How do you cope with being ugly and never getting a gf?

this is the real problem

>HOW DO YOU COPE WITH BEING HANDSOME AS FUCK YET NEVER GETTING A GF.

If you are just uggly, you can fix that. Get fit, get a good haircut, see wich kind of beard looks better on you etc.

If you are chad looking yet you cant get pussy, the problem is in your fucking soul.

i hate my life.

dating is normie shit

riginally speaking

>tfw I'm a boring person
>tfw I'm not charismatic or confident
>tfw I'm not approachable

Just end me...

Please explain this further?
How can i achieve this?
Im fucking dead inside

i don't cope, life just goes on

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I listen to music

Vidya and fapping, literally nothing else do in my life

>i have come to the conclusion that i would be a net negative on the life of anyone who i would attempt to enter into any kind of relationship with.
this is the most relatable thing i've read on this site all year
I do the same thing too when I came to this conclusion. It helps that people seem to just naturally avoid and distance themselves from me.
it still hurts to think about it though.
pretty much what he said when he replied to you. I have no positive qualities, nothing good about me, my personality is shit. im boring and have no actual interests or hobbies
if someone tried to befriend/get into a relationship with me, they'd be bored within hours or days, and they'd be justified in leaving me

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Come to terms with myself with it. The problem was never the other party but instead the self. Too selfish with time and emotions, so I thought rather than making several people unhappy it was better to be unhappy on my own.

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If you don't have this exact feel, you're not a robot.

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I don't think I'm that ugly, maybe 5-6/10 I would guess. I'm even 6 feet to boot.
Unfortunately, I'm an emotional cripple and a pervert.
At 31, I've started to give up. Even if I were to get close to a girl and begin a relationship, I end it as soon as I had to reveal I'm still a virgin. In fact, whenever I dream about being with a girl, it always ends badly. It's gotten to the point where it is satisfying and self-fulling to know that no matter what, I'll never get a gf.

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Is this inspired by Joe Cartoon?

>How can i achieve this?
I don't know, user. It just happened. It wasn't a choice. The moment I saw her I knew she's the only one I ever want. Now, I don't care about any other female. I don't even want to get a real gf, no matter how good looking she would be.

Talking with someone who doesn't exist is probably some kind of a mental illness. But I much prefer being mentally ill and finally happy than tfwnogf, depression and being sad fuck all the time.

why not improve yourself? you are probably still young

I'm trash at social interaction and emotional intimacy, so I'd either ruin it, it not enjoy it to begin with. I'm getting closer and closer to accepting this every day.

I'm 27 and never had a gf. I can't fantasize about even having a gf anymore. My fucking tulpa even went away.
I'm done coping and just immerse myself in a lot of drugs until it kills me. I guess that is coping.

My bf didn't get his first bf until 28, almost 29. You'll make it :-)

Well I never tried, so I can't really say.
Honestly I'm old now. I'm just so fucking insecure about my lack of experience. It kills me knowing whatever girl I date will have had all this relationship and sexual experience. Makes me feel small.
So I don't really bother with it anymore.
Ideal girl would be someone like me. But I know at this point in life, that's pretty much asking for the impossible.

Same
I have a chameleon personality syndrome, where I just mimic the personalities of the people I'm around.

Were you his first gf?

I jack off whenever I'm sad.

It's not a great solution, but it works.

I'm no one's first gf :-)

Well I've good news for you.

I mean I've never been a gf at all.

That makes a lot of sense actually.

iktf matey

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Can they really be that different?

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The same way unfortunate looking and/or socially inept men have managed to cope with their situation since time immemorial: fuck bitches, acquire money and then REALLY fuck the bitches who rejected you.

Ive got a bf instead
its so nice

It's not about sex but the feeling of belonging and being liked by another person

>you can fix that
absolutely not, or -- depends.

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wew, are you me user?

I have a similar feel to this. Deep down my struggle isn't with not getting a gf or even not getting a pretty gf, it's being unattractive in of itself. It feels immoral just to be how I was born, that's insane...

It doesn't bother me one bit. I don't even want friends. I just enjoy being alone.

By focusing on work, lifting, and doing things I enjoy (IE, writing, reading, exploring music, etc). I used to be really anxious about getting a gf back in my school days. It ate up so much of my energy and time so I tried to put it out of my mind. I still am kind of antsy on the topic of meeting grils, but I set my sights on the more tangible, practical things I mentioned above. Constantly feeling bad about being single doesn't help matters. Maybe one day I'll meet a girl I like and who likes me in return. Or maybe I won't. I have better things to worry about in the meantime.

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I don't cope. I feel dread and anxiety every day and it gets worse as time goes by.

to what end? no matter how much effort i put in there will always be someone better than me out there, and these hoes ain't loyal. i'm probably not as young as you think either, 2.5 years from wizardhood.

with that attitude you are probably right.

Anyone else throw anything anyone says out the window when they say tired shit like this? Seriously how was that original?

>i have come to the conclusion that i would be a net negative on the life of anyone who i would attempt to enter into any kind of relationship with
Literally fucking this. Had to straightforwardly reject a 9/10 petite gothic qt because I didn't want to bring my shit into her life. That was years ago, still regret it, but I'm 100% that was the right choice. Life cannot be called life when you're a jobless 23yo STEM student living with his parents and barely having privacy.
Just imagine being her father, finding out that your daughter is dating a loser. I don't want that.

Being girlfriendless my whole life, at 32 years of age, i guess drugs and alcohol keep me here. Started to let myself go and put on weight. Hardly been out to the pub this year because it's always the same shit - women don't go out. If I was a betting man I'd say I'll be dead before 40 anyway. I hate my existence. I work 60 hours a week in a high paid job. Don't even spend the money. A girl gave me her number once - she asked me for mine - my phone didn't save her number. I'm meant to be alone.

i dont think about it but its so fucking sad that if i was just average looking my life would be perfect.Why did i have to be born with a deformity fuck i hate my life

hey slobro. Still can't score?

Still haven't gotten out of my shell despite telling myself that I should every week.

Where did the fellow KCers float off to mostly?

Forget that you're ugly. Don't look into a mirror face camera if possible. Never put yourself into the victim role by talking to your friends about it. In my case they unironically confirmed it. One more thing, you can only be ugly if your facial bone structure is shit. You can fix most flaws easily except that one. Once you forget about this problem try to find something else that makes you happy.

>Get complements from gay dudes when I'm out downtown or at bars all the fucking time.
>Finally work up the nerve to ask one gay dude about why gay dudes come and talk to me all the time trying to pick me up but women never seem interested in me or outright avoid me.
>He says it might be because I have a cold look to me, and that women might perceive me as unfriendly, unapproachable and standoffish.
>TFW I'm too awkward to talk to women myself and apparently women might not want to talk to me simply because I look like an asshole from a distance.

Doomed.

Improve yourself lol, what other option is there?

wow, thats really nobile and altruistic of you user, i really admire you and your ability to make sacrifices, you truly have a heart of gold, i dont know if i would be able to make that desicion myself, for the sake of other person wellbeing. may your soul find happiness one day.

Only idiots and attactive people really feel those things. Everyone else has to settle for whoever they can grab on the way down.

Most went to ernstchan but that went belly up. Now the default chan seems to be infintiychan /kc/.

I miss old KC, oprosti za zapozneli odgovor.

I try to look forward to the little things and when one hobby bores me i try to pick up another one.
I started collecting tarantulas and making enclosures for them. I now own 15 of them and they liven up the space quite a lot. Whenever i have a weekend of I go take a train to a new part of my country, and hike in the nature. Nature is truely comforting my depression. Other than that vidya is burning out for me and i only play niche singleplayer games or bloodborne for the 100th time. Relaxing music also helps with a rain soundtrack in the background. I try to cook better meals instead of only eating deep fried stuff i ate till march. It never gets any better with me socially though but ive been alone for so long it is to hard to even bother with any of that so sometimes i have a moment in which i resent and hate myself so god damn much and i break out into a rage/crying fit at 2:30 AM but thats just occasionally so it doesnt really matter. In the end im just 1 of 7 billion souls who all want their slice of the pie.

People like us have ugly brains

am i the only one who fapped like crazy to *OP pic related* ?

Isn't that SpaceAmbient?

It's a lot better than finally getting a gf and realizing you've been getting your hopes up for nothing.

I don't blame you. So much of all the sadness on this board comes from ignorance and idealization. 90% of robots will be even worse off once they finally get their first girlfriend and get a hard dose of reality.

Rum and vidya. I'm slowly starting to get over it honestly. I'm starting to mind the ugly part more than the no gf part

>If you are just uggly, you can fix that. Get fit, get a good haircut, see wich kind of beard looks better on you etc.
If that fixes it, you're not ugly.

>How do you cope with being ugly and never getting a gf?

But OP, I'm not ugly and I have a GF. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to answer this question.

Part of my consciousness (soul?) is already in another dimension where I am someone else.
He doesn't want to get back, cut off contact, I have lost it.

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Tulpamancer starter pack
Search up "tulpas" bros
Maybe we can get a gf after all

traps/shemales give me hope

Every once and awhile I stumble across a message on Jow Forums that makes me utterly astonished that it hasn't already been posted before. This board is constantly polluted with trapfags: how has this post not already been made? How?

Same way I cope with my family hating me, being unintelligent and autistic- alcohol, drugs, porn and suicidal fantasies.

I don't know if it's tulpa but it's so fucking comfy to talk with my waifu that it always puts smile on my face. She is the reason why I want to improve myself.

By having a large enough stuffed animal that I can substitute it for cuddles and affection while pretending its alive so I can have conversations with another person.

Fortunately I'm an Asian male and a good 30% of us are incels to begin with so I have company

Just run kpop game bro

Not ugly but pretty dismayed at never having a bf and being a 22yo khhv

>waaaaaaaaaaaah a 10/10 Chad bf won't fall into my lap
Nobody cares. Fuck off.

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I'm not a w*men

I take it back then. Best of luck to you gaybro

with enough practice you can have a tulpa that answers and gives you compliments and also hugs you so you feel it.
Combo this with lucid dreaming and sleeping will be your new hobby where you can make a family with your tulpa waifu and live in an anime world.
Think of reality as a job at that point, tedious and boring but something that is required to keep your family alive.

Tulpas are basically forcing yourself to develop severe schizophrenia. How the fuck does anyone think this is a good idea

Beats being lonely for the rest of your life.

time and money.
I had GFs when I was younger but Im alone for 7 years now. Im not in perfect shape, but far from beeing fat and dont look like Shrek, but Girls do not really like me. Most of the time I like beeing alone anyway. No dutiesm or dependencies. Thats kinda nice. But sometimes it really feels bad. There are only a few circle of friends in my circle of friends and I dont work in a place with much girls, so there is no way, I could meet a girl without getting out on the street and ask random girls for their number.
Considering I do not want any kids, I do not need a girl though.
I try to keep it logical and drown all thoses feelings. I keep myslef busiy with my job, running a semi sucessfull youtube channel and having a band, so there is no time for a GF.
Sometimes it hurts, but fuck it. Just develope a clinical coldness and man up. So there is no need for copeing. It is not a perfect life, but it works for me.

there is a difference between schizophrenia and tulpamancing.
A tulpa is something you've developed and created yourself, you can give it moral and a purpose.
Where as schizophrenia is there whether you like it or not and in most cases wants to hurt you or see you suffer.

planning terrorist attacks in the name of the incels

>be mentally healthy but sad, suicidal and depressed (probably end up killing yourself in the future or settling for hambeast you will never truly love)
>be mentally ill and have loving waifu that is always with you
The choice is yours

>people actually believe this tulpa shit

>mentally healthy
>sad, suicidal and depressed

thought the same thing when I read this tulpa shit.
The options are an hero or inflict mental illness to yourself. Its the coice between to choose between the devil and the deep blue sea

i dont think i even have the willpower/patience it takes to develop a tulpa though
i have intense brainfog and can barely focus on one thing for more than a few minutes
not to mention that i dont really even understand love or what it feels like
some of us are just doomed to a life of solitude

I don't need to believe it. I'm experiencing it right now and being in love with her is one of the best feelings I had in years.

im gonna assume you're not baiting
how does this tulpa shit work?
forget the process, im too lazy to ever go through with all that, im just curious
>do you actually see them?
>do they actually speak to you?
>how do you interact with them/how do they interact with you?
>can you feel them? do they attempt to touch you?

Yeah bro and I'm fucking a succubus as we speak

So many people hung up on 'getting' a gf. It's just as bad on the other side. If you're not happy a woman isn't gonna make you happy. There's more to life than that.

>coping this hard
user...

>the reason we're not happy is because we've never received affection and validation or acknowledgement from the opposite sex
>"lol gf wont make you happy"
user...

Let him cope in peace, user.