I seriously believe the world is hopeless.
Since I was a kid I never really got to speak to people at all, never actually made friends, and the only one I say I had came to me. Even then we just kinda stopped talking to each other after a bit.
Trying to reflect back on that people apparently don't really like my attitude when they speak to me, like its too blunt. Like, they greet me and I'd say "What do you want?" People don't seem to like that but why would you talk to someone if you got nothing to do with them?
I'm also apparently insensitive, being unphased to stuff that makes others around me sick and uncomfortable, but I can't really provide an example of that because I don't get it enough to know.
I don't really like other people, or maybe I don't really get them, because I always think they have selfish and ulterior motives and desires in the end. I don't think that I'm better than others though, because I'm not above pretending to be nice if I get something out of it.
I have been told that to go see a Therapist, but I don't see a point. I just can't get over the fact that I had to pay for someone to listen to me. Reading manga and such the situation always seems to resolve happily and it does make me feel a little better inside until I remember its fiction, the story is closed and that it's not going to change, so I find it hard to relate to it when the world is constantly changing. Besides, its still fiction, it probably won't happen here anyways.
I seriously believe the world is hopeless
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i would say go to a therapist desu
it seems retarded to go to someone for psychological help but it's actually pretty important
i was torturing my pets before i got help and now i have friends n stuff
Sounds like depression, or maybe even schizo. You really should see a therapist user. You might not see a point now, but that's only because your brain isn't functioning properly
Why should someone who doesnt really talk go to theraphy?
its because he doesnt talk is why he should go get help
Stop acting like his situation can change. He doesnt talk so how would talking fix that?
Woah user, it really sounds like I wrote this except for the manga. Do you wanna talk and see how our lives relate?
I really don't get why people tell me to go to a therapist to begin with. It's not like I do anything cruel or illegal to myself or others. I don't think I'm not thinking straight, because I don't really think about much at all except for stuff i posted before.
It's not that I don't want to talk, its just that it that people don't seem to like talking with me and thus I don't really get to hold conversations for long.
Not talking and not knowing how to talk to others are serious developmental issues. Humans are a social organism. There are many cases were we actually think as a collective, and there are experiments to show this is true.
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Two examples.
You should go see a therapist if you have insurance. If you don't Then I'm not sure what is good advice. Read up about your mental issues and try to study some logic. You'll need to be very self aware of your thinking to identify bad habits and replace them.
so do you want to talk with people or are you fine the way you are?
>he doesnt talk so how would talking fix that
are you retarded?
>People don't seem to like that but why would you talk to someone if you got nothing to do with them?
I can relate, but I got few internet friends even if we don't do anything but chatting. I don't play games, so there's pretty much nothing we can do together. It works tho. I don't know how, but it does. I met them long time ago and we are still chatting frequently.
>I have been told that to go see a Therapist, but I don't see a point. I just can't get over the fact that I had to pay for someone to listen to me.
If you need someone who listen to you I can help, but if you're looking for friendship and your not willing to rant about whatever, share your feelings, opening up or finding something worth to say... ehh, good look user.
I don't like to tell people about myself too, so I don't know how I managed to get these few friends but I did. I wasn't looking for them when they come to me. I suppose that if you want to make friends you should put an effort to trust them and tell them about your problems, your interests and trust them more than you should. It's difficult and you know it.
Well I do want to talk with people but I don't much of a point of doing it without a reason. I always assume someone wants something from me when they speak to me, and usually, what they want is why they spoke to me.
The world is a blessing for the strong. Be strong. Complaining does nothing. Dying is just a waste of the opportunity you have. You must learn to love life for yourself, by yourself, and find your happiness entirely on your own before relying on others.
Human interaction is mostly made of appearances and insecurities. As much as you can feel yourself being judged, others fear judgement too. People on this board love to bitch, but deep within they arent interested in changing their social status, because that requires compromise. It requieres being mindful and alert all the time. However, as painful as it is, we humans are social creatures and we crave company in one way or another.
The world is not hopeless. Whatever moral you believe humanity is trashing, is a human moral, and thus gives dignity to the human species itself to consider it. Whatever horrible path you think we are going towards, people who strive to be good still exist, and will. The light shines. And even if it didnt, I know the light shines within me and thus I have no concerns for the actions of others.
cant get if you are roleplaying or insane
It's not as if I'm sitting around doing nothing about it since the start, its just that eventually I guess I gave up on trying to be happy myself and just go on in life. I never really had much of a social life to start with, so I ended up not caring about my social status or what others think of me at some point.
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if you actually thought the world is hopeless you wouldnt have come here to post all that unless you don't truely believe it.
you just really want someone to listen to you
go to a therapist, sure they get paid for it but they're still people too, able to be empathetic to your situation and such.
the point is to not be a lonely autistic self hating fag rotting away in solitude. If you want to stay that then by all means ignore all the advices anons gave you
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Its not much user though I want to hug you *hug*. You've really been through a lot, haven't you?
I feel the same, OP. I believe that people are just too shallow to even attempt communicating with them, and as a result I cut myself from people who I deem as shallow. I've cut a lot of relationships in my past, but I still have a number of close friends that I center myself around. If you can, you might want to find those people who aren't extremely shallow. People who you share interests with and can stand being around. But if you can't be bothered to find anyone then yeah I would recommend therapy. Literally anyone who will listen to your troubles is better than no-one.