Former bot who found social success AMA i want to help

former bot who found social success AMA i want to help

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Is it true that women are all manipulative sluts

I'm a shutin, dropout from college, I have a job but it's online (self employed), all my hobbies are online, and my question is: where the fuck do I meet women? What do I do outside to meet people? I've "successfully" managed to make myself isolated and self sufficient. Which didn't really help me.

Not OP but I'd say only about 40% are

How do you make a positive social presence when you go alone to a party or festival or something like that? Also, how do you squelch your overwhelming desires for and expectations of people so that you can chill out and have a good time without worrying about things that you are desperate for/about? And how do you block negative intrusive thoughts that are either really critical, gorey or pervy?

no there are good and awful women out there. women are just people
honestly it sounds like your best bet is to meet women online. do your online hobbies not have groups/clubs you can join up?

What is the best thing to major in if im not smart enough for math/tech heavy stuff (thats if college is really necessary for success)

You arent a "former bot". You were always a normie

And also one more thing: what do you do when you don't know what to talk about, or there's an awkward pause in conversation but you want to keep hanging out with someone?

what exactly is your back story op?

where did you find the success

They're manipulative sluts if you let them be. Just don't take any mistreatment in the form of lying, cheating, leading you on, etc, and you'll more than not avoid the calamities that whores bring. Have standards, but more importantly have respect for yourself. Treat women as friends and only that, and never let them know that them being a woman has any influence on how you treat them. If they know that, they'll use it to their own ends. This goes for men too, but women tend to grasp this concept much more easily than men do.

How do I get over my crippling social anxiety?

>do your online hobbies not have groups/clubs you can join up?
Well, I did just have a meetup with some online friends, met them IRL after knowing them for about 3 years online. None were women. I've considered online dating but I'm really skeptical. My friend once suggested tinder a few years ago but it requires facebook - I don't have one.

i used to be the lone ranger at every party i went to and would just drink a shitton and make a fool of myself. being social is all about being self confident so i would advise on you working on bettering yourself through both physical and mental/emotional exercises if you can. worrying and feeling anxious in social situations can usually be fixed by finding self confidence and learning to love yourself, as cheesy as that is
idk desu im an english major and i chose it because i always liked reading/writing. just choose soemthing you like and dont think youd kill yourself if you studied and be sure to try and make good connections through friends so you can maybe get a job through nepotism
thats a fair opinion and i apologize if i dont fit in with your idea of a bot but i spent much of my life feeling like an awkward fat loser and remember the pain many people on this board do daily so i just want to help if i can

sorry going to post this part first a lot more responses that i thoguth i would get

Dont care about social success but help me get a job

did you get fit in order to change your life?

if you learn how to talk with people normally you ll find that silences can be comfortable or youll be able to just talk about random shit and pick up on social cues to continue conversations. it really comes down to practice, dont feel discouraged and keep trying to talk to people
i was fat and unattractive til i started working out when i was 17 or so and then worked at a zara when i was 21 to gain social skills. lost my virginity soon after and started becoming normal pretty much
im sorry man i wish i could help you. i was socially retarded and got red and stuttered every time i would talk to people but idk if your situation is worse. i gained self confidence by working out and then forced myself to get a normie job to learn how to talk to people and it was hell for the first few weeks/months but it helped me out a lot
you seem a bit further gone than my situation so im sorry if i cant offer great advice. were the friends you met up okay? maybe they have a social network you can become a part of. online dating can be a bitch but it also sounds like one of the only real options you have. its pretty common and popular now though so i would at least give it a try. cant you just make a basic fb account for tinder? though desu ive never met a girl from tinder who i wanted to have a long term thing with
what field are you looking into?
yes but now im skelly i lost about 100 pounds in total and its changed my life

>what field are you looking into?
Currently about to get a degree in HR, going next semester to finish for Business, but honestly I'm not overly attached I just want a job that will let me move out and provide for one other person without physically breaking my body

i work at a walmart where quite a few of my coworkers are at my age
been working here for 2 years and my social skills have only marginally improved

I have an inferiority complex. Why can't i just believe that i deserve to be happy like everyone else seems to naturally? I know deep down that if i just tried, I could get a girl to be interested in me. How do I shake off the feeling that I'm an ugly piece who nobody would ever want to be intimate with?

thanks, originally, for trying

Man I feel this too. People uglier than me always get laid, i feel like im almost there but i never try, im sure i can make something happen if i made the effort. Im just way too insecure