Alright robots, I need your help...

Dump her, what the fuck kind of question is this? She'll bitch if your honest and say you don't want her like this. "Emontionally eating" is a personality trait that will not go away. I won't be surprised if you stay with this girl long enough she'll develop an abuse problem

Be honest. It's better than continuing with it uninterrupted and also regretting not doing anything

This is my biggest fear. That even if she "fixes it" that once we get married she'll just let herself go and become fat again. I just want a fit wife for life...

But I'm too pussy to give up this amazing relationship out of a bigger fear of never finding love again

Post pics of the wieight gain and I can advise you on if you should keep er or nah

She knows that she's fat and she knows I think she's fat. We're past that point. (Been together over 2 years)

start a dom sub relationship with her and be her daddy and tell her what she can and cant do so you can control her diet and make her work out. you gotta punish her so things like that withholding sex, giving her rewards, spanking her, whatever gives you the most dominance and control over her. train her like the dog she is

Left is her at 17, right is her last winter. She's about 30-40 lbs heavier than the picture on the right but I don't have any, because we don't take very many pictures anymore. Hell, I'm embarrassed to be with her in public at this point.

For comparison purposes, I'm 6'0" and 175lbs.

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Just be upfront with her and tell her to lose some god damn weight or it's over

dude if she gained 40lbs in a season, you need to have a serious talk with her about why she's doing this. there has to be some kind of underlying issue

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kek

Honestly, best you can do is talk to her. Bring it up subtly when the moment is right. If you would rather do it passively, maybe buy healthier foods and cut out the carb junk food from your weekly grocery run. Maybe even portion the sizes of meals when you two eat together. If it continues and you ultimately lose sexual attraction, you might need to break it off and see other people, but if you're really dedicated and in love, do your best to confront it

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Just try to push her to exercise and eat less, and do the same to support her.

We've pretty much talked ad nauseum about it. She has really really low self-esteem due to a shitty family life growing up. And she has body dysmorphia, she thought she was fat in that left picture at the time. She eats her feelings and she's addicted to sugar. She does try too, to lose the weight. Getting weight loss grants from the government, seeing a Nutritionist, etc. But she ALWAYS falters, and it feels like this addiction is going to ruin us. My patience is running out despite my love for her getting stronger... It makes me feel totally helpless to watch her get worse over time.

And yeah, I told her how alarming her weight gain is to me and that it honestly scares me. It scares her too.

So what is the time lapse here, over a year or the same year? Anyway, she's hot as fuck on the left, so I can see your disappointment, I went through a similar trial with a teen girlfriend. She started a bit chubby, became PTP and then got skinnyfat followed by skelly mode.
Either way, though, she's a braphog on the right. As long as she isn't gaining constantly it shouldn't be a problem. If you mention wanting to lose weight/workout yourself, she may be receptive to a couples experience at the local gym which can only help.

Adding to this, if you get turned off by her at any point, the relationship is in trouble.
Based on this You basically need to be the constant for her in terms of healthy eating etc
If you're a fatty yourself (no hate, I am too), then basically you need to quit your ways or accept a chubby gf

The time lapse for her approx. 120 lb weight gain is the 2 years and 2 months we've been together. So 55 lbs a year. And yeah, she is really pretty, thank you. You should see her face...

kek, maybe shes just bulking

I'm extremely disgusted by her at this point. It's way past the point of being "turned off." Sometimes she'll have this smell to her that she didn't before that is absolutely disgusting and makes me want to gag, and it permeates throughout the entire room/house. And I don't even want to know how I'd react to seeing her stretchmarks and rolls (she refuses to get naked in front of me).

We haven't had sex in months.

I'm 6'0" and 175 lbs for reference.

from cutie to baloonie, ouch OP that sucks.

well shit dude, it seems like you've already tried everything. maybe like propose to her or something, it might motivate her

Just support her a lot, tell her she's beautiful, excersice together and tell her to write down every time she eats so she's aware of her habits, throw away any kind of weighing machine and complement her every time she loses even a little bit of weight. Also keep her away from anorexia communities and from fat acceptance communities both online and irl

You gotta get her off of sugar and grain

Get her on a diet of meat and veggies my man

Small tits are best tits, keep her tight and small anonm

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>280 lbs
jesus fucking christ user just dump her fat lazy ass already shes way past saving

can you stop posting this bitch you pedo?

The thing is that I can't force her to do anything. I've told her that, and about Keto, etc. but at the end of the day it has to come from within her. I'm just so lost.

Maybe if we lived together it would be easier, but on the other hand if it doesn't get better then I would be in an even worse position than before...

280? dear god. Throw her out and get a new one.

but for real though, if she doesn't take care of herself how do you expect her to care for children? If she's already pulled the pin on the fat grenade at 20 her future is full of heart disease and shit streaked panties. Sorry bro. :/

Exercise wont do shit. If you eat healthily but dont exercise, you will still be skinny. You have to limit her intake. The main thing to cut is sugar, and never get something like a Diet Coke or other supposedly healthy foods. Tell me what she normally eats and when she eats.

> I know most of you guys here are straight to the point, no bullshit and blackpilled, so I feel I'll get more real responses
user, be honest with yourself. did you come here expecting us to tell you to dump the fat bitch? did you come here to try and seek justification for dumping her? it sounds like you did. honesty its up to you dude, but if you need approval from people to do it, then maybe your conscience is telling you that its wrong. or maybe its just because of the history with her. when you're making a decision, and you ask someone for advice and you pay attention to yourself, you realize in the moment you ask the question which option you want the other person to recommend. usually that's the option you really want. in any case dude, you need to tell her if you're really thinking about breaking things off over this, even if you have already. like sit her down and be real serious about it and tell her that if she doesn't change you're leaving. honestly, it might be the only way to help her, she made that wake up call of you just leaving her.

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this freakin guy knows what's up.

here's how it could go if you tell her you're leaving if she doesn't lose weight:

>1) she loses the weight and you live happily ever after
a. this is probably the best possible outcome

>2)she doesn't lose the weight and you pussy out and don't break up with her
a. as a result of this, she will probably never change and you're either postponing the inevitable break up or dooming yourself to life of regret if you never leave her
b. maybe she somehow loses the weight sometime in the future, though unlikely

3)she doesn't lose the weight and you do leave her
a. you don't get tied down with a girl who won't take care of herself and has underlying mental issues
b. it will hurt but she's not the same girl you fell in love with if she stays this way and you will get over it in time
c. it might be the slap in the face that she needs to actually realize that her weight is a real problem and she loses it as a result
d. you're separate but both in a better place
e. she doesn't lose the weight and just spirals, this is obviously a terrible thought, but dude, you can't save people. they can only save themselves. its unfair of her to expect you to stay with her when she's doing this to herself. she's literally killing herself slowly, just like an alcoholic is. its dark, but it's better that one of you could be happy, rather than both be trapped in hell together. I guess when you weigh this possibility, you also have to consider how much you love her, if you actually ate willing to live in misery with her. but she WILL drag you down into hell with her if you let her, believe me

You're a good height and weight, but make it to where you both go to the gym and learn the lifestyle and hobby. Do it for yourself but also make her join. You'll be happier because you'll be better in shape, and she will be too. It's going to take a lot of work on your part as much as hers.

She was already predisposed for weight gain, you can tell by her frame/posture/leg thickness/foot positioning

>She was already predisposed for weight gain
sauce on this shit? how do you know if I girl isn't predisposed? I guess if her mom's fat or skinny that's a tell, but making sure her mom is still hot is just common sense due diligence

Shit, OP. That's rough as hell. I'm really sorry for the loss of tour skinny gf. I probably wouldn't be able to handle this shit if i were you. Stay strong, Norman.

Talk her into losing weight, if she don't want break up