Finally spoke to that bus cutie today. I asked her what course she takes in uni and then asked her for help with a legit math problem. She didn't know how to solve it either, but she pointed me to her course's tutory room. I noticed she sperged out and basically repeated herself. She also asked me what course I'm taking in uni before her stop came.
I know this is probably not going anywhere and is cringy, but I feel relieved and I feel better after finally speaking to her. It was worth it, whatever the outcome. I'll probably thank her next week after she sits next to me again and make some small talk.
attractive spergy dude here, i just want a qt to sperg out with
Elijah Watson
That's a win user good job. You went out of your comfort zone. Here's hoping I can do the same someday.
Jayden Myers
This is so cute op, I had a sane experience with a girl at my uni, sadly nothing came to fruition
Dominic Thompson
At least one of us has to make it. I was kinda hoping it would be me, nevertheless I am very proud of you.
Robert Hughes
It's never too late for you to make it too
Josiah Sanchez
OP here.
I hope you find her soon dude. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there, it will make you feel better.
Thank you! I know it's a baby step but I'm happy I managed to.
Thanks! I'm sorry about that. I hope it doesn't stop you from trying again!
Thanks friend. If I could do it, you can do it! I have a very shy and antisocial personality, and I was cold sweating a lot, but I just stopped thinking for a moment and began to speak, it all went away soon after.
Brody Collins
I'm happy for you user! Good job! Just don't say thank you to her, just keep talking with her, then eventually if she mentions an upcoming movie or something, ask if she would like to join you to watch it together! Or try and stay late helping with math or something and try to see if you can score a Pizza at home kind of date! Best of luck user! I'm really happy for you! (Don't say thank you to her for talking with you, that might scare her off a bit, even though your intentions are good)
I'll keep this in mind! I'll just skip to being casual for now, focus on getting to know her maybe?
She sits next to me every day she takes the bus, so I figure it won't be that weird from now on.
Ryder Russell
Yea I would say get to know her first. I know how you feel though. Guys generally fall in love wayy quicker than girls, so just try and be her friend first! Ask what she likes and so on, really show interest but not too much in a creepy way, just enough to be sweat and nice! Just keep asking questions. As in starting the conversation with asking if she is doing any sports or playing any instruments. If she says no, ask why not or ask if she had to choose, which would she chose and why. Just keep asking questions for the conversation! That's what I do to avoid awkward silence! And not to sound like the meme chad, but be yourself. As in don't make her fall in love with someone who isn't you. Make her love the true you!
>ugh, some creepy dude from university literally raped me on the bus today >he sat by my side and even if I wanted I wouldn't be able to move past his fat ass off the seat without making a scene >he kept buggering me about some stupid Math problem he couldn't solve and all I could think was about his terrible onion breath while not looking to his greasy face. >I was smart enough to leave the bus one station early so he doesn't know where I actually leave, but now I'll have to switch buses to school.
Thanks for the advice! I'll try my best to let things go smoothly. I understand some awkward silence is normal too, at least after a while of talking - what's really important is not letting it last too long. It actually made me happy that she was the one who seemed nervous today - I feel more comfortable and reassured. Kind of dominant even.
I'll be myself, sure. I know I'm no Chad, but I'm not a loser either. I've got my stuff together at the very least.
Not yet. We ended up not speaking as much as I'd like. I know she studies architecture though.
Matthew Green
>he sat by my side and even if I wanted I wouldn't be able to move past his fat ass off the seat without making a scene
I'm not fat. And she always takes the corridor seat.
>he kept buggering me about some stupid Math problem he couldn't solve and all I could think was about his terrible onion breath while not looking to his greasy face
I only mentioned the problem once. She was the one asking for more details.
>I was smart enough to leave the bus one station early so he doesn't know where I actually leave, but now I'll have to switch buses to school
It's a private bus, it takes and leaves people at their houses' doors.
I know this is a joke and is supposed to make me feel bad, but it didn't.
Asher Kelly
Wow user you made a girl umcomfortable on the bus. Good job.
Thomas Morgan
Hey man good luck, don't fuck it up like I did.
Lincoln Gonzalez
I hope I didn't.
What happened?
Eli Bell
Maybe we can all make it one day
Luis Ramirez
>I'll probably thank her next week For what? Don't thank her for talking to you
