I joined tinder for a week. I thought I was pretty attractive and would do alright and I got zero matches...

Thanks for giving me that extra motivation to kill myself user

Tinder is a pile of shit unless you are chad. I would get 2 matches in a month if I was lucky and neither of them would even respond if I messaged them. (I tried every kind of conversation starter, not just saying hi)
Delete it now and move on, I still do not have as much self confidence as I had before.

i mean tinder takes time - after close to a year im on almost 1100 matches, but only start conversations with few of them
quality over quantity - so just wait it out my dude

any time
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im built like an ogre, probably 4/10, i probably got 15 matches after swiping for about a week.
females that use tinder get a big ego cause everyone swipes right on them, they'll weed out most uglies unless they're looking for an actual relationship.
lie about your height and say you're just looking for hookups, if you ever leave town make sure you swipe there too. make sure your options or set to net a 100 mile radius instead of whatever the default is.

alternative: just be gay instead.

It's a fucking scam. The ratio is something like 80% men, 20% women - and those women are bots, trannies, uggos, etc.

>I thought I was pretty attractive

Well i guess you learned that you are wrong.

I don't think so. I have had attractive women approach me call me attractive. And even my second cousin thought I was really cute and was flirty with me but we both addressed it and said we couldn't have anything happen. I just don't have friends. I think if I had friends I could probably find someone. Also, I'm african american which is probably a big no on tinder.

3-4 matches a day is way more than most men are going to get. Congrats on being hot.

Women lie, it's important to remember that. If they aren't fucking you, then no matter what they may say otherwise, they think you are ugly.

Tinder is the most objective measurement of your attractiveness to the opposite sex. If you aren't getting any sex off Tinder, you're ugly. Sorry. Most guys are ugly to women so welcome to the club.

Yeah gotta be Chad I'm nonwhite and got 0 matches my self esteem is shot

I've had lots of people - random people, not friends - ask me if I'm a model.

I've only got three matches in the course of a year.

He is not at all friendo

wouldnt consider myself hot desu, and never have had any confidence at all - so the entirety of my tinder time i've become rather surprised - but trust me, it takes a time

This just in, people say things they don't really mean.

I don't know why a cashier at a grocery store would say that to anyone, unprovoked.

Because people lie, and because some people are stupid enough to believe said lies.

And some people are stupid enough to analyze something that didn't happen to them.

I think I know which you are.

No, I'm just going to pick the much more solid evidence that you're ugly (Tinder) vs the very flimsy evidence that you aren't.

I used to also think I was at least somewhat attractive, it's just that I was too beta to ever make a move on women which was why I was alone. Then Tinder thankfully came along and showed me the truth: I was just hideous.

Tinder is far worse for less attractive guys than real life is

as other anons have stated in the thread
>populated more by desperate guys than good looking guys (the good looking ones can get a gf or fuck without using a dating app)
>even an average girl can swipe right on almost any guy and it will be a match. this means she can be extremely selective, and is in fact forced to be, in order to not be inundiated with matches
>she will thus select only the top few chads
to add to this, depending on the app, the algorithm can work further against your favor. I have only used Bumble, where all profiles are organized by an ELO rating based on number of matches/swipes (which means that the most attractive profiles are shown first, thus letting the women see the best men without even glimpsing any of the lesser men)

So just because you're doing terribly on the app doesn't necessarily mean you're bad overall. The app is most suited to good-looking people

If you aren't a good-looking guy, then you're ugly. That's pretty simple. Since good-looking guys do well on Tinder, that means if you aren't doing well on Tinder, you're ugly.

I just started Bumble and Tinder. Got like 8 matches on bumble and only like 4 messaged me. Some I think even matched me and unmatched before 24 hours even ended. They were all not good matches anyways(fat, single mother, ugly). Tinder I swiped right for 1 minute and got told thats it and its over till 12 hours. Apparently got 3 likes and 1 match. Didn't realize you aren't actually supposed to swipe all right anymore. I guess I got nothing better to do though.

by good-looking, I mean the best-looking

in any case, if you think there's no middle ground between handsome and ugly then you're being purposefully disingenuous

Online dating sucks just go to a bar and clean yourself up first, alcohol in moderation is your friend

They are the same thing, at least to women. If you aren't in the very top echelon of men, you're hideous.

>in any case, if you think there's no middle ground between handsome and ugly then you're being purposefully disingenuous

Of course there is, but not to women.

Why do you think this, I've seen some ugly ads dudes with chicks out of their league personality is a huge factor. Also chicks are just guys without a dick half the time in terms of how they choose dudes

I disagree, women can handle a not-as-good-looking guy (as long as he's not outright ugly) if they meet in person and he can impress her with his confidence, social ability, etc

On Tinder, however, you're right, because the only thing that matters on tinder is the first visual impression. Which was basically my point

I get likes pretty easily, usually 1 or 2 a night, my record being 15.
But, I cannot figure out how the fuck to talk to them. It's like 1 in 10 women will respond, 1 in 10 from those will actually try to have a conversation, and so far I've only managed to meet 1 (one) girl irl (which I fucked up, so I didn't even get laid).

how do I do this. Is there a secret to getting responses?

Go to a bar and do what, exactly? Just sit at the counter and drink until you work up the courage to talk to somebody?

>a secret to getting responses

Hope a Chad doesn't match her in the interval between.

I've had the app since 2015 and over 200+ matches. However, over time I delete them since they never talk, are boring as fuck, ghost me, or don't think I am interesting when all they do is talk about wine, dogs, traveling, or some "adventure." Really unless you want a quick fuck and can secure it in less than 12 messages, it will be a waste of time. Apparently now every 18-21 year old on there is a model in NYC now? Or there are people there just shilling their instagram and not even looking for anything else. I don't want to be THAT guy but I feel it was much better in the beginning.

Does my bio come off as too emo or not funny enough? I feel as though putting ugly and metrosexual in my bio are red flags, but overall I'm comfortable enough with it. Just got tinder yesterday so I've yet to get any matches.
>I've been told I have small ears, metro sexual eyebrwos, and bloodshot blue eyes.To this day I have no idea what that means. I may be ugly but I got spirit. Too bad you don't see spirit on camera, unless maybe when you're watching ghist hunters.

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Wrong.

Women will *tolerate* a not-as-good-looking guy if they think they can get something out of it, such as money or social status. But said guy will have to pay for what she gave to hot guys for free.

All women are basically prostitutes.

Women don't care what you write about yourself. Your bio will never be read if you're ugly. They care about how you look, and if that's you, you're wasting your time on Tinder.

Just give up. It's for the better.

>/soc/ usually gives me a 4-6.5/10
>Never beleived it when people tell me /soc/ is just trying to be nice
T-Thanks for telling the truth, my bros.

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>I may be ugly but I got spirit.
Just pack it in and start lifting, big guy

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don't use tinder

only use they high tier paid dating websites like eharmony or match

at least with these websites you have a fighting chance, if you use tinder as a non chad it will be a never ending cycle of black pills and depression and suicidal ideation

it's still possible to get laid on dating sites as an average dude

I just realized this isn't /soc/. Seen you when the ban ends my bros.

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That'd possibly fit, it's just that you cannot expect anything unless you're like 7 up and it's only worth it from like 8.5.

But you kind of look like Jack Nance to me, so it's personally rather amusing.

Does this shit actually work
Do you have experience on these sites
Is there a light at the end of the tunnel

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i use match.com

i manage to get laid once every six months as opposed to being completely ignored on tinder

try it

I used OKC with better success since you can message when you want. I just didn't go for the extremely hot girls.

Yeah they pay average women that aren't good enough for porn to fuck average men for a couple months then leave them then move on up to the next one for years and years.

I suspect. Otherwise, why would it logically be any different than the free sites? Think about it.

Cant believe ive fallen so far as to use online dating
Fucking pains me bros

Wtf is up with the tinder likes thing. I started mine earlier. Got 3 likes and now it jumps to 10+ likes. Does this number reset or something? It's my first day. I gotta pay to see these women too?

The problem with tindr is it enables women to choose before any words are spoken leading to an unnatural power dynamic where only superchads would take the cake, when in the wild the man is supposed to approach her first.

I got a gf after looking for people around the area in LINE and messaging qts. Even the ones who weren't interested in a relationship were still fun to talk to.

same dude

i was on for a week, swiped prrobably all 400-450 women in my area, including two girls i went to high school with. only got 5 matches (that i havent even messaged)... that was two months ago. i stopped my page from appearing after that one week.

shit is fucking crushing...

your bio sucks.

listen to me dude. women don't care about being you being fat, having a small dick, nor having acne.

i've gone through my entire life witnessing this.

so many women will date a guy just because he has a nice pesonality, or something to add to her.

and thats whats it all about, relationships are a trade. her body/love for either your money, attention, affection, or whatever.

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You're hilarious user, kill yourself

You look like a 20 year old lesbian.

Take a picture of yourself somewhere other than a Target changing room. Don't have your camera visible in the picture since it shows just how lonely you are and makes it look like you're trapped in 2008. When you're a boring person like this, focus on things you do and make sure they aren't nerdy or rednecky. If you can cook even the simplest foods, you can maybe pull in a chick with some of those skills. If you can't cook, learn today.

>I make a mean margarita pizza. Looking to find someone to share one with tonight (insert emojis)

Hell, just copy this. Make a pizza tonight for practice (it's easy). This profile shows some confidence in things you can DO and it's something you can do for a woman. You won't be pulling 9/10s but some 4/10 chick might think you sound fun.

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did you not go to highschool user?

sure, chads and stacies will group up, but i've personally witnessed my own childhood friend, who was far fatter, uglier, and fucking dumber than me get SIX girlfriends throughout the time I knew him.

The nigger got himself a girlfriend in middle school, and got more in high school. I even heard about him getting his cock sucked under the bleachers.

As long as you're not a mentally ill brainlet nigger, you can get a fucking girlfriend. I never got one despite being attrractive and physically fit because of my own fucking INACTION caused by my mental illnesses.

Stupid fucking nigger. You kill YOURSELF you weak-willed little bitch.

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Dating sites are the normalfag way of getting a significant other. Get someone you like, and if there are none and you still think you can get a gf, kill yourself.

Sorry I kinda agree with you in that there is potential for almost everyone to get a gf but most of us are fucked up socially and if you add that to bad looks you got a recipe for no gf. At least until skills can be improved greatly anyways. You basically gotta be an extrovert and very smooth to get a gf if you aren't good looking. I don't recall any fat or weird dudes in high school getting gf's that looked any decent at all.

protip if the chick didn't give you her digits after said compliment she probably thought you were getting over a sickness I know cause I overheard my sisters friends ask in deadpan concern what was wrong with me after they fawned over how sexy I was

I met my wife through a dating site.

I think the secret was that she wasn't using a hugely popular dating site and so there was no competition. I literally googled "(town name) women" and she was the only result. I went ahead and registered an account for this scammy looking site, messaged her, and she was surprised because nobody else was talking to her.

Basically, seek out chicks in strange places to up your chances. Tinder is rigged against robots since it's full of chads and wannabe chads. Find women on menstrual forums or some shit. It's where no sane man would ever venture, which means it's perfect for lonely robots. You're the only man out of thousands of thirsty, frustrated women.

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What in the hell is a metrosexual

>H-hey Mary. I signed up on this menstruation disorder forum because I wanted to find a girlfriend. Will you marry me?

Yeah idiot that's gonna work

This is why you have no success.

You sign up and post in the movie or off topic discussion boards. Be casual. Just be a normal guy who's trying to get informed about women's issues. Pussy comes to you in those situations. Your job is not to seem like a predator.

Hell its worth a shot. Try all avenues including asking some girls in real life.