PSYCHOLOGICAL E.D

>healthy test levels
>a bit chubby but fit all around
>lift heavy, well beyond 1/2/3/4
>get laid rather often, act confidently
>last 3 times though
>3 TIMES I couldn't get it up
>21 years old and i have erectile dysfunction

>not health-related, I get boners all the time
>caused from nervousness and anxiety, it's all psychological
>stopped watching porn and masturbating less, but too soon to see if that will fix it (and I don't wanna deal with the embarrassment of trying and failing again)

Have any of you had this? and what did you do to fix it?

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Yes.
Found a girl that I was attracted to EMOTIONALLY.

Shit personality and values will deflate, even if body inflates.

The more attractive the girl, the more attempts I need before it works. The uglier the girl, the quicker I nut
Riddle me that one fellas

>stopped watching porn and masturbating less
This will fix you right up user, but it will take time.
Also, if you can, get a fleshlight and use that to jerk off instead of your hand. It helped me.

I’ve been on noporn for 2 months now and don’t fap much. I had problems before but been with 10 girls since noporn and having great sex no problem.

Last night I have a threesome with one of my regular girls and her friend that I just met. End up getting performance anxiety ED. Both girls hot as fuck too. Go home and once I’m alone my dick gets hard no problem to my imagination of the two girls.

Wish I knew how to turn off nerves and performance anxiety too. Guess I wasn’t ready for a threesome yet. Feelssobadman.jpg

damn bro, that sounds awful

What was their reaction like?

STOP WATCHING SICK PORN U KEK

Oh and I had fucked a different girl Sunday and another different girl Monday just fine. Didn’t jack off all that time till the threesome on Thursday and still ED. Once you get in your head and get nervous you are just fucked.

All of it was pretty awkward. One of the girls texted me after asking if I wasn’t attracted to her and I think it hurt her feelings. Hot 20 year olds aren’t use to this happening to them I guess.

Gonna try to see each of them separately and redeem myself. Maybe try the threesome again down the road.

that way you spend less time around the ugly ones

My issue with hot chicks was premature cumming now it's as you guys said, nerves. Though i'm an oldfag so those real hot chicks are a rare annual occurrence now.

I’m threesome guy
>29
>fit
I use to get nervous around girls until I just kept banging tindr hoes and stopped getting nervous. Even able to fuck a girl within 5 minutes of meeting her.

Somehow a threesome fucked with my head. I’ve read that when you are nervous/anxious your body releases chemicals that stop your boner.

Even Viagra won’t prevent this from happening because it’s mental. Only thing to do is get comfortable by putting yourself in the situation a bunch of times.

>Get the girl of my dreams
>Love at first sight
>Fucking adore her like life itself
>The feels she gives me are whoa mama
>When we start making out hot and heavy I feel like I'll have a heart attack
>No boner tho
>First time we're supposed to have sex
>Wet noodle
>Can't get it up
>We laugh it off
>Tell her I'm just nervous
>She ends up thinking it's her and feels really bad about herself
>I feel even worse for making her feel that way
>Second time I fail as well
>Third time I fail as well because the pressure is even bigger
>4th time I buy Viagra and we get a bit drunk
>Fuck passionately and feel like I'm on drugs
>Never had problems since

I guess you just gotta cross some mental barrier

I used to do this too but it only made it worse, became addicted and then I had anxiety if I didn't take pills.

Get cialis.
Have good sex with a girl once, then you've got your mojo back and you're fine.

I've got performance anxiety or some shit, I always have trouble the first time I sleep with a girl. I just pop a pill and I'm good to go, and I only need it the first time I sleep with her.

Also I'm 30 so if I wanna go more than two rounds in a night I've gotta take it.
Makes it easier to piss in the morning too.

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Well your in a unique situation where a threesome is possible. Only did it once age 17. For practice your best bet is to hire two escorts and de-nerve with them unless you know someone else to have a threesome with. I got a real qt uni thot in February who debonered me just as i was all ready to go and i just went to my happy place and luckily my dick went hard after distracting her with finger play.

I swear that's what it is. My body trying to save me and get me out quick

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fuck this earth

stop watching porn. masturbate once every 2-3 days.

i had exactly the same thing as you. couldn't get it up for any of my gfs the first time round (except for my first gf). if i'm not having sex then i go for porn, and once i'm in "porn mode" it can take a few days or even weeks to reset my brain, depending on how much damage i've done by watching smut.

It literally happens to everyone. If it happens once, you get inside your own head and it happens again like a vicious cycle, especially if you actually like the sloot.

It's not permanent, just relax yourself, maybe have a drink or two and actually enjoy the foreplay and the act of being with a girl instead of caring about performance and you'll be fine. Everyone goes through it.

>be me
>bang gf (now wife) for 6 years
>stop fapping daily because I don’t wanna get caught
>try to have sex after 2 weeks of nofap
>dick gets hard, won’t secrete precum
>trying to fuck a bone dry pussy with a dry bone is miserable
I’m gonna have to get some lube I guess. Her pussy is dry as fuck until after I’ve penetrated her, then it starts gushing. But getting her started is hard as fuck

BASED brapposter

This. I'm a major premature ejaculator, and it gets much worse with hot women. Having a girl who was understanding and willing to help/talk things through or take it slow helps. I came even before I could penetrate her the first few times we had sex. She never made me feel bad or pressured, because she knew I already felt insecure about it. She made excuses for me
> It's ok, it's just because you think I'm pretty
she keeps track of my heartbeat and breathing now to keep me calm and pace myself when we fuck. Now I can last 2 minutes on a good day.

I didn't really respond to cialis but I keep viagra on me for times where I'm expected to impress - or a first occasion with a girl.

>I’ve read that when you are nervous/anxious your body releases chemicals that stop your boner.

Getting a boner requires parasympathetic activity on the genitals while the actual act of orgasm requires sympathetic.

You should be careful with those pills. Ischemic priapism will permantly fuck up your dick if the psychological dependency doesn't do it first.

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Why does Jow Forums have so many people making threads about having sex, especially talking about how hot the women they have sex with

they want validation so they feel good

Why tell lies on the internet?

I don't make threads about it, but honestly sometimes I can't stop thinking about sex, why is it that something which seems so normal for most people is totally absent from my life? No amount of introspection helps me in this. I'm normal looking in the face, tall, not that fat anymore, and get mires, but all my relationships go to shit. I'm not a bizarre person, I have friends, I'm social, active, and above average in all my classes. I hate that I can't figure out whats wrong with me, I wish I had more awareness because living like this is so frustrating, lonely and I hate it.

guys seriously i fuck so many hot girls, like a different one very day, almost had a threesome with two beautiful girls, just couldnt get it up lol Jow Forums life

start taking pygeum extract, I can almost guarantee this will solve your problem