I have decided to adopt a policy of not talking to women unless they talk to me first. Until proven otherwise, I don't believe that women can be made to like you.
My parents ask me a lot if I meet any women, and being a cyborg, I say yes. I see many women at work, or at class. My parents ask me why I haven't tried then, to get a girlfriend.
I had to explain to them that simply being near women is not good enough. I have known a girl for about a year now, we work at the same place and were hired at the same time. I have wronged her in no way, and generally give her a pleasant greeting. But she has never opened up to me, never asked me how I was, or what was going on in my life. And from experience with other women as a teenagerI know that if I were to attempt to do so she would respond as brusquely as possible to dissuade me from interacting with her. When I look at her directly I see no spark of recognition, receive no greeting. And she is not the only one, this is just how 95% of the girls I interact with treat me on a day to day basis.
Women have decided from the moment they look at you whether they want anything to do with you, let alone sleep with you. The amount of attention they have received since birth has made them cold and uncaring. This is why fat and ugly women are generally more gregarious because they have to make up for it.
But he's being self aware and giving them space if they don't show an interest, that's better than being pushy and getting labelled creepy.
Samuel Gomez
It's 2018, men owe women everything desu :3
Adrian Hill
>2018 >women treating men like human beings At least try to be realistic guyz teehee
Cooper Myers
>say that you dislike how you don't get attention from women >this means you think women "owe" you something Back to facebook, nigger
Jaxon Adams
>she has never opened up to me, never asked me how I was, or what was going on in my life
Same, but it's not like I'd know how to respond to someone even if they did.
>I don't believe that women can be made to like you. Agree and disagree. First, it's not a binary thing, whether someone likes you or not. So yeah, you can't make someone just "like" you, but things you do can affect whether they like you more or less. But then think there are more complex things happening besides attractiveness alone. Shit like expression and body language, and their personal taste. It's incomprehensible to me, so like you, I don't even try.
Julian Anderson
I don't see any wording in his post that claims that women owe him anything at all. He merely described the behavior he sees and what he intends to do in response.
Where's the "owed" part?
Aiden Brooks
Bump to fight cucks, S. O. Y. B.O. Y. S., and orbiters who support rude women
Jaxon Davis
Maybe next time you work with a girl you are attracted to you should approach them and start a non threatening dialog on day 1 instead of staring at her across the room and expecting them to like you
Ryan Stewart
>don't believe women can be made to like you Ever read Pride and Prejudice?
>telling your parents you're a cyborg
>she has never...in my life Have you done any of those things for her? All you did was say hello.
>teenager Ah, yes, because high school is truly representative of all women. This is why I punctuate all interactions with adult men with promises of video games, bars that don't check IDs, and soundcloud rapper fame.
>have made up their mind Most people generally know automatically whether someone is physically attractive to them or not. If I showed you a list of women, you could easily file them away into "would fuck", "want to fuck", "no way", and "I would cut off my leg for a chance". You can argue that your "no way" pool is substantially smaller or nonexistant than these women, but my point is that you and these coworkers of yours have the same filing system. So what's your point? "Oh no, women can see?!"
Actually, I get that your point is "wah women already know I'm unfuckable so why even interact with them?" This is pretty stupid for several reasons. The first being that while people can tell who's fuckable or not at a glance, an attractive personality can compensate for a lot. My last "crush" as it were was a chubby, short Asian TA I had because he was super clever and funny. I would not have labelled him "fuckable" at a glance but at the end of the semester I was fawning over how flippy his hair was. By cutting off all contact with women, you place all your capacity to attract in your looks, and if that worked, you wouldn't be here.
The other issue is this mindset betrays your perception of women. "If I can't fuck them, why interact with them?" That alone demonstrates you don't even have a personality women would like. You hate them, probably think all their interests are superficial and dumb, that they're roasties, etc. You hate these people, and yet you're somehow shocked that this contempt oozes through and they respond negatively to you? Would you really want to interact with someone who only saw you as a walking ATM and considered all your hobbies autistically pedantic? No? Great. Now you know why women are creeped out by you.
"Oh but how could they know what I think or post online?" You're not subtle. If you had social graces you wouldn't be here bitching about women. These are normies. They fucking war over minor social interactions because it's a language they understand. A halfway smart normie can predict your internet search history from an offhanded political comment. These chicks may not know the ins and outs of Jow Forums, but chances are they've picked up on the fact you're not a nice, shy person who wants to be their friend. You're a quiet prick who resents them.
>gregarious Well, yeah. I'm a "funny fat chick" with a busted face but this applies to men as well. All ugly people have to compensate for the reasons I said above.
This also undermines your central thesis. If women (or men) just decided based on first impressions/appearances who is fuckable or not, then what good would being funny be to a fat ugly person? Why waste the effort if nothing ever changes? It's because it does work. I've liked plenty of fat guys based on personality alone. I hit the wall at 15, but I regularly steal the limelight from stacies.
Anyway, OP, you're pretty entitled abd expect women to do all the work. If you want friends or love, (1) actually talking to them and (2) not secretly despising them is a pretty fair baseline.
tl;dr >i am a shallow whore who thinks guys should be thankful for my interest in them despite me being a worthless piece of shit
Jacob Rogers
>2018 >whiteknighting on Jow Forums Pls kys
Chase Harris
He literally complains that his coworkers don't respond to his customary greetings with inquiries about his life.
Failing to attack the primary point usually means you can't. Thanks!
>thankful Uh, yeah? You should be thankful that anybody anywhere likes and cares about you in this horrible rat race we all live in. You're a shitty person if you DON'T appreciate kindness.
>whore Ackchtually, I'm a virgin.
Nathan Harris
I like what you have posted
Luis Young
Thanks my dear nonny!
Joshua Torres
et you're somehow shocked that this contempt oozes through and they respond negatively to you? Women are no psychic. I generally think of them as children mentally and treat them as such. I am by most standards a misogynist. I have had multiple long-term relationships and 24 sexual partners by 29.
Women are, if anything, incredibly easy to manipulate.
Juan Gomez
>I regularly steal the limelight from stacies. >Ackchtually, I'm a virgin. Do you just like cock blocking or is your closing game shit? Not talking smack, just vaguely interested
Evan Allen
Assuming this post is true and not a massive LARP (which it likely is, come on Casanova, you're really concerned about "Hmmm" threads?), then obviously you have other things going for you which mitigate your dearth of decency such as money or incredible looks. OP likely doesn't have that, so he can't afford to be contemptible.
>easy to manipulate Yeah, because no man was ever duped by a pretty woman who wanted something in a shop window.
Christian Torres
Why would I go through the trouble to larp? Everyone has qualities apart from looks, I am above average but not chad by any means. As for money I dont flaunt my wealth so the point is moot.
Women cannot read minds, you basketcase. I have outright converted liberal snowflake chicks into conservative niggerhaters in literal weeks. Spare me the drivel please.
Women manipulate men via their sexuality, not their intellectual capacity. You cant conflate the two, but in the end the result is the same, I'll grant you that.
Anyone that isnt a summerfriend probably recognizes me, I post regularly. On the other hand you are probably here for a couple of months until highschool is open again.
Grayson Bennett
Uh, it's a mix. >coworkers organize a trip a month ago >one coworker is way more pretty than me >she initially gets all the attention >I tell some good stories, keep up with the banter, make some neat references, have some nuanced opinions >one of the chads at my work, who never spoke to me before, starts going on about how funny I am, how I am his "new favourite person" >brad invites me to go to this festival with him >we went last weekend >chad invites me to hang out later, gives me his number >we hung out five times since, meeting up this Thursday for brews >stacey's obviously pissed, keeps saying stuff like "yeah, I don't think anyone got that joke" followed by a litany of "I got it!" from the Brads
This is pretty typical for me.
>like cock blocking Not really. Ideally, Stacey would be my friend. It's just that Staceys find me annoying and possibly enviable, so they tend to lash out at me. I have plenty of female friends, just none that could be called Staceys.
>closing game Most of my Chad/Brad friends never hit on me. Rarely do I ever have crushes on them because I have a thing for alt-Chads. You know, lanklet musicians and academics. Too bad they find me too loud and gregarious and presume I'm stupid/not a virgin. I really liked this guy in my master's program and stopped pursuing him because I overheard him saying that I "seemed like a huge slut" to his friend despite being 23 and never even getting past second base.
When I was young, my closing game was definitely shit. One of my good friends, a provincial athlete, had a massive years-long crush on me. I liked him because he played piano well and liked metal. I thought I stood no fucking chance and resided myself to spinsterhood. He told me he used to like me when I visited him in Alaska four summers ago. It had a huge effect on my self esteem because I always thought I was his ugly female wingman.
Xavier Brooks
You are the stereotypical delusional, ugly chick that thinks she steals the limelight from attractive women yet she is inexplicably always single.
I have witnessed it so many times I dont even get schadenfreude anymore.
Jose Price
>LARP Because you have a point to prove? The entire crux of your argument is dependent upon your sexual success, lol.
>don't flaunt >which means people can't deduce it >conflating mind reading with picking up social cues in an attempt to straw-man
>making a distinction between sexuality and "intelligence" I fail to see the difference between a man playing the tortured artist role or whatever and some girl playing into some lonely guy's Zooey Deshannel fantasy besides the objective being either sex or money. Both require cunning.
>wah you're a newfag >he says after a literal Redditspace Alright Valmont, settle down, I never said women could never go for jerks.
>always single Where did I say I was single?
Grayson Ramirez
>"I'm different because I h-h-hate niggers!" >Associates black people with the term "liberal" >Not larp >reddit-spacing >"M-many people may recognize me!"
The whole term "reddit-spacing" is less than 2 years old, by the way.
My point was that you infering that women can detect misogyny via nonverbal cues is a reductio ad absurdum, it's nonsensical. I used my experiences as a means to merely fortify my premise. I never play the tortured artist, I treat them like the children they are. I am assertive, teasing and quite frankly uninterested most of the time. You seem to imply that women are mystical beings that need to be approached in a certain way and check the checkboxes, which is retarded and the very reason so many men find themselves alone and frustrated. Women are simple, vapid and emotional, they are way easier to manipulate than men.
A whole post with nothing of merit whatsoever, that's quite a feat.
John Phillips
You first, you cuck.
James Johnson
>reading comprehension
Aiden Nelson
>less than two years Duh? So?
>"women can detect misogyny" I never said all women all the time can detect misogyny. I said a socially awkward person like the OP probably doesn't hide his resentment well, and without mitigating factors like looks or wealth, it's no wonder he's disliked. >"But I've fucked women and I hate them!" Again, assuming that's true, that doesn't disprove my point. These women could have agreed with your misogynistic outlook, they could know but not cared because they wanted some good dick, you admitted to being better looking and wealthier than OP likely is, you could be a better manipulator than the average person/OP at the least, etc.
>mystical beings Literally where did I say that. >approached a certain way I literally described several scenarios for how people could become attracted to one another.
>he keeps rambling on about how super cool he is, his PUA strategy, women being dumb, etc. and expects not to be seen as a roleplaying teenager
Why is it a zero sum game? Could both parties not be entitled?
Camden Richardson
Kek I just posted this to get (You)s Let's just face it, hypergamy is a thing. And if you're not at least a 7, don't expect to get even a whiff from an average female
Robert Wood
>a reference to les liasions dangereuses >on Jow Forums
Tyler Morgan
>Gets caught and stops reddit spacing >Claims above average looks >Claims to possess wealth >"I-I swear its all Machiavellian my good man!"
Gabriel Long
I never stopped or started reddit spacing, what a retarded notion. I am the definition of slightly above average. I make 52K euro per annum, it's not exactly millions, fuck off. I am not machiavellian, I am pragmatic and utilitarian.
Connor James
I just want someone to hold in my arms and cuddle with. Want to die, I can't talk to women, therefore I will never have anyone to cuddle with.
Dylan Garcia
Not even gay but you could cuddle with a dude there's nothing degenerate about that
