Why do so many young men have a MILF fetish?

A motherly woman will be a good wife and raise our kids together duh.

I'm 26 i wish I could date a 30+ female who was taller than me

Yeah but isn't some of that because in porn anyone over 30 is considered a milf? Eventually you'd just have older men looking for porn with women around their ages and they'd be forced to look for milfshit.

This one is the true one

A 15 year gap shouldnt be that bad. So what if your parents find out.
You dont have to hit on her, just knock on her door one day and ask her if you could talk about something. (think of a good topic that might hold a convo about half an hour) You might just find a common interest to continue the convo, even if it doesnt work out you could gain a friend and in time you work something out.

I guess you could tell us what you know about her so far.

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Teachers.
Don't listen to the (((Freud))) faggots, that retarded cuck details in his writings how he literally brainwashed his kid into saying he wanted to fuck his mother. Actually go read Freud, Clinical Cases, the part where he talks about his kid is straight up child abuse on several occasions.
Most people with a MILF fetish have either had positive experiences with Teachers or Mothers of friends, or even random older women on the street who were kind to them.
A small interaction is all it takes to imprint the image.

I imagine it's any combination of a multitude of factors. Mommy issues stemming from lack of attention or too much attention (the latter being one of my reasons), a taste for women with wisdom who know their way around the bedroom, the general aesthetic of older women, or perhaps seeing older women as less judgmental and/or an authority who you can trust (whether that notion is misguided or not).

its more sexual

guys want a female younger than them to take care of. older woman/younger man relationships are for SEX only.

You guys need to get yourself a younger waifu, possibly asian.

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Yea, growing up I had a lot of hot teachers and they always seemed to give me more attention than other students. I think this is what did it for me

because most women my age are lazy, dumb, dont give a shit about anything, and never shut the fuck up about the stupid bullshit they are wrong about. Older women are stoic, classy, dont go on and on about stupid pointless bullshit. They actually give a shit about important things and arnt lazy as fuck in a relationship. They actually do more than ust stand around a look pretty, waiting for everyone to do everything for them.

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In my case, I want to be nurtured and taken care of by a more dominant partner who's older than me. The dominant role has never appealed to me.

Except that's not how it works. I've been attracted to milfs since I was 8. From kindergarten to preschool to elementary school to middle school to high school, I always wanted to fuck my teachers rather than my female classmates. I never really watched teen porn either.

also sex is scary, and being with someone who knows what they are doing (and is not a total whore) makes it less scary.

Hot teachers, Hot moms of Friends, The hotties that were 23 when your pee pee started getting hard at 11 are now 34. Stuff like that

I don't want a girlfriend or any serious relationship.

I just want to have neighbor with benefits type situation.

Here's my plan

>see in in the street/walking her dog
>i pat her dog and say its a good dog
>make eyecontact with her like normal
>but this time say hi to her and say something like "hi neighbor"
>then I say my name and she says hers I guess?
>i ask her how old she is (too autistic?) and say shes looks really good for her age
>if she responds with a positive body language (what is that even?) i then give her my number and say she can message me if she wants me to come over and help her with anything
>i say okay goodbye and go about my business
>wait for her to text me

Is that a decent plan? Anything wrong with this? Should I be less vague or will she understand "message me if you want me to come over and help you with anything" as being sexual and not me actually going over to help her move shit.

>Is that a decent plan? Anything wrong with this?
This is unironically the most autistic idea I've ever read on Jow Forums, if you're not joking.

Another thought that came to me, men start going in to puberty around 12yo, at this time a lot of girls their age aren't going to be completely sexually mature but their teachers are fully developed, so the subject of their fantasies is more likely to be their teachers. That's how it was for me at least.

man's natural state is wanting to bang young girls, but since a lot of dudes are fugly they convince themselves they like gilfs. overwhelming competition drives them to a new.. or old niche

Explain to me Mr Normie why its not good. I am a HHKV I doint understand this shit. I only recently in the last few years gained a good looking body and I want to use it before Im too old. Being a 30 year old HHKV is already boomer tier.

I don't have to be a normie (I'm not) to know that this is straight the plot from a Brazzers scene.

Nah seriously though, whats so bad about it?

Am I breaking laws or is it anti-social behavior?

>asking for age
You already know her age and most females will slightly sperg if you ask their age.
>pat doggo
Ye man. Tho it depends if the doggo is aggressive or chill. Make sure to ONLY pat if the owner doesnt restrain the doggo and lets the dog get near you, otherwise youll risk spilling spaghetti.
T. Also a dog owner
>offering yourself as help.
This can go 2 ways: either she thinks its sweet or uses you to do pointless shit and categorises you as a beta.
>anything sexual
Its a bit too early, unless she is genuinely interested
P.s. if the dog is a german shepard or almost as big as a german shepard and male, theres a chance she fucks her dog

The age thing is because I want to follow it up with "wew you look really good for your age" comment.

Can't speak for everyone but I relish the idea of a mature woman with a lifetime of sexual experience and who remains horny well into her 40s. Possibly even 50s. Love the idea of an insatiable hussy.

If youre willing to risk it, go for it.
Btw dont take my advance too seriously, i mainly pulled it out of my ass and relied on common sense because i have no idea how to interact with females myself, it should work tho.

for some reason I've always been attracted to females older than me. I don't know why, maybe because females that are older are probably better at companionship and more understanding.

>"wew you look really good for your age"
Not the right way to say it, if you ask me. When people hear that, the "for your age" part drowns out the "you look really good" part. It would be better to act surprised and say you thought she was younger. But you should probably just avoid the age topic altogether, because there's too much potential for awkwardness.

To be honest, I think you might be overcomplicating this. You mentioned that she frequently holds eye contact with you with a friendly look for a long time. It might be better to just say something like "Hey, this might be a bit awkward, but, well, we've been kind of looking at each other for a while and I just wanted to know if you're just being friendly or if there's, you know, something else going on." You know, just be upfront about it.

WANTING A MOMMYGF ISN'T THE SAME AS A MILF FETISH (although I have nothing against either).
Jeez though learn the differences, god!

>To be honest, I think you might be overcomplicating this. You mentioned that she frequently holds eye contact with you with a friendly look for a long time. It might be better to just say something like "Hey, this might be a bit awkward, but, well, we've been kind of looking at each other for a while and I just wanted to know if you're just being friendly or if there's, you know, something else going on." You know, just be upfront about it.

Is that really a more normie thing to say? That seems autistic to me.

kay parker is so hot, my version of heaven would definitely be becoming junior in the taboo world.

It depends on how you say it. If you just sound curious and like you just want to clear the air so you know where things stand, I wouldn't say that's "autistic". I'm not sure how normie you can really make the situation.

I have been in a similar situation, so I am going to give you some tips.
In general, mature women are more open about their sexuality and are less likely to play games. Furthermore, even if they aren't interested in you, they will generally take your advances as a compliment and be sweet about it. You have very little to lose in this scenario, except maybe some dignity if/when your parents find out you bang older ladies.

>see in in the street/walking her dog
>i pat her dog and say its a good dog
>make eyecontact with her like normal
>but this time say hi to her and say something like "hi neighbor"
>then I say my name and she says hers I guess?
So far so good. You should definitely talk to her when you see her, if it comes naturally, like running into each other. You want to be on fairly friendly terms.
>i ask her how old she is (too autistic?) and say shes looks really good for her age
Don't do this. Never ask a woman's age. Secondly, you shouldn't compliment her looks until she has complimented yours. Remember how I said mature women are more open about their sexuality? If she is already staring at you every now and then, and if you are Jow Forums and reasonably good looking, she is VERY likely to compliment or even touch your arms/back. I'm dead srs. I am a Jow Forums, tall and fairly handsome diagnosed aspie, and I get older ladies touching my arms all the fucking time.
If we are going with the dog in street-scenario, your best bet is to wear short shorts and tank-top (or something that clearly shows off your muscles), and pretending to be out on a walk or jog or something. She is very likely to compliment you on your physique, or ask if you work out, or something, especially since you are wearing gym clothes. Just give her some generic "oh, you know, a few pushups here and there" or something like that. Keep it vague, make your accomplishments seem simple, don't go full autism and talk about how many days you work out and specific routines.
To be continued

I think it might be related to the fact that women are not as attached to their family anymore as they are having their carreers or whatever. So you end up missing the affection that you should've had and end up longing for caring mommy GFs

It's mentally healthy to be attracted to adult women, not a fetish. The real question is why americans think it's normal for women to shave their body hair.

I think the opposite. I have a milf fetish and my mom died when I was young

GILFs are better.

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I think a lot of guys like older women for the same reasons a lot of women like older men. It's just that society in general is uncomfortable with male sexuality or men breaking gender roles, so people try to make it out to be something weird.

>You will never meet a sweet, saggy, wrinkly gilf and make her feel beautiful because you legitimately love her gilfy aesthetics

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cont.
Because you are interested in her, I am assuming she is fairly good looking and probably does some kind of physical training herself. So after she compliments you, you say something like "I notice you are in pretty good shape yourself, do you work out?"
This is going to make her fucking day, month or even year. Older ladies don't get many compliments from good looking young guys.
>>if she responds with a positive body language (what is that even?) i then give her my number and say she can message me if she wants me to come over and help her with anything
This is pretty good. "help her with anything" is perfect, because it leaves room for sexual interpretation in her mind. But you may want to wait with it until she says something about her being "all alone in her big house" or something like that, essentially soliciting your help.
>>i say okay goodbye and go about my business
Good thing. Always leave her wanting more.
>>wait for her to text me
Sure.

They key point is this
>older women are likely to make first move or show interest
>you can return that interest at very low risk
>she either accepts your advances or turns you down politely.

I used to bang a woman in her 40s down the block from where I used to live. I have also slept with several other older women. They usually make it extremely obvious that they are interested in me, and you don't need much game to succeed, assuming you look good. This makes older ladies perfect for a 7/10 aspie like myself.
Good luck.

>Mom had me at 17
>Rarely ever saw her growing up
>Probably like once every two years, if that
>16th birthday, mom wants to be in my life properly
>Notice she is hot as fuck, "but she's my mom~"
>End up living with her and her boyfriend
>Four years later, still think she's hot as fuck

See her naked all the time as well. Great fap material.
Looks a lot like pic related.

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Kay Parker
......oops wrong thread

People wanna sex their mommy, but not too much. It needs to be one step removed from mom. Such is why people use terms like MILF and Step Mom more often than straight up Mom. To a certain extent, irony is a tool to disassociate one's self from the image of one's mother. He calls his lover mommy, but on Jow Forums he'll make jokes like "mommy mommy give me milkies" or whatever. It's the difference between.
>I don't know who the woman in the dream was, but it definitely wasn't my mother.
And
>The woman in the dream was my mother, but anyways.

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No I actually wanna bang my mom too

Who knows. Certainly not the virgin nerds on Jow Forums. But ok, let's play, if that's your thing.

#1 The most common denominator for anyone's positive female experiences, intimacy even (though in a different way), is their mother.

#2 There is clearly a correlation between the emasculation of men and overzealousness and narcissism of modern feminists, as herbivores, MGTOW and decreased birth rates would imply. In short, the younger a woman is, the more likely it is she will be hostile, difficult to approach, impossible to please, and expect one-sided affection from men without pulling any of the weight herself. Women are increasingly raised into a life where they can expect the social media, education, government and white men as a whole to give them more and more, while they need to do less and less to earn it. With older women this is the opposite. The older a woman is, the less hostile they treat men, and the more they are willing to work for the attention of men.

It can be argued that there's some irony here, where the older generation women who were not yet raised by the feminist narrative, actually live and behave far more equally to men than younger women, who were raised into selfishness and misandry.

#3 Older women have experience younger women lack, and lack the drama and self confidence issues of younger women. They know what they want, and aren't shy about getting it. Also much less likely to play mind games since they've grown beyond that fucked up phase.

#4 Do I really need to go on? MILFs have a whole lot of things going for them, especially in a modern society.

I'm so jealous. My lack of an attractive female family member makes me more resentful than any of my other shortcomings.

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Velicity was great, too bad she retired

Lucky fuck.
Or unlucky that she'll never want to fuck you

Can't decide.

v tru

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My favorite scene from hers is the one on one of the Diggin' in the Gapes DVDs

its not a fetish, a woman old or not with a nice body. as a man you want to fuck it.
but maybe you meant as relationship? thats rare but mostly because its not accepted socially and that most milfs are fat and ugly.
its not more complicated than that. dont listen to these insecure mentally ill faggots. theyre the type who take personality tests online and base their whole identity around it

Imagine sperging and getting flustered around your own mom because you're attracted to her

>its not accepted socially

t.boomer

It's very accepted socially faggot , I saw an older woman with a young guy to fill her "accessories" since she's a independent strong woman who don't need no man but as young stud to fuck the shit out of her and when go to the beach to go with someone you actually like to look at .

name? source? fdfsdf

so youd be comfortable with being in a relationship with a 40-50 year old woman and bring her home and let her meet your family without feeling any sort of shame? and the same with her family?
i can tell youve not thought about this further than the lenght of your dick, its not socially acceptable no matter what your sexual fantasies makes you think.

I would be totally fine with it. My mom even knows I like older women and she doesn't give a shit. Only reason I probably wouldn't date one is because I want kids.

because contrary to what (((psychologists))) say, women don't mature faster than men necessarily. women begin to mature earlier but mature more slowly. by the time people are 25 women are still stuck at 18 whereas men have moved on to adulthood. a 25 year old man is on the same level of mental maturity as a 30-35 year old woman. most men over 21 are generally sick of partying and want to start families. women still try to "have it all" until they're past the wall at 30 and the panic sets in. women used to be protected from their own immaturity by societal norms but women's liberation fucked those protections over in the misguided attempt to help women.

velicity von

as in velicity von

Because I'm an innocent young virgin and the thought of an older woman with a hot body taking over and sucking my cock until I cum is very hot user.

That's Kay Parker! First adult film actress I ever laid eyes on, in the first real porn I ever saw. She's still a favorite of mine. Based on interviews I've seen and heard of her more recently, she seems like a lovely woman, now retired of course.

>paranoid she'll come over and tell my parents I tried hitting on her or something.

......and?

>Here's my plan

Sperglord already overcomplicating the simple.

No plan.

>i pat her dog and say its a good dog

Jesus Christ, what the fuck is a "good dog"? How do you know?

And don't pet dogs you don't know. You want her, not the dog.

>make eyecontact with her like normal
>but this time say hi to her and say something like "hi neighbor"

Weirdo. You smile and/or wink and start talking about whatever.

>i ask her how old she is (too autistic?) and say shes looks really good for her age

HOLY FUCKING SHIT ABORT ABORT

>if she responds with a positive body language (what is that even?) i then give her my number and say she can message me if she wants me to come over and help her with anything

You just talk to her. Honestly, it's pretty obvious she wants the D. Just straight up ask her if she likes you. If she says yes, tell her you want to do something with her. (hang out, whatever) If she asks why you asked, say you were just curious.

That should be pretty straightforward.

>wait for her to text me

NO! You text.

>Is that a decent plan? Anything wrong with this? Should I be less vague or will she understand "message me if you want me to come over and help you with anything" as being sexual and not me actually going over to help her move shit.

Dude, she already likes you. Just smile and start a conversation. Towards the end tell her that you should hang out or do something together. Hell, maybe you can even fuck her right afterwards.

>paranoid she'll come over and tell my parents I tried hitting on her or something.
Like user said >......and?

In your situation, IF that happened, I'm betting your parents would be more proud than anything else. And at 30, you seriously shouldn't give a fuck about what your parents think anyway.

15 years is literally nothing these days. Go for it. Or don't. But your excuses are really lame.

>Hey, this might be a bit awkward

Oh Lord...

i don't get this "step" daughter, son, mother shit.

>Hey, this might be a bit awkward, but, well, we've been kind of looking at each other for a while and I just wanted to know if you're just being friendly or if there's, you know, something else going on.

NO. THIS IS A TERRIBLE LINE.
Just say hello to her. Strike up a conversation. It's really not hard at all.

There's also the possibility that she's holding eye contact with you a little too long because she's terrified of you. Because you're obviously a psycho.

God Kay Parker is so fucking hot. Her big hairy bush, her hanging titties and her fat ass. Ultimate MILFcore.

When I was young the older females were the one who were sexually developed so I imagined fucking them. Also my aunt had some nice tits and when I was like 7 I would imagine sucking on them. It was one of those boners that was pure love because I couldnt cum. I had forgot about that feeling until I had one on my first weed edible. Had nothing to do with my mom. Started out with me fucking my friends hot moms then to make it more dirty I found incest was just taboo enough to get my rocks off. I love Kay parker as well great fucking tits. God so good.

Older women are the path out of inceldom. A lot of them are single and miserable, desperate for cock. I'm talking 40+ though, the 30 year olds are probably still out of reach for a lot of you. But its good to get experience with. You have to start somewhere, just like with jobs.

I would just go up start talking to her. Edge your way into a conversation and tell her how you're depressed and shit and living at home. Owning your current state will be much better than hiding it. If you think you can hide who you are from a 45 year old woman...no, their perceptiveness is through the roof. Definitely dont try to pretend to be some chad. Plus, i think older women are really interested in younger men's depression problems, I've just noticed. Hopefully you exchanging information like that will lead to a future meeting, like you coming over for tea or whatever, and she'll get attracted to you over time. Short enough time hopefully.

Where do they congregate for young cock?

Dating sites I imagine. I actually matched with a with 40 something women with my fake incel account.

this looks like a post op transsexual or something

There are bars that are known as "cougar bars", just in my small town we have a few. You can also try those internet type dating sites and select the age group. Also most attractive older women are constantly at the gym

> If you think you can hide who you are from a 45 year old woman...no

Right, but this can actually be a good thing.

>i can tell youve not thought about this further than the length of your dick

this is definitely going in my lines for future arguments collection. And my cringe collection.

dont fuck your mom dude......

because modern women act like children so there was a hard shift among certain groups to women very mature in their behaviour

It developed when the only success I had with women came from some really sweet great moms