tell your stories about rejection
Tell your stories about rejection
Camden Sullivan
Landon Wright
There's too many to tell. How about you OP? What led you here?
Eli Ward
>work at cinema
>qt 6.5/10 starts working there
>I like films
>she's doing a film degree
>we chat
>get along okay
>decide fuck it I'll ask her out
>by clock in machine
>she walks up
>I say hi
>she says hi back
>I ask if she'd be interested in going out for a meal sometime
>she says sorry she has to go sorry
>stand there feeling dumb
>get told on facebook later that she has a boyfriend
>tell her no worries
>continue working with her but be cool about it
the end
Alexander Jones
probably around grade 5 when this happened
>this cute girl ive liked for a while has always been out of my league
>shes never showed any interest in me except like a year before
>easily a 8/10 but im like a 2/10 all things considered
>we talk a lot, usually on msn messenger
>one night its really late, she messages me
>"hey are you awake?"
>we start talking, normal chatting but she almost seems like she really wanted to talk to me for some reason
>she brings up something about waiting for this guy to tell her he likes her
>ohok.jpg
>"ive always liked you, i just dont know how to say it"
>she says "oh lol not you its this guy i met at camp hes really cute"
>im just silent but she continues "no offense but i would never date you"
>i never spoke to her again, always remembered those exact words "no offense but i would never date you"
>years later she goes to a different high school, i forget about it but always remember that it was so clear that no one would want to be caught dead around me and even at barely 10 years old i knew i would be alone forever
Asher Taylor
about 2 and a half weeks ago I asked the girl i liked since second grade asked me if I was joking when I asked her if she wanted go to this Italian restaurant together.
i laughed then I went home and cried for god knows how long
Lincoln Phillips
>Third grade
>School dance
>No I don't know why we had a school dance in third grade
>Girl asks me to go to the dance with her
>Even 10 y.o. me knows that this is better than Christmas
>Tell parents
>Get hair cut, dressed up, pick flowers on the way to school
>Day of dance
>Ask her to dance
>"Eww, no. I just wanted to get more boys to agree to go with me than Stacy!"
Utterly crushed my perception of girls, and people in general.
David Thompson
I asked a girl if she wanted to dance with me when i was 6. She said no. Never asked anything again.
Connor Bennett
A pattern emerges
Ryan Cruz
>ask girl out
>says yes
>on way to date she changes her mind.
>"user need to reschedule"
>give her my number
>two weeks later she texts me
>ask if she wants to hang out
>nah I'm busy. Blah blah blah excuse.
>finally add her in snapchat
>she messages me first, we get a streak going then she stops for a day just to ruin the streak.
>she did this 3 times.
>tfw forever stuck in limbo
Charles Long
A few weeks ago I asked out this qt 9/10 Latina girl at my uni who always wore leggings and reveling shirts. Even though I had to initiate every conversation with her, she seemed nice and didn't seem to mind talk with me. I stupidly thought she was actually interested in me or something because every single other girl I talked to before her seemed to hate my fucking guts and couldn't wait to get the fuck away from me.
Cont.
Juan Perez
Cont.
I asked her out one day and she crushed all my hopes of getting a girlfriend
>I have a BOYFRIEND :^)
she proclaimed
I told a guy I was cool with about my rejection and he told me he know the gal I asked out. He showed me on instagram or some shit (keep in mind im and introverted hermit and don't use social media)..
and sure enough she is dating some literal chad... I'm talking big muscles, aryan, tall, everything. I was completely crushed. I'm giving up on women, at least for a while; Women just don't seem to want me. Maybe one day in the far, far future I will be lucky enough to find the right girl....
Brody Fisher
>female
>film degree
Name three good female directors.
Ayden Brooks
is it really getting rejected if she has a boyfriend?
been the case with most of the girls I have pursued.
Alexander Bell
what the fuck you tried once and give up thats pussy. honestly rejection builds character, it actually does, unlike most other things people say does
Easton Ward
why the fuck would you waste your time on a girl that has basically told you you are not good enough for her?
fuck that cuck shit.
Jose James
you said you give up on women, but that's bullshit anyways once another one gives you attention you'll be all over her
Dominic James
>is it really getting rejected if she has a boyfriend?
yes, woman will their bf is a better option appears
Jayden Perez
>Inna Gr. 7
>There was some loner/ugly girl in my class
>Started getting interested in her
>The boys and most of the girls in the class were mean to her
>Looked like she didn't had that many friends
>When the school dance was coming up I tried to put my autism aside as much as possible and ask her out
>She said yes
>Those 5 minutes of happiness ended when I found out she told my friend to tell me she changed her mind
>Everyone now makes fun of me for asking the ugly loser girl out
>The bitch for some reason was very cruel to me after whenever I was near by
>"user you're an idiot, do you honestly think you had a chance with me?"
>"user you're fucking garbage"
>"user you're ugly af and no woman will ever say yes to you"
>This went on for a year
>She got popular and turned into a Stacy for being a bitch to me and using makeup
>Tfw 11 years later and she was right about no girl ever saying yes to me
Joseph Taylor
what, why would I do that?
not the original guy you are replying to.
sors for the confusion
my point still stands tho
Jayden Wilson
I mean the guy who got turned down acts like he's done with women, but once a pretty girl gives him attention he'll fall for her and write paragraphs on Jow Forums about her
Samuel Thomas
you mean rejection in romance? I was never rejected by a woman. not sure how I would feel about it but I dont think it would hit me hard
Owen Powell
I've been rejected honestly more times than I can remember, too many to count. After awhile it becomes like nothing save for the really harsh ones.
One that always stands out is when I was in college, I rented a duplex and a group of girls lived in the other one. One of the girls there became semi friendly with me, and we would go out drinking sometimes with friends. We had a mildly flirtatious relationship, and I'd often make it obvious that I was interested by flirting and such. She would flirt back vaguely, but was never enthusiastic nor averse.
After a few months of that, the night in question came about, when we were at a bar together and had become somewhat separated from the rest, just standing around talking. A group of her acquaintances spotted her and moved to surround her to chat, leaving me a bit shunned. Before I could begin to move back toward my own group, she slyly ran her hand down my arm while still talking to them, felt for my hand, and intertwined our fingers as though to say, "stay."
Shocked, I looked to my friend across the room and pointed to hand's connection, and he gave me a surprised thumbs up. Nothing else happened after that until later that night.
This is getting long, so I'll summarize. I made my move and she declined. She denied ever having touched me, let alone holding my hand. Vehemently denies it or the desire to do it, despite my witness. Tells me that "I respect you too much" to get involved with me. I got angry and we had an altercation, and never spoke again.
Colton Ortiz
>I looked to my friend across the room and pointed to hand's connection
God, this is horrible to imagine.
John Morgan
>See girl in a subway I used to work and pretty sure we had something
>She actually notices me staring at her with my mouth wide open
>''Hey you alright?''
>Smile and just carry on walking, want to seem busy but probably just come across as a sperg. Can't believe she just appeared and actually tried to talk to me.
>Tried talking to her on social media because I see shes single
>Seems friendly, says I looked shocked to see her in the subway.
>Openly admit I was shocked and couldn't believe it was her, already told her I was crazy about her the day I got fired so whatever.
>She actually seems friendly, uses blushing emojis and shit.
>Some small talk about old work place, she doesn't work there anymore.
>Asks me where I work now but I am asleep.
>Next day try to re initiate convo but she is completely disinterested.
>Gets mad and says ''I don't really care about work a job is a job for me etc''
>Me trying to laugh it off ''yeah but only *place we worked* smelled of old mans piss.''
>No response
>Try messaging her later in the week
>No response
>Just go straight with it and say I know she liked me and I think its shitty that she wont talk to me now for whatever reason but I'm okay with it.
>She actually responds and says she was in a relationship when we worked together so no.
>Wish her good luck but more or less imply I am done and to fuck off then. Call her a sour puss.
>Wishes me good luck too.
>3 days later she unfriends me which leads me to believe she thought about it for a bit.
>Last I checked her out she was dating some fat ugly cunt.
>Can't even go on her profile anymore because it makes me so mad.
Always felt she was an angry retarded bitch but I really wanted to fuck her bad. I still don't know why she got so pissed off with me. Because I didn't speak in the subway? Because I didn't respond to her question and went to bed? Because I have a shitty FB profile? Either way think she is a shithead now.