Why dont women just ask guys out?

whats the big deal? the guy will say yes 99% of the time

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They won't though. I know it's hard for you to imagine but most people aren't sex starved no standard inceld

They already do but only the toppest of Chads, not you disgusting non-Chad.

They're supposed to be the shy and virginal ones. Not you.

False. As long as the female in question isn't completely deformed, trashy or morbidly obese most guys would say yes. That would require however that women ask men out who are in their league but we all know women only want men miles above their own, hence

It's a biological fact there are 1.07 males born for every female resulting in millions of unwanted men. We're the disposable ones not females. Let us put ourselves in the firing range no them. They are privileged in the dating world like that, chances are Chad already asked her out.

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I've asked out a lot of guys and they all said no, and no, they weren't Chads.

Would your really say 'yes' OP, would you?

I don't believe you would.

post some examples of how you went about it just for arguments sake. also, if you're a landwhale, you can't really expect anything

Shieet i would
Why not

They do though, like all the time. And guys can be pretty dodgy when it comes to making plans early on.

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well ive asked out four men but they rejected me because of my conditions so youre right op most wont say no

Whats your condition desu

This isn't exactly relevant. But I did and he said yes just to be nice and I didn't find this out until later, and that felt shitty. Guys are not selective, they will date any girl who's "good enough" instead of waiting for actual feelings.

So you are on r9k because women don't ask you out?

I've hard girls ask me out, I found it cute but most girls are too reluctant.

For the most part i guess

I'm too ugly, brainlet, shy, and insecure to get into a relationship. I'll be lonely forever.

I have rejected two females who asked me out because both of them were shallow cunts. Back in college my chad roommate rejected half the fucking dorm over two years

Women have political values pushed on them from a young age that make them, basically, socially inept. Women are not taught how to define themselves as individuals and pursue their self-interests along with their broader responsibilities as adults - which is why most women end up only pursuing one or the other, usually with most women pursuing self-interests (which end up dictated to them by society, these days its career goals and political activism) and a relative minority becoming slave to their biological responsibilities (staying home and becoming barefoot mothers).

The truth is that this has almost always been the case throughout history, but prior to the 20th century society defined women's roles along the same lines as their biological responsibilities. When 2nd wave feminism started and the birth control revolution redefined sex dynamics, women didn't actually gain social freedom, they just gained a new set of chains.

Ironically, if women weren't raised under the thumb of modern feminism and instead raised with basic social principles and allowed to define their own interests and pursue them, they'd gravitate more toward the other course of action, staying home and dedicating more time to family, because that's where their biological instincts lie. At the same time, however, you'd see an uptick in women taking on the social behaviors of men as women with other interests at that point in their life would be equipped to handle men on equal social footing.

TL;DR if you want women to be as socially viable as men, you need to combat the system that's undermining their social development from an early age

Okay, the worst one was in high school. Me and this one guy flirted nonstop for over a year and he flirted with no one else. We were really close. Finally I got up the nerve to ask him out on a date and he said he'd answer me later, but instead he ghosted me. He wasn't even attractive but I liked him because he liked me back. I would say we were about the same level of loser and I wasn't fat.

There are a lot more rejections but that was the worst one.

a relationship and not wanting to have sex and stuff until marriage so I respect them rejecting me

sounds pretty tame, why do you think they rejected you?

I have turned down women multiple times. Actually every time they asked now that I think about it. I wasnt mean though, just politely said I wasnt interested.

No he won't. Most guys are not straight-up desperate. Also, since it's uncommon for girls to ask guys out, doing so might have social implications (like that I'm bossy, a dom, really forward, slutty, etc.) and most people think girls that have to ask are desperate

The truth is that women are naturally even more cowardly and afraid of rejection than men., and have a natural tendency to be submissive/receiver rather than the dominant/aggressor like the male. It goes against their female brain and hormones, so its really hard to do.

It's literally other women stopping women from taking the initiative when it comes to asking out a la Slut Shame

They do it though. And the guys not always say yes. (Atleast from my experience)

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Genetics and natural selection senpai. She has one womb and has to incubate a baby for 9 months. You can impregnate as many women as you want. You are designed to compete for her and she is designed to resist seduction except from the most Chadliest of Chads. Any girl not a fucking uggo hamplanet gets hit on day after day. And this is true across the board for basically all women. They get more desperate when they hit the cougar ages, but that is biology telling them "you gotta pass on your genes somehow before your ovaries dry up".

>virginal

not these days son, they hoes

Women don't get hit on as much as they claim. On SOCIAL MEDIA, sure, but irl? Nah, average women get passing glances AT BEST

Nah that's wrong. I'm not a Chad but girls do ask me out. They don't ask out people with severe social problems mainly, who just don't approach them. Thankfully I do have a bit of social skills, so I did get asked out by a couple of girls. Including my current gf. You just need to approach them and not to be weird. Oh also it's easier on the internet where you can hide your 3/10 face.

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2 Things
A) The act of asking out is bold, assertive and attractive to females, plus a good test on if a guy is worth dating.
B) some women do ask guys out, but only a minority because it can be kind of risky to ask a guy out. Women usually just hint, they can be easy to read which is what leads to guys asking them out.

I wish girls made the first move, but alas, it ain't the way and as a result I missed out on High School Love...

Asking a guy out and getting rejected would devastate a girl's ego. Guys are expected to be tough, resilient and handle constant rejection.

I guess you could say girl are technically the "initiators", since they show interest first with indicators of interest by letting the guy know she's willing to be wooed by him and have a shot at potentially mating with her.

Just look at nature, most male mammals have to compete with other males for the right to reproduce and show how high quality they are to the females. Humans are not so evolved beyond this, women are still the sexual selectors of the species.