do men care for stretch marks/body hair? I went through puberty pretty quickly and thus got stretch marks on my hips, breasts, butt and a bit on the thighs and I always wonder if men find them disgusting or not? I also was cursed with dark body hair and I spend hours every 2-3 weeks meticulously ridding every hair in fear of any person being absolutely repulsed.
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depends what you mean by body hair. idgaf about stretch marks
You know how this works. Let us see and then we can judge.
My guess is most honest people can tolerate a body as horrible as theirs, so return that question to yourself OP
any man worth your while doesnt care
>do men care for stretch
Not at all.
I genuinely like them
Now post pics
Well, I think I have a normal distribution the problem is that I am fairly light and the hair is quite dark so it looks terrible and manly.
I do not want to post myself anywhere on Jow Forums yet alone on the internet
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Some men care, others don't
Just ask. Not all dudes r the same
I'm a man and I have stretch marks from puberty, are women disgusted by this? (I was never overweight)
Can't you dye your body hair with oxigenated water? At least saves you time on your arms and other parts where you wouldn't usually shave.
Bullshit, that's mostly whiteknight shit created to satisfy women's low self-esteem
>"any man worth your while doesnt care"
>only bottom-feeder creeps looking for a quick fuck don't care about how you look
Good advice.
I am not fond of body hair whatsoever on myself and do not mind semi-hairy men except I am not attracted to hairy backs, chests, or buttocks/feet. I ask because I get teased relentlessly about the darkness of my body hair by my female coworkers (all female staff) so I just wonder whether men find it just as unattractive? I dont know
Doesnt that depend on whether he finds me worth his while as well?
you sure?
Stretch marks aren't bad but body hair anywhere other than the head and the pussy is absolutely revolting on a woman.
I do not believe so, at least I would not care considering I have them myself.
Sure, but unfortunately my hair is thickish so it does not mask the hair entirely. I like feeling smooth and with hair it feels rather coarse
I'm a man who has some stretches.
When I was 16 I had a growthspurt of 20cm so obviously I suffered the consequences.
Believe me, it's nothing and a woman's value or beauty won't be ruined by that.
Anyone that doesn't want you just for the sex would overlook that easily.
Depends on how visible they are. As for hair, it depends as well.
I don't think I ever turned down a chick for arm hair or pubic trail. Hairy legs are a no-no, armpits are a no-no and obviously upper-lip is a huge no-no.
I had a girlfriend with stretch marks on her lower back, I was convinced for the longest time she was the victim of abuse and those were old cuts. It put me off until I internalized that it happened naturally.
Let us be the judge of that, OP.
What is a stretch marks anyway user? I actually don't know.
Honestly I find body hair on women to be cute
Lots of men do. We secretly poke fun at girls who has the most stretch marks on their tits. Also public hair is disgusting.
Ignore this user. He's just fucking with you. Also, no most men don't care about stretch marks on women. But hair can be a totally different story. How bad is your hair?
I completely rid my body of any body hair due to my own preference and dislike of body hair in general so I have none technically. If I were to let it grow, though, it would be basically everywhere and it would be dark and semi coarse. It is a normal distribution just that the hairs individually are dark and thick. I guess I should just opt for permanent hair removal.
That is certainly a surprise
Deep tears within the skin caused by rapid stretching of the skin in which the body cannot accommodate fast enough for
I actually prefer a nice bush over a shaved pussy. You don't shave right?
Stretch marks are usually pretty hot if it's legit and not from just getting fat.I love a hairy pussy and armpits, but only if it's cute, ginger and rarely a blonde passes. Men's tastes vary widely. I'm pretty picky but some guys have o standards, they'd be grateful just for you having a vagina in the first place. My last gf was a POS with PCOS. Horny little freak but the dark happy trail was kind of a turn off, pretty sure only men are supposed to have pubes growing up that high. Current gf very reserved sexually but her body is perfect. The trade off is worth it, just wish I could have my cake and eat it too.
Stretch marks are great.
Body hair depends where and how much.
i agree, as long as it doesn't smell, i'm fine with it
stretch marks are cool too, they're like battle scars
>my most visible stretchmark is in the knees of all places
I'm a dude and i got horizontal stretch marks on my back and some on the rear delts (back part of the shoulder)
don't worry about them
if you have curves with some slight stretch marks on them no one cares at all. if you have giant ass stretch marks going from your pelvis to your tits from being fat yeah its disgusting
personally I have a fetish for pubic hair so you should be good
dark hairy arms are nasty tho
The stretch marks are fine. Body hair is gross but that's if you let it grow out, if you shave regularly it's no big deal if you have dark hair that's just visible through the skin on close inspection or whatever. A lot of guys on Jow Forums like pubes but I'm not one of them.
The unfortunate truth of this world is that as long as your visage is more akin to that of a human than an ape, some poor sod is more than willing to take you.
Long story short, I'd stick my tongue up your shitter.
The girl I loved had the same thing like you. She had stretch marks but more importantly she was extremely insecure about her body hair. She did opt to have it permanently removed through dermatology.
this would not bother me the slightest femanon, as long as your not fat or hideous.
>self conscious about stretch marks on your ass thighs and tits
I'm sorry buddy but unless they're fucking you why does it matter?
I'm male, most I've ever weighed was between 160-170 pounds (6'2) and I have stretch marks on my fucking knees and elbows of all places, unless you look like some ungodly patchwork creation you should be okay.
it's not even remotely noticeable for me, you couldn't really tell unless you tried.
>? I also was cursed with dark body hair and I spend hours every 2-3 weeks meticulously ridding every hair in fear of any person being absolutely repulsed.
Stop being retarded, you probably already ruined your hair by doing this. Just find a guy who likes hairy chicks (and most who don't will tolerate it just fine).
Beta males and robots won't care, but it will make you unattractive to the only man you care about, Chad
It depends. I have nothing against stretch marks and I find body hair on women appealing. (I don't mind the lack of it either though)
It all comes down to preference. The best you can do is trying to present yourself in a way that - even if someone's against it - they won't notice. Saying it in a useless, cliche way: be confident.
What do you mean by care? Do men have a choice? I dont think I could even afford to reject a woman
This gives me hope dammit
Doesn't permanent hair removal cost a lot though? What methods have you found get rid of it the longest?
I want to deny this but the ideal bf thread is full of them describing chads, but pls believe me when I say that there are some who don't care much at all about chad since robots are more interesting and relatable
Did I just fucking reddid space?!
I don't even use reddit. Shame on me.
You don't know how this works.
go to Jow Forums
>but pls believe me when I say that there are some who don't care much at all about chad since robots are more interesting and relatable
Then why exactly are you so concerned about being attractive to Chad?
I'm not, it's just sad to see you think chad is all every female cares about. I'd get rid of it since I myself dislike it, although it was nice/interesting to know that not everyone disliked it.
Well they sure as hell ain't going got us.
i dont give a shit about stretch marks and i want a fat hairy pussy on my face
Mfw no gf to run my fingers over her stretch marks and tell her how they just make me love her more
You obviously frame this insecurity of yours in a "no men will like me" kind of way, but the only men that would care are Chads. Your anxiety about not looking good with these things is because Chad won't find you good looking. You're not even taking into consideration the less than Chads opinions about it, which isn't your fault it's how women naturally think.
Same bro, same
Shaved vags are shit tier
Give me a nice hairy muff to dive into any day god DAMN
>pls believe me when I say that there are some who don't care much at all about chad since robots are more interesting and relatable
I'll believe you when you get me one.
i too was cursed with dark body hair, im only kinda tan due to the sun but it is VERY visible and even if i shave you can see the roots
pic related are my legs at the moment
i shaved 2 weeks ago and about to wax them today
>wax only last for about a week
>kms
why couldn't i been born in the age of hairy girls were normal kek
in summary: dark body hair is a curse and not cute at all
>i want a fat hairy pussy on my face
This please. Also, legs, pits, arms, nipples, belly, asshole, etc.
Don't be dumb and wax your legs, it will make the hair grow sparse and disgusting and when you get a bf who likes it it will look terrible to him.
That's disgusting, not gonna lie. Wax that shit, fuck.
can i be your personal leg shaver?
better question: are there actually women that like hairy men? bi and chest hair makes me want to puke
you arent a female, are you user ?
The vast majority of my girlfriends/FWB said they loved my chest hair, but then again it's only between my pectoral muscles so it;s not that much.
All save for 1 prefered trimmed pubes compared to shaved.
So from my anecdotally, most women like hair, as long as it's not too much.
>was never fat
>male
>have stretch mark scars
Just fuck my shit up
I'm getting laser treatment in a few months
already do but you have to wait for it to grow long enough to wax though waxing too often is terrible for your skin and my hair grows fast
yes
i was born with a vagina and im pretty sure i still have it
I honestly don't, but if I do attempt to get with anyone it was nice to know.
>but the only men that would care are Chads
That's a load of shit, robots think they don't have standards till they see pictures and then seem to care despite saying things like this. In threads you usually see guys are commenting on the looks of random girls even if they looks alright.
I dislike the hair and find it uncomfortable, but if my 'anxiety' is from anything, it's from all the girls over the years who gave me looks or made shaving comments when changing, which is retarded.
I am op, we are in the exact same boat, user, jesus. I have never met another girl that had the same amount of hair and color.
Get that shit lasered you disgusting whore. It's pretty much permanent.
Jesus that is repulsive.
do you got a big build though? women who like larger builds always go for the hairy shit. then again the opposite probably goes for women who like qt twinks/averages in general
I am 175cm so manlet tier, but have always been Jow Forums and hover around 12% BF
Hi987655790
there are people who care and people who don't. personallt, stretch marks are fine, so is pubic and armpit hair, but not leg or arm hair.
>I'm getting laser treatment in a few months
Then fuck off I guess, you're completely worthless.
stretch marks no, body hair yes"
It's not that I want to be judgemental, it''s that as a human, when i see hair on a girl something happens chemically in my brain to gross me out/make me not aroused.
If I could help it I would.
Body hair you can change though, so find comfort in that.
Yes. Stretch marks are ugly. Please see Dr. Shlomo Goldstein M.D.
>yes
how hairy are your pits?
personality's a part of it too probably. are you happy with your height? ideally, would you want to be taller, or is how you are right now roughly in line with your self-image?
>robots think they don't have standard
A lot of us don't. When people post pictures of "ugly" women you only see a minority of the people here (probably note ever real robots) making comments. We do have no standards
Most don't care. I talked to a girl who was riddled with self harm scars on her stomach. Just chose to ignore them when we got intimate for the first time was first time I saw them too. She texted me after trying to explain things. Just told her I was waiting for her to talk about it when she was ready. I guess she was very sad at some point in her life and took it out on herself but had moved passed that point but the scars remained.They don't bother me I told her I didn't care just means she was stronger than whatever she had to face. I miss her sometimes but she had to move away
Of course I'd like to be taller, but I'd like to be a billionaire too. I work with what I've got and I am doing alright. It limits me in terms of what women I get to approach, but other than that it's irrelevant.
>tfw no legbeard gf
>They don't bother me I told her I didn't care just means she was stronger than whatever she had to face
Actually it means she's a dumb BPD whore who will just do whatever her impulses tell her to.
Bitter virgin detected. People have different ways of dealing with things some good and some not so much. Seems your way of dealing with it is rage. What troubles you friend ?
If that were a man with self-harm scars he'd have been laughed out of the bed-room by any woman
A dumb BPD whore ruined my life moron. Wish I stayed a "bitter virgin" forever.
Sucks to be me. Got scars on my knee from self harm. There isn't many so I could maybe play it off as some accident but high IQ girl won't fall for that shit.
Same bitterness. This girl was not crazy I have dated crazy she didn't fit the bill. How did she ruin your life user?
Not to make a we live in a society post but imma do it anyway. It's the double standard we live with sucks balls but it's the way it is. Just gotta find that person that fits just right. I was always told to man up when I was younger what is very contrary to my gentle nature. Sucks man but currently girls are the gatekeepers
I have a fetish for female body hair specifically inner thighs and armpits, and I have stretch marks myself on my hips from weight loss. I don't care, as long as we have a personal connection than a relationship can come from something. Caring way too much about facial features and body types is why so many people are loveless. We should all fall in love with our eyes closed. I've never had a relationship. At first I thought it was because I was fat so I lost 50 pounds. Then I thought it was because I was too skinny. So I gained 50 pounds in lean muscle and became shredded. Then I thought that was too intimidating and cut back from lifting and put on some fat to look natural. Then one day while I was washing my face I looked at my fucked up eyes, weird mouth, I smiled and my teeth were fine but I looked weird, and then I flexed and realized that I was just really ugly. It was never anything I was doing. I was just ugly. I have stopped pursuing girls and romantic relationships and now I'm 27 and have never been in one. Playing football in high school and college hasn't gotten me anywhere.
>no pics
>no nudes
>no tits
>no timestamp
Dead board
Just sucks that it isn't recognized. A woman will cry up and down how she's "ruined her body" and none will love her because of her scars and receive a bunch of support, but we all know it's bs. I'm a guy and I've actually ruined my body, since women are the gatekeepers there is no reason for one to settle with me and all I'll get is mocked by anyone I try to talk to about it.
It's a shame really. I wish more people would recognize that it's an issue in both men and women. We are moving towards it but still have a long hill to climb. Like you said try and play it off your knees are accident prone areas anyway. Could say you had a nasty fall one day
I'm not the other user. My scars are on my upper arm near the shoulder and on my thighs. Only way I could try to play it off is that I do a lot of work with animals so I could say it's all the cats or something, I don't think anyone would believe that. Maybe for the shoulder ones. Thighs are easy to hide unless I'm naked though.
My mistake tough to keep everyone in order around here lol. You would be surprised at what normal grills that aren't mega that's will ignore or not question. I used to be a mason my hands where fucked up from being stupid and dropping bricks on them etc. Also my body is riddled with scars from being a farm boy. Most girls barely mentioned them or noticed really. Don't be so nervous most people aren't going to put you under a microscope
Yeah maybe they wouldn't notice or care or realize. I know how much women despise weak men though so it's hard to be confident knowing they'll drop me if they ever realize
I read that as if he were actually saying that. I was even just listening to one of his themes. gg, user.
Eh those are just the mega thots that only care about superficial nonsense. You would be surprised at what people don't notice.