Comfy R9K Discord server but it isnt filled with trannys

Try it anyway, you might surprise yourself. Worst case scenario is that you leave and never talk to a bunch of strangers again.

Well you'll just try to fit in or maybe your forgettable person.

It's not about being forgettable, though that I may be. It's about this iron wall that the original core of the server always builds up. Unless I immediately jump in, all of them are there, and I'm immediately charismatic, funny and interesting, no-one will notice me. It's the most un-robot shit

we just purged a bunch of people, we want more core users, small over large

Attached: cKNaBC6.jpg (700x971, 355K)

I get that, its up hill battle, idk you hope some members would try to engage with you more or maybe you just haven't found the right server for you yet.

mate i have the exact same problem. i've never really had friends IRL either so i think i just never learned how this whole making friends thing works.

that's another thing - the server starts off too small, where only 1-2 people are online at a time and nothing really ever happens, and then it hits a quick book where loads of people join and then the chat is just a shouting match and no-one knows anyone

it's mostly because the people who join discord are way likely to be younger, vaporwave/meme/weeb types that say theyre depressed and love traps, who can be but are very different from normal robots

Attached: hay.png (113x113, 23K)

yeah same. thing is though, i can make online friends pretty easily through chat as long as we have something in common, but they either have me at such a distance that we both become disinterested, or they really like me and i cant deal with how close they are. I have no idea why I feel like this, but I've made plenty of great online friends and cut every single one off because I'm fucking retarded

Fuck off normie niggers.
Originiggeriano

That's cute but I'm an adult, I'm sure you'll find some other like minded 8th graders to join though.

> or they really like me and i cant deal with how close they are. I've made plenty of great online friends and cut every single one off because I'm fucking retarded
Holy shit. Exactly the same happened with me, figured out that it was some sort of major trust issue problem, you should try digging deep into it to figure out a solution since this isn't stuff you want to keep with you for the rest of your life or you're going to be fucked and pushing away great people

How many users exist within it?

How did you find out? II can't see a shrink rn, but did you find something online about it?

I dont like this server, too many people..

Use IRC or something, keeps numbers down

How many were there inside, ano?

I've pushed away pretty much everyone from my life, including my only friend that i had.

Back then the I thought that the reason why I did it is because I wanted to be alone, but really I think the reason I did it just because I thought that they hated me. Maybe I have some trust issues as well, and really low self-esteem.

You never engage or talk

Faggot