Write with so called discord "friend" over 1 year everyday

>write with so called discord "friend" over 1 year everyday
>he suddenly ask how old I am
>he fucking forgot it
>I know everything about him and he doesn't even know how old I am

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How do you make discord friends?

>drove away discord friend of 1 year with clinginess
I'm an emotional parasite and I hate myself for it. It's so hard to find people I'm not indifferent to so I might just give up trying to find more friends and be alone instead.

its simple
he wasnt as good friend of you as you were of him
you see, friendships can be uneven like this, and you may consider one of them your best friend, but they might not even consider you an acquaintance

its a terrible habit, user
find it and stop it before it becomes permanent
you still have a chance

Who the fuck even cares about age? It doesn't matter as long as you're over 18. I don't even know the age of my mother. Does that mean I don't care about her? Fuck no.

this is indeed very true post

I'm 20 and he fucking thought I'm 16 or 17
I might jsut fucking block this cunt He probaly doesnt give a shit about me anyway

I'm already starting to repress my clinginess. It won't matter if I can't find someone I enjoy talking to again though.

You can talk to me if you want, I am not very active but I like to listen to what people has to say

don't repress, control it
too clingy means people will pull away, but too little and you will seem cold and heartless

this is the price for human interaction
the alternative is to go mad

I'll try to perform cognitive-behavioral therapy on myself then. Maybe I can turn the mental energy from clinginess into something more productive like reading.

i sometimes make friends, like they dm and ask me some questions and we become friends but after that i just dont talk to them anymore, they dont contact me either so were we friends in the first place? did they want to be my friend but my answer made them change their mind? i think that keeping friends is the hard part and especially online,

Haha you siscord losers are burning out your synapsis and will die friendless and senile
Have fun

Do you ever message them first? A lot of people from here are too shy to initiate conversations, especially early on in a friendship.

> A lot of people from here are too shy to initiate conversations,
This plus the fact that I have nothing to talk about.

i never speak first, i guess that kinda makes people think i dont want to talk them, i just have the only speak when spoken to mentality,

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I struggle with that too, even having a few interesting hobbies. The only way I've found to get around it is to find someone I naturally talk well with.
That's why then. You've got to try to be a bit more outgoing, it can be pretty scary to message someone uninvited but you've got to type the message out and force yourself to hit enter.

Don't act so rational because of one event. You'll regret it. Just ignore it and keep being friends, I forget my best friends age all the time but I very much enjoy them.

How do you find someone to naturally talk well with.

It's all trial and error, I'm the guy above who was talking about giving up trying to find someone interesting. It's a lot of effort, you might go through 20-30 people and find one you talk well with for a few days or weeks, and more than that to find a long term friend.

IAN CURTIS WOJAK????? hot damn that's a sexy meme

I keep ghosting my discord friends because I don't want to talk to them every single day, but I know that I am the only friend some of them have, so I feel like shit for ignoring them :(

Are you a dumb roastie whore?

You should try to set boundaries with them instead. They might be hurt if you tell them you can only talk once every few days, but ghosting hurts a lot more.

This is probably a good idea. My god, some people can be so needy. I want to be friends with these people, I really do, but man do they chew up my time

This.

No guy would give a shit. I don't know how old anyone is. I forget how old I am bro.

I know how needy they can be, I'm one of them. Part of their neediness might be a fear of abandonment, if they can hold a consistent friendship for a while with boundaries they might slowly get better too.