>Get 5/10 virgin gf
>Dating her for 8 months
>Eat her out and all, but she won't put out and gives shitty terrible head
>Hot girl at MMA gym I train at is flirty with me
>Keeps sexualizing the conversation
>Pretty much DTF at this point
FUCK. I want sex but I don't want to cheat. I know this will piss off Jow Forums but its hard when you keep getting blueballed by your own gf.
Try communicating with your gf and not r9k.
Literally just dump your gf if you don't want to cheat.
Look, if you can't get caught, then fuck the hot roastie, get some good sex, and live peacefully knowing that you did nothing wrong. Woman cheat all the time, she might have already cheated on you. So why not?
>Live a little OP. The only reason you came here is to get this answer
Tell her sex is an important part of a relationship to you and that 8 months is more than enough time for her to comfortable with the idea. If she flips out or causes shit tell her you could get another woman to fuck if you wanted to but you don't want to because you love her or whatever. If THAT doesn't work just dump the bitch and pump the gym bunny full of your hot sticky seed desu
This is easy. Just put it in the MMA girl's butthole. Not cheating.
If you don't want to lose your girlfriend then man up and make her cum really hard. That will turn up a switch inside of her and she will start giving you good sex. If you don't mind losing her dump her and date your coworkers but don't think it will last for long. Flirty girls are not long term relationship material. Flirting is something innate to them and they won't stop doing it just because they are in a relationship,
This is wrong, you can eat her poot pies, but never harm the booty guys
Fuck off to Jow Forums or something, you normie. You could also talk to your gf about it.
Are you happy?
No?
Move on and look for better things.
DUMP YOUR FUCKING GIRLFRIEND, user
You know what you want to do. Do it right.
Dump her fucking ass and smash that MMA qt like no tomorrow.
But then again, this isn't real, is it?
Aw. C'mon. It doesn't harm anything.
I would cheat. Didn't have the balls to in the past and wish I had.
I've had a MMA girl as a fwb before. Godly sex, but they are batshit insane and never worth dating. The are serial cheaters and universally chase guys who are already in relationships, probably for the ego boost that they can.
If she put out, then I wouldn't even think of cheating on her. It just sucks because I try to be a good bf because I know how much it sucked when I was alone. I give her emotional support and try to help her out when needed, but I have physical needs too. She told me that she wasn't willing to put out immediately, which was fine since she's a virgin and wants to be comfortable in a relationship before.
But now she's obviously comfortable in it and it fucking sucks. I've pushed for it and she's said it's because of fear of pregnancy, and she won't go on the pill or any of the other contraceptives cause she still lives with her parents and they're christfags who would freak out.
>That will turn up a switch inside of her and she will start giving you good sex.
This. Hentai taught me that.
>Flirty girls are not long term relationship material.
This is actually a good advice.
Also all those normies that are encouraging OP to cheat should fuck off of my board right now.
Tell gf it's not working out. Dive into MMA pussy. Simple.
Dude, his gf is a woman. They deserve no better faggot. If it makes OP feel good, then that is a good thing
>It it makes OP feel good, then that is a good thing
It isn't and advocating degeneracy is what normies do. Even if it's just to spite roasties.
>This. Hentai taught me that.
It's unironically true though. You know how seemingly pure girls would fuck a Chad and turn into a nymphomaniac and do the most nasty things for him, right? In most cases it's not like she was a slut acting like an innocent girl. She probably never thought about doing those things. Women can't just control themselves when they get that turned on. And if they are actually innocent then they have no clue how to deal with those impulses and just surrender to them.
Granted OP may not be a Chad but he knows his gf must be attracted to him to at least some degree and that should be enough to give him the necessary confidence to pull it off.
If she's not gonna have sex she's not worth your time. You gotta have sex, that's kind of not negotiable (unless you don't care about sex)
Dont cheat, break up with her if you want that hot girl so badly
Heres what you do
You tell her how you feel
You talk to her and twll her what you want out of the relarionship and if she isnt willing to provide then leave
Relationships are reciprocal
You give and take
If she isnt willing to give then you need to draw the line
My advice, break up with your gf. You obviously want something else and it's better to end things now before something regrettable happens, or, you lose your chance with this new girl. The advice might sound shitty but just really think to yourself if you'd be happy with your gf down the road or not.
This, OP. Break it up first and foremost.
The thing is, she's in love with me. I don't want to hurt her like that, because she doesn't deserve it at all.
There will always be thots but not virgin GFs who love you
women make testosterone too. seems you are describing women with high levels of testosterone.
Probably the most solid advice in this thread, OP if you've got a virgin gf that loves you, don't fuck that up.
You have no idea what I'd do to trade my slut of a gf for yours, you're living the dream
Hey man I get it I really do. We've all been in relationships and couldn't leave due to that reason. I know it's hard man but take some time and ask this to yourself. Do you truly feel happy with her? and can you see yourself staying with her long after this? If you don't think you'll ever be happy with her, then I promise you it will be better to end it sooner rather than later. The longer you wait to end an unhappy relationship, the harder it becomes for both parties and could lead to both you and her being miserable. Don't worry about coming up with an answer today or tomorrow or anything like that. Just take some time and figure out what your future would be with her. How does that sound user?
This is awful advice lmao. Don't mention fucking another girl to the girl you're dating.
The absolute state of Jow Forums. Go to Jow Forums you normie
Also, when I've been in a situation like that I'm always afraid if waiting longer will make it harder on her if you do break up with her. I don't know if that was on your mind or not but it is something you might want to also consider bud.
Fuck the girl tell me more about MMA.
MMA sounds like the perfect robot solution.
Combine MMA with lifting and no one will fuck with you and you will be able to get away with more socially.
Well op? Help us robots out if you're on here bragging about how you have girls and shit
Also, you both deserve someone who makes you happy. If you wanted her to be happy, maybe letting her go and hoping she finds someone who loves her just as much as she loves them. I know it's hard to think of man but we will work this out. we'll work together for a solution for you my man.
Hmm how about you actually talk to her about it fag? Or just break up with her if its too much. Remember you have needs and its not unreasonable to break it off if they cannot be fufilled by your partner, if it were a woman and the man wasn't putting out I'm sure all her roastie friends would be telling her to leave him.
This is assuming she's even genuinely interested in OP.
Plenty of attractive girls will flirt with every guy they see because they know what they're doing and they enjoy seeing the reactions they get. It doesn't mean they're interested.
It's hard to say if I feel truly feel happy with her. It's weird because she's my first real girlfriend, as in a committed relationship. I was alone and tfw no gf for the longest time, and I lost my virginity through meaningless sex. I don't know, because maybe there's a part of me that's forever damaged because I was alone for so long? I don't exactly feel worthy of her love, and she really does try to be a good gf. Like I said before, the only thing missing is sex. If she would put out, I wouldn't even be here making this thread.
She told me how she was burned by some guys she's dated in the past, and I'm the one who treats her right, so that makes it so much harder on me. I have a feeling that she loves me way more than I love her, and I think she has this idealized image of me in her head that I don't know if I can live up to. Again, I keep reiterating this, but if she would put out, I wouldn't even think of having sex with other girls.
It certainly helped me a lot. I lifted and bulked a bit before getting into mma (mostly striking), but the cardio made me lean. I'm not as big as some of the lifters out there, but I have an ottermode body that most girls would like. The biggest thing I gained was confidence. See, when you are in a cage with a guy who is trying to hurt you, nothing else seems as scary. I get punched and kicked in the head and body on a regular basis, and the sport makes you mentally tougher, as you can't show weakness. I can hold eye contact and talk to girls much easier, because what's the worst that can happen? They're not going to punch me, and even if they did, I know I can handle myself. When you're dying on the heavy bag or your abs want to give up after 100 thai pad situps, you'll dig a little deeper and find something that you never had in you.
am i even on r9k anymore
>8 months and still refusing dick
This is only a thing with underages, which a believe you are OP, just leave this board.
In case you are not, just say to her this is unacceptable and give her an ultimatum, if she don't give in, dump her and go look for someone that is not a prude.
Break up with her you fucking retard
OP is a faggot and probably LARPer who doesn't deserve pure virgin gf in the first place.
Enjoy your hedonistic, degenerate lifestyle.
Jow Forums stands for relationships9001 user, haven't you gotten the memo yet?
You could always have patience and give her sources/practice to give head with you.
>She should have known this before considering going into a relationship
The irony is that the majority want to have a pure girl with no felatio/masrurbation experience . Yet when it comes to a handjob the so called pure girl will need to have a skill of a whore, which she never or didn't bother to learn.
Just leave her. Girls are retarded when they think they can keep denying guys sex. It's a very important part of any long term relationship. If she's not willing to go get the pill or IUD, and she's an adult, then move on.
In that case, the best thing to do for now might be to talk to your gf. Tell her whats on your mind and what you think is missing in your relationship. There might be a way to work from there and fix these problems together. And if through talking to her you don't get a sense of the issue being resolved, then at least you might get a more clear picture of what will/ wont work. Hope this is helping btw.
>he fell for the virgin meme
Fuck other girls.
dont be a nigger. If you took her virginity, marry her. Who cares if her sex isnt amazing, if shes loving caring person and will be a good mother to your children, you'd be mad to throw that away for a gymthot.
>girl uses the pill or IUD
>gets fat due to unstable hormones
>guy uses condom
>complains of latex allegies
It's a battle to choose what is the lesser evil in such scenario.
Fuck hher and get ur relationship into trouble then come here by posting >tfw no gf
I never understood what they mean by "traditional gf".
why don't you fuck off with your normie problems you piece of garbage
A non whore, so impossible in today's age