Some screeching autists in this board can literally change their colors in an instant if a girl they liked chatting to tells them she had sex before, what is wrong with people? Why does it matter so much?
(Of course being a slut is disgusting and degenerate, but some people here take it to such extremes wew)
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Look at it this way: would you drink a soda that's already been opened and drank from by another person?
>Absolutely irrelevant arguments: The post
Care to explain without using retarded metaphors?
Well, people like to simplify things and "non-virgin = bad" is much easier to remember than the actual reasons, whatever they may be.
Actually no because now that I reread your thing Im pretty sure you posted b8. Bye. Sorry for encouraging you.
this person doesn't realize how clingy virgins are
Robots dont want the girl to realize how bad at sex they are
These sound pretty reasonable
Hi John Green
Main reason is that promiscuous people are unable to pair bond and the second important reason is that it means they'd never be able to understand what it means to be a robot. Since robot want a serious relationship and get wounded deeply by betrayal, it's extremely important to have that kind of standard.
Can't argue with statistics. If she's tasted other cocks, then chances are she's tasted one that's better than yours, and she'll always remember it and even long for it.
It's a literal numbers game, the more partners she has, the less loyal she'll be and the relationship will fail. Even if she only ever fucked one other guy, the risk still shoots up as opposed to being a virgin. You might like to gamble, but do you really want to gamble when it comes to your partner, life mate and potential mother to your children?
Nope, it's not even that
Being a disgusting degenerate whore should be looked down upon, but having 1-2 pervious sex partners?
People become visibly nervous and change their opinions completely, are they that much retarded?
Ah yes, so that's true about men as well. Isn't it?
why don't you put more effort in?
According to stats, no. There is no statistically significant difference for men.
Probably because they live in muh animu world and don't know how the real one works. They think they'll meet a girl, fall madly in love and live happily ever after. Meanwhile in the real world, people pair up, like each other a lot, fuck, realize they aren't compatible a couple of weeks/months/years later, break up and look for another partner until they find someone suitable for marriage. So it's completely possible to have a bunch of sexual partners without being a party slut that bangs every hot guy she meets. Try explaining this to the robots though
It's true to a different extent, but yes I'm not two-faced. I don't think men should slut around and be non-virgins either. But that's just the way things are.
Into what?
Absolutely, it's in no way a sexist viewpoint. A woman could very easily take the same standpoint with a manwhore. There are multiple factors to consider, here, not the least amongst which potential STD risk, values incompatibility, and sexual incompatibility. Personally, it's not an absolute requirement for a girl to be entirely virginal, but it is a requirement for them to have not had sex outside of a committed relationship before. I hold myself to the same standard, with the only girl I've ever had sex with being a 5 year long relationship, and would feel like complete scum if I didn't do so. Any girl who didn't feel the same way would be an absolutely terrible match for me.
Anybody who would begrudge me for holding girls to the same standard to which I hold myself needs to search deep within.
I don't give a fuck about her being a virgin as long as she would love as much as I love her. I can forgive her her past.
being datable
>hey this girl is into me but she had sex before with someone else, this obviously means she'll covet that other person the entire time we're dating/married
Guess I'll just die a virgin then
Imagine being as braindead as wew
I made a huge social mistake and now it's too late I feel. But I've accepted that, I don't freak out at women because I'm not dating material. If they don't want me, well sure, I wouldn't want me.
I'm just speaking from a general perspective, about the standards of a virginal vs non girl in terms of relationship potential. Not trying to say what I deserve, just trying to stand a middle ground and point out the stats.
you idiots do realize that the vagina is one of the stretchiest organs in the female body right?
>But thats just the way things are.
Same could be said about women
Sure, but women shouldn't screech either when they're held to a standard. Men care more about women not being virgins, it's women's choice if they care less. They could care more and cause social change, but they don't.
A virgin girl is important to them because they're scared of the girl finding out about their dicklet. They're afraid of the girl not taking interest in them because of their dick. Literally every robot who hasn't had sex here is scared because of a dick. (Which is pretty gay)
Why are you lying? Virgins are statistically more likely to cheat. It's logical since she will start getting curious about if sex could be better with someone else.
We realize it's strange to you normals but it holds a lot of meaning for us. We are good people and believe that being a bad person is wrong. It's about the most unpopular belief a person could hold, that being good is good. But it is objective truth, so popularity can't be taken into consideration here. If it really bothers people so much why don't they just stay virgins until marriage? It's like such a total non-issue yet they blow it into this huge ordeal.
Even if the guy doesn't destroy her puss and turn her into a roast literally, the fact is that she still will always remember him and that feeling. She'll always long for it if you're not as big. If you ARE the biggest she's ever had then good for you, you've got less to worry about. But the more guys she's with, the worse the odds are that you're her biggest.
The best predictor for future behavior is past behavior. Virgins are least likely to cheat, it's not even close. Just saying the opposite of the truth is not enough to convince anyone.
you're just jealous her first time wasn't with you
I don't think that's true at all. Do you have any statistics to back up that virgins cheat more?
I can say in the complete opposite way that it's more logical she won't cheat because it's all she's ever had and it's stable, so she'd be more worried about losing what she has. If she dated tons of guys, well if the relationship fails she knows she can just hop with another guy pronto.
This post here, why is this even a concept? Who the fuck cares?
the fucking g spot is like a half inch in you dumb mother fucker
What point does that have? Sex is more than the g spot. Chad dick is going to go against all walls and stretch her out. Maybe this doesn't cause actual permanant difference in her, but sex is more than just physical.
>why do you want a car taht has 0 risk of problems ?
Yeah we want non roastie gfs bro fuck off our board
It's not just some made up joke, that longtime prostitutes are always depicted and considered to be loose. Whatever it is, whatever the cause is and however small, even if only a miniscule amount, more dick overtime means looser.
It's like using an used gun
Not at all. I wonder if you know what jealousy is since you are misusing the term that way. I'd suggest you learn how to use a dictionary, you will understand other people better, and as a bonus they might even be able to understand you too if you put a little effort in.
>never gave a shit about "used goods" because not a retard composed 90% of insecurities
>was with a girl with a body count of two dozen or so
>she told me she cheated on her last guy several times with several different guys, "but it's different with you, you're different, I don't want to cheat on you"
You'll NEVER, EVER guess what happened next.
Plot twist time, though, as far as gril body count goes. The experienced hoes are only more bold in looking for other guys. I knew at least 3 girls that had 2 boyfriends or less that indirectly hinted at or outright admitted to wanting me to fuck them, while they were in a relationship, and one of them was even cheated on by an ex, so she knew full well what she'd be doing. So, as far as trust goes, it's simple. Never trust.
Why do you care? Why does anyone care? It's a sexual preference, it's a personal, private thing. This isn't the middle ages anymore, we don't burn sluts at the stake. People are free to do and live as they want now, our views aren't harmful to them in any way. Maybe online some spew hatred about it but that's online, it's a free speech public forum and in this case anonymous. You're not forced to view it and it doesn't impact your life.
If you want to be a slut, go be a slut. We can't stop you, and our negative feelings about it we'll keep to ourselves. The better question is why do you care so much, why we care so much? Mind your own business.
No, we tolerate, but you don't get to be tolerated, you piece of shit with sexual preferences. You should be burned at the stake for thinking what you think, and also give me lots of money because I think what I think. You're not racist are you? Fucking piece of subhuman worthless shit. Everyone has herpes and HPV these days anyway, not sure why people still act like STDs are a big deal, if it's curable you just take some pills, and if not it is inevitable that all of society will eventually catch it so total non-issue either way. You should kill yourself for not wanting me pussy just because you aren't the 1st, 5th, 1000th person to enter.
>not wanting me pussy
tfw no pirate gf
the girls ive deflowered still contact me years later to be 'friends" even though they have boyfriends
t. chad
Because there's no way a person who has not also lived a live devoid of affection, closeness, or feeling wanted, could understand me at all.
Females carry all the DNA from any past sexual partners. That goes into any
children she makes as well, regardless of who the father is.
I have fucked lots of girls. And have only been cheated on once. Guess her body count.
That's right. Obviously she was a virgin. The only girl who cheated on me was the one whose virginity I took.
Proof that all incels are brainlets. How low does your IQ need to be to actually believe that shit?
Doesn't count, you weren't a virgin so you deserved to get cheated on because you had already cheated on her multiple times before you even met her. Obviously going in the relationship you have no respect for her whatsoever and treated her like shit. Why should she, or anyone for that matter, treat you as anything but the trash you are? The only one hurt there is her, because now she is tainted too, you brought her down almost to your level. Crab bucket.
Too many years of neeting on the internet slow boiled your brain until all you can come up with is a soup of ideologically charged bullshit directed against the entire world minus a few anonymous posters on the internet who agree with you
>The Relationship Between Multiple Sex Partners and Anxiety, Depression, and Substance Dependence Disorders: A Cohort Study
>This study established a strong association between number of sex partners and later substance disorder, especially for women, which persisted beyond prior substance use and mental health problems more generally.
>The Relationship between Multiple Sexual Partners and Mental Health in Adolescent Females
>The prevalence of sadness, suicide ideation, suicide plans and suicide attempts increased with the number of sexual partners across all racial/ethnic groups. However, the relationship was less dramatic for black adolescent females. Conclusion: Girls presenting with depressive symptoms may be at increased risk for HIV and other STDs. Also, girls with multiple partners may be at increased risk for depression.
Hmm... its almost like a large number of sexual partners are indicators of mental instability, and therefore unsuitable for a long term stable relationship! How surprising!
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Who hurt you and made you this way? Did your uncle take your butt virginity when you were 6?
Technically it's only a half-truth. Women can actually carry and even incorporate DNA from male partners, however a pregnancy needs to occur. This can include an abortion, miscarriage, etc. as well, but if she had a pregnancy by a man she'll end up with his DNA.
Just from sex though, no that's not true.
Anecdotal. Not throwing your situation under the bus, but that's the point of statistics, there's always exceptions.
Sorry that you got cheated on by a virgin but the odds were against you. Stat wise virgins cheat a lot less, but you can always get a rotten apple.
>Stat wise virgins cheat a lot less
Do they now. Post those stats. With source.
I remember reading that there was a different study where they confirmed the foreign DNA in women who have never been pregnant, but it's all [citation needed]. I think the microchimerism resulting from pregnancy is widely accepted, it's the fact that they apparently discovered it can also come from having sex that's controversial.
virgins don't cheat because once they've lost their virginity they're no longer virgins, so when they cheat on their first partner they're no longer in the "virgin" category, duh. Do you need this spelled out any more for you?
Do you have a source for this? Because the only thing that ever gets posted here is that study that was made on fireflies.
There is a coworker of mine who knocked up his virgin gf then cheated on her. They broke up and in the span of 3 years she's assaulted him, got the court to order him to sell his guns, destroyed 2 of his vehicles, gotten his license revoked, and cyberstalks him all day and calls him if he's not home until he picks up. Basically don't date a virgin after high school
Can't beat that logic. So how would you have sex with a virgin so that she would remain a virgin?
>virgins don't cheat
>virgin has a bf, loses virginity to some random retard during relationship
Feel free to imply it never happened if that floats your boat
women are fucking dumb as shit. i just told my gf and my female friend that i went for a job interview today and they had penis inspection day when i arrived and told her the boss took out his measuring tape to check it..THEY BOTH still completely believe me. i always tried to see/believe in the best in everyone in regards to intellect but now iam fully convinced the vast majority of women are gullible and dumb as a bag of rocks.
Basically don't be a cunt and cheat.
There is still hope for you though, don't feel too bad. Why not go to church this Sunday? How long has it been? You'll find we are a welcoming bunch.
I like to say it is satan testing me. I deserve it, but it's still unpleasant. I thought I was going to marry her, she turned out to be a horrible person. I would give anything to have my virginity back, but all I can do is seek forgiveness and hope He blesses me with a wife anyway. I'll probably never be able to shake the guilt if I do get one though. No winning here. I tried pursuing another girl, homeschooled, preachers kid, beautiful little thing and very serious about the ministry, she dropped me like it was nothing once we got to the point of discussing sexual history. Really stung because things looked so great while courting the first few weeks. Current girl I'm talking too is similar, a few years older, maybe slightly hotter, but she says she might could accept my sexual past, but is understandably sketched. I fucked up, not even going to larp as a born again virgin, just trash trying to make it in this cold world. Fucker I replied to is totally unapologetic about it all though. All sin may be equal in His eyes, but human perception is a little more flawed so damn right I'll judge the shit out of him.
His fault. The girl did nothing wrong. She should have done even more too desu.
That doesn't say anything about a baby having any DNA from previous sexual partners. Even with pregnancy.
>who knocked up his virgin gf then cheated on her
He deserves worse.
"indicators" meaning?
>reality is shit so you should embrace the shittiness
I'd rather keep living in muh animu world, fag
I never said that the babies get it, that wasn't me. I was just saying women get it.
It's about trust in one another in a relationship. If someone has slept with more people than you can count on both hands, what would keep them from cheating on you and stabbing you in the back whenever they feel bored of you or the relationship?
It's a red flag if she's had too many sexual partners. I think a lot of robots (me included) have trouble accepting that the point in time where we'd meet someone who's still a virgin has passed. So now it's either accepting that a girl has already had a few (2-3 maybe) sexual partners or mgtow and becoming a wizard.
Have you tried a dictionary? Inbred.
>w-w-who hurt you
Shittiest, most self-contradictory "argument" ever yet it keeps being used
Maximum is 4 in my opinion.
It's about trust in one another in a relationship. If someone is a virgin, what would keep them from cheating on you and stabbing you in the back whenever they feel bored of you or the relationship?
>So now it's either accepting that a girl has already had a few (2-3 maybe) sexual partners or mgtow and becoming a wizard.
>forgetting suicide
>Suicide because of a thot
I change it to maximum of 3.
iam my gfs 2nd. it really shows. shes very devoted to me and shows her appreciation.
i also believe blowjobs and other lewd acts should count to a tally. my first gf had sucked at least two penises (that i knew of) but i took her virginity and she ended up turning into a massive whore only 1-2 months AFTER the fact. she went on to suck multiple dicks and fuck several guys indiscriminately.
I don't really think it's about the number, it's about the mindset. If she's had sex once in her life, at a party with some guy she barely knew, she's probably worse than a girl who's had five serious relationships and nothing else.
It should instead be a function of age. 0 before 18, then 1 per 3 years past 18.
If I can do it, so can they.
also i think age of virginity loss matters.
>ex gf loses virginity to me just as she turns 16
>becomes massive whore and is now incapable of getting a bf in her mid 20s
>current gf lost virginity at age 20
>is literally wife material
i dunno if i have the stats readily available but i remember seeing that the later a woman loses her virginity the less likely she is to cheat and has more success and maintaining a long term relationship.
are you implying causation?
>i remember seeing that the later a woman loses her virginity the less likely she is to cheat and has more success and maintaining a long term relationship.
Source or you're making shit up.
He shouldn't have cheated? And should have used protection too. Your coworker deserved all of that.
The causation between your inability to think of the concept of a dictionary to look up trivial words that even elementary school children have known by heart for years and your lack of any IQ? Absolutely.
>sex more important than commitment
Exactly my point.
i have the source somewhere and ive seen it posted on Jow Forums dozens of times. not making it up. sorry that your gf lost her virginity at a young age. who knows, she may end up being an exception.
It's literally a scientific study, you absolute retard
The fact that they're attached to you emotionally since you're the only person they've had sex with?
>If I can do it
You can't demand a virgin because you're one. You're not a virgin by choice, but any girl you meet over 18 would be. This girl would have gone years with easy access to sex but has STILL said no.
The only way you can fairly demand a virgin girl is if you had easy access to sex 24/7 and still said no. It would only be fair if you could open your phone and be slamming some 7/10 girl within an hour but for years upon years said no.
You have shown zero restraint, whereas she would have shown years of it.
this isn't just limited to humans, you brainlet.
i even suspect my Italian ancestry is higher than it should be because my mother got fucked by a pastanigger before she got with my dad.
>dad is welsh
>mother is cpyriot
>some how end up with 60% Italian ancestry
hmmmmmmmm
Science is just what brainlets cling to because they don't understand qualitative studies and subjective truth. Pathetic really.
The point is that virgins are more likely to cheat on you. Why is that so hard for you to understand?
Wrong. See: whores. Checkmate.
>subjective truth
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