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>he fell for the 10/10 autistic chick meme

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She has no time to waste on you, and maybe she sensed you were way more into her than she was comfortable with and didn't want to lead you on. So long as you were friends, you'd be entertaining the thought that someday, maybe you would be together. She could have been more tactful but cutting you off may be for the best so you can just move on.

I cant answer that perfectly. Maybe she doesn't want to be just friends with someone. Maybe she thinks that will complicate things when you started off your relationship romantically. Maybe she is struggling with working out what she wants. Or maybe she's a fucking bitch. I don't know.

I was actually online friends with the second girl. Very good online friends, we helped each other through some problems and were very honest. Then one day she made a comment about mansplaining and I told her how I felt about the term and the incident. Politely, respectfully. And she cut me out of her life completely and irrevocably.
Women....

>cut off a friendship over mansplaining

Geez what a stuck up bitch.

you seem pretty articulate and well spoken. it's on them, not you.

She lied?

If she didn't change her mind maybe she is just busy.
and this...

It was extremely shocking. I didn't think that it would escalate to that level. I just laughed, and tried to comprehend it, unsuccessfully. Then as time went on I just accepted it being a bizarre event and moved on.
She was really mentally ill. Her parents had both died in a car accident and she had immense problems. I later found out that she was sleeping with her friends boyfriend to get her "comfortable" with sex. I probably dodged a bullet there.

I know its on her. Perhaps I don't belong here, as I've had about 7 relationships, and I'm not a virgin, and I know that I have things to offer people. But then again, I like to think that I do, considering I lost my virginity at 24 and am almost thirty now, and most of my life was a hideous concoction of insecurity, despair, anxiety, and wasted time.

As far as I'm concerned you're doing a public service for robots giving out advice and shit.
And that's how it ought to be, robots helping each other instead of tearing each other down.

Thanks, I don't post often but I sometimes try to give people inspiration in virginity related or insecurity threads, aka 90% of threads
I was almost too far gone to come back; insecure and alone my entire life, suicidal, neurotic, beginning to see the roots of bitterness envelop my heart, and then it all changed when I lost my virginity, and I found that I didn't need to have a huge thundercock to be with and please a woman, and that its possible to be redeemed, even when you think you are an alien and an outsider in this world. I hate Jow Forumss prevailing sentiment that women are evil and that everything is some sort of grand cuckening, where genetics doom you from the start 100% of the time.

Would like to add another anecdote, even though it's pretty much the same story.
There's a guy I got along with for years, it was all online, chatting and playing games. We saw each other irl maybe once a year. Then he pushed for more irl activities. He invited me to stuff with his friends, we went for lunch/dinner and all that. And here's the catch, I don't like this guy irl at all. He's such an awkward autismo faggot, his mannerisms and everything. He smells. The enjoyment I get out of irl encounters with him is zero. I feel bad, but the truth is I find him repulsive. Long story short our online friendship didn't survive this. He pushed it and I retreated.

It's a dick move on my part because I didn't even tell him why and he will continue to wander the world, repelling other people as he goes.

this thread turned wholesome af and is 1000 times better then the usual shit here, thank you wise user

so because it worked out for not once but 7 times it'll juust eventually happen for every other lost soul. Get a grip, your ego is out of control you think you can talk on behalf of these people? that you're anything like them? what kind of world do you live in.
These people can't even manage to get it to happen once and some are even older than you.

I haven't had sex with 7 women. 3 of the relationships I had ( 2 were only a few weeks long) were sabotaged by my own insecurity, thinking I wasn't good enough. I wouldn't let the first see my dick because I thought that because it was small she would be repulsed. It turned out that it wouldn't have mattered, and my neurosis was the problem. Another girl I got close, but I just couldn't accept that I was worthy of being a sexual being, I was so repulsive, and I hadn't had the experiences I should have had at that age. And yet, she told me that she would wait until I was comfortable, and that she looked forward to it, and it didn't matter if I took my time. My neurosis in other areas of my life ruined that fling. I was so caught up in my insecurities that they consumed me.

I would never claim that I can speak on behalf of every disenfranchised soul on this board. I'm fairly unattractive, born with a cleft lip, a below average penis, and my hair is thinning, but I am not the most genetically handicapped. It may be harder for them than it was for me. And I'm not claiming that 40+ year old virgins do not exist. I'm just trying to emphasise that you don't have to be an adonis who is perfectly well socialised to find some happiness and perhaps a partner, and that every single girl is not a size-queen, hypergamy obsessed, monster that is unattainable.

It won't just eventually happen to them. It may not ever happen. But giving up, and reveling in a state of stagnation, hate,and despair will not help. We can only control our own experience in life. The universe may not dole out as many riches to you as another person, but you don't have to worry about that other person, you only need to worry about your own life, and making the most of it.