Why do normies like clubbing/party culture so much?
Like what the fuck, your going to be spending $100 bucks to get wasted in uncomfortable place with too loud music to even communicate with people around pushing each other around..
Whats point? just to say you have been having fun last friday?
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It's just one of those things that's socially expected of people. If you don't conform the herd will leave you behind.
Is this shit going to die out ? Will people realize how stupid all that is?
How did it even started?
it's fun to dance to music
You can dance at home with all comforts, music you like, cheap drinks food...etc
>Is this shit going to die out ?
Probably, but it'd just be replaced with some other retarded meme activity.
>Will people realize how stupid all that is?
Of course they won't.
>How did it even started?
How everything else starts, the cool kids start doing it, so the other monkeys start doing it too.
Try to put yourself in the shoes of those women. They have no personality, no life experience, nothing interesting to talk about, nothing but their sex appeal. That's all they have. Of course they'll go to clubs just to get shit faced and fuck. These roasties are shallow husks of lust. Nothing more.
I tried it about a month ago. Ive now been to the club 3 times. It's fun to get drunk, meet people, potentially fuck them, get into a fight, etc. Nightclubs are pretty much just a place where you can be 100% human and not be judged. You don't have to pretend certain parts of your nature don't exist because they're impolite.
Normies also have jobs that they hate and may work insane hours. They're trying to fit as much fun as they can within the 2 tiny days they have to themselves.
whenever there's a large gathering of people in close proximity to one another, all I can think of is the feces that are also in close proximity. how can i find anybody attractive in a crowded club when all i think of is the hidden urine and feces beneath their skin? it's fucking disgusting. if they're dancing, all my brain will think of is their hidden feces bopping up and down
i also hate trains during peak hour. the train is completely packed, there's so much feces surrounding you. putrid. if I see a packed train go past me during peak hour, everything becomes invisible apart from the feces. it's just a bunch of feces travelling really fast, hidden within an individual who thinks they're more than just a literal bag of shit.
Not be judged
If youre a normie. I got judged plenty.
It's just fun. It's not like you go out every night, so $100 2-3 times a week is not much.
it's fun to dance with colorful lights in a dark room with lots of cheerful people and a bass so loud it makes the dance floor shake
i agree drinks in clubs are overpriced af
I go out every weekend spent about 300 400 bucks, best way to stop being a loser is to be a degenerate normie
Well if you're a robot and go into a club and unable to pretend to be a normie, yeah you'll be judged. Because you're most likely aware of yourself and everything going on around you and comparing it to what's polite in society. You're afraid to go up behind a girl who's shaking her ass because that wouldn't be ok to do outside of the club.
Feces is the plural form.
Also I don't think it's particularly sophisticated to get obsessed over some unsavory aspect of reality.
You sound like a child who got stuck in the anal phase of sexual development.
Seriously, get your shit together.
Guys spend $100. Girls spend $0.
Think about what they spend in make up and thongs.
I'm scared but also intrigued...
>implying they wear any
It's literally a place where you can act however the fuck you want and enjoy yourself. Its not like you'll ever see these people again, and even if you do they probably got too assblasted to remember.
I used to get really nervous going to parties or clubs until I realized this.
i hate clubs because i cant dance worth shit but its a good place to go to for people who like dancing and its mostly for hooking up anyways. i feel too old for it now but i used to let my friends talk me into going every few months when we just wanted to get laid
Going to the club is a shit tier methods of social-fun. If you want a better experience, go to a bar with good live music, and I don't mean electronic.
You'll have some nice band playing throwback shit when you used to be a normie and it'll be a good time. Even if you hate all the music like the autist you are, it's much more preferable than UHN TSS UHN TSS UHN TSS
>i hate clubs because i cant dance worth shit
How to dance...
1) Literally practice stepping side to side to pop/rnb/house songs. Stop and start a movement on a beat.
2) Over time hold our arms anywhere above waste height, and stop and start a movement on a beat.
Over time you will become more relaxed as you do this.
That is literally the foundation for developing any dance moves, stop and start a movement on a beat. Practising it enough that you are relaxed as you do.
Relaxation + stopping and starting movements on a beat = a decent club dancer. I promise you.
Final piece of advice... DANCE TO MUSIC YOU ENJOY.
Relaxation + stopping and starting a movement on a beat + passion = a good dancer.
For me House and RNB music brings out the best in me. I dance alone in my home because I enjoy it.
RNB classic that gets me moving...
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House classic that get's me dancing...
Nightclub attendance is slowly declining worldwide. God knows what they're replacing it with though.
you can tell he legitimately thinks he iws above others with that childish tought
>1) Literally practice stepping side to side to pop/rnb/house songs. Stop and start a movement on a beat.
I feel like this is a bit autistic. You don't learn how to dance, from my point of view. You can learn dance moves, sure, but have fun repeating the same technical shit over and over again.
For anyone that needs advice on learning how to dance, you need to be comfortable with music and with yourself. Go enjoy some music at home. Dance to it, move to it. Feel it. It doesn't need to be anything with a generic beat. Hell, I listen to black metal and ambient.
People comment on how well I dance and how fun I am (I feel like a fag for saying this but it actually true). All I ever do is enjoy the music and move to it. I've seen myself on camera before and honestly I can't bear to watch it, but apparently other people like it.
Going to clubs is awful. My normie friends used to drag me to them a couple of times a year a few years ago and everytime i felt super awkward and I'd get fucked up to compansate then feel so embarrassed/shitty for the next week id barely get out of bed.
The only fun ive ever really had at notmie event are close friends parties or small get togethers but i only do that once a year now. Im 24 and most of this happened between 18-22
Just sounds severely autistic
It's like a party that everyone is invited to
>like this is a bit autistic. You don't learn how to dance, from my point of view. You can learn dance moves, sure, but have fun repeating the same technical shit over and over again.
I see where you are coming from, but I think your approach is how 'naturals' do it, by practicing and being around people who know how to dance.
I've known many, many people who enjoy dancing and are fucking terrible at it (I saw it in nightclubs all the time. I remember going to a middle class nightclub, the girl's were slim and pretty, but were terrible fucking dancers.)
My steps were a foundation, just something to build from. Some people need to explicit technical instructions to get better at an activity, others can learn 'intuitively' through mimicking and personal trial and error.
>the social creatures we call humans are participating in a social event
Shocker
Here is an example of what I mean by, stopping and starting a movement on a beat + relaxation = a decent dancer...
it's just about women and to women it's about themselves and maybe chad
Perhaps I'm just not seeing the light in this because I am a "natural". Keep in mind, that I personally was never good st dancing. In fact I sucked and abhorred it. It was really only when my senior prom occurred, where I just enjoyed myself with my best friends, that I felt like a certain shell was broken.
I didn't focus on what move to do next, or even on the music. I just did whatever retarded shit came to my mind while dancing with friends, no matter how awkward it was. Come to think of it, I really started getting better at it when I got more jaded with the world--when I gave less fucks.
When I gave less fucks, I enjoyed things better. Alcohol sure helps and puts you in a trance, but overall I'm just enjoying the moment better. Before it was always "will this move get me laid". Now I always try to do shit that makes me happy. Feeling music makes me happy, even if it's normie shit I usually refuse to listen to. I'll dance to it ironically and maybe do something that makes me laugh.
I've seen chads who are bad dancers, but i think its just because of a lack of experience with moving to music and feeling it.
Cont.
And this is just another thought. Going to 100 dollar clubs and going-to-get-laid places seems dumb. I never understood how people do it. You're better off going to a slightly more wholesome place and just enjoying shit there. Also, if someone sees that you're genuinely enjoying something, it's a positive force and attracts people to you. So just enjoy it, bro.
Apart from they aren't there to socialise in reality because they get so drunk they act like complete retards and forget everyone they met the morning after. It's mostly an excuse to be confident and showoff, or get laid.
>why do normies...
It leads to sex. Not that hard to understand.
because its easy to get girls, many normies don't like clubbing for the very reasons you state tho, its more for the party crowd, its smokey loud and can be uncomfortable in many ways. But, girls are pretty and they are comparatively easy and concentrated for when you want to hookup, given that you're not too bad looking yourself. For ugly dudes in clubs they better be rich and have tables, then they can get the money grubbing bitches. no looks no money? better stay out the clubs
Why do normies love parties so much? What's the appeal in gathering with a slew of other smelly normies, drinking alcohol and groping random sluts? The only appealing thing I can think of is the food, but you can just buy it on your own without having to deal with a fuckload of retarded normies turning your house into a fucking pigpen.
I wish I had more of that good positive vibe.
1000% This
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I don't get it either. College really nosedived in fun when everybody turned 21 and started hitting the bars instead of throwing fun house parties
waiting for more posts by this guy^
It can be pretty fun. Also the trick is getting wasted just enough beforehand so the bouncer lets you still in
I fucked girls from clubs before. Might help if you're an incel. Fucking go out and experience it instead of being a secluded faggot
>high energy atmosphere
>chance to meet women
>having fun with your friends
>dancing
I don't understand how you can manage to spend $100 on one night. Everyone I know usually stays at home drinking until 23:00 and only then heads to the club
It's not fair clubbing and partying isn't catered to autistics and the disabled. Yet when it comes to our hobbies like cinema, anime, comics, video games, etc. Suddenly we have to be inclusive for THEM.
Just do ecstasy instead of booze and youll have the time of your life
I do it occasionally with others because it's an easy way to meet people for a brief moment of gratification. I don't spend anywhere near 100 though. Maybe 15 tops.
A lot of people who go are awkward guys who are trying to get laid. I prefer rock bars and clubs to meet other rockers/metalheads though.
And now I'll sage.