I've had alot of talks about creepy dudes with people lately and it still amazes me that some people still think the worst that happens is some guy grabs your ass and buys you drinks.
After turning a guy down in a few years ago and having him slam my head on the bar top for saying no, I got home to my friend freaking out about what had happened while I was still calm, and that's when I caught myself saying one of the most terrifying things; "its okay, I'm used to it."
I've had guys trip me over, steal my wallet and phone out of my bag until I said yes, pinned to the wall by my throat, feet kicked out from under me, my ribs dislocated, wrist twisted, I've been hit, slapped, followed home, verbally abused and so much more, just for turning down guys and saying no.
Harassment is still so much more real than alot of people notice. I don't think I have a single female friend who hasn't been assaulted in some way. It's not something we talk about often, but it's just a reality in life that we've come to accept that you're not always as safe as you think going out.
So if your ever out with a girl and they tell you that someone is making them feel uncomfortable. Understand why that guy that is "too drunk" and "a little flirty" makes us feel uneasy. They may be harmless, but they may be the guy that gets angry when they get turned down and hurts people.
Creepy dudes are still very real. Don't be that guy, and don't be the guy that doesn't take girls feeling unsafe lightly either.
Robots aren't the ones doing that to you though femanon. Those are probably Brads. Sorry you had to deal with that shit.
Nicholas Jackson
I wish hiro gives us a male only board. women literally ruined every make community they force themselves into
Adrian Sullivan
Why not try and get with said females on this board, huh? HUH? You some sorta fag?!
Zachary Anderson
Assuming this isnt a larp.....Where have you come across these types of men? I have no doubt they exist, just curious really.
Justin Ramirez
learn self defense or carry a weapon or just use your voice. your a victim because you let yourself be a victim. shit TON of ways to protect yourself.
Jaxson Collins
Wrong crowd leave roastie
Brandon Gray
Not OP but literally everywhere. I get harassed at both the train and train station a lot. They're just random strangers.
She's not asking you for ways to avoid harassment, she's telling you guys that being literally assaulted by guys trying to fuck you is not "easy mode". It's funny that you always call us attention whores, but then insist that you're so desperate you'd be grateful for that level of attention. It's not fun, it's literally dangerous and scary.
Jeremiah Powell
i feel like this roastie whore is only telling half the story. i bet some of these dudes she rejected were turned down so hard and uncallingly that they had an outburst. what a fucking normie thread fuck off. learn to turn people down nicely
Isaiah Howard
Men are pretty much the greatest threat to women, it's a wonder you guys even talk to us
Chase Turner
If you're burning coal, you pay the toll. It's as easy as that. >inb4 nuh uh it was all whites
Jackson Gomez
>I've had guys trip me over, steal my wallet and phone out of my bag until I said yes, pinned to the wall by my throat, feet kicked out from under me, my ribs dislocated, wrist twisted, I've been hit, slapped, followed home, verbally abused and so much more, just for turning down guys and saying no.
I guarantee you, 100 fucking absolute percent, that none one of the guys who did any of those things was an incel.
Not one.
That was all Chad abuse, dear. Those were normie actions.
Oliver Johnson
where was your husband to protect you? oh that's right you are a roastie and act provocatively to find beta orbiters because you enjoy attention just like you are doing right now on a board known for thirsty men fishing for (you)s 8/10 bait
i used to think OP was bullshit but then I lived in an arab neighborhood with my gf and she kept getting harassed until i got into two fights to get them to stop
Luis Jones
Because they don't want us >don't be that guy Yeah too bad I don't go to parties, let alone know how to talk to women, the worst thing that would happen if I was rejected after somehow mouthing the words to ask you out, would be saying "y-you too" and then briskly walking away and then tripping over myself and start crying. Go away, leave me alone.
Blake Peterson
>Not OP but literally everywhere. I get harassed at both the train and train station a lot. They're just random strangers.
Oh bullshit.
I have ridden public transportation in Boston, New York, Washington DC, and Chicago as a commuter for work.
Every day, on every ride, I was always acutely and totally aware of every cute girl within 100 feet of me and what they're doing. Every one. Even the ones behind me.
"What is that cute girl doing at exactly this moment?" is pretty much always at the forefront of my mind. I'm observing what's going on.
And I have never - not once, not in thousands of commutes - seen someone get harassed. Never.
Nobody talks to anyone. Ever. If you happen to leave work early, maybe a bunch of black kids will get on the train if school just let out, and those kids may talk to each other or to other people they encounter. If not, absolute silence and a complete lack of activity is the rule.
Maybe harassment occasionally occurs, but if it was anywhere CLOSE to as common as hyper-fearful hysterical girls claim, I would have statistically HAD to have seen it at least once. And I've never seen it. Ever.
William Hall
Dating the kind of delusional woman who has rape fantasies about public transportation on Jow Forums will only fuck your life up even more user. Fucking eggwhite won't bang bitches from r9k, that's why fitizens turn fitfags.
Anthony Perez
This. Sorry other train girl you're bullshitting hard.
Joshua James
I've seen it once. It was some weirdo Albanian. Was groping some "sluttily dressed" woman who didn't even acknowledge him. I was gonna say somthing but I was 15/16 and he must've been in his 20s.
I'm also a girl and you speak the truth. When you're on the train or subway, you don't talk or even make eye contact with somebody unless you're mentally ill or they're your friend/partner. I ride the rain all the time and the worst I get is getting stared at.
Cameron Clark
I live in washington dc. I ride to the end of some lines late at night and also have to pass through nigger areas during low-traffic periods. Every time I was harassed there were other people around me, they just didn't do a single thing to intervene. They were doing their own things, wearing headphones, not facing me, or simply didn't care.
Once at L'enfant a group of 'nogs surrounded me and started pulling my backpack to knock me off balance. When I forcefully told them to get off of me they pushed me towards the edge of the platform and I had to regain my footing, push past one of them, and run to the lower floor to get away from them
At another time a guy approached me in a train station and flashed me a wad of cash, trying to convince me to go to dinner with him. I told him I wasn't interested, he grabbed me around the waist and started tounge-kissing me until I removed his hands from my waist and pushed him off. This was when i was 16, he is an old man, it was in a very busy (union station) train station, many people looked at us (which was humiliating) but nobody intervened.
The last time that comes to mind was on a train late at night a (very drunk/high) guy came up to me, put his hand on my thigh and asked me what I'd do to him if he tried to steal a kiss. I told him I'd call the police and he lunged toward me, I ducked it, squirmed onto the floor, then ran out at the next stop. There was an old man facing me and 2 other people on the train but they didn't do anything.
Elijah Sanchez
didnt know the public at large was supposed to be your private security detail. honestly if what you say is true, why not move to a non-shithole? i know DC is fucking trash when it comes to self-defense laws, why not move to a place where people have manners and you can blast them if they misbehave?
