My gf is an angel but she lives all the way in Canada and I live in Australia. She has trouble living with her parents because they abuse her, she's been threatened to be raped by her ex boyfriend and a few people near her house. I'm thinking about moving her in with me, and she seems to love the idea. She loves me, and is very attracted to me physically and sexually.
Problem is she sometimes ignores me for longish periods of time (many hours), her friends are all whores who promote unfaithful behaviour, and she's too nice to tell the guys that message her to fuck off even if they abuse her. Sometimes she fucks with them and gets them to do shit like pour candle wax on their dick or give her money.
I love this girl, I want to take care of her and marry her, she's even a virgin. I just don't want to be hurt again. Is it worth it Jow Forums?
why does she ignore you? have you ever met her irl before? what guys message her, is she a camgirl?
Michael Ortiz
Damaged goods man. If you went to Walmart and bought a tv with a huge dent in the side of the box, you'd be worried that the TV is broken inside right? But you can just look past these huge red flags because you just want to fantasize about what it'd be like to watch tv, even though if you were thinking strait, you'd just get something different, because this would be a bad investment. Do you understand the metaphor I'm saying?
Lucas Hughes
She ends up thinking I hate her if I don't initiate conversation and I'm very irritable so she mistakes me being slightly mad with being mad at her
I haven't but she's coming here before the end of the year
She seems to soak up a lot of guys who have a fetishism for BDSM domination stuff because of the stuff she posts on her Facebook. She finds it funny, I find it a bit disturbing.
I've seen messages from people threatening her, and I've seen scars and bruises from her parents.
Joseph Evans
How can people think it's your gf if you have never get into physical contact with her?
Luis Walker
>Sometimes she fucks with them and gets them to do shit like pour candle wax on their dick or give her money. What kind of abuser does this? Sounds like she's making up the abuse stories. Not to mention that this is a sexual act your gf is partaking in. Why are you okay with this? Your gf has BPD user
Yep, BPD
William Edwards
It's just a big change, our talking patterns change sporadically. I had a week off work last week and we talked literally the whole time I was awake, we matched our sleep patterns and everything so we could maximise our time together. Previous to that she lines her patterns up with when I get home from work so we can talk. This whole week she's been really distant though and not replying to messages or reacting the same as she usually does.
Noah Hill
Because she's obsessing over other men. That's BPD for you
Brayden Stewart
i was in a very similar spot to you, OP. she won't be faithful to you. get out now.
Blake Jackson
She has said that she has BPD. She also has bad schizophrenia.
I'm not really okay with it. It is weird, I tried mentioning it and next time it happens I'm going to be stern about it. She shows me usually thinking it's amusing somehow.
Austin Clark
You dont ask losers on the internet for advice. Even if you perceive them as your likeminded friends. >>Jow Forums
Aiden Gray
What makes you think she's obsessed with other people? Could it just be her mental state being rather bad or imbalanced right now and she needs time to herself? We do talk, like we watched a movie and listened to some music together today, talked about our lives and how my job is going. Things seem normal, just not as full on as last week and I assume I did something wrong.
Luke Anderson
You know how attached BPDs get and how they internalize their relationships to make up for their own lack of sense of self. What do you think she is doing if not talking to you for weeks on end? Come on man, your gf has the mother of all red flags, you should be more cautious.
Brandon Scott
>fucks other guys >gf what?
Noah Cook
KILL YOURSELF Internet relationship cuck I would rape that bitch N leave her bloody Just like brooke
You dont deserve a relationship
Noah Wright
She doesn't ignore me for weeks, maybe a few hours while she's busy or something. It's literally only been happening for a couple days and she literally hates every guy except me. She has 2 male friends all up and both are beta orbiters that she thinks are gross.
Jace Edwards
>Problem is she sometimes ignores me for longish periods of time (many hours), her friends are all whores who promote unfaithful behaviour, and she's too nice to tell the guys that message her to fuck off even if they abuse her. Sometimes she fucks with them and gets them to do shit like pour candle wax on their dick or give her money >she's even a virgin
>she's even a virgin She told you so over the internet, so it must be true, right?
Thomas Flores
She probably fucked both of those guys at some point while convinced you were mad at her. You should at least do a lot of reading on BPD before taking things further so you know what you're getting yourself into.
Dominic Baker
You should pick up professional writing, or gaming journalism.
John Gomez
how old are you, 18? this is gonna get worse and cause you severe emotional distress. end it now.
Bentley Diaz
>his "egf" has sex with other men >b-but she likes me! she told me online that i'm better than other men she fucks >she's even a virgin lol, she only ever does anal with them so it's ok r-right?
