>parents are fighting and yelling again
Parents are fighting and yelling again
Stop caring about those degenerates and try to mind your own business. Back in time I used to use some headphones to not listen to then. As it became more natural I just got used to it and ignored them by default
grow a thicker skin. i spent my whole childhood listening to my parents yelling at each other almost every day. sometimes while i was sleeping, i would wake up because of their screams and quickly running at them trying to calm them down while i was hysterically crying.
this kept happening until my father pushed my mom into the wall and she called the cops. after that, they finally divorced.
Ignoring your emotions is not healthy user.
Milk them for tendies and never move out
t. basedaboy
>m-muh emotions
You have emotions for a reason. You willingly choose to ignore them because you grew up in a shitty household.
You're not fooling anyone, except maybe yourself. But that's the point.
why? i've been suppressing all my emotions besides my anger for years. nothing bad happened to me.
>nothing bad happened to me
Most people would say being a robot is bad user. Even robots want to be normies.
If you are not underaged, the best thing to do is to have the strength to get up on your two feet and separate yourself from those two. Create your own life and a new path, so to speak.
obviously being a normie is far better than being a robot, no one is proud to be one. but that still doesn't explain why suppressing my emotions will do any harm to me.
Growing a thicker skin does not happen overnight. Just like going to the gym for a workout. You get used to it little by little with rests in between, until it becomes nothing. It still doesn't change OP's issue, though.
Why wouldn't they do harm to you? We evolved emotions to help us better socialize. That's why you feel anxious when you say something cringe. You're not suppressing emotions, you're just trying to ignore the emotions you can't handle.
It's literally how PTSD starts.
>stop being upset by the exact same thing that always upset me
As a borderline cyborg, I'd rather not be a normalcuck at all. They're too fixated on instant gratification to where they piss their life away and drag everybody else down with them. And then they complain about why they don't achieve their goals, rather than learn stuff and have a solid plan together.
At the end of the day, they go back to their shitty life and degenerate mutt children and live in "girlfriend," while dudes like me actually do something fun and productive because we're smart.
Also, as an introvert, I tried the whole "talk out your feelings" meme. It only works if you have someone to empathize it with. Other than that, I use a comfort object like a daiki. seriously, fuck normaltards and their stupid dick measuring culture
too bad then, either he suppress it or he'll have to deal with the horrible emotions that i once did.
i used to feel that sensation when i said something 'cringy' in front of my 'friends' or colleagues in the past. right now i don't have to deal with this anymore. eventually you reach a point where you stop caring about this.
it used to upset me when i was a kid, but right now i think it's hilarious. sometimes my father visits me and my brother and he and my mom starts to yell and scream at each other. when they do that i feel like watching my childhood in a 3d movie kek
the only reason why i want to be a normie is because those guys looks like a bunch of zombies. they don't seem to think about anything.
>random guy is victimized
>"too bad bruh apply urself"
>punching a brick wall and not going around it is totally logical
this sounds really familiar
>someone has a different opinion than me
>post a bait pic
If it works for one guy, it won't mean that it would always work out for somebody else. Like with the Napoleon Technique, it's best to see it from the perspective of the person who is explaining their problem to you, then form a conclusion.
This. When I was a kid I eventually just got used to the screaming and then dad going away for a few weeks, I'd get the same blah blah blah I'm sorry, blah blah blah take care of your mum I'll be back soon. The only thing that I didn't get used to was seeing both of my parents faces covered in blood from attacking each other
you're right about that. suppressing everything kinda fucked up my perspectives about the others.
but sorry, i can't understand how someone can be so emotional over that silly thing as an adult. it's normal as a kid since you don't have much control over it but as an adult? yea i don't know.
>both of my parents faces covered in blood from attacking each other
holy fuck, user.
damn user, that pic really stabbed me in the heart. The bear doesn't understand why it's life is only pain. Sorry to hear you have a troubled domestic life, hope it improves.