>try to get her in to the gym >try any excuse I can think of >"it's an activity we can do together" >"it helps me mentally so maybe it'll do the same for you" (she has issues due to having abortions and being molested as a kid and sexually assaulted once) >"it makes you feel great and you become fitter and healthier"
Her only excuse is she thinks that I think that she needs to lose weight (her weight is fine) and that she doesn't feel confident in the gym.
Told her we'll go at quiet times at first and because she's with me she'll know what to do as I'll teach her. I'm also a roidcel and the biggest guy in here most days.
user just leave her. In the end it’ll be more trouble than what she’s worth. If she’s already doing mental gymnastics at the thought of exercise then the road ahead is pretty shit m8
Kevin Jackson
Stop wasting your time and also stop juicing fagg0t
Bentley Martinez
lol I feel bad for you.
Nolan Williams
Why do you want her to start lifting?
Sebastian Williams
Abortionists deserve execution
Mason Cruz
Women shouldn't lift. If she doesn't have a nice body from doing nothing then she either has shit genes or lives like a pig or both.
Camden Gray
how often do you post this thread? i feel deja vu
Ryan Rodriguez
Because it'll improve her life and body.
Right now all she does is stay up all night and sleep all day, getting suspicious of her drinking habits too.
I think lifting would help her the way it did for me, give her direction, focus, goals, a routine and so on.
Carson Stewart
>(she has issues due to having abortions and being molested as a kid and sexually assaulted once)
fpbp Never date a girl with mental issues. They are hardwired for polygamy and can't function in a real relationship. You can use them as fuckbuddies but never date.
Dylan Kelly
This. Not worth it, not matter how crazy the sex.
Nathan Richardson
giant assumption. You're being captain save a hoe.
Seriously just use her as a meat hole. Keep her around as long as she treats you good.
Ditch her the instant a non-depressed equally good looking girl wants you.
One in the hand and all that. Don't actively encourage her to do anything.
If she sees you as her rock SHE will come to you. She will actively try to be part of your world. Don't try to force it.
Lincoln Hernandez
Lmao what are you doing
Find a non-alcoholic who is level-headed and wants to improve themselves even if it makes them uncomfortable at first
I would have jumped at the opportunity to have someone experienced in the gym train me in all the basics so I didn't have to figure shit out myself over the course of like a year
I don't want to ditch her though as she is only 20 and is basically the way I was when I was 20 so we have a lot in common.
She is kind of crazy I admit and has told me a lot of stories about her getting into fights with other girls, assaulted an ex boyfriend once as well. So I know she's no angel, but I think she has a good heart and her sex drive is sky high so I with some improvement she could be a really good partner.
Isaac Hernandez
You're beyond salvation. Please report back in a year.
Gavin Howard
You DON'T necessarily need to ditch her. Just STOP trying to fix her!
Do YOUR thing.
I can just see you now saying the most cringy embarrassing shit trying to get her to do shit to make you happy,;trying to reason with her and shit.
STOP. Be more aloof. Quit playing save a hoe.
Go ahead stay with her, but stop giving her things about you to reject. Do your own thing and don't worry about it if she doesn't join you.
Charles Roberts
>She is kind of crazy I admit and has told me a lot of stories about her getting into fights with other girls, assaulted an ex boyfriend once as well. So I know she's no angel, but I think she has a good heart and her sex drive is sky high so I with some improvement she could be a really good partner
You should put a ring on it, women like this come only once in a lifetime. I can tell she will be a great mother and you will be a great father to Tyrone's kids.
Noah Carter
>I need used up pussy this badly that I'll rationalize putting up with an awful human being in my life
It doesn't matter who made her fucked up or how it occurred. She's still fucked up. You are going to severely regret this later in life, dumbass.
Carson Hernandez
God sweaty chicks turn me on so much
Lincoln Williams
I'll await your thread about how she fucked you over in a couple months
Hunter Garcia
Mental issues don't go away faggot, they're locked in forever. You can achieve a kind of meta-stability with them, but with that much baggage, anyone one trigger can bring the whole house down on her head.
Leave her. You sound like a beaten wife with stockholm syndrome--except she's the one with problems; holy shit.
Aaron Gomez
She not awful, she's just had bad things happen to her. Like she got sexually assaulted in a bar, some guy fingered her. Her ex bf killed himself for example.
Elijah Taylor
You really chose wisely.
Jack Martinez
>drunk >Had pregnancies >goes to bars at all, even underage >KILLED HER BABIES
She is a whore Let me guess: she lived with her ex bf too
Oh, in that case guess I was wrong, sounds like a real keeper bro.
Logan Anderson
"Listin go 2 tha Jim or I'll scream bich."
Jose Davis
OP - you are gay. Realize that you are gay. A heterosexual male does not stay with a girl with all of these issues, unless he is a beta orbiter or hiding his homosexuality. If you are gay, accept it now and life will get so much better. If you are a beta orbiter, then you need to break up with her and get your shit together. I am not trying to be mean to you, I have had these same issues before, and you deserve better than this. You are putting your own issues onto this girl, and that is unhealthy. It is limiting you, and it is limiting her. Seriously: you are gay, or you need to figure your shit out.
Zachary Evans
TFW I wanna get my boyfriend lifting but he's content eating and playing video games Anytime I make progress he finds a way to put me down Tard rages when he orders fast food and I say I'm not hungry
I just want a neet guy I can play vidya but also meal plan and lift with... Should I leave him?
Charles Hughes
leave the living fag
Xavier Reyes
He totally did the bullshit New year's resolution thing and then got depressed when he magically fell off the wagon the first week. I tried giving him tips and diet advice but then he throws a fit because he doesn't want his girlfriend being better at something than him.
It doesn't help he has wide hips and a goblin body, We roast each other and he's usually fine with it but I called him a Spitter from l4d2 and he wouldn't talk to me for 2 days...
Colton Bailey
>absolute cock gobblers like this have gfs and get laid
boy it just puts into perspective how pathetic I am
If it makes you feel better I'm miserable, I stay out of this sense of loyalty my mom instilled in me from very young. My parents have been married for 40 years so I wanna be the same He lied to me a lot, and isn't the person I thought I was gonna be happy with.
Again, I just stay out of wanting a long lasting relationship and hoping for change...but that's fleeting.
Jason Nelson
put DNP in his water
Cameron Cox
>tfw wife is thicc and lifts on her own accord >met in gym >tfw you don't need to try to change a human being who is emotionally ruined because they're all you have
feels gud man
Parker Johnson
HOLY SHIT LEAVE HER IMMEDIATELY. UNLESS THIS IS A TROLL THREAD
>(she has issues due to having abortions and being molested as a kid and sexually assaulted once) We get it user, shes a girl and you're dating her. Get over yourself
Dylan Adams
>he has wide hips and a goblin body >called him a Spitter from l4d2
actually sprayed water all over my glasses somehow
Jack Perry
sounds like youre dating a lentil lad
Parker Anderson
I thought it was pretty good too... He said I have man shoulders before I said that and I need to stop going to the gym so it made me mad.
The more and more I learn about him the more I realize that's true. It disgusts me but I feel like it's my obligation as a woman to make it work.
Jose Stewart
nah, knowing that doesn't make me feel any better. I know we aren't entitled to anything in life but sometimes I just don't get it....
I don't know about a lot of women, but with me, it's my fault he's acting like this. If I was prettier and motivate him more he'd love me.
You'll find your princess user and if you treat her right she'll be more than everloving. Again speaking from my own experience, but women just want a guy that supports them in their goals and takes a little interest, doesn't talk shit about what they do even if it's something dumb to you it's not to her, and they can do the same for.
Charles Martinez
There's no shame in jumping ship user(ette?) when you recognize leaving would probably be better for both of you. Sounds like you leaving might be the kick he needs to take the one life he gets seriously. You and he will both find someone better for you
Ayden King
nice b8
Ethan Miller
>Had an abortion Enjoy your child that has partial nigger DNA
Ethan Howard
Pls no bully I don't wanna be a jaded thot
Blake Hernandez
OP here, should have mentioned I'm a 24 year old virgin that's never had a gf this is my first one. That may be an important detail. I also have no friends.
Jonathan James
You are right but I feel bad for him I guess and I really wanna help him, but he really puts me down one minute then tells me I'm the prettiest girl he's ever dated and I'm way above him the next
Is he just mentally ill?
Samuel Baker
you should dump him and get with a nice guy like me send me your email address
Josiah Evans
Gym as a first step is way too fast. If she wasnt a gym goer in the first place, it'll be hard to make her want to go. Play sports first together then go to the gym.
e.g: In-doors rock climbing -> then absail down a cliff. You'll never get her to absail first.
Also your gf is a murderer. I hope you're uncomfortable about that. Especially when you fuck her. That's the graveyard of an innocent soul you're putting your dick into.
Jordan Cook
Who is this sweaty bitch?
Justin Adams
>Also your gf is a murderer. I hope you're uncomfortable about that
lol it's a bundle of cells bro
Owen Green
>GF is impregnated at as a teen with a rape baby >Gets repeatedly molested >Should have kept the baby and risked dying during childbirth and raised kids in your teens because the people around you are assholes >Not realizing the abortions could have been forced by the rapists
Must be fun being stupid.
Gavin Sullivan
Like I said before, I think you should jump ship. Does he take charge? Does he take pride in being a man and do you feel cared for? There's a big difference between someone who tries like a thirsty puppy to please his partner and a man who acts in the best interest of the both of you and stands up for himself, truly owns his mistakes and doesn't just accept them. I've got away to go but I wouldn't be who I am if my long-term goal (who I now know was a shitty match for me) hadn't left me cold turkey and made me realize the type of man I could and should be.
Even though this was probly bait
Logan Cooper
user, what you are trying to do is commendable to say the least, i really hope you succeed and manage to help the girl out.
That being said, be careful, she seems to be carrying a lot of bad things with her and if anything goes wrong in the relationship, everything you are doing to help her could back fire. Take the necessary precautions to avoid getting hurt (socially and financially) if one day she goes psycho on you out of the blue. It doesnt always happen, but when people carry such emotional baggage with them its definitely a possibility, perhaps she wont mean to hurt you, but its pretty common that people with mental issues turn against the people that love them and try to help them the most.
Im not saying dump the bitch or dont help her, just be carefull, dont trust her with your bank account or something retarded like that. I know it sounds obvious but people can be very insidious in the way they get you to give them things without you realizing it.
Jacob Peterson
There are people who get paid full salary and benefits to care for the mentally disabled and this user is over here doing it for free.
Heres a tip, lad. Girls with unresolved issues, most of all daddy issues, are non-rescuable. There is nothing you can do to help her. She will make your life living hell, and cheat on you while doing it.
Add abortions to that equation and you have a psychopath on your hands.
Get. The. Fuck. Out. Now.
Blake Brooks
The sin of rape is not paid back by commiting another sin of murdering the baby. Murder is murder is murder. If the abortion is forced by the rapist then the girl is not to blame, obviously.
>it's my fault he's acting like this. If I was prettier and motivate him more he'd love me.
WRONG. If he cant be bothered to be responsible of his own body and fate you shouldnt be picking up the slack for him and blaming yourself for his failures.
Give him a talk/ultimatum, if he doesnt get it, dump his ass, you can do better.
Christian Martinez
Can vouch Dated a girl who never saw her father and her step father molested her until she was 17 I think she didnt have a fully developed moral compass because she nearly went full sjw but i redpilled her before it got to that point
Isaac Hernandez
>That's the graveyard of an innocent soul you're putting your dick into.
Can confirm. My ex-girlfriend had an abortion before we met and that ruined me. Now I can't even get a nut anymore unless I'm shooting my load on tiny little ghost face.
John Perez
Abortionist deserve no sympathy. I would leave the bitch right there. Good luck with your crazy bitch.
Fpbp. Any girl with mental issues is a no -no the regular ones are crazy enough
Adrian Moore
Topkek
Chase Lopez
Fpbp. The issues never go away or get resolved. They only get worse.
David King
>With some improvement she could be a really good partner
Except you forget that girls never improve. They literally only get worse because none of them have the drive to get better. They'd rather bitch about their problems than do anything to fix them.
Eli Rivera
That's textbook emotional abuse honey. The push and pull games of a sociopath preying on a naive victim. He thinks you're stupid and has no respect for you. I know this must hurt to hear as I've been in the same situation with an ex.
Wyatt Gomez
>unironically railing against abortion Cuckservatives need to leave and never come back.
Thomas Stewart
This
Jack Torres
thanks anonette. >Again speaking from my own experience, but women just want a guy that supports them in their goals and takes a little interest, doesn't talk shit about what they do even if it's something dumb to you it's not to her, and they can do the same for.
that restored my faith.
I'm presently get into fitness to improve my body and get better health overall because I lost my own girl who was all of this for me (and that I was all of this for her) last year. I wasn't completely my authentic self when I was with her and I was extremely stressed, meanwhile believing it was too good to be true and would all come crashing down. I wasn't my authentic self then. We both did some dumb things, but I took it further with some cheating. I'm hoping after I get fit either she'll seriously consider the possibility that I really have changed and want to give her a second chance or that I'll meet someone new who can be everything she was for me. I really hope it's her I get to move forward into my future with but I am mature enough now and done the emotional/psychological work to be ready for whatever the future throws at me.
Henry Morales
Why would he go to church to find an upgrade? All he'd find is hypocrites and brainlets >what a f-fedora-tipper, haha, right guys? I'm literally right and you know it.
Easton Campbell
Assuming your dating pool is white, there's absolutely nothing cuckservative about refusing to date abortionists
Adrian Hernandez
>(you)
Hunter Howard
well, he's getting sex from her
John Perry
>devoted girls usually lack judgement and end up being picked up early and consequently stockholm syndrome-level attached to complete fucking losers how is that faith restoring?
also >getting back together with an ex your story is already ruined, especially because you cheated on her, and she will never fully move past that. just move on
Ryan Adams
lol you're a bundle of cells bro
Tyler Gonzalez
>tfw no murderer gf to kill you in your sleep none of you retarded Normies know this feel no reason to die or live
