That 20 something guy who still a virgin and is lurking Jow Forums right now

I'm 23, 6'5, skinnyfat and still a virgin.
Living a great life tho

t. 25 year old virgin

>looked a girl in the eyes for almost half a second
later virgins

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I will have you know I have had consentual unpaid sex multiple times with one woman!

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The only difference between virgin and non virgin is you have the monkey off your back, you don't get nervous when conversation turns to locker room talk and you might be slightly more confident around women. It's not the life or death thing that all the incels and Elliot Rodgers blow it up into. 99.9% of your life is unchanged.

I was scarily close to becoming a 20 something virgin. Met my first gf at 19.

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After a while of no sex the insecurity goes back to virgin levels

>10% less insecure
I'm 5% more insecure.

So unless you can get laid *consistently* it's all just an exercise in futility?

I actually just turned 21 last month fyi

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Thanks, you made me feel better

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go fuck some pussy right now my man 1 second long is too much

>23
>Abstinent
>Planning my proposal to trad Christian virgin
Cope

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well yeah, unless you're married with kids and a house making more than everyone you know, you're just not good enough!

>that dude in basketball shorts that thinks he can do unassisted dips
>5 reps where he goes down two inches and then hops off and walks around doing the "I'm getting a great workout" hand smacks

Based

>be 20
>embraced virginity, think nothing of it.
>casually drop self-deprecating remarks about my virginity
>most people find it funny
>girls think I'm lying. Some offer to take it.
I tell them to fuck off tho.

Why should I give a flying fuck?
t. 25

I know that losing it won't make a big difference in my life but I just have this need to lose it and it drives me crazy.

26 year old virgin here, it's actually pretty easy to turn out this way. Now my case is extra pathetic because I haven't had friends since I was around 12-13 years old which is a big reason why (along with being ugly as fuck and weird)

But for a guy who seems to be socially normal yet a virgin at an advanced age, OP's reaction is the exact reason why it's easy for it to happen. A guy turns some age, say 19, 20, 21, 22 and is still a virgin and is so humiliated by being one at that age that instead of wanting to change it by talking to girls and going places where they will be to talk to and have sex, he instead wants to hide and not even give girls a chance to see how he has no idea what he;s doing and humiliate himself in front of them

>ywn spend your life cuddling with cate blanchett on a mattress on the ground

just reverse my life, god. i'm ready.

>is so humiliated by being one
The fuck are you talking about?
I'm not humiliated at all by it, I made the choice to turn down the offers and chances to lose it and the only thing to be ashamed of is that I spent my adolescence playing Vidya instead of chasing girls.
Now that I quit Vidya and have stuck to just keeping in shape and working I'm missing that drive to fuck because I didn't spend my formative years chasing it so it never became a mental imperative.
Fucking isn't hard and there isn't much to the damn thing the ONLY surmountable issue in the entire deal is making yourself care enough to do it. No different than dieting or working out

>20 years old
>Military fag stationed in small as fuck town
>Got drunk, confess to friends I am a virgin
>"WHAT? user we're gonna go fix this. Right now."
>They drag me into a bar that doesn't ID
>Two girls are hanging around a pool table
>"Excuse us, user and I want to play against you two."
>We play pool
>One of the girls is really into my friend
>Eh whatever its not gonna happen for me
>Later on she approaches my friend
>"I think you're cute, I don't want anything serious but do you wanna hook up?"
>"No thanks."
>"Oh... Well what about you user?"
>Felt like a silver medal, say no
>Girls leave
>"user you're fucking stupid, that was easy pussy."
>Another girl shows up
>Think she is hot at first, but she takes off her jacket and has a lot of tattoos which I'm not really into on girls
>"user, go talk to her!"
>Friends basically push me over to her
>Awkwardly walk away
>Friend goes to try and fuck her instead
>"Bro, she literally told me she wants to talk to you. I told her you're shy and she said not to be."
>Look over
>She is looking
>Feel like a bitch at that point and refuse
>Leave
>At that point realize how much work it is gonna take to make it

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>turn 22 in 10 days
>still a khv

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>u're a virgin but im not lol
How the fuck is that supposed to help?

/thread

Begone thots

It's less about losing it and more about pttig a fire under your ass so you actually make it a regular priority in your life as it will lead to you eventually finding yourself a companion to be with

>as it will lead to you eventually finding yourself a companion to be with
>wanting that

what a fag

Anyone else in a weird situation where you were about to have sex when you were 21 but you couldn't get get hard and her pussy was really tight and never had another opportunity with a girl so now you're a virgin?

I'm 25, haven't had sex in three years, two before the last one and I'm not even lifting

>Turn 46 this year old
>THIS is the absolute state of Jow Forums

When I was your age, we prides ourselves in the amount of tours we did. We were willing to die for our country. Now all I see are boys who don't feel accomplished in life unless they've had sex? Boys who won't even treat women with an ounce of respect unless they are getting something in return?

I weep for your generation.

Not at your powerlevel but lost mine at 22 last year. It helps that I'm somewhat attractive but the key (at least in the sense of worrying about awkwardness) here was finding a foreigner which was leaving the country in a few days. Got lucky and pumped and she went straight to an Uber to an airport kek.

Then getting other girls just happened since I wasn't uncomfortable about it anymore.

> tfw when she actually came twice and kept texting me from another continent for a couple of months
>

Smd old man

>that ONE guy...

Like half of this board isn't 20 something virgin NEETs

>tfw literally, unironically a 25 year old kissless virgin
>my core group of coworkers are 4 other girls and one guy
>literally all the girls are hot and all in 30-33 age range
>one is a tall russian who is an 8.5/10 and married with a kid
>one is a lesbian who is probably a 7.5/10
>one is a very tiny lightskinned indian girl who is not only an 8/10 looks wise but literally the hottest indian girl i have ever seen in my life, real life or screen, she's single
>one is a fine looking white girl, 7.5/10 as well, single (recently got out of 8 year relationship) and frequently tells us about dating stories she is having using okcupid or something

there is no worse feeling than being the ugly virgin outcast who doesnt even have a chance with girls you spend most of every day with and sticking out like a sore thumb with them. i got along the best with the indian girl but i'm such a virgin i'll literally get a half boner just from talking to her

hear me out faggot. you need to grow a pair. the friends in your life, the strangers that you see, these people are PEOPLE, these are not characters on a screen, these are not youtube personalities, these are people that you can walk up to and punch. you can have a conversation, you can express love or your thoughts or grope them or make them laugh. they are people. they are not magical, unbending creatures. they are people, they have feelings, they have insecurities and thoughts and loves and hates and limits and motivations. it's time to start beating your chest with pride in who you are, pride in what you do, and seek success. IT'S TIME TO BE A PERSON LIKE THEM. GROW A PAIR OF BALLS AND ASSERT YOUR FUCKING PLACE IN THE WORLD.

>tfw married with kids
>browse Jow Forums out of nostalgia and to spend less time on Jow Forums

I should just get rid of the internet desu

honestly it shouldnt matter if your a virgin and old.it should only matter why you're a virgin if your like 25 years old and a virgin but like 5'4, its really understandable. but if your like 20 and over 6ft tall and attractive, then you've fucked up.

I know. I'm trying to get better at it.

I just hate picking up girls in front of my friends, but it is near impossible to try and do it without friends. If you go alone, you look like a weirdo. If you bomb, you don't have anybody to come save your ass. Picking up girls really is a thing you have to say "fuck it" and just go for. There isn't jack shit to mentally prepare yourself for it.

I literally had sex only when I was 17 after taking xtc for the first time at a party.
I'm now 24.

>A guy turns some age, say 19, 20, 21, 22 and is still a virgin and is so humiliated by being one at that age
Pretty much. Add this to a stack of other insecurities and you end up pissing away your years at uni.

Glad to see the correct opinion being posted

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>try to get an escort literally last night
>mentally ready, freaking out but about to go as soon as I get an address
>never get it, get extremely peeved that I was about to finally lose it and nothing
>skip gym and classes today, do nothing all day
>scheduled with another escort for tomorrow but now very worried it'll just fall through again
>also gave very personal information to verify because this one is much more professional
>she could humiliate me or worse with what I gave
>expensive for one hour but just want to get it over with
Bros if this doesn't work I won't even know anymore. I can't even talk to regular girls because I feel like a retard still being a virgin at my age but if I can't even get an escort then I want to end it. This should have been so easy

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>>she could humiliate me or worse with what I gave
chill, that is highly unlikely. How old are you?

23. I've even gotten matches off tinder, invited a girl over, been invited over to a different one in the last week. But I don't follow through with anything. Frankly I don't worry about my personal information being given to them, but I get really annoyed if I give it then nothing ends up happening.
On one hand I'm really looking forward to it but every day feels like suffering because I feel like it's so close now.
I really hope I don't just get ignored when I try to confirm tomorrow, this is my primary choice in escort right now but I could have gone with a secondary one instead of wasting my time

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Why would you marry a woman without having tested your chemistry in bed? jesus you fucking children are retarded.

Can't imagine sleeping with multiple women only to marry one and reminisce of past flames that had 'better chemistry in bed'
>actually believing this

In the event that you do, it will haunt you for the rest of your life.
Don't get caught in the vortex of having multiple partners.

>literally bases his entire idea on relationships about primal sex, not about how their personalities do, how they interact, etc
>calls OTHERS the children

put a bullet in your mongrel brain

>entire idea
not him...but how can you conclude that from his post?

I can honestly say that I regret losing mine. I barley felt shit and couldn't even cum. Guys honestly go out of their way for this shit? I should have just waited for a gf.

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I'll be there with you as KV in 1 month

Lies or you're a homosexual.

No virgins are broken eggs too old and broken to get a waifu who hasn't been destroyed by the cock carousel.

>not really into tattoos
NIGGA YIU DONT HAVE A CHOICE.

>want to have sex
>don't want to risk getting a drug addict (yes this includes someone who drinks too much) pregnant
>don't want to risk getting a woman who is a different race than me pregnant
>don't want to risk getting someone over 29 pregnant
If I somehow had a crackhead mutt child I would wish I remained a virgin. My parents never married and my mom went crazy for whatever reason and drank a lot even drank while pregnant maybe smoked too. I don't even know how old she is since I've avoided seeing that rotten human since the age of 7. Took 7 years for the courts to free me from her since she's a woman and her sister bought her good lawyers. For some reason my dad doesn't know her age either maybe he's lying or maybe he was just that irresponsible with relationships.

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>>don't want to risk getting someone over 29 pregnant

youre a mongoloid

Why has science progressed enough where impregnating an old woman won't damn the child (especialyl son) to a life of suffering?

based

MOTHERFUCKER WHY DIDN'T YOU POST THIS TWO MONTHS AGO

That narrows down your prospects to "never seen a vagina" status. Good job you sound like a shit human being anyways.

Oh well. If I knocked someone up I'd want the future to be bright. There are worse fates than being a virgin.

ahhhhhhh I want to bust a big, fat, hearty, raw NUT inside a sexy sloot.

>over 29
>old woman

mongoloid squared

but sure, keep pretending like the only reason you arent having sex is because you "dont want to get a drug addict/alcoholic" or "hurr too old" or, most hilariously, "hurr muh white race extinction"

I know I will probably be a virgin forever. I subconsciously knew this when I first learned about sex. I knew it would never happen in high school. Now I'm in college and I know it won't happen before I graduate. It's a combination of high standards and absolutely no concept of flirting. I've also never felt a connection with anyone in my life. It's a deeply entrenched mindset that has followed me throughout my whole life and I see no point in changing now. I just hope I can come to terms with it one day.

That's me! :DDDD

Ok I will keep stating the truth that it's not wise to impregnate women over 30. You've outed yourself as delusional finding an issue in wanting my offspring not feel angst over being mixed race.

It's simply you fuck a guy as practice for girls. Wear a condom you don't want HIV.

Kys homosexual.

That's me atm. Thing is tho I've been making pretty good social gains. Been going out with a friend and talking to alot of girls. I havent lost hope. Keep on improving and we're all gonna make it brahs.

Cope

I want to believe

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>tfw still virgin and only 2 months left until 20

Just don't worry so much about it friend. What the other user said is true. "they are people, they have feelings, they have insecurities and thoughts and loves and hates and limits and motivations". I think if you spent time learning and talking to people out there instead of being a ghoul, you'd most likely start to realize the limitations that people have that you just don't. And I think you'd come to realize how we are all just are trying to figure out ourselves. If you go alone, YOU think you look like a weirdo. If you bomb, YOU think you need someone to save your ass. But honestly, you need to realize the things you think in your head aren't even 1% as big as you think they are. So, go out there and be a person. TRUST ME, it will seem hard at first, and it will seem soul crushing even. But if you really put in that continuous effort, you'll find with each day it becomes easier, and you'll look back at yourself and really realize the fears you had were all in your head.

Somewhere between this and
is correct. It's really fine if you are a virgin if you are confident with yourself, but the point is to be confident with yourself. GF's won't solve your issues, but having self confidence in who you are and being honest with yourself/having the motivation to do better is more the proper path to 'tfwnogf'

Who the fuck said anything about multiple partners, I'm talking about knowing your partner, you know it's better to have fucked and lived together before going full retard and getting married.

> lived together before marriage

All studies have shown you're more likely to get divorced

The older the woman the more likely they are to have a child with autism

>that 45yo grandpa that whiteknights on Jow Forums

They still don't understand how blatantly women are about being whores.

Back in his day girls had the decency to hide it and the average girl didn't blow you on the first date.

Fpbp

Having sex for the sake of having sex is revolting? Why do you reject the act and keep your virginity?
Do you really need an emotional connection to share a physical one, as in it is such a degenerate act that it revolts you if it is not there?
>Never talked with someone with this point of view, genuinely curios.

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>tfw 25
D E L E T
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what's so funny? bet you wouldn't say that to my face irl

t. virgin

>tfw only fucked prostitutes and 2 druggie club sluts
>tfw this user is right
just end it already

All the girls in my uni classes laugh at my jokes and apparently think I'm some kind of scholastic wizard because I get good grades, but I think something's broken inside of me because I haven't ever met a woman who attracted me in any way other than purely physical. I think the problem is Im waiting for a girl to actually show interest in me in any way besides "how do you study" but so far no girl has ever shown attraction to me.

>tfw 21
I managed penetration once when I was 18 but I didn't get to cum before she tapped out. Still feels like I'm a virgin.

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But I'm 22.

>All studies have shown you're more likely to get divorced
So you mean people with highly conservative views trap themselves in loveless marriages because divorce is traditionally considered morally low? Whoa.

It's like you've never seen The Sopranos.

thirty-eight years old, never kissed a girl