I know that I sound like a normie or something right now but I like turning to you robots.
>get my first real gf pregnant
>by the time our daughters barely 3 months old we break up
>everyday since she's made it her goal to cut me out and raise my baby by herself
All I want is to raise my daughter. Why does she want me gone so bad?
>Why does she want me gone so bad
If you're on this board you either
1. Already know
2. Don't belong here
>dad
gtfo boomer
If you leave your daughter to a psycho, she will become one. Do NOT leave her unless you... wait. Your daughter will be a roastie so nvm kys
her spite will destroy that kids life by denying a solid father figure. Just be involved as much as she allows you to be at this stage. When the kid gets older, you should be able to watch her on your own without the mother. Also, document every single interaction you have with the mother and what steps you took to raise your child. bonus points for recording things that make your ex seem like a shitty parent. Also look into fathers rights organizations since they can help you lawyer up. Hopefully it wont come to that, but that is something good to have in your back pocket if it does.
You should rob banks with a bike and get killed by a cop on accident, maybe then when they are 16 they'll admire you, you boomer.
Normal dino leave my fucking board
Unfortunately, to get your parental rights you'd probably have to frame her for something big and at that point it's really not worth taking away her mother. Can you give us more of a the story? Like, what did you break up over? Do you pay child support or anything?
Typical white roastie move
Should have gone with an Asian or negress
I live in Missouri, dude. I've literally seen three Asian people my whole 20 years of life.
>20
Oh, son, you have fucked up.
We'd been failing for a while and then my power got shut off so she went to her moms. I went by after work and we got into it, she crossed some lines and I told her I was done. At first I was giving (by my own choice, not court mandated) her $180, then $160, then $150, and now $120, almost every time I got paid which is twice a month.
Looking back those creampies weren't worth it. I mean my daughter is worth it but dealing with her isn't.
How much do you make weekly? If you can't afford car insurance and to keep power... life'll be rough.
I make enough to handle those things but I don't know how to drive a car and the power wasn't my responsibility. Long story short I live at home with my mom and brother, she lived with us for a year and then our power was shut off around this time a year ago. They say the bill is over $6000. I get paid twice a month also.
Ah. I mean there's nothing wrong with sharing a home with your parents for a while (it's what I did), but once you have a child you need to get your life in order. And once she has the child, I know it's horrible but you pretty much have to accept that you won't have as much a role in your daughters life as you want. It's a real bitter pill to swallow. All you can really do is be the bigger person and be good to your kid. Hope your child sees that you did the best you could. Resist the urge to tell your child bad thing about her mother. Trust me on this. I was child in this situation too, and it's hell. At some point you'll probably have to go to court. My parents tried not to, but it didn't work. Sorry if I sound like a downer.
No no, it's reality. I don't want to live at home anymore but right now we're all in a hole and I can start getting my own life in order once this big thing gets handled.
Lmao fell for the woman meme have fun you fool
I dunno... from experience if you wanna make a good wage without too much effort. Try looking for construction or concrete companies and see if they could use a Quality Control person. Wrote software for one for a long while. Well payed and their job wasn't too rough. Construction in general is like that, but the QC people had a lot less manual labor. A lot of them were in more or less the same situations and it seemed like it helped get their life in order.
I'm a contractor for Department of Homeland Security. The biggest worry my job has is making quota everynight.
Let her have the daughter OP, shell grow up hating you regardless.
Its selfish, but you need to do whats good for you now just go on a trip.
When my life was getting worse and worse i got on my dirtbike and road cross country, maybe thats what you need, not a road trip, but time to vent and think.
Enjoy yourself OP life is too short and sometimes when things cant be helped its best to look out for yourself and cut ties in the end.
Honestly I considered it but I look into her little eyes and I see someone who loves me unconditionally. Like really unconditionally, she doesn't really want anything from me she just loves me and I can't walk away from that. But I hear you.
Happened when my parents split. Brothers and I where used as tools for them to fight with each other. Ended up spending a lot of time with my mother and it effected me negatively. She kinda just let us do whatever which at the time was nice. I never had to cook or clean but I picked up a lot of bad habits. Now I have to learn shit the hard way and it sucks I never learned how to be a man.
I (obviously) had a dad, and a step-dad. In the end neither one of them cared to see me my mom usually had to force them to see me. My dad was actually better about it though, but sadly he was fucking crazy and put me through a lot of fucked up shit. Looking back I think he was just an undiagnosed bipolar junkie, I had my suspicions leaning towards schizophrenia but he did a lot of drugs so that's probably what did it.
My old man is kinda eccentric I guess. He had a sort of hands off approach to being a parent. Would kinda let us figure stuff out and do things on our own. While he watched of course to make sure we didn't hurt ourselves. My mom was a total helicopter parent was never allowed to figure anything out or do really anything like mow the lawn because she was worried I was gonna cut my foot off or some shit. It was shit like that, that fucked me
My mom was like your dad, but she handled a lot for us. I'm better off than my brother but that's because we were brought up differently. My dad had two kids with two different women; my sister and I. He hated my sister, he frequently told people that he loved me more.
I wish mine was more like that she's a wonderful woman who has done a lot and I know here hovering was her trying to help. I'm just one of those people where I have to figure it out on my own
There's nothing wrong with that. I just wish that I knocked a bitch up that wasn't so...awful.