I think I've committed my biggest autism yet
I've been talking to this girl for a little over 2 months. Mainly long distance because she goes to a college 2.5 hours drive away from me. We both definitely like each other, as in, we have both admitted it to each other. This week is her last week of school, she is graduating, so I thought it might be fun to drive down and surprise her with a visit. She got really mad and now I'm just sitting in my car just off campus
Didn't green text cause I'm obviously mobile posting
Also, we have hung out in person, she is from a town very near to where I live, I met her through a friend at a small party
What did she say when you visited her?
My current plan is to just wait in my car, maybe get some fast food, and hope she wants to see me within a few hours. Worst case scenario I sleep in my car and try to take out to breakfast maybe? Idk I just don't want to drive back home yet.
Go home dude, you did bad
Like I said, she got really mad, I called her when I got to the school cause I can't just walk into her dorm. She just yells at me to leave over the phone
Needs more backstory. Something's not adding up.
I guess she had plans tonight, I thought this would be fine since she likes to tease me by asking me to drive down in the middle of the night sometimes
Well in my opinion you should ghost her until she decides to contact you
Her plan is to let Chad spead her legs and leave a big load of cummies in her womb and you showed up and ruined it
yeah, maybe that's it
idk though
i'd just do what said. Find yourself a hotel room to stay in if you have the money, or sleep in your car, but don't plan on meeting her especially not tonight
Honestly that wouldn't completely surprise me
She's fucking another dude.
Yeah I if I can find a place to stay parked I'll sleep I my car, I appreciate the frog
Just leave, user. She's fucking another guy. She's mad because you forced her to confront the morality of her getting pounded by chad while stringing you along.
Ghost her, don't respond to her messages. I'm sorry that this happened to you. I know its a sickening feeling in the pit of your stomach. I'm so sorry, truly, I can feel your pain because I had the same thing happen.
But please don't fall for her bullshit.
Fuck I hate women.
This.
But first send her a message explaining your genuine good intentions and that you didnt expect her to react like that.
Dont apologize, then ghost her untill she talks to you.
Dont go full beta apologizing and begging her seriously.
Don't even send her that message, just ghost her.
OP just doesnt want to drive home immediately after driving for 3 hours. I also advised him to not bother trying to meet the girl still
see One important detail, OP. Have you guys met in person before?
Im sorry user. I've been in this situation except in the opposite role. For me it was because I was ashamed at liking the person and so was upset they surprise visited me when i didnt want the public to know
Update: I found a taco bar, gonna have some tacos
if she can't handle you at your worst she doesn't deserve you at your best
Yes we've met in person, I've spent time with her around her college and back home
Thanks normie twitter
Also she hasn't read or respondes to any messages I've sent since she told me to leave
I am kekin
If she is that unhappy seeing you it means she is hiding something. Either she has someone else she fucks or she is embarrassed about you
I am sorry user...
Strange. Though sadly the other anons are probably right and she's probably getting railed by a local chad
enjoy your tacos, i guess
Don't send any more messages, leave with some dignity. Regardless of what she might have said before, she doesn't like you. When you like someone you don't tell them to get lost when they come visit you.
Block her and move on with your life or you will drag yourself into an emotionally painful situation where you are chasing after someone who doesn't give a shit about you.
This guy is right. There is no reason for her to react like that unless something is up. She is fucking another guy no doubt.
Wtf kind of bar serves a 7oz beer, these tacos better be amazing
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Sorry user. It was not autism.
Think if chad had done the same.
At the very least if she liked you that much, she would have greeted you.
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>im OP
No response from girl yet
Owner of this bar is a mad man.
He asked me if I ever scratch my balls and then rub my hand on stuff, he thinks we do it cause we still have innate need to spread our scent
I'm glad you're having a good time OP
Don't worry about her response, just enjoy your tacos and go home. You'll find someone else who's not a whore.
I'm still really fucking confused, you're leaving out details.
Some girl you're friendly with just explodes on you for visiting her? What were her exact words? Has she said anything yet? Was there anything leading up to this?
>tfw op never talked to this girl before and just shows up
or
>ops is autistic and didn't realise she was being a cunt
Let me explain the mind of a female to you, user:
1) she routinely invited him down in the middle of the night to tease him
2) they'd met before and spent time together
3) they were in a long distance relationship with no fights
She's mad because OP surprised her and forced her to confront the fact that shes sucking Chad's dick. She freaked out because it forced her to examine her own behavior, and it was obvious that it was wrong.
At that moment, it was his fault, his arrival made the bad feelings appear. Best to ghost her and let her beat herself up over it instead of apologizing like a beta. Apologizing would give her the satisfaction that she has both chad and the beta.
Second option is viable, I really have no idea why she just told me to leave
Stop orbiting this girl, ghost her entirely and find someone new.
I'm still optimistic that she isn't fucking Chad, that's not her M.O.
>fucking chad isn't her m.o.
I used to be delusional too
Let me explain the mind of an Jow Forums artist to you
1)he routinely misreads signals and misinterprets pity as advances and interests
2)they "met" before which translates to: bumping into each other and having an awkward discourse
3)they were in a long distance relationship which translates to:she is the only girl he talks to and only responds out of false female sympathy
What you said is likely too but I'm trying to find out if OP is trying to score "waaaah roasties" sympathy points.
As others have stated, she's hiding shit from you. Likely fucking another guy.
I've literally had this happen to me before. Enjoy your tacos man, she's not worth your time.
1) could be true
2 & 3 definitely not me in this situation, I don't feel like screenshoting messages, too much censorship would be needed
Well, I left the taco place, thread is probably rip at this point
If anyone has advice besides "she's fucking Chad, ghost her" let me know
If youd have read the thread, youd see that none lf that is the case. She invited him down multiple times. State upfront that you're a woman next time. I know how to read signals and this happened to me. Women like you are whores. Fuck off.
Update: I'm still hanging around her school, I've been here for close to 3 hours. For some reason I can't bring myself to just go home.
She Snapchatted me a video of her at a party, not that big but definitely some kind of party
Maybe you just surprised her and she has family over and she's not ready for that.
Naw mate, she lives with 3 room mates
All separate rooms shared kitchen/common area
Her roommates don't like me that much, but that's only cause they don't know anything about me
Cheating on your partner should seriously be a crime, think of the emotional trauma it causes. Your trust is broken by the person who you're supposed to be able to trust the most, and leaves lasting trust issues in future relationships. Emotional battery if you will.
How accepted it's become by society actually disgusts me, if a "friend" cheats on their partner, think about how little respect they have for you - It's like a massive red flag.
I hope she's not cheating OP, but usually if it quacks like a duck and waddles like a duck it's probably a duck.
Even if all that were true, she was knowingly stringing him along.
Yeah, she's either fucking Chad or she was planning to anyway. Go home and cut all contact. Fuck that roastie.
Holy shit what a bitch. She gets mad you came to see her, goes to a party and doesn't invite you, then Snapchats her at the party instead of with you.
Okay user please, listen to me. It dorsnt matter if she's cheating, she's treated you with enough disrespect that you need to step back and just leave. She doesn't want to see you? Fine, you'll leave, she doesn't have to see you again. Go home OP, turn your phone off and try and get a night's rest. Don't turn your phone back on until morning. Tomorrow you might wake up to a bunch of messages or calls, or maybe not who knows. It doesnt matter, your response will be the same : "I'm breaking up with you, I deserve someone who will treat me better".
And that's it user, do you really want to be with someone who treats you that way? I know I wouldn't.
But I love her...
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And she'll use that against you. If you give her the time of day now, she knows down the line that she will be able to openly cheat on you and you'll end up coping by becoming a legitimate cuckold. Do you really want to see her pussy spread and begging for black cock? Do you want to be literally by her side as she gets railed by Tyrone? Do you want her to demand that you clean her cum glazed cunt with your tongue? It'll all happen if you don't cut off this toxic dynamic right fucking now.
Lol this, we all know this is what really happened.
Jesus Christ grow a pair you fucking loser. Are you so socially detached from society that you can't even see how beta that was you just wrote?
Fuck off roastie and take your Chad cocklust with you.
Just because you know I'm right don't try and say I'm a roastie.
Nut in her mailbox
WTF, fuck off tumblr
Op:
How old are you two?
How attractive are you two, 1-10. I'll know if you lie and piss on your tendies.
Are you a virgin?
Are you an actual autist?
What mental illnesses does she admit to or show signs of, and when was she first diagnosed with BPD?
Coalburners get out of our site
That would be correct, if you were right.
And you aren't.
Now fuck off and go get railed by tyrone.
We're both 21
She's a solid 7 no make up
My ex thinks I'm a ten I'd say I'm a six, 7on a good day
I'm not an actual autistic, I do have minor paranoia issues, I see a therapist but it's mostly to vent about family shit
She takes Zoloft for "depression"
Why did you break up with your ex, though? If she rates you 10/10 then she obviously wants to get back with you by being "flirty"
I'm now in a church parking lot still in my car, several cops have gone by, none have stopped.
I got a big water bottle from a gas station for survival purposes.
I also reactivated my tinder in an attempt to bum a couch tonight, already used all my likes
>She Snapchatted me a video of her at a party
Disgusting whores. Seriously user, go home, you don't want to be involved in something violent provoked by that bitch and your current mess off your feelings.
B L O C K
H E R
>My ex
She's suicidal, a rape victim but also a "rape" victim if you catch me. Has cancer, horrible family, all her friends are gay males, borderline alcoholic already
I see. Roastie got what she deserved for the "rape". Always fills my heart to see so.
Anyway, you could try to ask your gf why was she mad. Use the right words and you'll soon find out why.
Just cross your fingers so that It isn't as bad as we all think.
She added a snap to her story, she's back in her dorm with her roommates, they're all girls
Sound like a real winner to me
hey you stupid nigger call her again and if she dont let you in ghost her
>Nigger
lol
That post is about my ex, I broke up with in January
I know youre white but I'm trying to emphasize your stupidity. Grow a pair, you already drove there
I'd call you a filthy normalfag and tell you to leave but I've got a few damaged exes tool.
Nice non rebuttal you fucking loser.
t. Cheater
user you have aspergers and you are attracted to / attract girls with serious personality disorders. Cluster B. Research.
t. autist with cluster b fetish
Even better non-rebuttal you fucking roastie.
I will look into this
I definitely have a "type" that I'm into
For a while I thought it was just coincidence
>Short, blonde
>artist of some kind (ex was an animator, current is printmaker)
>Daddy issues v common as well
Literally every girl I've gone after
You don't understand why she would be mad that one of her orbiter shows up in her real life? Are you retarded?
You offer them unquestioned loyalty and devotion and time, and they offer you something pretty that you don't think you deserve. Everything is fine until the first time you say something that they disagree with, then the descent into Hell begins.
Also they lie a lot.
Also they self harm.
Fuck dude I forgot about self harm, that's also a big one
I've been trying to avoid that since my ex
This. Sorry OP but sadly some girls are like that.
can you pls tell us what youre gonna do already
I want to make it clear that everything I know about her tells me she isn't fucking some other dude, i think I just caught her off gaurd, that being said I'm going to sleep in my car, then find some flowers or dumb romantic shit, she's really into that, then go back to her dorm
The best is when they cut and send you pictures after an argument that they lose.
Honestly fren, the best thing for you is to cut contact with this one and get your mental house in order. You very clearly have some form of 'tism. Your responses and actions make that clear. You will repeatedly fall for the same trap in future relationships if you don't understand yourself and how a certain type of girl can unconsciously exploit you.
Good luck.
>that being said I'm going to sleep in my car, then find some flowers or dumb romantic shit, she's really into that, then go back to her dorm
Don't do this. This is high level autism. Go home and eat tendies.
Do not fucking do this. Do fucking not. Go home. Go the fuck home and let her contact you if she cares. There's at least a 75% chance this won't work they way you hope.
Man I don't mean to be mean or blunt, but do you really think she loves you if she treated you that way after driving 3 hours to see her? tomorrow you're going to be posting about how you're heartbroken and that she told you to fuck off anyway.
I'll let you know in the morning for sure
>tomorrow you're going to be posting about how you're heartbroken and that she told you to fuck off anyway.
No, he's going to listen to uncle Jow Forums and go the fuck home and so a deep read of the DSM V entry on autism spectrum disorder and borderline personality disorder. Then his eyes will open.
>digits
Hitler is telling you to go home, lad.
Don't be an autist for once in your life. Chirst, whatever.
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Just saw her guys, I found out you were all right, i'm just going to go home
GREENTEXT THIS SHIT RN FAGGER
You are not me, and you're bad at larping.
fuck off let him greentext this shit