Tfw you realize having friends is a prerequisite to ever having a gf
So what do you gymcels do outside of the gym? I lift 5-6 days a week but don't have a training partner. Other than that it's work (night shift) and that's I really have time to do work and gym.
protip: what you think of when you think of a "gf" is a girl that you want, not a girl that fits you
you don't need friends to have a gf, but the gf you can have is ugly and autistic as fuck - basically a girl on the same level of attractiveness as you
therefore, you can look for a girl like that or stay alone, but if you choose the latter you should stop complaining. it's not like you can get a 100k car if you make 10k, so why act like the world owes you a cute gf if you're a shitter nobody likes or wants to see?
why doesn't entire Jow Forums seem to understand this at all?
Get a hobby obviously.
>Tfw you realize having friends is a prerequisite to ever having a gf
More excuses. Stop letting your views of society dictate your life, pussy.
I just want the ass.I don't want a GF. If I could have sex casually with a wide variety of women I would be satisfied.
I've had many girlfriends but never had a friend.
no friends is a major red flag for a person
Are long painted nails exclusive to roasties?
>Implying I would want anything to do with a women with a nose ring.
Money and looks trumps everything else.
>tfw gf is another socially-sorta-competent loner with 1 or 2 actual friends
yuss
I moved back in with my parents 3 weeks ago.
It was the best time to move out of my flat where I studied to find someone to move in (new semester and all)
My social skills deteriorate on a daily basis. I wake up, drink one liter of coffee,go to the gym, come back, cook, work on my final report and go to bed
Sh..shut up!
the first post is as per usual, the best post
>Tfw you realize having friends is a prerequisite to ever having a gf
No it's not. I don't have any friends and tell every girl I meet or on dating profiles that I "just moved in to the city for work" and don't know anyone
for me its often a green flag, but i am celibate, with no friends, and a man, and watch anime, and have autism.
how do i get friends?
plz respond
Honestly how am I supposed to have friends if I moved after college to a new job?
How did you meat
What horse shit is this. Ever heard of the mysterious cool guy?
I stopped hanging/talking to my friends because I can’t be bothered and I’m busy. So it’s as if I have no friends currently but women are still attracted to me, I’m dating one now.
Because society is wrong.
How? If you act socially confident and acceptable around your girlfriend she’ll assume you are capable of making friends but don’t want to.
Getting new friends when as an adult is genuinely pretty hard. You have to force yourself into social situations. I made quite a few from rock climbing, there's always people hanging around the gym between climbs and people are usually friendly. Also competent belayers are always needed
>tfw one of my three good friends is moving back here, so my total friend count is skyrocketing 50%, from 2 to 3
we're all gonna make it brahs
>you're a shitter nobody likes or wants to see?
what does other people not wanting to see you have to do with your relationship with a girl.
besides if you're attractive or rich you can have girl no problem while being socially awkward
Why are you assuming that only people who are ugly, unattractive, dumb, lazy, etc. have no friends?
Be my friend please, I know how to belay. But I'm too autistic to make friends with people at my gym and just ask the staff to belay for me
>why are you assuming that reality is true?
>it's impossible to groom and workout without friends
>it's impossible to have a decent career/job without friends
>it's impossible to educate yourself and learn new things without friends
>>it's impossible to be a decent person without friends
yes it is basically impossible. those things are highly correlated
start living in real world
>the mysterious cool guy
Jow Forums autists aren't that guy
I'm sure there's a high-correlation. Doesn't make any of that impossible. You're also spouting this shit on Jow Forums, where autism intersects with self-improvement. Most of the people here give a shit about making themselves stronger, smarter, better, etc., making this the absolute worst audience imaginable for your generalizations.
Fuck off.
It’s impossible to be a functioning, healthy human being without friends. The person you’re describing is Patrick Bateman.
you dont need friends at all, you need barely anything, women are completely retarded
this guy
>brb getting real education, a good job, socially acceptable and interesting hobbies and somehow not connecting with other people
Definitely, hobbies and sports are the best way to make friends. Pick something that's semi-popular in your area and give it a shot.
No it's not. Making friends is not pre/corequisite to any of the things I mentioned. And you clearly didn't understand the movie, either.
Acquaintances and friends aren't the same thing. I can have people I talk to at work, the gym, school, or where I pursue hobbies without being friends with them.
What if you do have friends but they're just as autistic as you are? Mine are all guys who are shut-ins like me.
These. I'm Jow Forums, average looking, and making good money. I'm good at talking to people, but tfw still no gf. This shit is like the opposite of the halo effect, assuming that attractive people are successful: assuming that all unsuccessful people are ugly.
You're right. I know you're right. I know I'm a hateful person that doesn't deserve nice shit to happen to him. And still I resent you for stating this.
how do i, as a 32 year old khv, get a gf?
Neither my gf or me have any friends
But she's my best friend so that's nice
Get one from Thailand
this
fix yourself or die alone
how do i become attractive to get the girl i want?
your post is useless buddy
t.social construction of reality fag wants us to believe in his 'truth' which he fantasizes that he has the position of power to permeate into society when in reality his own 'truth' is just as contestable as the rest of us.
if you want a cute gym wheyfu girlfriend then your going to have to put in work to get one
this is so fucking wrong and entitled. your oing to get a shittier gf not because of your body, but because you're a shallow asshole who judges his relationship partners value based on their physical appearance.
you're the same kind of guy who thinks a girl has to fuck him if he takes her on 3 dates and buys her drinks. Enjoy your pond-depth wife.
Nice greasy faced robot whore in the middle.
Enjoy your ban edgiboi
i hope ur rich dude
I knew this a long time ago. I deserve to die alone. Every girl that liked me ended up hating me. The reason I wanted a gf is because of jealousy towards people who talk about their gfs/wives but the reality is that I can't stand with anybody for a long time. I am a very selfish person.
god fit has gone downhill. look at you.
everything is a red flag if you want it to be faggot
Luckily I'm a brown guy from a good family, so I'll get an arranged marriage with a qt virgin in a few years
t. underage NEET
After you have had to move around the country 6 times in 10 years for your work you stop giving a shit about making friends because you know you are going to have to abandon them soon.
The second one is true though. Connections are everything.
>own a sport bike
>random people always talking to me about it in the parking lot
>only people i talk to are from work at work
I realized this after cheating on my fourth girlfriend
Go to a bar on a Saturday night at around 11 and make friends with the dudes playing darts, an actual bar not the 20 something make me a dackery shit
Fuckers are reliable as hell and will pull your ass out of anything if you ever get in trouble
Because porn has tricked us into thinking that in order to be alpha, we must fuck a 10/10 big tit Stacy.
what if you've got friends, but not many?
Bateman is a book character ffs
this is objectively untrue. although, maybe it's true for a 10/10 gf, I wouldn't know
just get a fleshlight
much cheaper
>this is objectively untrue
can you explain why? Never had a gf but wouldn't they be extremely turned off if they get to know you and realise you don't have (many?) friends?
Really depends on the girl. The more they’re into typical girl shit and social media, clothes, going out, etc. the more important it will be. But plenty of girls aren’t Staceys.
Damn. Straight fire right off the top! woo.
guys I got a gf
>>>r/eddit
People think talking to girls is so hard
You just say hi and then ask a bunch of questions.
>khv
explain
I've noticed that this works IN PERSON but while texting them before meeting in person, this doesn't work nearly as good. Girls can talk for themselves for hours in person with you just giving them open questions of the right sort. Try that shit texting and they could be total shit at it.
I wish the only way for me to meet girls wasn't off fucking tinder because I prefer face to face talking as opposed to the fake interesting personality you have to cultivate to get them to meet up with you if done online first
no its fucking not
my condolences