Have online friend for a long time

you got cuckqueened grats bitch

sex has never been important to me, i guess i always thought of the person youd be with as like a best friend, you know?

thanks love

welcome, do you know any in real life?

The online version of people is often too idealized. They present themselves the best they can and you delude yourself into thinking they're closer to be what you want them to be than what they really are. This doesn't mean the internet can't be a good starting point to know someone. It can. But you won't truly love them until you get to know them on person and you get to feel and interact with them.
>i did have a relationship with one online a few years ago.
>with one
>i loved them and i got cheated on...
>them
Typo? Or was hi agender or something?

You are not a real woman.

friends? yea but i had to move away to study and im too much of an autist to meet people outside

you are likely right, i just dont see why anyone would want to put on a facade like that. what good is it to live a life based on a lie
not a typo, im kinda bi and it was a girl

Do you think he'll abandon you?
Is it jealousy that someone else gets to meet him irl, or is it that he likes her? Or is it fear he'll stop talking to you?

why not?

no i know he'll still be around as a good friend, like what i think he is now. thats why im confused.
i guess it could be that he likes someone else more. idk...

It's not about putting a facade but about the medium permitting you to control the way you present yourself. You can choose your words so carefully and there's a barrier between people that means you will never truly be vulnerable.
And what that other user said about wanting to be fucked is true. It's my seems crude to you now but if you ever get a boyfriend who can stimulate that side of you you will suddenly get it. Your idea of your husband being your best friend is great and is the backbone of a intimate relationship but it's incomplete. When someone you love make you cum hard you will realize you need it and you will want to surrender to it.
If she was a girl why did you said them instead of her?

Yeah, you're just jealous that he has a crush on someone then
Not too much of a big deal, just don't let it interfere with your judgment or actions

Your lizard brain is activating. It knows there is a chance you will not be provisioned for if you lose the male. Even though you are probably not in that situation, your lizard brain still responds as if you are going to have to fight or undergo hardships. It will eventually go away.

this is the gayest thing ive ever read
> When someone you love make you cum hard
HAHAHAHAHA

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It is summertime

the summer heats killing your IQ?

Post a time stamped pic of yourself.

I'm kinda in this situation now and she absolutely hates me since I told her my gf can read all my messages (she never had and never will). I don't think she has feelings for me though, she has anxiety issues. We were having fun talking before I said that jokingly.

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yea, i know im much easier to talk to online, than say face to face if its someone i dont know.
i know you are right about the sex part. i just dont know when or how that comes into play, like how do you go from talking to wanting to get fucked? i know its a dumb as hell question, but hey... this is the board to ask right?
>If she was a girl why did you said them instead of her?
idk, guess i just didnt figure the gender was important

ill try. its just annoying the hell out of me for some reason. doesnt help that hes teasing me about it either

i suppose? though that doesnt quite explain why i was with a girl at one point

marriage is where you go to wanting to get fucked

Just tease him back with something else or some shit

>like how do you go from talking to wanting to get fucked?
That's on him. It's part of the duty of a man to seduce the woman. You could try to "seduce" him by pretty much just telling him, subtly or not, that you're willing to let him fuck you and many men would take that deal, but I don't think that's the right way of doing these things. If he doesn't get you aroused he isn't the right one. What would you do if hypothetically he left her girlfriend for you and then you met someone who makes you want to be his? You see how that would be a problem?

like i dont feel like sex is such a holy thing like marriage makes it out to be, like ill gladly fuck a guy i like, but i just dont know what that "like" feels like, you know? is it like something that just happens or what

for me, i feel like arousal is much more touchy-feely. sure, dirty talking can work alright too, but not as much

You're sad about losing your friend cause he's not going to have time for you now, that's what.

you just miss the fact you can't talk to him as much?

look internally and figure out what parts you like about him
think about what'll be reduced or lost as he spends more time with another person

It's about having the right presence. It's hard to explain because it's not something purely physical nor is what you say but how you express yourself both verbally and physically. It's kind of like putting a spell on someone.

>see pretty girl on a video or somewhere in public
>she mentions having a boyfriend to the person she's talking to
>instantly get sad even though I know I'd probably never date them anyway
Why am I like this?

>have online friend
Oh wait, no i fucking don't, not even online do people like me.

This guy summed it up pretty well

i dont think ill lose him, this has all happened once before

so the whole "butterfly in the stomach" thing? for me i never really felt that, even when i was with my ex. like i still loved her and was heartbroken when i found out she cheated with me. i guess im just kinda thick headed when it comes to those feelings. the only time i really felt butterflies was from the nervousness of asking her out

we see something we wish we could have too i guess?

The butterflies are a part of it but they come in different flavors. The butterflies you felt are closer to the partnership aspect of a relationship. What I'm talking about is eroticism. What you never had an erotic dream where you just lost your head and you craved to be taken and fucked?
I think it's ok, user, as long as you don't become bitter because of it. People will tell you you must be rational but I think it's good to long for this kind of things even if it hurts.
Why not?

I don't know, i try to be nice and it doesn't work, i try to be myself and it doesn't work either, i guess people just don't like me.

I wouldn't say it's like butterflies in your stomach, more so you just enjoy their presence to an extreme I guess? I'd say more than just enjoying it, but I can't think of a better word

Do you do anything that people might find weird or annoying?

Well maybe you look for the wrong people or maybe you just don't have much to offer, but it doesn't have to be like this forever. How old are you? You will mature. I can assure that, but how fast you do it depends on you.

Just look at the people they associate with, that might deter you
if it makes you feel any better, I never liked people in the first place

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>What you never had an erotic dream where you just lost your head and you craved to be taken and fucked?
i have, but not related to anyone i know, like where id love to fall asleep and continue that dream

sounds like me too desu

Orbiter hoarding instincts. Avoid the foid

I don't think so, no, most of the time i only talk when someone else does before and i keep it on topic.
Yeah, maybe i'm just boring.

>i have
Then you know how it feels. Do you think your friend could ever make you feel like that?
I didn't ask you if you thought you were boring but your age. How old are you?

Maybe it is something I wish I had
Not bitterness, I just get some odd sense of blackpilling jealousy for a second despite the fact I knew I probably was never going to date her anyway since I don't know her
Eh, I think I'm just really lonely and my emotions are really autistic

not purely online ofc, and i guess thats one really annoying part, i cant tell if he would be able to or not

like not having in a more general way, like having a relationship with someone, not just "that one"

I'm 23, why do you waqnt to know?

>i cant tell if he would be able to or not
It should be obvious that if you can't tell then he can't. I mean maybe if you knew him you would realize he's everything you wanted but that's wishful thinking. It would be silly to delude yourself into falling for someone just because you could fall for him if he happened to be exactly what you need.
I wanted to lift your spirit telling you you're still young but I thought you would be younger to be honest. Still, you still aren't finished. Don't let people convince you there's this great event you have been left out. It's just shallowness. You can do better.

you are right. i guess thats kinda what happened with my ex... im just a dumb fool who doesnt know when or what to do anything.. doesnt help that ive got an abandonment issue and low self esteem, so i guess i latch on to people too easily or i get jealous too easily?

>im just a dumb fool who doesnt know when or what to do anything
You may have been a bit of a fool but don't self pity yourself. You just got left a bit behind about these things but everyone has been a fool a few times. You're not some irreversible failure and there's nothing you can not learn.
>doesnt help that ive got an abandonment issue
Elaborate.
>so i guess i latch on to people too easily or i get jealous too easily?
It doesn't seem that bad. You're not going crazy. You just care about your friend and you don't know how to process this. It's nothing beyond the norm.

>have a good female friend for the first time in my life
>she gets a bf and stops talking to me
>I get the message and stop communicating with her as well
>we become strangers

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If someone is kind and generally caring to you, and I'm not saying over a long period of time, do you immediately get a crush on them or some affection towards them? If not then you probably don't get latch on to people all that easily

idk, i had a really bad childhood with a single abusive mom and constant bullying. somehow i convinced myself that geting beaten was a sign of appreciation. i was always alone and never got to make any friends so now when i do make friends it hurts like hell when falling out or losing contact.
idk user, i think i am at least a little more crazy than normal

yea, thinking about it you are right, it does take a long time for me to latch on to people as i have a lot of mistrust in grained in me, but when i do i dont want to lose them

>idk, i had a really bad childhood with a single abusive mom and constant bullying.
I'm sorry about that. You deserved better.
>i think i am at least a little more crazy than normal
Yeah, you're here. Just don't think you're stuck in here forever if you don't want to. I don't know you and you seem a bit clingy and perhaps too self-conscious, but you seem all right. I'm not telling you you will ever be a normie. The things we go through stay with us, but you don't need to be a normie to be happy.

Every time. Women always complain that men never want to be friends and are only interested in them for sex, but why stay friends when this is what's going to happen to you?

>closest friend I've had was a girl I met online 7 years ago
>she's from the US but I'm from Australia
>talk for many years and I feel like I've made a genuine friend
>all her relatives used to think we'd get married
>realise that I love her
>she gets her first boyfriend
>she stops messaging
>I stop out of courtesy to her bf
>we go our separate ways without actually saying goodbye
my chest hurts a lot

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I wouldn't say you have abandonment issues, seeing as how what you said in the other post would mean you're probably more likely to be in a abusive relationship, you just don't want to lose your friend, whether you're aware of it or not

Pretty much. In most cases if you want to have a relationship with a girl you should either try to make her your girlfriend or have some kind of paternal relationship with her. Girls will never be your bros. And honestly I can't blame if a guy wants his girlfriend all for himself. I would do the same.

thank you user, i appreciate it.
i kinda accepted that id likely die alone, so im just gonna try and make the best of it. maybe one day things will change. i just dont know what it was all about when i felt strange that my friend is starting to become happy with a different girl when i know he in the past said he had feelings for me. i guess i have a lot to learn about myself still

could easily be right, im far from a shrink, but i know for sure i dont want to loose him as a friend over it

>i kinda accepted that id likely die alone
Stop self-pitying yourself. Don't relish on what could likely happen. Think about what you want and try to make it happen. About your friend. Tell him how you feel. (Not the part about you maybe having a crush on him because that would fuck him over). Tell him you don't want to lose his friendship. He will get it and he will do his best, but you still need to understand his girlfriend is his priority now. If you had a boyfriend you would be the same way.

This Just tell him about how you don't want to lose him as a friend, and stop being self-critical and self deprecating

ill try, its just hard to undo years of abuse, its like its become part of me. like my therapist says its defense strategies i used as a child that i just have a really hard time breaking down. i know you are both right and ill try to not be as pessimistic even if its hard
thank you anons. really.

Ill be your friend user whats your discord?

Ill talk to you and wont ghost you I promise

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No problem, take care

oregano

Don't try to force yourself to be happy either though. If some things are wrong then they are wrong, but don't try to construct a narrative around your pain. Just don't see your life as a never ending tragic play. You can recognize you have had to deal with a lot of bullshit but don't get a morbid entertainment from it. Do you feel better now?

>Ill talk to you and wont ghost you I promise
I'm not falling for that again

>doesn't add anything to the thread
>comes at the end when the main conflict is solved and his only motivation to post is mfw no gf
You're scum, user.

>or have some kind of paternal relationship with her
This preumably only works if you're older right?

Take a gf, user

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>f*moid saves a thumbnail
color me surprised

I seriously won't I promise
Im not looking for a girlfriend, just someone to play with or something
Im ugly as shit anyways so nobody would want me

>I make a thread
>0 replies

>roastie makes a thread
>500 replies

fuck this stupid shitty board

Don't be bitter. It's not good for you. What was your thread about?

>Hurr how can whitebois compete? xD
>Why does no one reply to me?

it's too late now dude, you can't pretend to be interested weeks later. in future any threads I make will also mention that I am a "female" so people actually bother to reply

>it's too late now dude
Stop playing hard and tell me.
>I make will also mention that I am a "female
Are you? Lying to get attention is a low move.

Nothing wrong with that, been doing it myself for years.
The numerous posts calling you a roastie, or a trap, or just expressing general rage are like constant free bumps that keep alerting the whiteknights who will give actual worthwhile responses thinking you're a girl.
There's literally no good reason not to do it, I'm pretty certain that almost all of the threads like that are from other anons using the same idea.

This board is just a fucking big meme dude, I come here to laugh at all the bait threads and "fembots"(males) that come here. Don't take anything here seriously, the days of the sad boi greentext, good memes and relatable robot problems are long gone.You need to go to the 8chim if you want that.

>more people bumping your post
>more likely some chump who feels sorry for you will post
>he provokes discussion because you can't
how is it bad again?

Interesting. It's a sad state of affairs when you have to pretend to be female just to get anyone to take notice of your threads though

It's bad because the board is packed full of white knights and thirsty failed normslimes that only care about orbiting sluts and will never be there for a robot

to add, sometimes you don't even need to mention being female
Just make your usual thread as you usually would, and use one of the many female wojak variants as your attached image

>bf breaks up with me
>says we will stay friends forever but we can't date for certain reasons
>we chat regularly for about 2 years after the break up, play online games together almost every day, he is still my main friend I confide in and I still miss him being next to me, sort of pretend we aren't broken up
>finally he finds this girl he really likes and stops really paying attention to me
>feel alone and neglected and start to hate him sitting in my room alone
>after a while he starts talking to me again, find out he's engaged to this bitch
>he invites me to the wedding, says he'd really like me to come
>keep crying about it, realize I always hoped he would be with me again but now it won't ever happen and my soul has been ripped apart
Should I go to the wedding?

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>and will never be there for a robot
Not true, man. I always try to help my fellow robots even when they're frustrating as fuck.

please find a ditch to die in

>I'm pretty certain that almost all of the threads like that are from other anons using the same idea.
Not this one. OP was 100% female. She made a thread about her abandonment issues and then bailed the very moment she got comforted.

The thing is, I don't mind it at all in fact I understand it.
These guys are so completely fucking desperate, that just the hope of you being a real girl they get from having a female wojak image next to your post makes them way more likely to give you their time.
You can look at it as hurr durr they only care about getting laid fucking douches (which is normalnigger roastie logic they spout that shit all the time, you know about how "nice guys" are actually decietful and that justifies how these whores treat them) or you can be understanding like you want them to be. Be the person you want to see, but at the same time I need some love too so I will keep pretending to be a woman becasue it gets me that love

No, and kill yourself for coming to this board roastie.

You should go to the wedding, talk to hin about it and break off friendship completely
Being friends with him will only hurt more and its best just to cut him off but don't ghost him. Tell him your feelings and tell him you cant be friends anymore with him. It'll save you a lot of pain user, its better to do that then cry every single day until you kill yourself.
Trust me it'll save you a lot of suffering

If he's trying to pull off a threesome I admire his balls but don't go. He takes you for granted and doesn't care for you the way you care for him. You will always resent him for that.

I know it's hard to stay friends with someone after stuff like this, I had a similar situation. It fucking makes me want to die everyday knowing I met the girl of my dreams, but she'll only ever see me as a friend. If it gives you closure I would go to the wedding. That's all I ever wanted, just to be told to fuck off instead of being kept as a friend. Once he gets married and you see it for yourself, you'll know you have to move on and it will be for the best.

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no you should have cut him out of your life as soon as you broke up u dun goofed this is the end for your kokoro

shut up brian

nice try, but I'm very close to Brian user

swing and a miss. tea lounge??

closer, closer. I'll make it easier. I'm online right now