Frogs and Feels tavern is open.
Come on in, have a drink, share a story, hear a story, or just chill and enjoy this rainy day.
I'm the barkeep for tonight.
Frogs and Feels tavern is open.
Come on in, have a drink, share a story, hear a story, or just chill and enjoy this rainy day.
I'm the barkeep for tonight.
It sure feels lonely around here...
I think I need a drink myself.
Tfw new on Jow Forums
Tfw idk what's happening
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I don't drink but I'll stop by. Going through a rough time right now.
Good day user. Gin and tonic please. Lonely day for me as well.
Hello young traveler, welcome to the tavern. Take a seat and get comfy, the barkeep will take your order when you're ready.
Every drink has its price however. 1 order = 1 feel.
Excuse me everyone, I just went to grab a snack. I'm back and on duty.
>I don't drink but I'll stop by. Going through a rough time right now.
Sure thing, man. It's lonely here anyway. Do you want anything non-alcoholic?
I'll take a shot of dark rum and any IPA you recommend, barkeep.
I just received really good news for my career. Started sleeping with a new girl who I've been having fun with, and I find her very attractive. Yet I'm still really unhappy. I still think about my ex constantly, from over a year ago. Feels like I'm not actually "living". I can't find joy in movies, video games or hobbies anymore... all I do is shitpost and browse the internet.
I think these SSRI's are finally starting to work for me, though. I need to find out how to be happy.
Here you go, sir.
Feel free to talk about it. I'm here to listen if you need someone.
I'll have a stout please. I've had a oneitis for 7 years now. Yeah I know, I'm pathetic. We've been friends for that long and she lives half a world away now. But I just can't move on from her. We would've had a chance too if she stayed her, but we always knew she was going away. There's always been that unspoken tension between us and that has been eating me away.
How can I attain closure from this? I don't wanna keep hoping or thinking about her anymore. Maybe I'll just get the conversation about us going so we can get over it.
Things are looking good for me. All according to plan. Soon all my enemies will be dead
Here ya go. Sorry for the sharp transition, and this is the new IPA we got. It's on the house.
It's a good thing that you have started therapy, in my opinion. Personally, I think a lot of our happiness happens "under the hood", so maybe you just need to keep working with your shrink until you find a good SSRI for you.
At least your job is going well, so you can be sure you'll have something to go back to once you start enjoying things again.
Here's some snack too, if you're up for it.
A seven-year oneitis sounds like a serious thing. I don't know what exactly would work for you, but if you want to end your doubts, I think it's best to be completely open with her.
Of course, there is a chance she won't understand and that you will lose her, but in my opinion it's better to be clear about whether or not there is any chemistry between you two or not.
Do you think she has a thing for you? Or is she going out with anyone in real life?
I forgot to put on my trip-apron after I went out to eat. I'm sorry about that.
*sigh*
This place is so empty.
Like everything else in my life.
I'm going away, maybe to cinema to watch Deadpool 2. I need a break. If anyone wants to take over this boring shift, feel free. I'll leave the door open.
Just a rum and coke on the rocks please. I went on a cruise last week, water just made me feel even more lonley
I'll take a Bailey's on ice thanks (I know I'm a peasant but that shit tastes fucking good yo)
I realise that my single biggest impediment is that I hate myself. None of my achievements are ever good enough in my own eyes, even though other people praise them. I'm doing well academically, but whenever someone says "wow user those grades are good" I automatically think that "yeah because it was easy, any dipshit can do what I'm doing. I'm not special" instead of "yeah I am proud of my grades."
Same with my gains. People see me with my shirt off at the beach or a music festival and say "holy shit user you are ripped/jacked!" when all I see is a pathetic skinnyfat loser.
All this results is in a lack of confidence and ambition. Whenever I'm out and see a cute or even average girl, all I think to myself is "why would I even bother, she would never go out with a guy like me." I was recently semi-casually dating another girl, and whenever I was out with her the entire time I was thinking "I can't believe a girl like you is wasting your time on me, you're too good for me wtf are you doing". The funny thing is that if you saw me and this girl, you'd think that I was the one settling, not her. She wasn't that good looking but I still felt like I was so inferior to her because I haven't earned any of my successes.
Please help me, I don't want to live like this. I just need some confidence and belief in myself.
Thanks, I love pretzels.
No she isn't seeing anyone. I have throughout that time though which also caused some weirdness. We've always had good chemistry, and I think I'd accept it if she doesn't understand and I lose her. Neither she or I have ever been up for long distance, but maybe being open about things could help clear the air. I feel like that mindset was what did me in.
Rather than confidence, how about actual goals that aren't just academics? Something that defines you as being you, and not just a cog in a system.
Can I get a few glass of milk sir.. I just ran away from home. My sister is meanie at home
Give me 8 cls of the best Talisker in stock and I will speak when I need a refill
Here's your drink, sir.
That sounds tough.
I think the first step is to open up to someone you trust. We usually keep these thoughts pent up which leads to us thinking that we have no purpose.
None of us want to hate ourselves but we get so used to it. It becomes like a habit where the first thing we think when someone asks us something about what we are doing or how we feel is a negative piece about ourselves.
Next time whenever you see a cute girl just think," fuck it, I have nothing to lose anyway."
Hi I'm new to the tavern, so I'll share a funny story with everyone.
>go to university
>mess around with friend on escalator
>accidentally end up scaring a cute girl on it
>apologize to her and go to maths class
>turns out she's in our class
>talks to me while we wait, really hit it off
>class starts and I sit with friend, choose whether to sit in back or front row
>she walks over and sits next to me on the other side
>we talk some more, I help her out with some problems
>say jokes to each other and start laughing
>I ask her if she wants to come with me to get lunch after class
>she happily accepts and blushes a little bit, excited
>I wake up
>it was all a dream and none of it was real
>mfw
Work is so stupid and fucking stressful. I just want to get something fucking accomplished and I just get bogged down with meetings and bullshit and at the end of the day feel exhausted and feel like I did absolutely nothing of value. My birthday is coming up and my grandma as usual manages to turn it into a stressful event by bugging me constantly about my availability and shit. I love her but her need to plan everything so extensively really stresses me out.
There's also a girl that I've chickened out of asking out a couple times, and she's out of town right now, but I know I need to do it when she gets back. That's also stressing me out quite a bit
I'd love a bottle of Ruination, I can get fucked up on that shit
I don't know what I kept this for almost 10 years. I only used this to fap to girls I went to high school with. Every other experience was me being annoyed at the shit people post, or just feeling inferior to everyone else having objectively superior lives compared to mine.
>tfw had a dream like that last night
>late night walk in a park with a cutie who was wearin a cute sundress
>look into her eyes and she smiles
>embrace her and kiss passionately
>"pretty woman" was playing in the background of the dream
>wake up
>alone in shitty apartment, have to go to wageslave job
HAHAHAHHHAAHAAHHAHA
Good thing the bar was open! Here, i bought us both a shot. Drink up!
I think you just need some time alone to relax on your birthday. Just tell your Grandma you need to be alone, she'll understand. Take the day off from work if you can.