Is this normal after a full week of tinder or am I just ugly?

Is this normal after a full week of tinder or am I just ugly?

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Idk if its normal but it fucking sucks. Im not even ugly, i just graduated with a good degree and i got zero matches after a week. wtf

I think it's normal, i got my first match after 3 weeks

It's normal. Chances are those three likes are bots too. You're either that one guy who doesn't have to even try or you're that guy who has to work his ass off to get any attention at all. The latter is the overwhelming majority.

If you're in a bad place in your head right now, do yourself a favour and don't look at Tinder for the time being. It will only make things seem so much worse.

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how are things not bad if they are bad on tinder though? how does one just ignore the existence of such a thing.

>being a girl on tinder

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Because you're not going to be able to cope if you keep staring at it. Ignorance is bliss. I used one of those boosts on Tinder and did nothing but swipe right for thirty minutes, only to get zero matches. I'm sure I swiped on hundreds of girls.

Like I said, it's something where you're either Chad Thundercock or one of the dregs on the bottom of the pile. You need to be in a state of mind where you're going to be able to handle that overwhelming rejection.

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It's pretty normal. I've been on Tinder for months and I've had ~20-25 matches. Most of my matches don't talk to me and most likely were only on the app for a boost to their self-esteem. Then there were some that I had one or two conversations with, then they ghosted me. I actually did become friendly with one, but that's it. I've never actually met any of them. When you aren't Chad Thundercock, tinder is a miserable place. But I stay there because of the unlikely hopes that I might get lucky and actually score a date.

>state of mind where you're going to be able to handle that overwhelming rejection
i don't think i actually have that, and yet i'm ever drawn towards tinder. failing to match with a girl is a good final reason to give up in life no? sorry not you op..

Too afraid to download the app

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I wouldn't take it that far. I'm at this point where I'm cripplingly lonely, but even I cannot give up completely. There is probably a need in you like there is a need in me. There's a vulnerable little piece of you that needs to be nurtured by someone. Do you also crave love, user? Do you crave the warmth of another person?

If you do, then it won't go away. No amount of denial or rejection will keep you away completely. It's a part of you and you cannot deny it, just like I can't. I sometimes wish it wasn't there, but it is.

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You're not ugly, you just don't have an eye for aesthetics so your photos aren't good.

fuck man don't ever post that again

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This. Speaking as a fembot, youre very unlikely to get matches if you have repeats of the same photo, photos taken upwards, photos laid down in bed with shite lighting, any kind of meme/anime character, no bio or a shit bio that says something like
>lol I dunno what to write just ask me

3 photos, one decently dressed in like a shirt or something, a photo with friends, then a third misc one, maybe a holiday or hobby one. Witty, slightly self deprecating bio, list your interests.

Its not a hard algorithm user.

Don't bother dude here's a good reason why not to install tinder

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This is just in one day don't even bother robots it's over

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>fembot
>just don't be ugly
>just take a picture with friends!
>it's not that hard user
i would super like that profile

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do you know any girls who struggle to get matches on tinder out of curiosity?

I was getting matched with women every day, and my photos were friend, hobbies, job, travel, funny pose, grindr face-butt pose (which also included a physical hobby), and this pic

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Did I say anything about being ugly. Its all about how you fucking present yourself. You dont have to have alpha genes to not use photos that make you look like an autist serial killer.

Not really. I have 385. Keeping them talking though is a different story.

my photos were all approved by /soc/, but none of that changes the fact that i'm ugly. why would a girl like me when she could just go for the more attractive guys that are always available?

10/10 would swipe right

Daily reminder that women rate 80% of men to be below average attractiveness

Because much like horses can sense when a person is scared of them, your profile probably bleeds insecurity.
What does your bio say?

>fembot
>385 matches'
typical

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Anyone else just have tinder to make matches but too afraid to actually talk to any women? I match around a dozen a day, but I don't feel like talking to any of the thots. Some of them message me first, but I just ignore them. It kinda feels good, boys.

That's literally every robot.

You have only home alone head-on selfies, don't you?

>I match around a dozen a day,
>That's literally every robot.
Fuck off cunt, I wish.

i'm not going to not give up because i want to succeed... that's ridiculous, somethings are just unattainable for certain people. you wouldn't tell a 5'5 guy he could be a pro basketball player, why would you tell an ugly male that he could be loved?

do you struggle to keep all of them talking or just the matches you're really interested in and there are some matches that struggle to keep YOU talking?

so all robots get tinder matches? if i don't get tinder matches this would mean i'm below robot?

Stop taking sadboi pics.

>that robot that thinks it can get a gf when it doesn't even have friends

i haven't made a tinder yet, but i'm beginning to realize it's the ultimate test if you have any value. any tips before i make the plunge? i can do my best not to look like a sadboi but i've tried in the past for /soc/ and it's hard.

Yes, that must be it, and not that were simply not above average in attractiveness...
>Girls don't like me because of some easily changeable thing
is a beta cope to avoid bruising the ego.

str8?
Stop using home alone head-on selfies. That's a sadboi pic.

straight i guess, i'm kind of just dead inside, but maybe this will be a reason to bother trying again, or a nail in the coffin i desperately need. also can't girls succeed with home alone head-on selfies? why would they be so hypocritical...

lmao I get 99+ as "girl" in 2 hrs

Female reproductive resources are biologically more expensive than a cummy.

WHY AM I GETTING 0 LIKES ANYMORE
I HAD 4 MATCHES WHEN I STARTED NOW IM AT NOTHING 2 MONTHS LATER
WHAT

Normal. 80% of male tinder users never have sex with a girl off tinder.

oh my bad, i didn't realize tinder was an app for applying to make babies with each other... now i feel like an idiot...

do you think if i put in my bio that i don't want to impregnate them that that would solve that issue?

dude why you got post that shit

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instinct brah

>why would you tell an ugly male that he could be loved?
because Jow Forums and wizchan are proof that this is the case

Show me one ugly man, from anywhere.

i don't mean to play games with you, brah. do you think i should give up or not?

>implying they take selfies

Any photo of any ugly man anywhere will do.

so they're matching with girls who don't take selfies? sounds believable..

took me 6 months to get my first match

Because I've been drinking and I can't stop this flood of feelings. It's killing me, user. It really is.

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>Message people you have a 90% with on OK Cupid
>They don't even acknowledge your existence

I messaged a dozen women today and got fucking nothing. It wasn't even "HEY GRRL" bullshit, I actually tried showing interest in them.

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>Not being attractive
Are you even trying

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how good looking do you think you are compared to the fembot with 385 matches, out of curiosity?

I know that to girls 80% of guys are below average, they are really fucking picky.
Being a girl, even ugly af, most people will like you for some reason, so I'd say i'm probably better looking than most of the girls with that many matches.

Tinder is absolute shit for guys if you're not good looking

Is premium Tinder worth it?

>tinder is absolute shit for guys if you're not good looking
can someone explain to me how this doesn't mean life is just shit if you're not good looking? so what am i to do now, find a girl who hasn't heard of tinder and been let on to her sexual value?

>paying hard earned money to be ignored and ghosted by high-mileage pussy
might as well visit a prostitute at that point desu

>tfw all matches are fatties,uggos or single moms

It's not fair REEEEEEEE

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I've had Tinder for like 5 days. I've gotten a few matches but more importantly I've gotten a few snapchats where things are looking good.

get back to me with your matches to real life meetups ratio in a few weeks/months :^)

You'll get your anime girl if you try hard and long enough

This is your competition. Good luck!

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