>Been on an SI kick for about two years, sorted myself out and final stage is getting Jow Forums. >Meet perfect little qt, she's got a few extra but not big and fat. >Date for 6 months, my SI attitude starts to rub off on her >I've lost 50lb and starting to look good, another 25 or so to go > she loses 20lb and is looking amazing >dumps me for some ultra chad now that she's fit and looking hot af
Why even bother with women. I really liked this girl and she basically used me to trade up. I'm still continuing my transformation but my whole being is now deflated.
why do you care? if you were capable of getting a girl why wouldn't you be able to get another? You are in a better position than months before.
Kevin Davis
Once again Jow Forumstards get BTFO How did the Jews do you on this one faggot
Blake Peterson
I can get girls. I just fucked a sloot last night but it's not the same. I had a bit of oneitis
Andrew Green
I actually was feeling ok of late but felt worse after I fucked a tramp last night
Isaiah Sanders
by teaching that it's okay or smart for society to let women make their own decisions.
In a much better society OP would've just purchased the girl from her father and that would've been the end of that, and if she ever even hinted at wanting to be with someone else she would be savagely beaten
Wyatt Myers
women are always looking for the bigger better deal.. and so should you.
James Ortiz
This.
Carry on with the SI and aim to get a hotter girl next time its simple.
Ian Collins
Yeah that's the plan. Still bummed though.
Alexander Nguyen
Stop being a girl.
Cameron Jenkins
yep... gotta find another thing to blame
OP probably started his self improvement but forgot to improve the fact that he's a fucking nazi pussy bitch
Thomas Jones
chad is doing you a favor
roasties will not be able to keep up with chad's lust for pizza
dont attach your happiness or self-esteem to an ephemeral and changing female. Keep improving, onward and upwards.
Kayden Rodriguez
Op. just got back from an auto parts store had some bantz with a cuter, younger cashier and asked her out, she gave me her #. I think I'm going to make it.
Josiah Reyes
keep on improving.
Christian Bailey
Ayoo
Asher Anderson
Not much to do. Just focus on yourself, keep going on. Maybe find another woman to love, but keep in mind that this is how society works now. You simply can't get attached to them, most are waiting for the moment to fuck another better guy. That's just how it works right now, you can thanks feminism and liberal cancer.
I think the lesson is to learn to be happy by yourself, to not depend on anyone whatsoever, specially a woman. Your self esteem should not depend on the whims of emotional creatures such as women. They will never love you as you want. They will never make you happy as you think they will. Just accept it as it is. Relationships are meant to be transient in this day and age.
Henry Cox
That sucks man. That really does suck. But that's chicks. Just keep on at it, you'll learn.
One piece of advice though... When this 'ultra chad' inevitably fucks and chucks her, she'll probably eventually come sniffing back around to you as a back up. You've got to tell her to take a hike. Kick her ass to the curb. If she tries to come back, have nothing to do with her.
I've seen it happen several times before.
Joseph Wood
Oh fuck no she's not coming back around here.
Joseph Torres
This is the thing user, no matter who you are, when you start to look better you think you deserve more. Especially with women, they do this more often then not. Find yourself an already fit/sticc girl and she won't be going anywhere.
And never let that whore back in your life or I'll come fuck your ass.
Caleb Adams
you havent made it the whole way yet user, girls just have it easier; the ceiling for men is so much higher
Anthony Ross
I'd bet my ever lasting soul that all women are just inherently evil, dumb as shit, or a mix of both.
>Be me, make it with qt3.14 on a Tuesday
>Wednesday she posts in a relationship on fagbook
>People on Facebook talking about how they seen it coming
>They're such a good couple!!!
>MFW I was balls deep in her less than 6 hours before hand
wow not like she'll be starved for choice, she can hop on any amount of new dicks anytime she wants. Thinking you're on an even playing field with girls is a mistake.
Xavier Lee
>inb4 she thinks she's now in a relationship with you
Sorry to hear that, user. Rest assured that if you continue on your path, maybe try to pack on some mass, you'll be plowing your own Stacy in maybe a month or two if you don't let up. Make her regret it. You're gonna make it, breh.
Christian Cooper
Don’t make the same mistake you did with the last one. Don’t get too invested too quickly.
Ethan Martin
OP you found a low quality girl, but your eventuality probably could’ve been mitigated by you taking adequate control over your relationship. 99% of women are like children or dogs, they are generally impulsive, have no agency of their own and you can reasonably control their decisions and outcomes in your relationship as long as you repudiate their bullshit when it surfaces and furthermore, take control of their environment and take full responsibility over the outcomes of your relationship.
I will break down how you can set yourself up for success:
1. If you are dating a girl first of all you should be interested in some kind a future with her. Do not date to *see* if you *may or may not be* interested in that future. Get to know a girl before dating, then you won't waste 6 months of your life, and also can then reasonably infer if she is a sloot or not - get to know her partner count, demeanor, attitude towards sex, values, etc. and whether you see a potentially viable future given these variables. Extra points if she is a virgin or low partner count by the way, but you are a Jow Forumstard so you must know the stats on this by now.
2. Friendship and the compatibility of your personalities are important foundations to build your relationship on, which is why I recommend getting to know a girl first if possible. If there exists interpersonal substance outside of your physical/intimate relationship, the girl is unlikely to unpredictably and suddenly hurt/leave you in the way that your ex did. You can not build a relationship purely on lust/physicality or you will get dumped for a chad who elicits more of these lustful/hedonistic feelings.
3. If she is into you and you are into her then go ahead and plow/do whatever/try to go exclusive/date.
4. Once you are committed/exclusive, commit to being committed. If you meet a genuinely good, compatible girl that you want to be with then don’t be afraid to drill yourself into her life. The honeymoon stage is the perfect time to do this as she will probably dig it. Softly insist on meeting her parents (they will respect you for it), make a great first impression early on and form relationships with them, become involved in her general life outside of your relationship, make friends with her friends and make them love you, etc. Do not be a pussy about this and do not feel weird for doing this as soon as it’s acceptable.
5. If you have completed step #4 you have not only made your relationship easier for the future, but you now wield soft-power over her environment. If even after the screening process in step #1 she still turns out to be kind of a hoe or impulsive/emotionally-driven (as girls tend to be), she will think very hard about the consequences of acting on impulse and fucking your relationship up for chad, as she will not want to disappoint or be judged hardcore by her parents, relatives, and closest friends (who now know you by now, and probably like you).
6. The final step is to obviously continue dating and building upon your relationship. Have the important/serious discussions early on. Create and maintain routines and traditions with one another based on your mutual hobbies, interests, religion, etc. Rituals are extremely important psychologically, abiding by them will further imprint you onto her psyche. Most of all retain your dignity, be reasonably unapologetic, repudiate bullshit as stated in intro, and do not allow yourself to become meek or whipped.
Adam Green
Of course before you enter in a relationship, you have to make yourself someone worthy of being in one in the first place. Remind yourself that you are neither entitled to love nor sex. You are already on the right track with your self-improvement. Continue to improve: work on your career, body, mind and become someone you yourself as well as others can respect.
Aiden Hall
Perfect advice, this is advice I’m gonna give to my son someday.
Jack Carter
By the time your son Is grown women will be literal prostitutes, all. He will need different advice
Owen Barnes
In my experience after 3 to 4 months I become heavily invested in the girl and it becomes less.about getting another one and more about only wanting that one. Not to sound crazy. After 4 months my brain switches to "ok this girl is vetted. I could marry her. We could have kids down the line" and so it's more like "yeah I could get another girl but we have to go through this whole getting process again and I'll have to learn to love someone new again" and that's just. It's sad and emotionally damaging.
It's weird to me how flippant women can be though. They can bail on an 6 month relationship like it's nothing overnight and be absolutely fine somehow.
Cooper Lopez
Op. this exactly. It sucks having to start from square one when we already made it past all the vetting and she seemed like a decent human being worth getting attached to. I could even pinpoint the exact moment when she lost interest\met chad. Even though she tried to play it cool for a couple weeks I could tell something was up
