What do chads actually mean when they say "be confident"?

so? it's possible to be ugly beyond control, and in that case it still rings true.

also, assuming you do clean up, how are you supposed to get over how much you hate people for how you've been treated? normies imagine how much you hate incels for even thinking wrong of you, and imagine how we feel about you.

Besides the people with mental health or just health issues that are truly beyond their control, sure, they can't help it.
But I bet the majority of people here are wallowing in self pity like pathetic subhumans and letting the normies both win and be right about them.

Don't let them beat you. Be the best you can both mentally and physically guys.

Yes, but don't go crying about it unless you've at least done everything you could. If you give up that's your own problem.

Guy in that pic is like a 2/10 but could easily be 5-6 if he put in the effort. But he puts none and probably blames normies for his problems.

>me on the right
Took my normalfag gf to get magic cards. She thought the convo I had with the clerk was so cute and gave me a big ol kiss afterwards.

When weird ugly people suddenly act confident it's extremely repulsive, so prepare for trouble before you try it. Your appearance will have to improve gradually to match the levels of confidence you display, like grooming, wardrobe, cologne, and such.

This.
In the red pill theory this is called uncanny valley.

What if I don't enjoy working out? I didn't like doing the research, or having to eat a ridiculous amount every day.

>implying being 5-6 is enough
Imagine trying to correct your issues for several years only to find out that instead of nobody wanting you it's only leftovers. Sure he's a greater person overall but unless he voluntarily blind himself from the truth, he still won't have what he looked for in the beginning. All that time could be invested in making money instead, that will get you many more things and even persons.

Further elaborate please senpai sempai

>he still won't have what he looked for in the beginning
what, a 9/10 white virgin? get real. it's an improvement and if you aren't willing to try you deserve to be alone.

Then have fun being unattractive your entire life before dying of heart disease at 40.

Uncanny Valley is a good concept for them to use in this case. Just google it, it's when something that is not human suddenly appears very human-like - a walking corpse, for example, is at the bottom of the Uncanny Valley graph.

I'm just saying that he is clearly at a loss anyway. He's investing 300 bucks for a thing that will bring him 50 at most. But contrary to money, time is finite and cannot be retrieved. In his case he's way better staying alone than chasing an obivious impossible dream. Settling for lower is a cuck mentality. It's as if you'd tell a guy to get a second school degree at university so that he could raise his job opportunities and his potential future paychecks by contracting an expensive debt. It's a loss

Is this suppose to be a thread to help "theredpill"tards to infiltrate this board?

Chad is a state of mind. One of the most Chad dudes I've ever met was this dude from my dorm who was 5'1 and had one really tiny leg. Literally a deformed manlet. That dude had a girlfriend, she was ugly, but he was fucking

I or him will be alone anyway

okay
to all the uggos here, has any normie *actually* come up to you and told you to bee urself or is this a complete strawman?

They say it with a smirk on their face, it's basically saying "why can't you be me...oh I know, because i'm better than you bro! sorry about your bad luck", try to pick up on sarcasm.

Bullshit. I know confident ugly people and they're cool as fuck, like this guy:

youtube.com/watch?v=RQFWJb4spFE

This is the kind a guy that people show to their friends so they can all laugh at him like a Dinner for Schmucks type situation

Nah thats an absolute cool badass, you're just too socially stunted to see that.

They genuinely mean "Be yourself", however they're speaking from their point of view, where they don't suffer from any social anxiety and people actually respond positively to them, regardless of what they say or do
It's hard to be confident when you're ugly and everyone basically shuts you down immediately, and only interacts with you out of some warped sense of pity

If you're ugly already you might aswell be confident and interesting.

Of course you're gonna lose to Chads, but why sell yourself short?

I'm 5'3" and I have a pretty cute gf and before that I just talked to girls normally and tried to be friends with everyone.

Sorry but if you guys keep whining about not being born Chads you'll just gonna waste the litlte time you have on this earth.

I'm still depressed and sad for other reasons, but girls are literally like you and me, you just gotta relax and forget about it. I know you've all heard about this a lot but there isn't really much to it.

Also, don't be fat.

Pic related, it's my gf's ass.

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HAHAHA, no.

Guy who has his shit together here, being yourself only applies when you already have confidence. Getting it is something else.

I used to be a robot too, about 2 years ago, I still visit time to time to flex on you guys and maybe try to help out.

Anyway my advice is litteraly this: Pretend you have confidence, sounds stupid as shit but im not kidding, just pretend you have confidence, do shit as normies would, if you don't know how they act watch some movies or some shit. Stop giving a shit about consequences, you are a virgin loser you don't have much else to lose by trying something new.

That's literally all there is to it, eventually it will go from pretending to have confidence to actually having it

No one is going to shut you down immediately, girls maybe but guys won't because almost all of us have been in your position before.

There might be some pity involved but why the fuck would you care, you are only getting benefits from it.

Well said user.

Very well said indeed.

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Wanna bet you flipped that image to make it look like its original? Advice is solid tho.

I agree with you user. There are lots of shorter guys who can, by not giving a fuck and also by being likable, pull decent pussy.

I have literally no reason to lie, or else I wouldn't have posted.

If you want more, just ask. She's got a beautiful ass.