My parents are losers and expect me to be successful.
I hate this so I always try to remind them on how they failed at raising me.
Last week my dad was telling me to do better but I told him his errors, he realized he was a failure & stayed quiet.
Today I did the same thing but with my mom and she wont stop crying.
Should I feel bad?
That's a dick thing to do to your parents, imagine putting years of effort into someone. I'm talking about raising them, feeding them, and looking out for them just to have them call you a looser. Don't do this to your folks man especially because they were trying to give you advice. You could've just said "ok I'll try".
It's a parent's deepest hope that their children will do better than they did. I won't say OP is wrong for calling them out, but he probably broke their hearts.
something similar happened to me once, but I told him I will not be a career failure like him. fortunately it didn't happen. on the other hand I am on this board now, alone.
First of all, they are not obligated to take care your ass after certain age, so for you to say that is not only disrespectful but absolutely pathetic... blaming parents on things that are currently in your control is one of those things where everybody sees you as a loser
>failing to raise me
Even if it were true the worst thing you could do is sit on your ass and whine about it
And yes, you should feel bad.
You should feel bad but i know how you feel. Gow woefully unequipped my parents were to have children. We have lived on a 2 person salary while theres 8 of us for 25+years.
Although my mum was always ridiculing and bullying me as a child so i dont feel too bad about arguing with her because she caused so many of my insecurities and rage. But my dad is a good guy just a bit dumb. Its sad because he has all the makings of a great man but he is just not that smart in technical things and he never learnt any special skills to make money. Sometimes i get mad and shout at both saying they taught me nothing except their religion so how am i supposed to succeed?
Yes. Don't pawn off your shit behavior and lack of success onto your parents. Generate a dick like the most of us and accept your faliures
Shut the fuck up, it's the right thing to do, parents must be reeducated.
Reality goes without saying, so he didn't. Sooner or later anyone notices that shit is wrong, however hard you mantain a certain normie picture.
or at the very least stop being a dildo and do something about it
Good luck bud, I hope you do well.
So I guess you just made this thread to troll and don't give a fuck about your parents. Well good job, but please reconsider.
>fuck up
>have a child
>teach your child about your fuck ups so they don't fuck up
>child absorbs some of it but not all of it
>does slightly better but fucks up
>teaches its children about its fuck ups
>and on and on
10,000 years later
>child refuses to accept any knowledge from their parent
>calls them losers
>fucks up
>never procreates
My parents failed to diagnose my ADHD, which led to my failure of a life only now I'm recovering, they always just said nah its the teachers fault you failed every single grade
gets fed for free
lives under someone else's roof they give you clothes and education and you insult them. if I were you're father id want to wait till you went to sleep (in my house) wake up up with a bucket of ice cold water then beat the shit out of your ungrateful ass then throw anything I bought you outside the house then ask "whose the loser now little bitch?"
I didn't get a fucking education I failed every class I ever had and had to repeat and dropped out I spent all my time at school looking out the window
Good for you! Forgiveness is a complete and total cancer. The only way anyone learns anything is through punishment, pain and suffering. Your parents deserve to suffer. Boomers destroyed everything because of their greed and stupidity and then still managed to not set anything aside for their children. It's amazing how big of failures they are.
Just please, PLEASE make sure when they are elderly to confiscate any remaining wealth they have and put them in the filthiest nursing home you can find surrounded by NOG caretakers. Let them think long and hard about how they ended up there and also let it serve as a warning to newer generations that behave badly will also suffer.
Great work user! I'm proud of you.
Because I was mentally ill riddled with learning disorders which my parents considered bullshit
well shit maybe because you were to busy not only not appreciating your parents but your own time as well I looked out the window all day too but only after I figured out what part of whatever subject my class was on read ahead and had a firm grasp on the material. Give yourself and others more credit your days are numbered
My iq is 115 about and I couldnt grasp basic math that was clearly a mental problem in hindsight
cunt.
originisl
Blaming parents for being a failure yourself is the most immature thing possible. It's the "society/the man/the system did this to me" for people who know they can't even say that much
It's like blaming god. Easy to convince yourself of, magically absolves you of all responsibility, and can never be "disproven"
Have fun with your self-pity. Let me know how that improves your situation
Someone is going to hell. Did you not know that is the most essential virtue of some religions? Not only that, but people make mistakes and it affords them the opportunity to learn from it and get better. If people made no mistakes, they would not be as well off because they could not learn from it. Forgive your mistakes, but be sure to learn from it, or that is the definition of insanity( doing the same thing over and again, expecting different results)
hey man, at least you got some sick quads
If they werent going to be good parents they should of aborted me or gave me up to adoption
I still try to improve , but they need to know they are partly to blame for me not being succesful
Thats not me but I agree with him a bit
Im not that old, im 19 and I dont expect them to take care of me, if they kick me out of the house idc
I dont hate or resent them but I dont think I owe them anything because they failed at raising me properly
He didnt buy me anything except food & clothes when I was a kid so he wouldnt have anything to throw away, he never bought me a phone l, vidya or anything to entertain myself with.
Not me oregi
How did you end up here? If you had no entertainment how did you not gain a useful hobby or learn how to be social due to boredom?
It was hard to be social because my mom raised me in a religious cult ( jehovah witness) in which I could only socialize with other cult members and I didnt have time for hobbies beacuse I had to read the bible daily & go preach on the weekends