My mom is neurotic and constantly freaking out over small stuff. She has a really high opinion of herself and blames everyone else for he problems.
So today I confronted her and told her that shes difficult to live with because shes so emotionally dependent. She sperged out and called me a loser, attacked my person instead of addressing what I was trying to say. She then blamed me for all of her problems despite me being the only person that helps her with anything.
It all concluded with her telling me that she'll send me to live with my dad but she knows that its a terrible idea because he lives in a country.
she has npd or maybe is a total bitch my mom is like that too i just went crazy user, if possible, gtfo of there as soon as you can she won't change
Jeremiah Johnson
I live with a mother almost like that, but she doesn't blame anyone. She just wont stop dwelling over little shitty things and is very dependent. Repeats the same shit over and over, like she hadn't tell me that before. It also doesn't help that she is a hypochondriac. Thank God i have a brother that can deal with her.
Chase Cox
Leave and when she is on her knees begging for you to come back really thrust the knife in and tell her fuck off. She'll either see the error of her ways or mentally snap.
Aiden Davis
>She has npd This. Sounds a lot like my mom user.
Gabriel Bennett
agree with this. some people just need to be emotionally destroyed. when the time comes, OP, you need to bring her to her knees and make her suffer. it doesn't matter whether or not you want to help her after that. she needs to suffer for the way she is.
Jace Fisher
>that its a terrible idea because he lives in a country. We live in a country
Carson Lee
Check out Jow Forumsraisedbynarcissists on Reddit. Guarantee you'll relate to most of these posts.
Nathaniel Reed
go to the country OP It will set you free
Joseph Bell
meant to write different country
Cameron Davis
He lives in an actual country? Dude that sucks. I can't imagine being a neet and having the options between living with a bitch or living in a fucking country. Might just get out the gun and the rope at that point
Xavier Cook
Are you sure you arent a loser OP? If she has the power to kick you out like that, it sounds like you're the one that needs to get their shit together, not her.
Ian Cruz
If any woman has the power to make OP break down and come on the Internet and whine about her, then he already has serious issues.
Henry Collins
I have a job, an education, and will soon be going into training for a specialist job.
We've had this happen 3 times before. It always ends in her threatening to kick me out, but then not actually happening because I'm the only one that offers her emotional support. When I inevitably leave, she will get another man. She's already had kids with two. both relationships were disasters, and have given me anxiety because of the constant shouting and arguments as a child.
Jason Young
Why do you still live with her?
Wyatt Thompson
Your mom suffers from Divorced Mom Syndrome. Mine has the same symptons.
Jayden Wilson
Money for the most part. But I will leave once I enter training.
Nolan Peterson
>Why do you still live with her?
the sex is hot
Ethan Jenkins
She sucks the energy and happiness right out of the room. If anyone is not doing as much work as she is, then she will shout at you to help her with her compulsive tasks, such as cleaning out the fridge, stripping all of the sofas and cleaning them, vacuuming every room, steam mopping the floors and the laundry EVERY DAY. All the while complaining and getting pissed off at insignificant things.
She constantly talks about her ex husband (despite divorcing over 3 years ago) and her work colleagues.
Ian Russell
Yes, pretty much. Talking shit about everyone also seems to be a sympton of Divorced Mom Syndrome, like when she'd find flaws to point out in private about ALL the friends I made, as if trying to psychologically undermine my social life.
Sufferers from the syndrome are prone to addictions, which may be beneficial in case they have a compulsion to cleaning. This is changing for the worse, as many afflicted become more focused in social media management, Candy Crush playing and such.
In their eagerness to bond, they try to drag everyone to the same world of addiction instead of moving to common ground, because Divorced Moms are to addicted to their acquired behaviors to deviate from them. Usual attempts include bitching about the sons not cleaning, complaining about sons not "liking" their shit and so on. Looking utterly desinterested and/or incompetent in said tasks is advised to anyone living with Divorced Mom Syndrome.
Caleb Morgan
I feel you user. My mom's the same exact way except I feel bad for her. She may be a frustrating bitch to live with but she has a good heart as well. She loves helping people and always gets me stuff. She's like this because of the shit she's been through. It really fucked up her head. Try talking to her op. Maybe she just has some issues bothering her.
Jaxson Wright
I know what you mean. But we've had major arguments like this 3 times before and she shows no signs of improvement unfortunately.
Jayden Bell
>let me confront my defensive, mentally ill mom, who lets me live with her btw, about how i dont like living with her what the fuck did you expect to come out of this honestly? for her to change? for her to let you continue living with her? you dont fix crazies user.
James Thompson
>Yes, pretty much. Talking shit about everyone also seems to be a sympton of Divorced Mom Syndrome, like when she'd find flaws to point out in private about ALL the friends I made, as if trying to psychologically undermine my social life.
my mom would do this with my gfs. ask why i like them, say they're not pretty, that she didn't think i'd lower my standards that much. like fuck you mom, your son is gonna get some and there's nothing you can fucking do to stop it.
Ethan Bailey
>randomly come up to your mom to attack her person >surprised when she does the same thing back to you ???????
