So how's the girlfriend search going?
So how's the girlfriend search going?
Lifting the pain away
I've gone from hating women to just hating everything.
what search? volcel forever my dude
please refer to the following because i cant just say "see"
Like the Japanese, I have transcended beyond the need for women
Lost interest in that years ago.
>met qt at work
>first time she saw me she smiled as brightly as the sun
>introduced myself and we talked for a while
>some other day
>we talked for a while, I asked her what she liked to do on the weekends, etc
>gave HER my phone number, you know reverse psychology and everything, she gave me hers instead and I dialed into her phone so she could save mine
>while she was trying to open her phone to get to the dialpad you could tell she was nervous as fuck, couldn't even pull the dialpad app and kept opening and closing the notification bar, etc
>her hands might have been shaking a bit too
I think she might actually legit like me. Here's hoping, wish me luck guys.
every time I visit my parents they always bring it up, can literally see the pain in their eyes as well as my grandparents. they know that the current generation is trashed beyond belief, last week when picking up some ribs for my mother she started ranting about whores and un-guided families on a mongolian basket weaving forum
Just moved to a new place with her in the city centre. So feeling pretty good. Kind of busy with work and uni tho, sadly.
I'm on a wife search rather, I may or may not have found her, all depends on me I reckon.
Haha yes very good haha
well it's by design after all
by deconstructing traditional family life society can be made pliable to any form via social engineering
>search
???
Why would I even bother? I'm at the very low end of the gene pool, 99% of men are better than me so why the fuck would any girl pick me instead of millions of others? It's fucking pointless, I will hire an escort in the future and be done with this sexual attraction bullshit.
>this girl was in my class for 10 years
>fell in love with her a year ago
>she's moving away
>i was like ok i'll ask her out the last school day
>i pussied out
>i dmed her on instagram "Hi"
>no responce
I literally can't get a "gf", yet I can fuck almost every girl I want to. Sometimes its hard being a chad. Girls only want you for sex, nobody wants to date, hang out, talk, do anything romantic. They just want me to fuck their brains out then they go back home to their boyfriends. It gets empty after awhile.
The closest girl in my life right now let's me cuddle with her and she's given me random hugs which always melts my heart.
She's been on a vacation for a while and I've missed her so much, but before she left we just stood there hugging each other for a long time, and I told her I'd miss her.
So to answer your question: good. It's going good.
Im sort of dating one, shes weird so i cant tell if it was a date. Also she smokes and drinks a lot, and on top of it she likes very different things, we dont have anything in common. I dont think it will work out.
>talk to a girl on okcupid on friday
>we go on a date the same day
>absolutely dreadful, we don't do anything but drive and talk and she's pretty boring and constantly apologizing for herself and asking me if she's boring me
>i tell her the next day that I don't think she's my match
>she spams me for days asking why we can't be friends and using every manipulation tactic in the book to get me to pls respond before giving up earlier today
>message another girl today, kinda cute in a homely way, but into manga
>chat her up a bit get some replies
>say I'd like to meet her at some point
>she looks at my online dating profile
>blocks me
>post in ideal gf thread on Jow Forums
>no (You)s
pretty standard desu
i have one within a reach
but now i see i don't really want one
im too comfy being egocentric selfloathing neet loser
we don't really appreciate free time enough when we have loads of it
how to get aspie gf?
Here's your (You) good man, good luck.
Be better than the average female user
Do right and let her know you are no longer interested rather than stopping completely and leaving somebody in the dust. Females are low do not stoop to their level
I'm supposed to search for one?
I told her I wasn't interested, but she kept messaging me.
I'm no longer searching. There is no point I'm too much a no-value failure.
i'm almost Asexual now, i like where i'm at.
>only masturbate like once a week
>stopped thinking about women completely
>barely go on Jow Forums
>have family based fantasies every now and then
willful ignorance, functioning escapism.
>get females begging to get him to respond
>thinks he should post here
Damn man you're mean taunting us like that.
I don't try anymore. What's the point? If I want to lose even more money, I can gamble it away. At least with gambling you have a chance to win.
never searched and never tried
too late to start searching now because i got some pretty fucked up standards that id like a girl to have
I've had one for nearly 8 months now, OP. Keep up
You have no car, what would be the furthest you would travel to a date/gf?
Married. AMA
I once walked 25 miles for a date and she never showed up
It took about 11 hours
Where does one go to get a gf? I just graduated high school and I'm just spending my days at home sleeping and watching anime
>search
There is no search. I'm an ugly autist and have nothing to offer to a woman. I don't even have anything interesting to say to them because I'm so empty and rotten inside. At very best I could get with an ugly, low self-esteem hambeast, but even a woman like that would be disappointed to be with me and would probably cheat or leave me.
I'm begining to think that some of us just aren't meant to be with other people. I will probably just hang myself once my parents are gone.
No further studies? I would kill myself if not for uni, it gives me something to do in my life for now.
Do you still fuck twice a week? Did her personality change after marriage?
Yeah I'm going to uni, but that's not for another 3 months. In the meantime I have nothing to do unless I get a job which I can't do until I get my license.
What are you waiting for? Go to collage dumb dumb
>meet girl
>solid 8/10
>chubby but in the right places
>talk every single day
>she starts talking about her fetishes, comes out to me as bi
>starts talking about another guy to me
>they start dating
>mfw
i hope she makes one of you a happy guy
See my above post
Was ghosted 12 days ago, so I'm back to square one.
Honestly I'd rather just kill myself at this point, I can't take this anymore.
I'm never going to find anyone irl, and online always results in them ghosting me.
Did you show interest, did she know you were trying to make a move?
Same thing is happening to me. What the fuck are they thinking? Had 3 dates and then she starts taking about a guy, like i go on dates for the lols and not with an intent to get something going.
>meet woman
>show her anime to make her stop watching steven universe
>she gets into dating sims
>fucking reverse trap dating sims where the cute anime guy is actually a woman
>in my dreams, gamer GF meant having a fun friend to play fighters with, loser goes on top. Not "Omg this guy in my dating sim was soooo broody and tortured!"
BITCH, I'M TORTURED! MY PARENTS ABUSED ME FROM DAY ONE, MY COUNTRY'S GOING DOWN THE SHITTER, MY PLANET'S GOING DOWN THE SHITTER, I'M PRACTICALLY THE LAST MEMBER OF A DYING RACE, I'M BOMBARDED 24/7 WITH DEMORALIZATION AND BULLSHIT AND I THINK THE ONLY REASON I'M STILL ALIVE IS SPITE FOR THOSE WHO WANT MY RACE TO DIE.
Fucking compare THAT to "Oh I'm a broody anime boy because I have dead parents".
BITCH, MY PARENTS KILLED MY SISTER. I fucking wish my parents were dead.
God, fuck me.
Every time I tried to make moves in the dms she got spooked and I would take a couple steps back.
Oh, then you're in the same situation as me, except I'll be going to a "males only uni", so it's a sausage party, enjoy your pussy sea for me too user
pretty bad. my wife does not let me get a girlfriend. i was getting so close.
a girl initiated conversation with me, it was kinda bland but she opened up and was writing like paragraphs on the subject.
Today she didnt say anything though, wondering if she lost interest or if shes baiting me.
also do you really need to ask out a girl after ~10 messages? I wanted to go on for like 2 weeks just talking like this before meeting...
Believe me, you don't fucking want one.
"Aspie/Autism" is a meme used to discourage men from indulging in the "Negative" aspects of being a nerd: Caring unironically about the media you consume, critiquing it, and thinking critically.
Meanwhile, women are only recognized as "Autistic" if they actually have way worse problems and aren't autistic at all.
You dream of hugging Futaba on the subway, helping her cope with crowds, and playing video games with her? You won't get that. You'll get a demanding emotionally manipulative whore with four undiagnosed personality disorders, a personality that's childish even for women standards, and an inability to think rationally.
I seriously want to hug you and tell you it's ok to suck, but unnecessary to beat yourself up over it. It's ok to not be what (((they))) wish you were. It's ok to fill the void with video games or any other media as long as you don't pay for it. After all, that void is supposed to be filled with hope for the future and (((they))) took it away from us.
Wait, seriously? What the fuck.
Thanks user, that made me tear up a bit. I just realised haven't had anyone be nice to me in a while.
I just wish I wasn't so lonely. I wish this pain would go away somehow.
>never had a gf
>crushing hard on qt girl at work
>everyone at work is convinced that she likes me, some even thought we were already dating
>we've hung out a few times outside of work
>nothing romantic, but nonstop enjoyable conversations at a restaurant
>been holding off making a move til her temp contact expires
>that's this Friday
>realize I have no experience and don't even know what "making a move" constitutes
>don't know where to go from here
I think all hope is lost for me. Somebody help a bot out, the fuck do I do now?
RIP. I went to all-boys high school and all-boys middle school, so I know the feel. Really regret not being able to experience teenage romance.
Take her out somewhere and tell her you like her. Whatever you do really just don't leave it.
Same situation with me. Not sure how to navigate this path. Been ignoring the girl though. She got my phone number from one of our coworkers and has been initiating text convos with me but I never respond
accepting the fact that I cant get a Christian Asian Gamer Girl GF.
I am not searching at all, I desire a girlfriend but I am not prepared for one. I am not mature, I don't have time for one, I will not do the necessary sacrifices for one, I simply want one as a way to achieve my objective of reproducing.
I just need to accept the fact that my desire it's stupid and would only cause suffering to me and to other people so they arent worth it
I stopped looking and am focusing on myself atm and im actually doing pretty well
sent 500 applications today and no callback bros. Should I lie about being 5'3" with a recessed chin on my resume?
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ooga booga
Good luck pal
>ahhhhhhhhhhjnnnnnnnnnnnnnn original
"A man dying of thirst watching a man drown "
>the post
No, it just happens according to my friends
Are you me ?
Originally keystrokes
Thanks brah, appreciate it.
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It helps a lot to learn to be ok with yourself. And I said learn, not instantly become. You have to realize you were born into this world without your permission, and forced into a mold you didn't fit. Because you wouldn't become a worker drone for (((them))), they called you garbage. You need to gradually train yourself to stop thinking they're right about you, because those fuckers rigged the whole game against you while importing rapefugees and promoting feminism, a hateful anti-male ideology that encourages women to "Win" no matter the cost. It says they deserve princes to sweep them off their feet, and it says they're being nice and generous if they even let those they see as lower than them interact with them.
Watch some shows you like, start some light exercise, get a little healthier over time and learn to feel happy about the little things, the little victories and the little successes in life.
Yeah. They brainwashed my sister to be a thot and hate me as much as them.
>So hows the girlfriend search going
I got one. There is no more search anymore
/thread
We are not going to make it brah if this continues, but ate we gonna be happy with the results?
What girlfriend search LMAO. My main quest it to make as much money as I can being a wage cuck or perhaps hitting the lottery in my job search to help me escape this cuckery.
got this message within a day of being on POF a month or two ago. Gave up on the site a few weeks after. Haven't been on a date in over 1.5 years, been single like 6+ years now.
I don't try and idk if I will try again
>tfw scared of physical and emotional intimacy
I haven't had a girl interested in me in many many years, but even if I did I know I would self sabotage it. Yesterday some user posted a video with a vlogger talking about her dead bf and I ended up watching videos of them when he was still alive. It was so foreign to me and it made me uncomfortable to see people around my age interact like that. I genuinely don't 'get' other people and can't connect on a personal level.
I met this cute teen Asian on tinder (10y age difference). She just went for vacation but we've been texting for 6 days now. She seems genuinely interested in me and I get good feeling about this. She does sound a bit insecure about her looks though, I hope she won't get repulsed by me when we finally meet after she gets back. I want this to work out, I really do...
pretty bad honestly bro.
It has stagnated. Just like abandoned farm equipment
Not well. Online dating has proven a waste of time, and I don't even know where else to look. At this point I've pretty much given up.
I got my first and only gf through a mutual friend, so I guess I'll just wait for another miracle like that.
haha its okay man, I got ghosted by this girl I thought was cute, we smiled at each other in class a few times, had a convo. I dm'd her and it took her longer and longer to respond. She hasn't said anything since last wednesday so I just gave up. It'll be okay even if it tanks.
It gas gone wrong horribly
> never had female friends growing up
> very hard for me to talk to girls
> became a faceless lonely man on the internet where the odds are against me
> manage to (almost) romantically interact with a few
> it has never been official
> they eventually get bored and move on
> this would be fine if i was still 14 but I'm a "man"
If that's your case, you might as well do it for money.
Holy shit user get a clue
decent
she likes me and I like her, surprising
super chill, good christian, same humor, really wholesome (not a thot)
wish me luck fags
Real life is a complete bust. Every single person in the world is taken like what the fuck.
I haven't tried dating site yet because I don't want to just hookup and apparently they suck for finding real people.
At least a few femanons added me, but they all lied about being fembots so far.
All in all, not so well. I hope I can meet at least one of them though. Who knows, maybe it will work out anyway. Hence, not too bad.
I have no idea how to even search for a gf or some friends to be honest. I feel like a chad and have improved pretty much every aspect of my life in these past few years. I'm doing things I never even imagined myself doing, and I'm starting to genuinely be proud of myself and feeling some happiness. I still yearn to have a close knit group of friends or a gf that I can have inside jokes with, go on cool dates with, stay at home and watch shows, listen to music together with, and other cute couple stuff. I just wish I wasn't so autistic when it comes to any sort of intimacy. It has led me to many acquaintances that never develop into anymore. At this point, I think Jow Forums would be my only hope for ever finding anyone.
I hope you get fucking married, have tons of kids and die in the same day, you faggot.
>10y age difference
Thats a bit of a gap user, she younger or older. Either way best of luck to you both.
Well how old are you?
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>but they all lied about being fembots so far.
what makes them not fembots
Wanted to get a tinder last year, didn't happen, probably won't happen this year either. So I guess it isn't going any worse than usual.
pretty nice, dropped the girls for cuddles tho :3
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Postponed indefinitely of course
How do you think, pal?
>be 24, never had a relationship
>date around but generally get annoyed with girls and being unable to have a conversation with them
>start up new job, think maybe I might meet someone
>don't really click with anyone
>feel more and more hopeless
>one day someone randomly adds me from a mutual discord server
>talk to them and find out it's a cute autistic girl that doesn't have many friends
>voice with her a few times
>really connect, even enjoy the silence of just being on a call with her
>feel like I might actually have found someone for the first time in my life
I don't want to jinx it and we've only been talking for a short while but, I really like her already and I hope I can make it work.
pretty good, cute girl at work smiles at me all the time and we talk a lot! However due to my own cowardice I will never ever get anywhere with her.
so in other words pretty bad
tinder is not good, you will find no one suitable to your liking on there
Lads, should I just say fuck it and DM a cute girl who goes to my Uni and lives in the same town as me and ask her out?
It's going good bro, she loves me and we have intercourse every night!
how do you think it's goin retard