Simple question,how do you know you are attractive? Can some hot anons give examples of your daily life?
How different is it from being ugly?
to keep it Jow Forums related,why isnt there an universal routine that trains all muscles and its based on others people results? i thought muscle grow was simple
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you will always be ugly because you'll always be comparing yourself to somebody you feel is more beautiful and your standards are subjective
If you have to ask you aren't
wrong,by that logic brad pitt can be ugly.
Well look in the mirror, if you think you are attractive then you are. Why do you want validation from other people?
But to know you are attractive, on occassion girls will smile at you in an "omg you're so hawt " kind of way. Girls will sometimes ask for your number, sometimes they will stare at you etc.
Example, i go to this indian curry shop, theres this qte there that always smiles at me, even when im with other girls.
Do the omegle test
>grab pen and paper
>go on omegle with your face showing front-on
>mark down one tally (A) for girls you come across
>mark down one tally (B) for girls who dont skip you and say "hi" or whatever
>divide B by A and * 100
>percentage score is how good looking you are /100
>longer you do it for, bigger the sample size and more accurate your score
Report your scores anons. Make sure to get the sample size over at least 20
>indian curry shop
get out of my thread
This im hawt and can confirm
>tfw my date the other night said I looked kinda of like Ryan Reynolds
I'll take it.
dont let females fool you and run game on you retard,she is playing you
I used to have randoms telling me I should model when I worked in retail. I had random high school girls taking creeper shots of me on buses when I lived in Japan. Now I'm back in ausfailia I have students straight up telling me I'm handsome and going bright red if I lean over them to correct their work.
On a related topic i did model for a bit when i was in japan. Got paid 2k for a 1 day shoot for a suzuki ad they ended up not running. Good times.
Bump
That means she would cuck you for Ryan Reynolds
thats exactly the point you fucking retard
who wouldnt
I'm a 19 year old girl with a meehh 7/10 face and a 8/10 body. I work out 5 days a week and maintain a healthy weight. I was born blessed with thick thighs that dont touch and natural tone (before even working out). Guys I have dated would always talk about my butt and thighs. I also genetically have some nice hair and clear skin, which contributes to my attractiveness.
I live in a massive city and I'm talked to about once a day by at least one guy (I spend 70% of my day outside or on transit so I walk by hundreds of people each day) When I lived in a smaller city outside of LA, however, I didn't get approached ever; maybe cat called once a week or so by a passing car.
It's pretty nice. Men treat me extra nice. Sometimes I'm unsure if a guy just wants to fuck me or actually is interested in my personality. You could compare it to being rich (though I am definitely not) in that you are unsure if people really truly like you. One downside is getting stared at by creepy dudes, I really hate that. But I'd take it over being unattractive I guess. I do enjoy being the most attractive woman in a room at least 30% of the time. When I had an OkCupid my inbox filled in 2 days, and I couldn't keep up with messages.
You know you are attractive if people give you extra attention and constantly tell you you are beautiful, without seeking it. I even have girls approach me and tell me I'm cute.
pic unrelated
>inb4 humble bragger show tits
>tfw girls are only attracted to me when they are drunk
the rule is pretty simple. If you have to ask, you're not attractive. Simply put, if you were attractive you would have received feedback while out in society
>tfw a girl likes you
Well if you aren't going to post tits, at least show us the rest of what you're working with.
Not the first time I was told there was a resemblance with him either. So there's some truth to it. She ain't fooling either. We kissed/made out before parting ways for the night.
>Girls who work in the hospitality service are friendly to me
Dude they're friendly to everyone. It's literally the job description
>But this is different
No ur coping
I seconded this motion
It sickens me a little bit how easy and pampered the life or a roastie is.
I try not to be misogynistic but when i hear shit like this it reveals to me how unbalanced dating and society is in favour of women.
Like, if you arent larping im sure you're a perfectly nice girl but the idea that you've never had to work for any kind of attention or validation makes me think theres a big part of you that is still a child in terms of mentality and maturity.
I think this is where the 'fat girls have nice personalities' meme comes from because they have had to build character through hardship and lack of validation while girls like you coast by in life being handed everything and told you're unique, special and inherintly valuable.
Im sure you'll hit me with the 'hurr ive been working out ive worked for my body so therefore ive earned it all' shit but im sure you'd be treated similarly if you just went through life without getting fat.
>Sometimes I'm unsure if a guy just wants to fuck me or actually is interested in my personality
Post sexy legs please sexy user
if a guy for example comes and try to pick you up lets say hes a 7 to 8/10 would you give him a shot if hes game was on point
Does compliments from hotter man feels different to you than creeps
am I handsome fit?
>asking for a straight answer from a roastie
dude shes just gonna say "personality is important, ive dated 5/10s blah blah blah, but looks DO matter a bit"
as her selective memory kicks in and she forgets all of the chads she fell for and fucked.
show me ur belly :3
stop taig shitty selfies and grow out your hair
>the fat girls have nice personalities meme
This is sorta true, at least if the girl is still kinda young and hasnt gotten too bitter from a lifetime of being fuggo. The best compromise seems to be find a just slightly autistic nice chubby girl and then get her to get in shape. Best of both worlds desu
>Oh but those were just flings they weren't serious
Grunteeed
Alright, question:
Under these rules I'm not attractive. Ive always considered myself average, but fit. Been working out ever since I got bullied in high school and had people comment on it. But I never get women smiling at me.
Yet, I never had that much an issue getting women once I get my game on.
But here's the kicker, I've gotten this comment from women when I've hung out with them a few times:
>"Please user. You know you're hawt."
In my head I'm like, "uh, no I'm not. I'm just fit and average."
So I dunno. I think I'm average and am confident and can be charming, but I get looks sometimed and women will engage me at bars and such.
But I never ever get smiled at. I'll get looks. But never a smile.
Female anons help me out? Am I attractive physically? What's the read I'm getting?
It depends on what a 7 or 8 means. To me guys like Martin Shkreli, Moot, or Morrissey are solid 8s. A lot of girls would disagree.
Also is this a party or on the street? I reject any guy on the street just because it freaks me out, but if this was like at a convention I'd stick around.
I think looks are important but like I said, my tastes aren't weird but theyre a little different. You have a point though, so many girls I used to be friends with in high school were like this. I share your anger. Just be honest and say you'd fuck James Deen.
unabomber/10, absolutely beautiful
Once in a while a hot girl will ask me out in public. I don't get most of the benefits of looking hot because I apparently am hot in a 'crazy' way that puts people off enormously, except this small cadre of hot chicks who are attracted to it and will overcome their anxiety to approach me.
Whenever i do get asked out I get a huge ego boost, but I only follow through if this takes place at a bar when Im drunk, because my life is such incredibly bad shape that i have no self-esteem when sober.
The other thing that happens is men become hyper butthurt when interacting with me if their gfs are present
I'd probably have sex with Ryan Reynolds and I am a straight Christian man.
I hate your hair, grow it out. Otherwise 7.2/11
>Martin Shkreli
>solid 8
>????
He's below average height, has a weird face but an okay chin. Hes a fine weight and has an alright style. I would say any more than a six is pushing it.
I know, everyone disagrees with me. But after I saw him in that shitty vice interview I had a big crush on him. If I admit I like short guys no one will believe me but I like guys 5'7- 6'1.
>To me guys like Martin Shkreli, Moot, or Morrissey are solid 8
I went on omegle and all i saw were dudes jerkin their penors off.
Where the bitches at
I would literally kill and eat her
People will bring it up in casual conversation e.g:
>milf dentist: "you're a good looking boy, you have an ideal profile"
>receptionist at dentist to co-worker: "isn't he gorgeous"
>friend after his gf said she remembers me from somewhere: "i don't blame you, he's a handsome guy"
I was deeply insecure about my appearance (body dismorphia made me think i'm uggo when i'm really not). I remember being my usual introverted self at a house party and kinda wandering around not talking too much and some extroverted life of the party chad pulled me aside and said "you look good mate, the girls think you're very good looking". I think he could sense I was insecure and wanted to help me out. Very bro tier guy.
Also some indicators I've noticed:
>often catch girls (and guys) staring in public
>people willing to sit near to me in lecture halls/public transportation. recently had a group of four 15/16year old girls sit in the seats directly to the left and in front of me on an otherwise empty bus, i stared out the window the whole time like an autismo
>when talking 1 on 1 to girls they often get wide-eyed and smile a lot
>guys give me more respect, i.e. treat me like I have high value
>when dancing in clubs girls seem to gravitate towards me, last time i went a girl pushed her and her friend directly in front of me and started grinding on me, i just smiled and stared at the DJ
I'm still a virgin at 22 as i'm autismo, but all this positivity is helping me improve
It's honestly subjective, if you find yourself hot there's a good chance you are, and that confidence is sexy in and of itself.
Sometimes people will stop me and tell me I'm the prettiest person they've ever seen and friends often say how they wish they had my features. DESU I probably have a 7/10 face, but a 10/10 body, which helps make me look more attractive overall.
I used to be really ugly in high school, mainly due to lack of self care and baggy clothes. People no longer fuck with me like they did in high school and I more easily command attention. People go out of their way to help me more, and I find I'm offered more opportunities than people who are equally as intelligent as me.
Being a late bloomer just makes it sweeter, since you know how it feels to be treated as an uggo, suddenly being elevated is so much better than falling off the wagon
This.
Sorry uggos, there is only ONE way to know if your attractive and no amount of looking in the mirror, analysing selfies or /soc/ rate me threads will tell you otherwise. If you want to know if you're attractive, this is how you know:
People regularly tell you.
That doesn't mean random people will come up to you in the street and tell you (although that might happen), but when you go out, women will complement your appearance, you will hear second hand information (user thinks you're so hot etc), female friends will tell you etc.
But it has to be consistent because you're only attractive if you're attractive to the majority of the population
I don't smile at guys unless they smile first, but I will make eye contact. Try a small smirk first and if she copies you she's probably into you
Couldn't agree more mate life is fucking sweet right now. Like kissing a girl is a huge achievement for me and because of the struggle I've had to endure for years before I could finally do it, the reward so much more gratifying.
Huh.
I was under impression that they'd smile first. Maybe I grew up watching too many dumb gum commercials.
Thing is sometimes I'll catch women doing the stare and they'll look away. If I smirk won't I look like an ass?
Man, I'm never going to learn how to pick up women in public.
I look away when I'm shy, and I guess smirk wasn't the right word, more so a half smile. Even if they look away, their probably still watching if they're checking you out
i see evidence that hot girls get crushes on me or are interested in real life
but in photos i look like a fucking ogre
Very nice brah, sounds like I’m not quite as attractive as you are but I’m having some similar experiences. Girl I was talking to on tinder just straight up offered a blowjob a couple weeks back and I said fuck it and met her. Got to talking and she was really nice and was literally mouth wide open speechless when I told her I was a virgin. Waiting for a serious relationship to lose mine personally. We’re all gonna make it brah
you know you're attractive to some degree if you get matches on tinder with a normal smiling picture no filters or anything
>pic related my tinder pic
Le Creature
It really is subjective. But generally I suppose people smile at you with their eyes, that and the smile just seems more genuine. A lot of those blogs and posts about this subject will discuss body language (i.e. touching you, mimicking you), but I rarely observe this.
A few strangers usually middle aged receptionists have told me I'm very handsome, one at VA asked if I was a model and what the hell I was doing in a place like that. A lot of people also tend to smile at me, then again that just might be them returning the smile I give them. One of my exes thought I was extremely attractive and went out of her way to talk to me. The other one, who I thought hated my guts, apparently had a huge crush on me and thought I was hot. Older guys and other male co-workers have also commented that I am attractive.
Yet on the other hand all these occurrences don't happen all that often, as I'm sure I'm unattractive to others and more importantly, that most people won't go out of their way to compliment you. There are other things that can make you attractive though, such as passion and love for something. See: youtu.be
She's already cute, but when she smiles and does what she loves, well she gets on a whole new level. But in the end, the person's whose opinion matters the most is your own.
Also pickle related.
how much i gotta deadlift to get a gf alternatively how many of your friends would date guys shorter than them or minimum height they would date
i hate smiling with teeth it feels so weird i can do like the smug half smirk but anything else feels unnatural
If Moot wasn't a skellington he would legitimately be a solid 8-9 though so that's understandable
Not true
Not subjective
But anyways you will care less when you grow up, kids. Less insecurity and more about money then
Me and you are on the same journey man. I could probably fuck a club sloot very easily if I put some effort into it but where's the joy in that. I've waited this long, why not hold out a little while longer until I meet a qt I connect with so I can have a beautiful first experience. We really are gonna make it
How to get into modeling in Japan? Living in Tokyo now and have thought about it
Thanks for the sorely needed insight femanon.
>Even if they look away, their probably still watching if they're checking you out.
Haha. Yup. I get that and then I lose my nerve because I have no clue what to do.
Guess it's time to get a thicker skin and time to practice this. Man this is going to be painful.
Agreed, i feel like an idiot wearing a mask.
im an above average buff asian dude thats 5 9. great jaw, long flowing hair, tan and buff. get mired by pale cuties and soygirls for some reason.
>recently had a group of four 15/16year old girls sit in the seats directly to the left and in front of me on an otherwise empty bus
>tfw this will never happen to me
>tfw just a mask wearing an idiot
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I'm 5'9" and my dad is shorter than my mom so height never really bothered me. While a weight lifter like me eyes guys up if their form or max is stellar (there was this blond guy who had the most perfect squat form, almost went over and asked for tips) to most its less about the weight and whether or not you can pick them up and make them feel tiny
I believe in you user!
Yeah you are. If that even is you
post your butt/legs
if you were to see a guy with a solid 8/10 face who looked good in clothes checking you out, what would your internal reaction be?
I get matches on Tinder without having pictures of me smiling.
lmao do people actually believe this? Let's not even get into the fact that bots swipe literally anybody. Real test based off tinder, big city 1k+ matches, otherwise 500+
am I ugly? be honest
How much does a low bodyfat factor into being attractive?
hnngggg
yes
HOLY SHIT that gif
is this bait or are you blind?
Pretty happy, confidence boost for sure. Would definitely think about it for the next 2 minutes until something else happens within my vision. Would be too nervous to talk, though.
thighs?
thisor pits
What if you have no friends and don't talk to girls except when you're buying groceries?
For example, usually I look them in the eye and they either smile and maintain eye contact in which case I stare at them until they stop smiling, or they look down and pretend to be doing stuff with the till.
Quite a bit. It can certainly help a face that isn't attractive by bringing out your sharp angles and jaw line. Personally I notice a lot more smiles and looks from girls when I'm near 10% body fat at the end of a cut versus a bulk when I go in the 15% to 18% body fat range.
oh look another weirdo with a pit fetish like me! i can’t stand what porn did to me. watching a girl ohp or stretch in the gym always gets me diamonds and i can’t look away. truly a fucking curse
am i attractive?
This so much, cut life best life
outgoing women and sluts are the only source of such information then
yeah husband tier face, no homo obv, would be ur friend
fucking asanagi did it to me that bastard and his talented hands
sure is /soc/ in here
>standards are subjective
look up the phi ratio mask faggot. objective beauty is inherent to nature.
basicly, if you can easily, and succesfully flirt with anyone of the opposite sex, youre probably attractive, i figured it out in highschool ended up doing a lot of turning down every homecoming
Why do you care about being physically attractive? That just attracts thots.
I had a mate who put me in touch withwith a few agencies who specifically deal with gaijin talent. Give me a minute to dig through my email and line and I'll see if i can give you details.
What would you classify as creepy staring? I'm scared I'm (((that))) guy
Silly user
Found one of them. Remix-model.co.jp.
They're based in shinagawa. The guy i dealt with mostly was Hiro Okada. His English was pretty good.