>Had a shower and got ready for bed at 9.50pm >I go to bed and my gf is asleep >I gently caress her back and legs for a few minutes >She seems to be asleep so I turn over and go to sleep >At midnight I hear her crying >Ask her what's wrong >"You never want to spend time with me," she says angrily >She says how I'm selfish and don't think about others, and that I don't spend enough time with her and that I should spend time with her before we sleep. >She's angry, and I'm calmly responding in my half asleep state. >She gets up and goes into the study room next door >She calls me a twat as she leaves.
>An hour later she returns >She enters the bedroom to find her duvet and pillows by the door >She's clearly still angry at me >I tell her that she's not sleeping in here tonight >After several minutes of me telling her to get out, she refuses and lays on the floor >We talk for a while, and I counter her points by mentioning the 90 minutes per day I spend taking her to and from college/work, the extra rent i pay for her, and the 3 day holiday we had a week ago where we spent literally every second together >I say that I'll make an effort to spend more time with her >She starts crying and saying she's sorry and doesn't want me to leave her >We hug for a while >I say "you should get into bed," referring to our bed >She leaves the room and goes next door, and I tell her to come back but she ignores me >I hear her sobbing next door >I fall asleep
>This morning I wake up at 7.45 having had just 5 hours sleep >I get dressed and take her to college >We don't talk in the car >She gets out and says bye >Usually we kiss and exchange "I love yous" >I return home and see that she slept under the computer desk on the carpet
I think that she does, however she hasn't seen a doctor to get a diagnosis.
Last week she was super needy and loving and just wanted to hug and kiss me non stop. The last few days she's been distant and doesn't want much to do with me.
It varies, and I never know why or when it will change.
Joshua Sanchez
1. your gf is crazy 2. get out
Luis Moore
Force her to get diagnosed. Also, get ready to dump her. It's only a matter of time until she cheats on you.
Elijah Sullivan
Have you considered fucking off my board
Julian Robinson
What the fuck do you want a bunch of virgin losers with no relationship experience to tell you?. Go to Jow Forums retard
Cameron Perry
I'm glad you don't think it's me that's in the wrong. However this story is from my perspective, so I'm sure that skews it.
She is slowly getting better. When we first met she was a lot worse, but the frequency of her anger/upset is getting less and she apologises straight away usually.
I don't think a diagnosis would help. GPs will diagnose you for anything and instantly give you drugs. I don't want her on that stuff. SSRIs are bad enough, let alone antipsychotics or whatever they'd prescribe her.
Any cheating and she's instantly kicked out. She knows this and I don't think she'd do it. She loses literally everything she has if I kick her out.
I spent my entire life on this board from ages 17-22. I value the opinions of the people here (except yours of course)
Austin Ward
Never underestimate the caveman tier thinking that a woman has. She will find some way of justifying it if mega Chad comes along.
Parker Myers
All girls with bpd cheat sooner or later. She will do it as a reaction to something she perceived as wronging her. She won't even feel guilty about it, she will cheat on you and think it's all your fault and you're forcing her to cheat.
Isaac Sanchez
I don't really know how to help you OP, my knowledge in this area is vastly lacking, however, since you might know about this, I would like to ask you something, how the fuck do you text someone? And please be as specific as you can, because I'm shit at it And I really need help figuring out what i'm doing wrong, it doesn't need to be about flirty talking or anything like that, even a guide to how to start/hold a normal conversation by text would be a great help.
Hudson Bell
Exactly, they're broken and treacherous. Sever the ties before she betrays you.
Jonathan Cooper
The "she will cheat on you with Chad" thing is just a retarded incel meme. That's not how things work. The issue is that she has bpd, which means once she gets a crazy fit episode, she will cheat on him with the first guy she encounters.
Easton Cruz
user, I am sorry to tell you that but: this user is right. She will find another guy to provide and spin some lies about you being a abusive partner. Guys eat that shit up and she will find anohter provider in notime.
You should make sure that she cant accuse you of raping or abusing her or you are the one whos fucked. Never stick your dick in crazy.
William Green
Can you post her tooties? pls
Elijah Diaz
>I'm a beta provider for a woman >turns out she's absolutely crazy and incapable of being reasonable >we sleep together Enjoy having your dick cut off when she goes completely crazy because it's only gonna get worse for her.
Josiah Lopez
>"she will cheat on you with Chad" thing is just a retarded incel meme Fine, learn the hard way. >crazy fit episode, she will cheat on him with the first guy she encounters Then get her diagnosed fuckhead.
Easton Bell
Make sure you USE CONDOMS! Do not trust her if she says she is on the pill. If she fears you're going to leave, she will stop taking the pill and not tell you.
Bentley Baker
>I return home and see that she slept under the computer desk on the carpet Like a cat cute
Tyler Parker
literally all you have to do is fuck her really good. every single woman on earth does this to her man. it's so funny seeing you type this greentext like it's some bizarre new phenomenon. literally all you have to do is fuck the shit out of her until she gets in ahegao state. if you don't do this she will find someone who will.
There's literaly a board made for these types of questions. Get the fuck out of here
Parker Martin
Sounds like bpd. Everything will always be about her. They aren't really people. Nothing you ever do will be enough. She will always be an annoying cunt and a constant drain on you emotionally, mentally and financially. Kick her out before she sinks her claws into you any further. They are remarkably good at eliciting pity but ignore the suicide threats and crying. She's not going to kill herself and she'll find another host to latch onto.
Blake Torres
GET OFF THIS BOARD, NORMALFAG (originalito commento)
you're beta as fuck. this is what she wanted to tell you, but she is so stupid that she wasn't conscious that this is what has been bothering her. expect to be cheated on asap. if i were you i would dump her >>NOW
John Taylor
keep paying her rent you tard betabux lmao
Camden Nguyen
> my board Shut the fuck up you utter retard.
Parker Torres
>GPs will diagnose you for anything and instantly give you drugs Can they force her to get those? She could answer "Thanks but no medication, thanks" and then approach the problem with psychotherapy
