>dude just get a fat gf, she'll be loyal and worship you!!
Dude just get a fat gf, she'll be loyal and worship you!!
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No woman has any concept of loyalty. It just doesn't exist for them, biologically speaking.
Settling for a fat woman is basically depriving yourself of your own humanity, admitting to the universe that you are in fact a worthless piece of shit - and in exchange for what, exactly?
I just hate knowing that I'll never be able to make a girl truly happy.
That's all I want.
Fuck this reminds me of the story where user married that disabled girl and took care of her for multiple years only for her to cheat on him the first moment she had the chance.
JUST
Just kill yourself you worthless loser.
What this user said.
I could settle for a landwhale, but I know once I do any chance of self-confidence is done right there. I'll always have that looming feeling of "What could of been if I didn't choose to think with my dick"
I say that solely for the fact I would be the unlucky one to impregnate and be stuck with her. If you're not with someone you're happy with, wouldn't it better to just stay alone and stick to your guns?
Serious question, why do men attach themselves to women so deeply and easily? Biologically speaking, you'd expect the opposite, we're designed to spread our seed quickly and move on.
>Biologically speaking, you'd expect the opposite, we're designed to spread our seed quickly and move on.
Probably a far higher chance of survival if the male stayed around and protected and provided for the female and baby.
Because women have mating selection power by virtue of being sexual gatekeepers, a role that was unintentionally thrust upon them when the first cavemen stopped raping each other and started forming the necessary social structures for humanity to properly exist.
Our current social paradigms, in which men pose the offer of sex while women decide who passes the test, is just an outcropping of that long-standing mentality, and even though the birth control revolution should have theoretically undone it, it still persists because women just plain benefit more by continuing to be sexual gatekeepers, they have no impetus to give it up (and they shouldn't, since society would fall apart pretty damn rapidly if they did).
But now they have additional social powers gained through politicking, and this leads to a lot of women being encouraged to become vindictive cunts
If we spread our seed quickly and move on, who will instill manhood into the boys who are needing adult figures in their lives? This is required or else you're going to have a population of nothing but pathetic basedboys.
>so
>y is replaced with based
kek
Would that just imply that today's sexual freedom new age degeneracy (poly, open relationships, etc) is a good thing since women practically fuck whoever with no feelings involved?
This one?
originality
honestly I probably would've done a murder-suicide if that happened to me.
I have no words. What the actual fuck, man?
God damn it, user
Originally sad.
yep it was that one. history repeats itself to those who are ignorant of it.
Women are from hell
"According to Buddha, women were once men who had sex with wives of other men. This sinful karma causes these men to reincarnate in hell after their death. In hell, they suffered many forms of cruel and unusual punishments. After their time in hell is over, they eventually reincarnate as women."
buddhazero.com/women-are-from-hell/
Shit almost made me cry, user. There truly is no hope for me or any other guy out there to have a girl who will truly love you for you.
Not at all, the current access to sexual healthcare and the ability to avoid unwanted pregnancies without the failed countermeasures of forced abstinence are positive social forces, they just came into existence at the same time (or, cynically, were the cause of) a broader disingenuous political movement that let women snowball their newfound political and social powers to a point that isn't socially healthy.
It's not even love, the man is like a car to her, she feels she needs to upgrade because it's not good enough for her anymore, did she ever have feelings for him or even feelings at all?
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>get fat gf
>try to lose weight together
>she loses weight
>OP picture
pottery
Oh fuck I think I remember being in that thread. Time flies by too fucking fast. I wish that dude the best
>get fat neet gf
>3 years later
>she loses weight and finally gets a job
>breaks up and says she's aero-ace now and just needed to be loved and have motivation while fat
>just settle for lower bros, the good ones will be jealous seeing you with the hambeasts. Like, wtf?!
My gf was obese when I got with her. I helped her lose 100+ lbs and she just worships me even more now. She looks good aside from some stretch marks. I made sure to minimize the loose skin damage.
I could tell she was something special though through her personality/character when I met her. Her reason for getting fat was also unique so I knew I wasn't making a bad choice by investing in this person. Honestly I feel for bad guys like in the OP pic that can't tell when there's a cunt under sheep's clothing. Thin girls or fat girls they will always be fucked in their partner choices. Pic related, I know exactly why he personally fucked up on his wife choice each time. I won't make that mistake.
>"(r/) things that didnt happen"
thanks for the input, reddit
even more proof women are more into material wealth than having an actual relationship
>Her reason for getting fat was also unique
??
I know you're trying to be wholesome, and it worked for a minute, but I had a really bad experience with a bigger woman that skewed my perspective.
>highly sought after in high school
>shortly after hs she lets herself go really badly
>start talking to her because she remembers me from taking naps under the tree during lunch break
>get together
>date for four years
>pay the majority of bills so she could finish college
>she gets fit and gets career
>start college and expect same
>grow apart due to her learning of the newfound attention she got
>when confronted with her new attitude change she basically says shes always been into guys with darker complections
>waitwhat where did this come from
>spends her free time talking up Puerto Rican guys on PS4
>whenever I try to have a conversation I get treated like a nuisance even though we had that best friend relationship before she lost weight
Now I'm stuck living with her due to financial reasons. Don't fall for the fat meme.
You can see the difference on how the black men and the men of other races handle child care. If you know the meme "staying close to children shrinks balls and makes you lose aggression" then it shouldn't be a surprise that black men generally lack this gene. Living in a jungle or savanna, their children survived even without their help, so those who didn't lose aggression after having child moved away and goy more children, breeding expotentionally in population compared to those who stuck to the family.
>girls you know from high school
Biggest red flag, it's even in that image. I'm sorry you have to deal with that unappreciative cunt though. You just gotta dump her. Maybe start over from scratch financially.
>Good, I hated having to fake loving you
aaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAGGGHHHH!!! THAT'S IT!!!!! EVERY LAST ROASTIE IS GETTING IT!!!
How can I live this lifestyle user? I want to birth a lot of bastard children and skip out on the woman and dodge child support. They deserve it, after all.
My guess is A medical condition that lasted for long time, and gained weight during it and had gotten in bad habits and the weight was difficult to lose.
>fatherlessness is a genetic trait of black people
you're a retard. The one-parent household debacle wouldn't be affecting white people to the insane degree it is today if this were the case. Fatherlessness stems from a degrading of social values stemming from roughly the 1960's counter-culture movements and various psychological and political movements that followed thereafter, which disproportionately affected blacks due to the Plantation agendas of late-20th century Democrats.
I'm trying. I just have to wait it out and stockpile enough money to pay for damages to my apartment and find someone decent to move in with.
I really want to move somewhere out-of-state but I don't know where people start with that kind of thing.
Legitimate question though
Lets say that I got with a girl who I thought was about the best I could get. If I got way more fit and good looking, why shouldn't I dump her for someone else?
Kill the wife and child people like this must not be allowed to procreate. Fucked mothers will just fuck up their kids so they have to die too to spare them from their misery, it's the only way.
>A medical condition that lasted for long time
eating because of depression?
>If I got way more fit and good looking, why shouldn't I dump her for someone else?
Because your relationship is a commitment.
It would hurt her if you did that.
Why are people so uncaring and callous?
why don't you just get more fit and good looking and continue punching up?
Fake and gay. MS has no cure, the nerves degenerate.
It isn't current "feel good" emotions that further society, it's loyalty and commitment that do. Go ahead if you want to, but if you want to be considered as a decent human being by the people around you then you might want to reconsider.
because it means that you've only settled with her.
>it would hurt her
yeah and it hurts businesses to need to hire a new guy and train him, that doesn't mean im going to give up a better paying job
I worked hard and my girlfriend didn't notice and keep up. If she was already fit, she didn't do anything else better to keep me around. I deserve better.
Exactly, their value system is so much diffrent from even the dictionary definition.
Look up value, values in a dictionary. Its not what women actually think.
>I worked hard and my girlfriend didn't notice and keep up
you should have realized she was this kind of person in the first place and not bothered.
"oh I made a shitty selection" isn't really a good defense on your part.
>yeah and it hurts businesses to need to hire a new guy and train him, that doesn't mean im going to give up a better paying job
Yes, but your relationship is not a business.
If you honestly believe being in a relationship is a job requirement then unironically kill yourself.
Uh ok? I made a shitty decision. Guess what, I can make another better decision.
Company loyalty exists too and future companies will wonder why you keep jumping companies for better jobs. But that doesn't mean I shouldn't move up once, twice, or three times in my life.
It's not really that easy though.
People change in relationships as shitty as the truth is. Also, you don't really see the negative aspects of someone during the "honeymoon" phase of a relationship.
That's why you see so many people have girls move in instantly with them. They see no wrong.
How is a relationship not a business? It's a basic economy of feelings. You work together because you feel better together and you want to produce something together. You feel that you can work with someone else to feel even better. You dissolve your current relationship and start that one instead.
It's exactly like a business.
It's a mating strategy developed from our hunter gatherer days that enables us to produce the hugest quality offspring by staying and teaching our skills to a small set of children. Africans, and other people who have been born into primarily agrarian societies, lack this instinct simply reproduce with as many women as possible without looking after the children. Quantity over quality.
It's disgusting there's this 4/10 gamer girl at my office and she occasionally brags to her colleagues about how she publicly told other men she wouldn't be taken just to see if she would get someone more interesting than her current bf.
>Guess what, I can make another better decision.
you've already shown you're a bad judge of character and don't do your due diligence. You'll get a better woman, one who will divorce your ass and take half your shit when she turns 30.
People definitely change in relationships, but if the foundation of the relationship isn't strong enough to survive that process you shouldn't be making that investment anyways.
It used to be that if you chose shitty you were fucking stuck with it, which granted sucked for a lot of people but was better for society than the mess we have now where people still make shit choices but also have no consequences for it and thus no impetus to form stable families
>we adopted our child raising strategies from hunter gatherer
are you retarded, do you not understand the basic history of civilization
My due diligence? The only way to know if she was going to not work as hard is if I worked hard and she didn't. That happened. I leave her. It's literally as simple as that.
>The only way to know if she was going to not work as hard is if I worked hard and she didn't
Or you could, I don't know, make this goal of yours clear by communicating with her, way before either of you commit to a relationship.
Yes, but lets say said person told me everything I did was great, laughed at my jokes, showed an interest in what I liked to do. I could stick with it or seek out something that I already have right there.
Then she gets sick of my shit and becomes a bitch even though I rode it out for months. It takes certain accumulating actions to notice that change in demeanor and personality.
For example, I strive to be a psychiatrist. I will analyze the people around me and break apart their actions and even my own to where it gets annoying. I find watching people and even myself around the opposite sex basically makes me not be myself.
You don't think straight when you're with someone you have feelings with. That's why catfishing is a thing because you put aside so much logic to make something that obviously wouldn't work, work.
People misjudge their own abilities and character all the time. Half the people on this board probably try to better themselves every other day and fail at it because they don't have the willpower. You can only test that willpower with time. You are acting like these traits are as easy to spot as skin color.
That still doesn't address my initial point. You are making an entirely different argument. If I worked harder, made myself better, I deserve someone better. You are saying "well it doesn't matter if you are better, you are going to make mistakes in the future" But that doesn't answer my question. If I worked harder, made myself better, why shouldn't I deserve someone better?
Obviously that time has passed, but the genetic makeup that produces civilisation formed from this mating strategy. It doesn't just change because we learn how to write or send rockets to the moon or some shit.
Mmm, why should i go for a fatty when Im slender?
If guys got a gun use a bigger one, if his car handles well and is fairly fast use a lighter one with a beter turbo, if he's mean and nasty be nastier but also smarter and make him feel weaker. The way I see it if a bitch is bitch then be a bigger bitch. All we gotta do is figure out how to become better at manipulation and lying and then we pick a weak target to make it easier. I am currently experementing with this fat introverted girl with some ugly ass teeth and I'm seeing if I can make her loyal. If some guys can treat their women like shit and have them give their loyalty to them then there must be other ways to do this. Beating your women won't always work and may get you in jail so I'm trying to find other ways to achieve this.
Yes but you are stating that people born into agrarian cultures lack the instinct from BEFORE the time of agrarian cultures. That's impossible.
Damn you really are a robot man
watch out faggot cause some girl might lose their shit and stab you to death
>You can only test that willpower with time. You are acting like these traits are as easy to spot as skin color.
No, I'm saying you need to take the time to test the values of people you seek to enter a serious relationship with BEFORE you enter the relationship.
It's not a difficult point to grasp.
>I deserve someone better
you don't deserve anything, nobody deserves anything. The only people who believe that they're going to be given what they "deserve" in terms of human relationships are the ones blowing themselves up for Allah.
The truth is you get what you can get for yourself, and if your idea of self-improvement doesn't include strengthening your ability to forge meaningful romantic relationships then you're going to draw a dud on your second go-around even if you've made yourself more attractive. Attractive people can be shitty, user.
>The truth is you get what you can get for yourself
Lmao ok so you just agree with me, I don't give a shit about whatever else you say
If I can get better, I get better. There we agree.
I can't comprehend of treating a relationship like the way you're doing. It doesn't make sense to me.
The reason you get into a relationship with someone is because you're in love with them, isn't it? Not because they met some checklist or quota.
Is it just me? Have I been bamboozled by anime, disney and other romance shit that I've never noticed that relationships built on genuine love and affection don't exist, and that people only get together because they view the person in front of them as the best they can do?
no, you believe superficially bettering your appearance will get you a genuinely better partner on the grounds that people who are more attractive just magically end up as (and with) better people because that's what the universe owes them
You can only improve yourself for the short term user not the long term. A 4/10 can become a 7.5/10 but they will always be 4/10 they can never truly change this and they will assume they deserve better but lots of times they don't get anything better. If you just want meaningless sex then yeah you could probably get better but if you want an actual relationship you will forever be what you are the only thing improving is gonna help you with is getting through the front door.
sad losers like that user gets into relationships because they're the best he can do (or would, if he'd ever touched a female)
What would you quantify 'love' to mean then user?
At the end of the day it's just someone who can provoke a certain chemical and thus emotional response; If you find another person that is better suited for this it only makes sense to go for them instead.
The Disney relationships just end up happening when neither partner finds someone better because their partner is already a really good match for them.
>why don't you quantify a subjective term experienced differently by different people user?
>tee hee love is just chemicals and this means something despite the fact that the tool that processes those chemicals, and their effects, are massively different in different people
But you love someone because of who they are, and how no one in the world is like them to you. You love even their faults, because that's also a part of who they are.
You're saying that you had a gf who was 20 pounds overweight, and you met someone who had all her positive qualities but was 20 punds lighter, you'd just switch over to that person?
Wtf? I'm not that user but holy shit I'm not gonna go asking out someone out because they appear to be better than the one I have currently thats fucking autistic. If it ain't broke don't fucking waste money replacing it with something better. If you've got what you need to beat the boss don't waste money getting better equipment, if your car is fast enough on the track to beat the others then don't waste money upgrading it more, don't waste time and money on something that appears to be better when the shit you got works just fine. That is literally the reason apple makes their phones more fragile now and adds updates that make their phones worse so that when the new one comes out people have to buy it because otherwise they wouldn't buy them because their current phone works just fine.
I ain't clicking that shit give me a pastebin or a tl;dr
Past a certain point of MS the nerves are just dead bits, maybe you can save it if you catch it early but no way it'd work in the situation posted earlier
He gave a simplified vague question and I gave a simplified vague answer.
I know it's more complex than that, but realistically the fact that different brains respond to stimuli in different ways doesn't really make my statement wrong per se
In a vaccuum with no consequences for breaking up, maybe so. I don't think being 20 pounds lighter is a great example but if you find someone who's enough of a better match for you to justify leaving your current partner and dealing with those consequences then I would only argue that it makes sense.
It was bound to happen, women and men that have self worth alike would feel worthless if they are taken care of and treated like that, so the girl was bound to lose affection to you and fuck other guys. not that the thing the girl did was any forgivable.
This sounds like bullshit. If there were such amazing therapies and treatments for MS that made people walk again, it would be a lot more well known.
Your analogy makes sense, I'm saying you want to do a cost-benefit analysis and figure out if being happier with a better partner is worth the consequences of breaking up with your current one.
Yeah alright that makes sense. Welp I don't see anything thing to argue with that so have a nice day or night user.
My gf in highschool was a tubby, sucked dick great but had been with several other guys before me.She cheated on me like the slut she was, and we both moved on.
I've been dating 6.5/10 black women for nearly 2 years now, but it's not race mixing cause we are both jewish.
Actually depressing, god damn it user almost made me cry for the poor lad
Like I said above it ain't true. Such treatments for MS don't exist.
>HURR DURR EVERYTHING ON INTERNET IS MADE UP
A highly experimental treatment only tried in 24 patients, in the last two years. Only works for some types of MS and when caught in very early stages.
It's literally all there in the article, if you read past the headline. Someone who can't even wipe their own arse and bathe isn't going to be fucbtiinibg like normal again
Jennifer Molson receiced her treatmeant back in 2002 though.
Not gonna say that story is 100% real, but it's not completely impossible either
this just tells me she got with someone she didn't really care for
maybe she would be loyal to chad from the past
Unless the person that the dude posted about was one of the 24 people in the world to revieve this treatment, I say it's BS.
Plus according to the story she was already at a point where she couldn't even bathe or wipe herself. Way past point of no return. Such a miraculous reversal would have been a lot more known about
And of those 24 people, only 9 saw reversal in their conditions.
Sorry but the story is BS.
Fat women can still get 7/10 guys.
Robots can't aim that high for a gf.
The silver lining is she's never going to be happy or fulfilled if those are the things she's seeking.
Material goods are like porn and video games for women. She has no mental connection with her man and a slight "upgrade" won't change that.
Lol, what kind of treatment is it? I know somehow that would love to know it.
oh wait, there isn't
This is probably the thing that puts me off dating the most. This idea of "trading up", where people treat their relationship like a business and they're ready to just switch partner at the drop of a hat if they perceive a chance to get with someone of better "value", giving no regard to the feelings of their inital partner. If you can just drop a person so easily then how deep could your connection even have been in the first place? What do you even value in life if you can act in such an uncaring and wanton manner towards someone whom you supposedly love? What's the point of a relationship at that stage, if it's entirely shallow and any act of affection is just for show?
>If you can just drop a person so easily then how deep could your connection even have been in the first place?
That means settling for someone.