Gentle femdom general

Do women see guys who are into gentle femdom as faggots? I mean, do they see you being the one cuddled as being feminine and the like? Do normal guys even ever get cuddles in a relationship? I don't ever want to be the big spoon, but what do girls think of it? Am I a faggot?

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Who cares what girls who aren't into gfd think about guys into it? Theres plenty of girls out there into it, i.e. I dated a girl who was really into it and it was fantastic.
You just gotta get lucky pretty much, lots of tumblr girls are into it.

That image physically pains me. Why is something so simple unattainable for me?

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we're over here, fren

How did you bring that up to your GF? Did she cuddle you in bed?

Fuck off that thread because there are only animefags in there.
Fuck anime

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There's already thread on /d/, no?

That gif gives me feels every time it's posted. Makes me realize what I'm missing out on because I'm a self-sabotaging loser.

no, lots of girls like to cuddle and let boys suck on they titties

t. female

>wanting to talk to /d/egenerates

So why did no girl ever told me she liked it?!

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how should i know?
i think all men and women are children at heart and have a part of them that wants to be held.

Who hurt you, user? Was she 2D?

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Fapping to this right now
I love you too random camwhore

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You'll never have this
Why live
Origi

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How much do I have to pay a woman for her to do this to me?

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>Do women see guys who are into gentle femdom as faggots?
Some women, yes. Other women, no.
>I mean, do they see you being the one cuddled as being feminine and the like?
If you are feminine then you will be seen as feminine. Stop being insecure about yourself, faggot.
>Do normal guys even ever get cuddles in a relationship?
Yes, they do. Have you ever so a guy resting his head on his gf's lap, for example? I see plenty of that in parks and such. Normos want affection as much as you do.
>I don't ever want to be the big spoon, but what do girls think of it?
Some women don't mind it.
>Am I a faggot?
Yes, because you care what other people think about you wanting cuddles.

IT'S TOO LATE TO BE HAVING EMOTIONS SUCH AS THESE

WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY CAN'T I JUST HAVE A FUCKING LIGHT FEMDOM MOMMY GF WHO WILL ACCEPT ME BEING OVERATTACHED WHY WHY WHY

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Be girl. I have dated 4 guys. I have always been the one doing most of the holding in the relationships. I spent hours caressing men. I feel everyone every now and then needs to be held and made to feel special. The bf I have now is the most needest, I have ever dated however, I think it's because he is a really hard working. After hard days he lays in my lap and I play with his hair before he falls asleep. It makes me feel good that I'm contributing to his emotionally hygiene. Even though I been sick and depress, I still make him feel like he is the most special and gifted snow flake on the planet. I really do think it helps him be successful.

if it's paid for then it's fake. the point is it being genuine. something we will never have

GIVE MOMMY GF NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOW

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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how did you meet? we all need gf like you

Looks beta as fuck. The guy is just asking to get cheated on

I could never understand, why is it called "femdom"? Where's the domination in this? To me it just looks like regular, healthy relationship of mutual love - isn't this basically a textbook definition of what a couple should be like?

>To me it just looks like regular, healthy relationship of mutual love - isn't this basically a textbook definition of what a couple should be like?
Sorry to say user, but unfortunately everywhere in the world the male is expected to give and provide all the comdort, be it in intimacy or in the bedroom. Every woman expects the man to "take charge" and to lead her, instead of the other way around. Even in cuddles it's always the man who is in the top position, the woman laying her head on his masculine chest, never the other way around. It's sad but true. Men are expected to be dominant and not needy, and this fucking kills us who want mommy gfs.

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>gentle femdom
Isn't that basically called softcore porn?

You call getting a hug "femdom" ?

Do you even know how a relationship unfolds ? In real life ?

Couples hug each other all the damn time, in bed or elsewhere.

incels have no clue what they're talking about

You really don't know what you're talking about.

Get in a realtionship with someone who truly loves you and you'll see.

>someone who truly loves you
but user... I'm not gay

I mean, I know the world is all kinds of fucked up, but I thought the definitions didn't change, it's only that people no longer follow the ideals. Or has it gone so far that words like "love" or "marriage" lost their meaning?

Anyway, I'd rather just call it a mutually loving relationship, even if that sounds less catchy than gentle femdom.

>as faggots?
Yes, but it's I'm into it and I'm a huge faggot.

>feminine
Femininity is a meme. Although ideally, both parties will be cuddled.

>do normal guys get cuddled
I'm a khv and even I know normal dudes get cuddled. Fuck. My normie brother babytalks with his wife. All my friends (who are exclusively women) snuggle their bfs nonstop.

>don't ever want to be the big spoon
There it is. I'm into soft femdom, mommygf, lactation, etc. but I find the robots who share my fetishes really repugnant.
>wah it's all about me I never want to be the big spoon
>all sex has to be the same fetish all the time and we can never deviate or experiment because ~*~ i don't wanna do something~*~
>"I'm submissive", he said as he expected his girlfriend to cook, clean, and cater to all his sexual desires because he also expected her to be the breadwinner
>expecting to be mommy'ed out of the bedroom
>basically being a nonfunctional moron and conflating that with sexual submissiveness

Why can't I find a normal dude who is okay with a breadwinning wife and being dominated sometimes in the bedroom, but is otherwise a normal, functional, happy person who wants to help contribute to a household as my partner and friend?

>uh because your sexual hangups are degenerate and atttact degenerates
>Jow Forums was right

I'm 22 and have been in a relationship with a girl for 2 years now. She is absolutely fond of me. She would do anything for me and i love her for that. Needless to say she enjoys any kind of physical contact between us. She doesn't care who hugs, who. She is just happy.
See that's how life is. If a situation feels good then nothing else matters.
Girls aren't turned off if their lover hugs them. It actually turns them on.
Usually when i hug my girlfriend (in bed) she can feel my hard on and cannot resist stroking my cock.
See, it doesn't make you feminine.
Spend less time on Jow Forums and more time into finding an actual girlfriend.
I promise you will realize everything you read on here from frustrated incels is dead wrong.

We talked about our fetishes straightforward, yeah I was little spoon feels good man.

>tfw had a mommy gf who liked light femdom and was over attached to me

I didn't deserve her, going to kill myself

Fucking lucky bastard. I'm not even picky anymore, I just want one that will talk to me when I need or want to talk, and will act like a mommy gf.

Doesn't even have to be fucking irl anymore, that's how low I am.

It was LDR a thousand miles apart, but was still incredibly lucky. Hope you find one user, I'm sorry.

Posting this shit in r9k is causing the cancer in the /d/ threads.

I've abandoned all hope in helping. Let it burn.

>I'm 22 and have been in a relationship with a girl for 2 years now. She is absolutely fond of me. She would do anything for me and i love her for that. Needless to say she enjoys any kind of physical contact between us. She doesn't care who hugs, who. She is just happy.
How do you look?

Don't look on r9k if you want a normal guy.
Also you're beeing unfair because alot of times woman can exactly get that if we look at the reverse so males fantasizing about it shouldn't be suprising.

>Why can't I find a normal dude who is okay with a breadwinning wife and being dominated sometimes in the bedroom
You can't talk anything about wanting a normal guy because literally every woman finds what you said a turn off. See this:

dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1394595/Has-equality-destroyed-sex-life-A-controversial-book-claims-feminism-rise-new-men-killed-womens-libidos-.html

This is it. This is what I've been looking for. Where do I find women like you?

>Why can't I find a normal dude who is okay with a breadwinning wife and being dominated sometimes in the bedroom
Hnnng
>but is otherwise a normal, functional, happy person who wants to help contribute to a household as my partner and friend?

I mean, I'd be down for all the other stuff. I do have bad anxiety though. So probably not normal. Then again, I don't really expect anyone to want me either, so there's that.

are you the same tomboy that's in the other thread?

>tfw you feel like you want this but know you could actually never be comfortable with the intimacy
Fuck my avoidant brain

>Fuck my avoidant brain
My condolences. I too want off this ride.

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>Where do I find women like you?
These kinds of girls use to be bisexual BPD fat chicks with piercings. They are not what you expect.

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So you're saying that the average tumblrite can be converted to gfd waifu??
How would one start such a process?

No. I'm saying that those mommy gfs are tumblrites freaks of nature. Not that every tumblrites necessarily is a mommy gf. It is a necessary, but not sufficient condition

I imagine it takes that device from banjo kazooie
youtube.com/watch?v=GnA_6I4y0_0

I don't see it that way
>tfw no qt bf to fall asleep in your arms

Me. Take me.

I'd give my right hand to have an unconditionally loving.mommy gf

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Gentle femdom is a patrician fetish. Actually, I don't even see why that's even a fetish. It's just being loved. Men aren't allowed to have the need to feel loved now because that's "feminine"? Fuck that spooky shit. Gender roles need to go.

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I see a lot more people saying that men aren't allowed to have the need to be loved because it's "male entitlement" than because it's feminine tbqh.

I find the idea of a guy showing his vulnerable side very cute because it shows he trusts me and feels safe around me.

I don't see him "as a faggot" so you put it, so long as thats not the only dynamic going on. I don't want a guy who constantly needs to be held and told everything is okay, because I need someone to do that for me sometimes too. Basically if a guy wants to be cuddled and spooned having me mommy him when hes feeling down, he should be willing to do the same back.

I like how it's basically role reversal, but because men want it, it's being entitled. But it's totally cool if a woman wants it. No entitlement there. Except if a guy WANTS the woman to have that role, then it's entitlement again.

>get gf
>among serious issues is mild insomnia
>cant fall asleep, too many troubles
>first night over, she gets panic attack
>barely able to calm her down
>tons of arbritary rules to fall asleep
>get to know her better, build trust
>learn to calm her down regularly
>"you have such a calming presence, user."
>cuddle with her for hours
>she finally learns to relax and let go
>always comes over for cuddles, always falls asleep right away
>gradually no rules needed anymore
>just a bit of petting and she sleeps
>people start commenting how she looks much healthier
>the rings under her eyes slowly vanish
>instead of sleep being stressful, its now relaxing, she looks foward to it
>always make sure to tell her that i love before she falls asleep, so she doesnt worry about that
>sometimes she comes over just to sleep
>gradually she learns to sleep alone at home as well
>"thanks for teaching me to sleep, user."

i still audibly tell her 'good night, i love you' every night.

even though she now isnt there anymore to hear it. i hope she sleeps well.

Alright user whats part 2 of the story?

>>sometimes she comes over just to sleep
The cuck doesn't even molest her in her sleep

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/gfd/ started in Jow Forums, it only moved to /d/ because they are a bunch of stealing queers.
>tfw no mommy gf with a huge dick and shitting dick nipples and also eats me and wears diapers and is 50ft tall
/d/ deserves to be sad and /gfd/ does not belong there.

I'm pretty sure this is a larp. The biggest complaint I hear about mommy gfs is that she tries to take that shit outside of the sanctity of home. I want to be coddled and loved on, but you can go fuck yourself if you try to baby me anywhere but home or have delusions of being the breadwinner. I may be a man who wants to drink tiddy milk and lay in bed cuddling all weekend, but I'm still a man damnit. You have to be the girl when outside. Alos ass backwards because women can't understand switch. If she is dom then 'lolfucc men I chop off your balls' or 'owo beat me with an axe i am sub xd'. They are the ones only wanting to play with one kink and inside of that one kink exclusively.

I had a girl like that for a while but she wouldn't accept dating. I don't know why.

>even though she now isnt there anymore to hear it. i hope she sleeps well.
What happened?

Do you guys really want gentle femdom?
Or just someone who cares about you enough to say loving words to you?

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Huh. That actually warms my heart, good on you user.

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>>tfw no mommy gf with a huge dick and shitting dick nipples and also eats me and wears diapers and is 50ft tall
lmao /d/ really is a funny board.

No really my tastes are fucked up. For some reason I think masculinity in girls is really hot.

>even though she now isnt there anymore to hear it. i hope she sleeps well.

Please don't tell me. .

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I cuddle my guy a lot, it's nice to curl into him from behind to let him know how much I love him in return for how loved he makes me feel

Gahhh, why do I want to be cuddled by a high test gf?

>/gfd/ started in Jow Forums, it only moved to /d/ because they are a bunch of stealing queers.
There's also the part where mods deleted it on sight /d/ stole that too.

>hundreds of threads with a picture of some nigger's taint accompanied by the words "u man white boy"
mods sleep
>"""""fembot""""" threads
mods sleep
>lgbtbbq threads
mods sleep
>discord spamming
mods sleep
>tfw no domme gf
REAL SHIT?

It could be worse.
>look at the absolute state of /b/

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I'm into gfd but I also like traps and femboys and crossdressers. I don't like manly dudes, regardless of what position they want to take in the relationship. With that said, I don't like how gfd is discussed in terms of domination and submission; I mean, wanting cuddles is normal relationship stuff and loving women do that stuff for their partners all the time. But the women also want to be loved on top and that's not a bad thing. It's why I hate how people can get pigeonholed into a role; dommes and doms need to be loved on too. I'd expect my guy to do for me as I do for him, not necessarily all the time, but at least don't be shy about telling me he wants something. Good communication is sexy.

>I'd expect my guy to do for me as I do for him, not necessarily all the time, but at least don't be shy about telling me he wants something
Would you please give me a hug?

Most girls won't be bothered about being the big spoon when cuddling. Most girls won't think you're a faggot for wanting her to hold you instead of holding her.

Unless she is into being a dom she won't want to tie you up/hit you/top in bed though.

im into it
i like holding my bf as much as i like being held
i dont like being the big spoon so much though, its just not v confy bc hes kinda wide lol
but yeah its really fucking nice i love holding him and petting his hair and kissing his forehead and rubbing his back

None of this is gfd, it is just what regular couples sometimes do when they cuddle

The gentle femdom threads on /d/ are actually full of normies.

Of course, son.

>Do women see guys who are into gentle femdom as faggots?
not at all
>I mean, do they see you being the one cuddled as being feminine and the like?
I don't think it's feminine it's just cute
>I don't ever want to be the big spoon, but what do girls think of it?
again it's cute
>Am I a faggot?
not imo but its subjective I guess

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>be 6'4" 210 below 16% body fat
>Every woman I meet wants to gentle Dom me no joke
>Mfw I just want a qt sub gf to lay out flat and pound until she screams

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In the park or uni grass areas i see guys lay on their girlfriend's laps or be the little spoon.

Yes, they do see you as faggots. Even the ones who are into it.

These threads hurt me real bad. Just want you to know that