rejection but you just have to start trying. Maybe working out, the sense of pride is what did it for me (used to be 270lbs).

Groom yourself more, hang out with women and just talk to build up your confidence around them, you'd be surprised how quickly your confidence builds.

Lol see this guy's self image is shattered. He's convinced he'll never be happy and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Normies can smell the resentment and hostility a mile away, they're way better at reading emotions than we are. The permanent negativity death spiral leads to depression, which leads to overeating, undergrooming and lack of confidence etc. Don't be like this guy. Don't be consumed by hatred.

fuck off you worthless dog

negative death spiral point proven

"here's a possible way out of your situation"

"i would rather stew in depression thnx, fuck u"

>8/10
Kek
Highly doubt

Why would it be easy? There's tons of competition, lots of variables, the paths to success are murky and probably ever-shifting, and many points of discussion about it are taboo. It's the perfect recipe for rendering an activity poorly understood.

I think most people who say it's easy just want to believe that it's easy and there's no games or anything involved.

You can bitch about it as much as you want but it won't change anything virgin

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>my advice can never be wrong

"maybe if i just keep insulting him it'll stop being true" so sad

durpalurp just have confidence and u will find woman cut your hair good luck out there

Honestly, it seems like even with confidence, if you aren't the top 20%, you're still going to have a hard time getting laid.

I wish that people would at least admit it, admit that women in general have an easier time when it comes to sex and relationships, and stop judging virgins in their 20s and beyond so harshly.

Lol every guy that says his is a 8+ usually turns out to be average at best.
Post photo of what she looks like.

lol no im not gonna post anything that can link back to my real name are you stupid

if you don't want advice don't open the thread you're all so negative lol

you dont have to be in the top 20%, there are women out there that value personality, i swear it's not just in books.

But ofc women have an easier time men are biologically programmed to fuck anything that walks because we can get 100 women pregnant and it doesn't hurt us we can just skip town. Women can only be pregnant once so they are selective. Get over it.

I don't need advice.
And the "advice" you gave is the same trivial crap that gets spouted around all the time.

I just dont believe some 8/10 would date you. So I'm gonna assume right and say she's average and you're just over selling her. It's fine, people tend to do that.

Final theory mostly unrelated to initial post:

If you all think women are stupid whore roasties it's probably because no women who aren't stupid whore roasties would make the mistake of having more than 2 second converastion with a sulky incel freak like you.

And it's fine if you wanna think that user, she's gorgeous to me and your opinion doesn't matter :)

switch the words think and all in that sentence it doesn't parse right the way i just wrote it

That's all you had to say m8
Glad your average gf is Athena in your eyes :)

Women don't like eating the responsibility for doing seemingly bad but necessary things. If it's the case that it's hard out there and you can be a decent dude making an earnest effort and still not get anywhere, then it must be the case that it's women making it so. But they don't like where that logic necessarily leads, so they just deny that the premise is true. "No, you must actually be evil. It could never be the case that women do anything wrong or have the upper hand anywhere, there is always more to be done for us."