Anyone else staying in?
>tfw haven't been "out" in years
>working today
>went to grab dinner
>passed by a bar and could hear everyone inside laughing and having fun
>tfw no friends to do things with
>tfw no social skills
>pass by a girl on my way to get dinner
>start walking manually (>tfw khv)
What do? How do I get friends and not feel like I'm wasting my life?
>ask a girl friend out for a walk
>she completely ignores me
having a bit of a depressed night not gonna lie
Friends are overrated
gonna go play pool with this girl im hooked up with and her friend
hit the gym today so i got a good pump
her friend has said that if the girl im with(werent together before) ever got naked, that she would too. basically alluding to sex, i think
what do you the chances of me fucking both of them are?
One thot just rejected you, big deal, man up user.
If you weren't on Jow Forums I'd say 80%, but since you're here, 20%
But is staying in every night of the week better?
How am I supposed to get a gf?
Good way to meet people is through hobbies. obviously this includes the gym, but consider other activities, too. Take some kind of class, like martial arts. Look for a d&d group. Go on tinder, just chat with people - dont be too thirsty, just chat, some people are up for just making friends on there, too.
got a girls number at work today too. she was a classmate i had been talking to for a while tho. also some woman got right in my face like she wanted me. I get hit on a fairly decent amount.
>working in a new city
>only friend here is busy this weekend and were both to busy on weekdays with work
>guess its another night alone
ill see you at the gym boys. sounds fun right now.
I think if I stopped wearing glasses I'd get an insane amount of pussy.
In that case then you got a 86% chance, as long as you don't fuck it up by having a tism attack. God luck user, have fun.
im more upset about the ignoring completly part since i thought we were at least friends
I'm doing homework
anyone want to do some pushups with me? rolling
I work 8:00am to 8:00pm on Saturdays, and after tomorrow gonna be working Sundays as well. My weekends are officially dead. But it's fine because I'm a poor as fuck nursing student and I need the money, and the job gives me a lot of time to study/shitpost on here. Going to the gym after work.
Are you 14? Go find another girl that will go out with you, you fucking troglodyte. Do you honestly think she even cared in the first place? Odds are she's talking to her friends about it.
>Guys you won't believe who asked me out today
>Who was it was it Chad?
>Ugh I wish, user asked me to go for a walk
>Lol what?
>user? The creepy guy that mumbles to himself?
>Yeah! I mean, I didn't want to be mean to him because he's a nice guy, so I just left him on seen.
I know it's hard user, just focus on yourself, girls come and go, but one day you'll find a girl that'll blow you away.
Got something for ya user
Going to the club is a colossal waste of time and money. Chasing after the common whore that frequent clubs is a waste of time and money. Bars are the same. You're not missing anything by not "going out." Spend your time actually building a life that you want to live so that 5 years down the road you aren't still doing the same shit and chasing after the same nonsense.
im such a loser
>How do I get friends and not feel like I'm wasting my life?
People exist to screw you over which makes having true friends impossible. Even me giving you this semblance of advice isn't due to sympathy or well-wishing, I'm just bored and feel that posting on here is so inconsequential that it won't amount to any good or bad to post this
Djola pusi kurac :*
ty user, something about doing pushups when ive got nothing else to do makes me feel better
sakakak Sveta
Dabogda ti cupo prepricao borata
On saturday I like to have my dose of brotein
He understands listen to him
Happy to help user, I just did a mini HIIT routine myself, keep up the good work.
We're all gonna make it
were all gonna make it
>at parents
>applying to big boy jobs
>have 2 recruiters searching for me
>haven't had money for gym membership (temp-jobs (unstable income) and debt)
>been doing math on KhanAcademy in the meantime
>the monotony of math everyday is wearing on me
At least I'm accomplishing a personal goal I've had for years
>yesterday go to restaurant with handful of coworkers I've been trying to do social activities with recently because im a shut in
>there for two hours
>I barely talk at all
>they are laughing about things and i dont find it funny at all
>don't add anything to conversations because i know ill come off like an asshole
>i dont share details about my life with them because of how pathetic of a human being i am and it's become a joke how secretive i am and how they try to pry info from me and i dont tell them anything
i dont know what it is about eating... im okay socially at work with "observational humor" and other activities but in restaurants/bars i completely shut off. why do i even try to be social, im too mentally retarded to succeed
It's fine user, I've been there myself but instead of a friend she was pic related.
We met in middle school, back when I was 200lbs and her face looked like cheese pizza, she started talking to me, and we hit it off, we liked the same dumb things and enjoyed each others company. We had our ups and downs, stopped talking a couple of times, but we always made things right. Last year we had a pretty grizzly mishap, she sent me a screenshot of her saying hello there to another guy, I was kinda pissed but we do heavy banter from time to time, I replied with a screenshot of me setting up a date with some slut I met while studying in Munich; I knew I fucked up when she texted me this the next day:
>did you meet up with her?
From that moment I dedicated myself to make her block me, I became clingy, abrasive and most importantly a Niceguy™. This is the last thing she said to me:
>I was never interested in that way
Which I know is complete shit, this is the 2nd time she's said that, and because she would've stopped talking to me a long time ago if that was the case, among other things. I've know her for 7 years user, and you bet your ass I'll do my hardest to make things right with her. One day you'll meet a girl like pic related user, just let her know you exist.
spending time with friends is a waste of time?
What do you suggest I do instead?
Get friends, and stop being an Autist.
OP here
That describes me pretty well. Except I'm terrible at conversations everywhere and can't tell any jokes
lets do our best
I've been there, and I'm only 18. All last summer I worked alone in Virginia, I'm from Chicago. Learned a fuck ton, but it was tough getting up every day knowing all I had was the gym and making money
I've gone out on weekends in different cities and states for 10 years now. I've met a lot of people, had a lot of one night stands, been in a lot of crazy situations and I don't feel like I've really gained much as a person from it other than random stories and passed the time.
Getting sick of the same old regulars at the same old places in this town so I'm staying in tonight and doing squats
If anyone has any questions or wants to try what I've done I can give you advice as someone who's 6'1 athletic build with halfway decent social skills, I'm maybe a 7 in low lighting so my advice won't work for everyone
>even underage kids on fit are traveling across the country alone being rich
How do I get friends, that's the problem
Friends invited me out to go bowling in a couple hours. I kind of want to just stay home and play Diablo but I've been a depressed fuck lately so they probably aren't gonna take no for an answer.
im from chicago suburbs, where in chicago?
Sorry to tell ya kid but I'm with the redsuns.
I've basically become kezooko ever since I stoped talking to her.
>get attention from annoying thots
>always 2nd best
I mean at least I'm not a lonely driveru desu
Join a club, go to meet ups, volunteer, join a church and meet a big tiddy christian gf. Just stop being autistic
>Find people with similar interests
>talk about those interests and other things too
>make an effort to meet up every once in a while to continue talking about or partake in those interests
and yeah i know what you mean, gym before work, come home sleep and do it all again. weekends are a mess
I'm gonna go get a nice deep dish pizza and then I'm gonna explore one of the casinos around here as a way to get out of the house
Thanks
I don't have interests tbqh
>a girl that will blow you away
Are you 12? Why are you falling for the romance meme? Stop watching hollywood movies faggot.
Women arent special unless you gaslight yourself into thinking they are.
C O P E
sauce?
>grills like me
>I have a very visceral lack of trust from bad luck
>I can't make myself give enough of a shit to overcome this
Oh well, rejecting them is fun I guess.
just b urself man
It's a Trap.
Fuck off back to Jow Forums
>that pic
One of these days I'll find a girl who grew up in a domestic violence background who didn't end up a whore or a druggie and she's gonna be my girl
Heh,one of these days
>graduated college today as a gfless loser
>going to be working in a city where I don't know anyone
>gained 20-25 pounds over college
>spent a few hundred dollars on strippers after getting cucked
>can't drink alone or the feels get me hard; nearly busted my hand hitting a wall
I've pretty much hit rock bottom. Can big muscles make up for being really, really shitty at flirting?
>hang out with friends last night
>stay at their house
>this morning they all leave because of their responsibilities
>get food to see other friend, he's busy getting ready for his gf's prom
>buddy asks me if I want to disc golf
>"Sure"
>have a really good conversation with him
>he and his gf might be moving away
>she still has to get a job
>she's graduating college soon
>decide to head home
>be late to mother's day dinner with mom's side of family
>mom brags about me being in fucking Smash Bros club
>don't even go
>family knows about shit I've been through
>cousin brings up photos of her newborn nephew
>barely say a word all night
>family leaves, hide out in basement
>get messaged at 11 asking to play games
>can't, stuck at home
>friend since 4th grade is back from a faraway state
>friend I quit talking to for a bit is happy with her bf and figured out what she wants to do
>I'm more of a mess than the Queen of Drama herself
>no interests, barely any motivation to continue with weight loss
>still don't know what I'm doing in the fall
>friends will still refuse to say I'm fucking pathetic
Why
>tfw going full cocoon mode to save some money while I wait for a call from company offering me a job
Bit nervous guys, I’m sure I got the job but until I’m being trained to be a welder, I’m going to stay ready for anything