Why weren't we like other children?

yeah, that nigger lives in the richest country in the EU and he is still an autism nigger

shit genetics + shit childhood = turbo autisms

Even chris would have grown up "fine"(compared to his current situation) if he had a good family. Obviously in such severe cases you'll never escape the autism fully, he would always have been "that weird guy" but at least he'd have a job and a life with dignity if he had a good family. Now think about that, if a dumpster fire like chris would have been able to have a normal life if he had a good family to support him then the average person here who is not nearly as bad as chris might have just become a succesful and happy normalfag with. Some might have even become exceptionally succesful.

If you look at it closely most of your problems stem from shitty parents.

Shit genetics is relative though. You can be ugly as fuck but if you're smart or just talented in one field you'll still be able to make money and live a good life. And most people here really aren't that bad looking, they're just socially inept. Granted, the latter is also caused by genetics but it's exacerbated by shitty parenting. Shitty parenting makes small issues huge and creates new issues where there are none. When a kid who at 8 is already full of mental illnesses that most adults wouldn't even be able to cope with is sent to school to fend for himself he'll get bullied to hell and back. Good luck developing social skills when all your interactions with other kids consisted of being made fun of and ganged up on by other kids. It's basically a domino effect.

Assburgers as well as not so great family life, which went way the fuck downhill once my grandfather died. I am literally a cyborg since I was the oldest brother and I had to put on the big boy pants rather early in life.
Apparently from what I was told I looked around for a few seconds and then started crying.
Chris's problems literally stem from his parents, though at least Bob tried. He's fucked once Barb dies though.

I've been thinking about this lately and i think i was raped when i was a kid
>hypersexual at age 5
>anger issues
>ASPD
>ADHD

I mean, I'm pretty functional right now but I'm still seen as "the weird guy" and despite successfully hiding it I'm a mess inside, i just don't get why, i had amazing parents, a great upper middle class upbringing, studying in a decent school and i look decent

The story im about to greentext is the exact cause and reason i have no friends.
>be me
>around 10 or so years old
>in elementary school
>usually friendly and nice to everyone like the average elementary schooler is
>have group of friends who are all vastly richer than my family
>one kids parents throw Christmas parties every year and invite a bunch of people
>my family gets invited as usual
>go to party and locate friends
>theyre all in a room having fun
>i come in
>mood instantly shifts
>the kid whose parents throw the party tells me to get out and im not their friend anymore
>run outside and cry in the street
>never make friends again except for 2 online ones

this reminds me of me when i was 8

>be turbo autism
>have 2 friends who I play runescape with daily
>one friend is really reclusive even at 9yrs old (at 20 he doesnt even leave his house to socialise, only to work)
>other friend is pretty outgoing and im not sure why he was friends with us 2 autists but he was
>always go over to outgoing friends house to play PlayStation2
>his birthday arrives
>he tells me on the day that I can't come to his house for the party because his mum says I go over to their house too much
>welp, had no clue i was a burden to them, thought it was good for kids to play at each others houses
>never go to friends house again, slowly drift apart.

I was an unconventional person from the start. My words were always carefully thought out. I hated conformity because I always wanted to find better ways to do thing. And I could never hold a normal conversation with the other kids because I was the quiet kid and everybody else wanted to be loud and flashy.

I was an intellectual in a world full of idiots who only wanted social status and attention.

I regret nothing.

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I became fucked up after walking in on my older sister in bed with her boyfriend

You don't get it do you? People are fired for being weird. He'd be fired either way.

Having a good family can lead to lack of success sometimes. You have high expectations of how people should be. The expectations are not met, you get misanthropic, withdraw, and become a robot NEET. You don't want to leave home because it's your refuge from the rest of the world.

>toasting in a data mining thread

I ask msyelf this a lot. I think switching schools too many times at a young age really ruined it in an important stage in a peer groups life where time within that group is important. And kids at that age don't often take kindly to outsiders. And generally I guess I couldn't get along or relate to others. I wish I did though, I wish I was around a lot of friends as a kid.

I'd also like to add my parents should have pushed me to be extroverted more. they should have taught me it was a good thing and forced me to have conversations/make friends with other kids even if I didn't want to. I also think bad experiences with other kids put a bad taste in my mouth (ie getting bullied). Most of these things just seem to have added to the damage. I remember not being able to make friends from my earliest memories

Because some creep took advantage of me. Was bizzare and out of place ever since

Depends on how weird. If you're training anime martial arts in the corner at lunch break then yeah maybe. If you're just withdrawn and different then no unless your work is in a field where talking and the social aspect IS the work. Also depends highly on workplace but if you end up in a place where people get fired for not liking the same things as everyone else you already failed.

If you end up dysfunctional with no life skills and inability to cope with reality you probably didn't have a good family desu. Being wealthy or lack of abuse, though it's way better than nothing =/= good family. Neglect can fuck you up just as bad as abuse can.

What kind of upbringing would you say someone has if they have lots of life skills, practical/household skills, and academic skills and polite with the ability to socialize to get things done but no ability to fit in with peers or co-workers 40 hours a week, not wanting to socialize, and no ability cope with the world because it's so against the way they think they they engage in escapism? What kind of upbringing would cause such uneven skills like cooking at 8 but unable to fit in with peers?