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Sapporo 22oz please Bartender. Greetings from your Disc.
Welcome to the bar. Sit back and relax with some anons
Saved. Thanks user. I will wait for some other patrons, but how you been bartender?
Bartender, some Jagermeister please
I've been alright. Nothing special
>28 now
>catching feels for a straight thot
>life comes at you fast gotta be a big man
>Made the most money i ever have this year
>Can confirm that money does not make you happy
Take easy user
Money isn't the key to happiness. The key to happiness is self-satisfaction
Thanks..
You know, wanting to go on a diet and getting fit, hopefully be happy one day, but realty kicks in, no matter what I look like, my brain will stay the same, always nervous and anxious i would just look slightly better. Sometimes you question why do anything y'know..
I'll get a vodka soda. Make it a double, I feel like shit today.
Kissin' the good times goodbye.
What happened user? Are you alright?
It's just been a rough couple of weeks. I was doing well for awhile, but the life I built up has kind of collapsed.
I know the good times will come again, but it's getting harder and harder to push through the downtime.
downtimes hurt but uptimes are much sweeter. To get through however long I want you to know that
You'll be alright
Hey Bartender can I get a whiskey sour please. Whenever I am deprived of female interaction for a period of time I become extremely depressed. Is this normal? Most of my friends are virgins but they don't seem to mind at all. Are they secretly just as lonely as I am? Or am I over-emotional for feeling so depressed and lonely?
It's probably because you're interested in falling in love. Your friends may not be as interested yet.
I don't have any story I want to share. Just give me a Hennessy every twenty minutes for the next three hours.
Here ya go user. Just take it easy
Hey there, I'll take pic related.
Life has kind of been on a downhill roll lately.
My will to study almost gone, and I'm trying to reach out for people to stay with me, maybe even a bit too much. I might as well not care remotely and just go back to being my usual carefree, lonely self...so far life was easier that way, but also severely more monotone;
I guess if you want your life to be colorful, you also got to accept the pain that comes together with the happiness and all of the other emotions. So if life, uh..?
Self realization is more important than looking good or whatnot, and if you're overweight the road to fitness will probably be painful but also very precious. Sometimes the end result is just less important than the travel to it.
I fuck up my job interview, i always tough of me as being smart , but i just tell something of weakness to a stranger who i was asking for job, even worse was my best chance to get a good job and help my family
Yeah, life is like being in a tire rolling down a hill. Yes it hurts but damn, is it fun
Keep trying, be that provider your family needs. There'll always be another opportunity
Just wanted to say op is cool as fuck for doing this takes special kind of person to help others
Falling of that tire fucking sucks, though
goddamn
One Spiced Rum, Ok so I used to be pretty close to some kind of undiagnosed Bi-polar with some bad anxiety back when I was in an in patient therapy two years ago. My days were high and I was friendly, funny, and confident. Even had three girls interested in me there. Still, every night I'd overthink the fuck out of all the jokes I made that day and whether people actually liked me.
At this point I haven't had suicidal thoughts in a few months but I'm still not happy. Like my highs ain't too high and my lows don't hit quite as deep. The only time I ever really feel something is when I'm listening to music or dreaming. Otherwise it's all just faking being happy, faking laughing. I need a girl I just have this natural need to impress with, haven't had that since the summer of junior year where I got put into that therapy place, you know? I liked having the role of the entertainer. I just feel like I don't have a purpose any more.
I like doing this, because I suffer from problems and I know how much conversations can help
It's a very nice thread indeed, I wish more like this would appear on Jow Forums, I think it perfectly fit this board, really
I just wish to get a house for my mother, if i could i would change my life for that, i not really wish or enjoy something in life besides that, i hope i get my chance to do something useful for once.
Then hold on to those high moments. Remember them and think back to them when you're in a low moment
Well you seem like a very wise and honest person. We could use more people like you in the world. Also keep strong through your own problems I know what hell feels like.
Hey bartender, can I get a miller light on draft?
Recently I broke up with my gf of six months and while we were talking she told me that throughout the entire thing she didn't feel a single thing for me. I mean I'm used to shit like that happening, but to love someone like her and then for her to just come out and say that she doesn't even see you as someone she can be emotionally involved with hurts.
If you have discord you can friend me
Spider#6511
Play music man, it's not hard. Fuck you can famitracker for 8bit or record in Audacity for other kinds of music. You can also do standup, protip: all standup comedians are severely depressed. The funnier they are the worse it usually is.
All I can say is to move on. I know you've heard it but you just have to realize that she's just a waste of your love. Save it for someone special.
>Something needs to change in my current situation
>My car is having misfire problems
>im low on money because I dont have a job
>im studying to become a financial adviser but I feel burnt out doing this for five months now
>I want to get a job but Im conflicted about quitting my pursuit if being a financial adviser
>I want to move out of my moms house, she is a jobless closet alcoholic that is always asking me for beer money
>Im 24, uni graduate and I feel like Im wasting my potential puttering around like this
Fml
First you need to cut back on costs
Keep going to school and keep applying for jobs
Cut back mom's alcohol money
>just some hard vodka,
>for all my slav pals out there,
this one's for you
Im pretty bare bones as it is
Been supporting the house since november because I stupidly believed my mom was serious about getting a job.
Hello fellow slav
Cutting back on her alcohol money will encourage her to try getting a job. It's not a good solution but it could be financially helpful
A cold glass of absinthe please. My ex contacted me last week and we've been catching up. Talking a whole lot. It's nice but she's done a lot of things in the time we were apart that rub me the wrong way, while I'm simultaneously unsure if I want to get back together with her.
Do what feels right. If you feel like you want to get back together than take the shot. You've already been rejected by her once it won't hurt as much
Give me straight vodka
>madly in love with my friend
>constantly think about her
>her beauty overwhelms me
>my other friend is also in love with her
>she is a very caring and intelligent person, shows deep care for both of us
>sometimes get mixed signals but usually play it off as just being in my head
>but when i watch my other friend interact with her...i can see a connection they have that i dont have with her
>get only ever so slightly jealous whenever theyre interacting with each other
>other friend and I are very close, decide to have a serious talk about our feelings
>he tells me that he feels like there is something between them
>i could sense it too
>he says that he doesnt want to ruin our friendship though
>tell him he's not obligated to me, if he wants to go for it, he should
>i am dying inside
>he is everything i want to be
>she is everything i want to love
>i dont know what to do
>just feel like im empty but am being continually drained
>emptier than empty
>i am incapable of feeling joy
>i just want to be loved and wanted
>i love her so much it hurts
Classic case of heartbreak. You'll know who you want when the time is right. It may not be obvious but you'll know
i'm drinking one of those currently
gee mates today was shit. manager yelled at me all morning and made me do degrading manual labor at my less-than-minimum wage sweatshop job. i wish i had a functional family. my parents don't talk to me anymore and neither does my sister rly. sis is a normie and parents are fucking mental. and im a fuckng femboy faggot that takes girl hormones and ill never amount to anything good or have a lot of good friends (the ones I thought I had rly don't give a shit about me) so i should proly just end it right
Sick of everything, im a complete fuck up. My future is at risk because i decide to just be a lazy unproductive stoner. Im almost 22 so its either now or never
You still have most of your 20s do do things. If you get started now you can be married at around 30 to 40 along with most parents
Those pills are probably messing with your hormones and making your body go out of it's element. As for the rest try to form closer bonds with parents and your sister. It will go a long way in your life
I dont even wanna think about marriage. I just want to be happy and live a comfortable life. Instead i just smoke and work at my shitty part time job.
Reminder that all Sapporo sold in the US is brewed in the US and Canada
Normally being married will make you extremely happy. Or at least better off. But don't rush things because it could end up terribly.
You got any Laphroaig? I'm at the end of my rope here, I'm supposed to graduate college in two weeks and I have to write something like 50 pages worth of reports in that time.
I legitimately don't know if I can do it
I'll have a shot of gin neat, the cheap stuff is fine.
Got any jokes, barkeep?
I know you can do it. I've never met you but I know if you try hard enough you can get out of that school and get a job.
I'll need to think of some but yeah I got jokes
shot of vodquila, bartender
so i just poured a shot a cheap gin irl and there was a dead gnat in the shot glass. i fished him out but the gin is cloudy.
here goes nothing
Any stories or feels ya want to share?
I'll have some Jagermeister straight. Looks like intelligence is somewhat fixed throughout your life, at least that's what it seems when looking through studies . I believe I have a passion for science and math, but I'm scared I won't have the "natural" intelligence to give back anything meaningful in whatever field I eventually choose to persue. I guess we'll just have to see.
>be 20
>have many friends
>meet a aspie whilst chilling with friends
>he sits next to us and talks with us
>he seems chill
>fast forward a few weeks
>he starts convincing my friends i'm scary and want to hurt him
>my long time friends take the aspie over me
>start seeing them less
>only two of my friends stayed with me
>aspie tries to bully me now
fucking angry
One thing about your brain is it is very adaptable to new information. If you convince yourself that you can succeed then your brain will make you succeed.
What you need to do is confront him and ask why he thinks that way. He can't make a claim without proper backup to support it.
The whole bottle of cheap Tequila and a slice of lime please.
Can't find our limes currently.
he's an aspie, and generally just hates me
on top of that he's also surprisingly good at acting
Good afternoon, baranon.
How did you do today?
Morning thread only had one guy show up.
I'm not sure, just prove that you're better than what he says is negative
Nice place you got here keep. Cheery tunes and drunken goons makes fora good time. I'll get a Sleeman if ya got
I'm alright, hope you enjoy night 2 of this thread.
This is part of it, methinks.
I was a virgin up until a year ago and it never bothered me any since I never really considered sex or companionship a milestone.
Ended up with a girl incidentally, had some mediocre sex a couple times, and once I got over the breakup I'm not too beat up about the loneliness anymore.
You're not necessarily over-emotional, you just have different goals.
People feel the appropriate hurt that stems from not having what they want, and so some people just have different pains. What you feel isn't wrong, it's just not necessarily what your friends feel, and that's nothing to worry about.
Hope that's correct
I like to think that without a bit of pain, pleasure has no perspective. Shit has to suck for us to understand the times when it doesn't. I'm sure you've seen the Bob Ross bit about it.
Maybe shit sucks right now, but hey, if you make it through, the other side will be that much sweeter for it.
Thanks friend. Mind if I smoke in here?
I don't mind at all, just limit it a bit
If your mother is a drain, help her.
It will be better for you financially, and better for her if she gets the help she needs to be a better person. If you can help her clean up and get a job, maybe she'll be able to help you pay for what you need, and stabilize a bit.
You can do it man.
50 pages is though, but if you're in a situation where you're doing that kind of work, I'm going to guess you had some spark of passion for the subject you're writing about.
Find that again, hold onto it, and just keep writing.
Don't think about doing it all at once.
Just open your word processor and do even the tiniest bit.
It's 4-5 pages a day if you start now, and I guarantee if you qualified for the program, you're capable of doing that, even if you don't believe it right now.
I'll preface this by letting you know I was a bit of a naturally academic kid in my youth, and I'd like to believe I still am today.
I don't believe intelligence is just an attribute in God's character creation page. I wholeheartedly believe that some people just don't learn how to think and learn in school quite as well as some other students might, probably through being born a bit more curious or something, and that it spirals from there.
I think that if you wanted to, you could learn how to learn, how to intake and process information, and that eventually it will become habit and you'll be just as smart, if not smarter, than any kid who never had to work for an A in their life.
Yeah, you too.
I try to make threads like these when I can, but I'm bad about it sometimes.
If I may offer you a drink in your own bar, what would you like?
my moms really mad at me, and so are my sisters, nobody i know seems to want to be around me
Try to make up with you family. You probably heard that 1000 times but just doing simple things for your friends and ones closest will change how they see you
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That's just what i was looking for. Thnx.
You're likely to hear many o mans tales, and I suppose mine are nothing too out of the ordinary. I typically frequent Jow Forums territory. I've never been a political guy; Too much hearsay and disinfo for my liking. Regardless, as I approach my mid-20's, I feel an overwhelming sense of dread. My negativity is like a looming smoke that constantly lingers around me. It is toxic, and slowly poisons those around me. I feel that I can't be happy anymore; The future i forsee is very dark, but I don't regret taking the red pill. Its just a rather lonely path for a leaf like myself. Just been feeling rather trapped and helpless as of late.
>Lose all interest in hobbies
>Have no drive to play vidya or watch anything
>Spend the entire day and so far week on this board specifically refreshing the catalog as well as every thread I post in constantly
>no coherent thoughts usually flowing through my mind while doing so
This is the life I have to look forward to.
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Suicide is really starting to look like the only option.
You ever tried writing. You're very descriptive and you may be able to make some money off of it. Writing is also a great coping mechanism.
I would like vodka. Life is finally looking up, I am happy. The only thing I regret is wasting these years in my pit of self pity. I alienated co-workers, friends, family, lost jobs due to my pit of sorrow. I am picking up the pieces of my life and rebuilding. I am finally becoming happy. Thanks mate.
Good job man, keep going and take those broken pieces and make something new.
I've given writing a try many times but always fall in and out of it. I lack discipline in a few key areas of my life, but I'm much too crestfallen to be motivated. I just need a good kick in the ass to just be happy and live in the moment
Maybe that's what you need. Maybe you need an event that really wakes you up to what matters. I have no idea what it will be but chances are you will have that some point in your life
Was drinking vodka tonight, made it two shots in before pouring that shit down the drain. Alcohol has taken too many good men already.
Good on ya, it has taken too many lives
It seems I have run out of Irish rock songs. Now I have no idea what to play
This thread HAS been going for a strong 3 hours so what can I expect? I think I'll close up soon.
So last call for drinks and stories, I close in around 30 mins
where the hell are my jokes barkeep?
no tip
I suppose so. Reading some of these fellows stories has brought me back to earth a bit. I'm certainly not at rock bottom yet. Things can always be worse, so I just gotta focus on what I can do now and live in the moment. Thanks for the drink mate. Cheers.
Lmfao im a fucking ghost, even here I'm totally igkored
youngfag youll see a lot worse rock bottoms if u just keep browsin, most of us are far from unsavable, u can do it
We are one in the same brother. Disregarded even by the other outcasts.
either try harder to figure your shit out or be a ghost, git gud you shit tier leaf