Has lifting weights got you any positive attention from cute girls?

idk I tried talking to a few and got low energy 1 word answers. I'm also in college with almost no friend group. Most of my HS friends went to CC while I went to uni alone. Everyone here is low energy as fuck. The only people I talk to are rugby players.

tldr faggot

I got asked out by two girls recently and one of them was a model. Have I made it socially Jow Forums?

He was always Jow Forumser than me(he still is). I'm 1 year older but visibly bigger than him.

if the people you talk to are rugby players, i cangurantee you some are getting poon. just become good friends with a few and then let them introduce you to girls

describe yourself, i want a model gf too

I recently started lifting after a long time not doing it for 3 weeks and mewing and chewing for 1, and I think I'm getting more mires than usual

idk man I just feel and look fucking invisible. I was also wearing only grey/black/white stuff for a really long time. Gonna start wearing more colors and get a tinder. If that doesn't work than I'll just get an escort in a few years.

>tfw you start lifting for a certain girl
>tfw almost every girl becomes attracted to you except the girl you started lifting

I mean wtf she only falls for skinny fucking hipster faggots with 0 gains

*lifting for

The girl (model) complimented my thick eyebrows and hair.
she also said I can probably model too if I sent in a portfolio

Dress like a skinny hipster except you have muscles and a jawline that makes your clothes good AKA Ryan Gosling mode

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5 6 buff and fashionable asian manlet with good jaw and trendy hair

get mired by tall skinny/athletic girls and cute short girls around my height or below

Listen to this guy, big buff doesn't mean shit if you can't show it off. Don't be a humble faggot that doesn't show off. Wear the smallest possible clothes you can to show off your gains and don't give 2 fucks about people who call you a show-off. You think Chad or Tyrone care about being called a show off when they fuck your oneitis? Show off your accomplishments(your body in this case).

Clothes aren't enough these are the kind of guys who idolise Ed Sheeran believing that if they continue playing their instruments they'll be like him(they're "self-thought musicians" btw), they're also atheists, smoke weed and the definition of sjws, they also want to travel the world to "find themselfs"

haha fucking numales. Chad disguises as a numale and fucks all the SJW women that these numales orbits

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What makes the difference for me is how much more confident I am and how comfortable I feel around people. When I feel attractive other people are more likely to perceive me as attractive, too. When I feel comfortable in social situations and around women, because I don't have any doubts that they could find me attractive, I have more success with women. Now I'm not saying "just be confident, bro", what matters is the combination of having a good body and feeling good about it, which is something that usually follows from making gains. It's kind of like some people have their favorite "lucky" shirt they love to wear, because they think they look great in it and they believe that's why they have an easier time pulling women. What matters more than how they look in it is how they feel when they are wearing it.

Teach me

Maybe it's the speaking skills? Check out "How to win friends & influence people" It's the best book on foundational human relations skills. You will see an immediate improvement in how people interact with you if you apply the principles in the book.

This. You can lift for personal reasons but there's nothing wrong with showing of your hard earned gains.

Yeah man gotta try that too. I'll keep trying until I'm 6 feet under. I always have moments of despair and hopelessness but I always manage to rally myself back.

Very true. If you feel comfortable and pleased with yourself that translates to confidence which in turns translates into dropped panties and/or gf
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Im going to be telling a long time friend that I've become attracted to her, on Monday. Do you guys have any experience in this matter? Do you have any words to suggest I say? Im not planning on confessing my love or anything insane just telling her that I "like" her.

this

>except

This book is for social retards that are starting off from basically 0 and really outlines basic shit that your parents shouldve taught you anyways like fucking smiling and not insulting everyone you meet

more pics like this?
>this is now a chad thread

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One of the best ways to improve yourself is reading. Check out some of the best rated self help books, they teach you different methods of getting what you want out of life and show you how to apply them(if the book is good).

Way of the superior man is another one I recommend.

I have the chance to fuck a 5'1 3/10 girl with a 8/10 body. But that might jeoparsize my relationship with my 6/10 fwb, should I do it regardless?

Yup that's why it's foundational. Let's be real, all the gains in the world won't do you any good if you're the spergiest mother fucker on the planet.

So if your the social equivalent of a tard with stage four terminal downs syndrome then it'd be in your best interests to read the book.

I'll tell you how it goes. I'm mildly autistic with a great body (compared to the average). I'm 190lbs with around 10% bf with tattoos for that extra wet panties effect.

When I meet girls (mostly on tinder) they like me. They like my looks and trough trial and error i've been able to hold decent conversations and meet up. NEVER had a bad date. I rarely get laid on first dates but always get good kino going and will always push for the kiss and get it. I'm a good kisser i've been told.

Then THEY push for the 2nd date. Will most likely end up being netflix and chill. We bang. I'm a horrible fuck. My true beta nervousness and autism shines trough and the first bang is lackluster. Most girls will stay around though, but it goes from them crushing on me to me being in love with them. 3 times have a girls told me that they didn't want to hurt me so we would better stop seeing eachother but we could still be friends. That hurts.

My body and face makes up for my shitty personality, but body and face means little to nothing in a long term relationship.

How would that mess up a relationship with a fuck buddy? Does she think you're dating?

Not that guy, but there are techniques you can learn that work exceptionally well when you're talking to women. I had to take a class on communication skills for my business degree and one thing I was taught was active listening & reflective listening. Obviously there is a lot to learn about communication, but I think these are essential. I used to consider myself a bit of a social retard, but people consistently tell me how good of a listener I am or how pleasant it is talking to me.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_listening
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reflective_listening

What's great about those techniques is that you don't really have to worry about what to say, because you are always using the information the person you are talking to has just given you. That, combined with the proper amount of eye contact and feedback (body language, facial expressions) will provide you with the foundation you need.

How do you not fuck on the first tinder meet up? Every single meet up ends in sex.

It has gotten me respect from guys and attention from older ladies, girls either hide it well or they are scared of me (6'4 215 lean)

Well, I sound like a LARP but I could probably bang most one the first date, but I always ask them out to do something active and fun (something i'm good at) instead of netflix and chill (something i'm bad at).

Who the hell are you kidding? 90% of people out there won't even achieve 2 year natty level... girls fuck the guy who sells them the best bullshit.

Well, we aren't dating, but we agreed to not have sex with other people. We are really good friends as well and spend virtually all waking hours together(we share workplace). I could just not tell her, but she keeps track of my snapmap so she would eventually figure things out.

I'm not even Jow Forums. I stopped working out like 2 years ago. I actually have a problem of getting too much attention from women it kinda freaks me out sometimes. Females are crazy bruh how come I have to take a hint, but they dont take hints for shit???

i'd do it. If she isn't willing to commit it means she's riding the dick carrousel herself. Her being a psycho who stalks you on snapchat should be enough to dump her.

rather phuck my hand than get involved with a crazy bitch

More than I ever thought it would. I was already a prettyboy but after lifting I feel a golden god. I love being desirable. The eyes of my uni classmates and even one of my young professors. It's the greatest feeling in the world. The only down side is uggo gays that show interest. It hurts my pride.

How is it not dating if you are exclusive?

I'm that guy and essentially this.
You won't believe how easy talking to people is when you just shut up and let them talk. People are only interested in themselves so they only like talking about themselves or what interests them. Just listen, make sure to actually pay attention but besides that let them talk. If the conversation takes a pause ask them a question that relates to them/something they're interested in or something related to what you've been talking about.

I had some people over one night for drinking. After everyone was passed out except me and this one girl I barely knew, I just asked her about yourself. The conversation(me just listening and making a comment or asking her a question every now and then.) went on for 2 hours. The next time they came over she mentioned to the others how awesome a conversation we had when I spoke 5% of the conversation.

It's shocking that they don't teach this stuff in schools.

I get you there. If you're not good at talking then an activity you're good at is a good alternative.

I just went on a fucking date.

And I felt nothing for her. Is that shitty of me? How can I be lonely and yet picky enough to not be into someone who was willing to go out with me?

Dude that's dating. Everything is said describes dating. Who says you're not, you or her?

This so fucking true. I copy Gosling and jon snow actor's style and girls go crazy. Women love that tight shit.

Not your fault she's as stale as a wheaties box with Bruce Jenner on it m8. Just keep searchin, don't force feelings.

Congrats dude, you're doing good. Don't know why gays miren' hurts your pride, it should just reaffirm your desirability.

Active and reflective listening are basic fucking skills men should know when speaking to anyone

It's not bad to not be attracted to someone. You're not responsible for anyone who feels hurt if you don't want anything with them.

Welcome to modern reality, where no one teaches boys to be men anymore.

My ex once told me I have the arms of Michelangelos David

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BALD BALD BALD

Naa naa naa -Mirraz

what did he mean by this?

3/10 with a 8/10 body? Wouldn't that make her a 5/10 at least? 3 /10 isn't fuck able

Bro that is not how friends with benefits works....

Jow Forums thinks he's a small dick dyel

yeah but normies dont

Yeah, the dumbass is dating her.
And she's his goddamned coworker.

No no no.
ALL OF THIS IS BAD

themselves*

>themselfs

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Yes - getting mired daily (I'm on the lucky side of genetics tho, BUT before getting fit this didn't help at all). Additionally it stopped me from putting women on a pedestal and becoming a better person in general. It certainly had also influence on me finding a wonderful non-thot gf (speaking confidence).

Believe me or not, but maybe it can motivate some of you. Having the discipline to get fit will most likely have a postiive effect on your general life and increase your confidence.

kek no, if those cunts dont like your face or personality and you dont suck up to them then even just noob gains can make you a toxic masculinist in their eyes

Yeah, don't

this, to be quite honest. used to be a twig but with an aesthetic face and approachable persona. having muscles as well is a bonus, but won't fix your shitty personality or ugly face.

don't know what you mean by "suck up to them" or why you're even saying it.

>Do you guys have any experience in this matter?
yes. it never ends well.

This. The only problem is alot of SJW bitches have hairy b holes and pits and sometimes b.o.

Lifting, at the very best, is a common interest that can get you closer to a woman who is similar to you. At the minimum (for me), it got loooots of girls attention. I started lifting towards the end of high school and went from weighing in the 50-55 kg range (110-121 lbs) to 78ish (171 lbs). It was only effective because school holidays made the difference seem significantly more drastic then they really were. Girls suddenly become a lot more touchy-feely for the gains. Got some pussy at parties too. But for that to happen, you have to go out with friends. And for that to happen, you have to have friends.

However, lifting is not enough. Without a personality/sense of humor/fucking anything interesting, nobody will want to fuck with you. At the end of the day, learn to be your own person and only then will lifting help you in any significant way beyond some polite comments and maybe a touch.

No, I only get approached by fit Indianans now asking me if im busy on Saturdays

Yeah almost daily

Staged model pick for loser cunts to shlick over.

>tfw you only get attention from jailbait and middle-aged black women

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Be honest, don’t be nervous, and do it in a comfortable location. And for the love of God, don’t put her on the spot with it. Kind of go at it from the angle of “I’ve started to develop feelings for you after getting to know you better, where should we go from here?” rather than a straight up “I like you, do you like me?”
And if she doesn’t respond well, don’t take it to heart and break off contact if you need to.

Her

She recently got out of a long term relationship, and doesn't want to jump into another one.

10/10

Nah, his traps make it clear he is at least sporty. He'd look great if he dressed in a Ryan Gosling-esque style.

i lost the link to a free copy but Models by Mark Manson might be interesting.

>goes for the friend with benefit
>ends up with girlfriend without benefit

Somewhat. Growing my hair and beard out plus learning how to dress really helped though. Too bad I'm too autistic to keep them after I get them.

Thank you for the legitimately solid advice. Will follow through

Make sure that you are clear and prepared for rejection.

I was not clear, and I wasn't smart enough to understand that my friend's very gentle deflection was her being kind but shooting me down forever. I wish I figured that out years earlier.

Stop lifting for girls reee

Brother, I will do both those things.

Thanks for your help, from your life lesson.

Yep, waking up next to one right now

Some girls just have a certain, very specific type. Used to know a girl who was a total smokeshow but only dated trans guys.

Move on, not worth it.

Nope. Lifting is absolutely useless for getting attention from women if you're ugly.

Nice LARP.

My dream

are you shitting me
my flock was around a 5, now it´s 7s. Meaning they automatically want me and try to fuck me with zero effort on my part. Before hitting the gym I couldn´t get any top notch gorgeous women, now they´re a normal part of my life.

went from 6'1 205lbs 23% BF to 6'1 220lbs 16% BF

>tfw even a trans guy can get a smoke show gf and I can’t