I don't understand why anyone shills their discord server...

I don't understand why anyone shills their discord server, every time I've joined one that was shilled everyone already knows each other and it's all inside jokes and conversations. Why do they even want new people when they aren't really inclusive to newcomer? What is the point of advertising?

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>Why do they even want new people when they aren't really inclusive to newcomer?
That is the question. I honestly am still puzzled what they are hoping to achieve with it. Maybe they get off on denying others access to their group? Maybe just attentionwhoring?

Since they have already established a group complete with inside jokes and their own internal social hierarchy, they must keep a steady flow of newcomers in which to ostracize and make fun of.
Y'know, typical normie shit.

It makes me very sad, like I'm not even included online. It feels like that everywhere. Everyone is already grouped up and there's no way you can get in. I'm starting to feel like it's hopeless if I can't even practice socializing online. I always feel like this weirdo on the outside watching their group on all these servers that are shilled.

In theory robots who are desperately lonely should be able to group up and become each other friends, why doesn't this happen? Why are we all alone together?

You'll feel like that until you just forcibly participate in a shitty community for years and you become a part of the drama and circlejerking. It does give you purpose. After I left my little community behind, I got pretty bored. Still am bored, actually. So I went back to browsing Jow Forums and enjoy it.

Meeting people and getting to know them is a lot of fun. It does take a while to integrate but eventually you become a part of a community.

Social hierarchies exist everywhere. Once you go from anonymous messaging to identities hierarchies will form. Some people will become popular and others will become outcasts again. The popular ones will then leverage that position to gain more popularity, in time once that's not enough you'll see some of the outcast/less popular members being ostracized and made fun of for the popular ones to get even more popular. People are thirsty enough for validation that they will forget all their values and principles for it. Robots are no different.

I only use discord to talk shit to cunts.

How the heck do you get your foot in the door? Every single one of these servers they are all spouting inside jokes and conversations, I don't know at all what they are talking about. And everything I say gets ignored. I feel like a disturbance to them, like there's this attitude they have "why are they still here? who even are they?" Like some annoying little kid who follows them.

You need to think beforehand what you want out of a social discord server. If there is no glue which binds the server together such as a hobby/video game it's only bound by a single clique of friends with several orbiters. You either assimilate into that clique or if you don't fit in you leave until you find a server which fits your humour or find like-minded people in these servers and create your own clique