Dating on Jow Forums

Hey op here, if anyone wants to chat my discord is Troll_Bones #9551

I'm a guy btw

I found a fembot here. I kind of wasn't the one who she was originally going to contactfag, but the other guy ghosted her within a day after seeing her pic and we've been talking for a year now. We're going to move in together soon.
She's chubby, frumpy and perfect for me. I love her so much, and I just want to protect her.

As someone who has had lots of experience online dating, its best not to do it as a too young kiddo, I did it since I was 13 and it was pointless since I was too young to meet up with them. I also suggest you don't do it unless you sincerely do believe that online friendships and irl friendships are equal, there's a lot more I can say I think, I had plenty of experience with this. This kind of derailed from the topic but yes, you can find a partner anywhere, I did on Twitter and he even introduced me to his irl friends

>twitter
>irl friends
You're a normalfaggot, please leave

Not a normie, considering it was online dating and we never met irl, I had a bad experience trying to meet up with online people, I'm hoping I get over it since I always wanted a never met ldr of mine to work out. moving right along

>it was online dating and we never met irl
Can you explain how it works?
I mean i could never get some for of attachement with someone that i have never seen irl.
How did you bond with him?

He actually sent me photos of himself, but there was complications in meeting up even though we actually lived pretty close.

Anyway, online dating can be geniune and not out of desperation, its the same thing as irl dating?? Coming from someone who has done it plenty of times, I actually liked the person a

So ok, you both shared pictures.
But the thing is, you get some form of connection only if you do things together (in my opinion).
How can you bond with someone, if you only talk to them online?

>meet girl over Jow Forums
>talk regularly
>one day she ghosts you
>hours and hours of your life down the drain

get this shit out of your system when you're young because you're wasting your time and flushing your life away doing this.

Watch movies and tv together, talk while watching movies, talk about your life experiences or lack thereof, learn about them, voice and video chat

Yeah, this recently happened to me.
There was literally no indication that they would ghost, and then all of a sudden they're gone.
Hopefully this experience numbs me to the point where I don't have to experience delusions like love.

As the person said, just talking to them forms a connection?

Maybe they actually died, user.
My fembot gf did this for a month or two, turns out she gets catatonically depressed due to bipolar. Waited for her because I care about her, though. I've just gotten used to her cycles, but try to send encouraging messages about how much I love her and interesting things she might like.

Well she was talking to you only because she felt lonely.
But then Chad asked her out, why should she continue talking with a subhuman like you after that. You are literal crap for her.

You can relate to another person and get to know them and form a connection that way. Not everything has to be based off of list you develop in person. With fembots they can relate to how badly depression, isolation, ugliness and all of that fucks you up. Normal women don't understand any of that, they'd rather watch Friends reruns for the fifth time and talk about how you and her are so similar to Jim and Pam omgggg.
>dating women who leave the house
You need one who drops their spaghetti around chad and runs away crying if chad somehow catches them outside in broad daylight.

>meet girls from Jow Forums years ago
>some are boring, some are interesting
>kept contact for a long time with some, stopped talking after 2 days with other

I didn't see much of this ghosting meme. Falling out of contact slowly, sure, but not ghosting.

I have a feeling you dudes act too desperate and clingy.

It's insanely repulsive when you act like someone's best friend/lover only 2 hours after you met them, and say shit like 'I missed you' or 'I'm so glad that you're online again'.

That said, I ghosted some fagbots[/spoilers] and got ghosted by fagbots[/spoilers] as well. But I write that off as post-masturbatory shame.

Also I actually fucked up spoilers after a decade of teasing others for it. Amazing.

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Yeah, I do it to everyone unfortunately? Or act really distant? I hate it. My first ever gf was okay with it though I think, I told her I had a passive thought of "I love you" and She was okay with it, at least I think she was, maybe she was pitying me. tldr; I was a bad habit of acting bffs with someone after meeting them

Post masturbatary shame? You traded lewds or something?

found a bf on here last year. came from different backgrounds so things didn't work out. really sweet guy and i hope he's doing well.

Hmm, I guess that's possible. Another possibility could be that her parents found out and made her stop the relationship.
I guess I'll try something like that, but I also don't want to get my hopes up for nothing.

Well I think recognizing the problem is a part of the solution. Also, who knows, maybe you'll find someone who appreciates overly strong displays of affection.

Just cybering. I did get lewds from sluts from /soc/ though. You gotta trawl that shitheap for legit ones for a few days, but you can find girls that get a kick out of showing their bodies to internet strangers (for free, even).

>With fembots they can relate to how badly depression, isolation, ugliness and all of that fucks you up
No you can't. Fembots have it easy, they have 10's of orbiters constanly giving them attention, emotional and even economical support.
They have no idea of what being lonely/bored/isolated feels like. And they will never have to fear ending up homeless because you can't get a job.
There is no way i can relate to a female.

>drops their spaghetti around chad and runs away crying
That doesn't happen, they can be shy, but if Chad gives them attention they will not run away.

I'm kinda like that too, as a straight guy :P. But I keep my soc persona and my r9k persona separate.

The one I talk to got ghosted by pseudochads every time she traded pics. She is chubby and frumpy but I love her how she is.
>support
I want to be that support.
Shut up you fucking faggot, go back to /soc/.

Do you mean like, religious backgrounds? Or was it distance?

>Shut up you fucking faggot, go back to /soc/.

Someone's mad their GF is sending autists nudes lel

it's just people complaining about not being in a relationship because their crush of 12 years began a relationship with someone else

Dude, I'm a robot like everyone else here. Only thing going for me right now is that I have decent career prospects. I'm a kv just like half the guys here.

>they will not run away
To the contrary, they're oblivious or view Chad's efforts as just them wanting a quick fuck or are too anxious to talk.
Fembot implies someone as the same problems as us. They're rare, not going to deny most list after Chad cock and are just attention whores, but the rare ones who are fucked up due to mental issues do exist. They need to be taken care of and loved, just like us, however unlikely the chance is of meeting them.
If you have high standards and couldn't lower yourself to a homely girl, then obviously you aren't getting a fembot gf tho. You're just going to orbit an attention whore. That much is obvious.

I'm the person who has been in lots of LDRs, I'm panromantic so I don't care about gender or genitals. I'm also autistic so my parents don't support my ldrs which makes it even harder than "normal" ldrs, oh well. I suggest to not get into ldrs until you're 18 though, take this advice seriously my Fellow online dating people,

I met the most incredible girl on here and we've been talking daily for 3 months.
Distance is always the biggest problem with these things, but if you're willing to work for it and you're both the kind of people who would never cheat, I believe it is definitely possible.

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Then settle for a homely fembot. You aren't going to get Stacy with glasses, faggot.

I can't even find a fucking friend on here. You have no hope lad.

Um that's exactly what I'm lookin for you silly goof.

I just use soc for getting cheap trades. I'm looking fr an actual fembot gf elsewhere.

I'm a quality guy but I'm already taken by a fembot

I hope you can wade through the trash and find yourself a shiny robot m'lady
You ARE a lady right? Otherwise fuck off faggot.

Video games, duh..

^^he's hit a good point you know

A-user? Are you okay over there?

i hope for a happy ending to you all, I'm just tired of malicious and sad stories

>online friends
Kek, wake the fuck up faggot.
You can't be friends with someone online, you need bonding experiances and common activities.
And you can't do it by just talking.

I'm fine omg
Yeah but ldrs are no big deal... if one of you has self-agency and no parents to stop you

It's how I've bonded with pretty much all of my friends, even the ones from school and that, vidyagames keep us together even though we don't live near each other.

I've seen some miserable NEETs talking smack but video games are the perfect way for you to bond if you're not the athletic sort/you're not interested in athletic people.

Says you, I made a genuine friend recently. They're probably rare though.

>t. unlikeable NEET

Hence the making friends part. We'd know each other offline.

Online friends are real, I had mine for all of 2018, I love him

go to lgbt and ask you homo

>There was literally no indication that they would ghost
Maybe you offended her in some way.

I get very attached to people I meet online, there must be others like me

Maybe she fucking died

>tfw you tend to assume the worst possible outcome

If it is online, you will lose contact soon

i am a neet, but i have two irl friends
Just trying to prevent people waisting their time with online friendships, because i made that mistake in the past.

Are you gay?

just like me!!
relatable

>If it is online, you will lose contact soon
Says you. Just because people ghost your ass doesn't mean they'll ghost me. And if it happens, so what? Not the end of the world.

>Maybe you offended her in some way.
I'm pretty sure that's not it, since the last time she messaged me it was just a normal message.
Honestly at this point it feels that it's more likely what this guy said >

have you tried contacting them afterwards? For me it's usually 2 strikes with a person before I give up on them. I found it to be better because a lot of people on r9k are anxious and shut down when they feel someone is bored with them.
That said, if after the 2nd attempt they still dont put effort into the convo, I get the hint and move on

I think it really hit him hard. Poor lonely user.

She's just been completely offline for the past few weeks, I've messaged her multiple times but haven't gotten a response.
I'm pretty sure she's ghosted me, but there are a couple other possibilities.
1. She died (Very unlikely)
2. Her parents forced her to stop the relationship (Unknown likelyhood)
3. She's super busy with an internship or something like that (Somewhat likely)
4. Maybe she's suffering from some sort of illness, mental or physical (Somewhat likely)

But like I said earlier, I don't have high hopes that she'll ever come back.

Not gay, but when I got "noticed" around Jow Forums everyone assumed he and I were dating, and I think only cis men can be gay? Wow derailed from topic, which was online dating.

It depends, most of the time
If you are a girl (female) you'll have 90 orbiters asking for kik or discord
If you are a girl (male) guys will just want to fuck you and move on, or keep you as a living fleshlight
If you are a male, you'll be used by the girl (female) to get free shit while she talks to all the other 89 orbiters

Nigga
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Actually managed to find a girlfriend from here, but she ended up cucking me very quickly. No surprise.
Absolutely this, minus the trannyshit. That's where the meme is.

>men on Jow Forums are already lonesome because of their relatively high standards

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I would get my head out of my own ass and try to land a stacy interloper. It's my only chance as a cyborg

I have nothing in common with stacies though, and apparently I'm too normal for crazy fembots.

>tfw no fembot gf
it really gets me sometimes

>men on Jow Forums are already lonesome because of their relatively high standards
(not true, by the way)

It is.
The only problem is whether he's a good one or not. You probably mean to say whether you could get a LOYAL bf, so perhaps the answer would be memes.

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sorta true for me desu

all i want is a semi normie vidya girl who isn't really ugly and isn't unemployed or working a dead end job. I don't care if she's a little chubby either.

No, we all gave up and are no longer fit for human companionship, please stop the vicious cycle of getting people's hopes up and ghosting them that has gone on for too long.

>Is it possible to actually find a bf on here? Or is it just memes and desperation?
Yeah, I dont go outside for shit.

i had an irl date last friday and i told her i didn't want to go on another with her. I was real polite about it but she was like "i really wanna be your friend though, why can't we do that?" and was really insistent about it so I went into more detail why it wasn't a good date

>she lived 90 minutes away and doesn't own her own car, so I'd be driving 3 hours every time I wanted to see her
>she doesn't live in her own place so I would have to meet her parents and do stuff in their house unless I wanted to take her out every time
>she had nothing to talk about but the bad shit in her past, the video games and anime she escapes into, how much she likes me, and apologizing for herself
>she made me drive an extra 30 miles after I got to her to take her to her favorite movie theater, and when we got there decided she didn't want to see the movie anyways (i ended up driving 200 miles that night in total)
>she wouldn't stop comparing herself to my other female friends and trying to get me to talk about them

so I dodged a bullet, but my standards are a little higher than that.

just make a funny apu shirt and wear it around
eventually some loser from the other gender will comment on it and you can date

I found my girlfriend on this board, shes very sweet and kind. I made a self improvement thread and we added each other, i didn't even know she was a girl until later on, we instantly clicked. She lives in Europe and i'm from the USA and it was kinda hard dating, but we met up and it was best month of my life, i'm going back to Europe in the coming weeks. I only really browse r9k for cute apu images and other reaction images

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Well, man you have some standards.
If i ever had a chance with a woman, i would even move to a different country.
Yes, i'm such a desperate loser.

you should move to upstate ny and give this gril a chance, lord knows she's lonely.

Same, distance literally doesn't matter to me anyway. It's not that deep we are all, just people?

Not the guy you responded to, but I agree. Honestly I don't care where I am in the world if I'm with the right person. The only thing I care about is the quality of life in the country.

It's probably possible but not worth trying. I've just gotten nudes and feet pics from girls and that's good enough for me.

nice trips

but i like it here. My family lives nearby and I bought a house, so I'm kind of invested in my current location. I would gladly assist a girl in moving in with me if she were long distance though.

Yeah desu, I only care about the person not the distance. and besides it will be fun to go to new places.

I think it should be mutual though. If she's not willing to move to you, then there's an imbalance, and once you've decided to be together in person more permanently, its good to work out the logistics of which place is better. Where are there better opportunities? If borders are being crossed which way would be harder to move? If children are in the plans, which place educates better?

Saying you'll move over to be with someone who wouldn't do the same for you is a recipe for failure I think. In any case, I think someone who is anything but extremely reluctant to move a long distance for another person is a red flag.

You can have bonding experiences online, like vidya

Pretty hard because fembot always flake and ghost you.

any gril in the philippines?

more like the guys here are insane, you get clingey, you stalk us, you insult over anything and you still expect sexual things to happen as well

Talking to a fellow human being is good and more cool if its of opposite gender. Hence, i would suggest you to date me. Lulz

That's robots. But girls here will even ghost normies and chads who are nice to them.

you should probably look elsewhere

>be absent from r9k for 4 years
>suddenly girls here
what happened and where do i put my name to sign up for a gf

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I'm clingy but I wouldn't stalk or insult a fembot.
I don't expect sexual things to happen, or rather I don't feel entitled to them. I just want someone to love.
Just because you've had bad experiences with a shallow robot who called you fat or whatever when you traded pics doesn't mean I'm like that.

I just want someone who will hold my hand and tell me its alright, doing nice things for each other, and have a nice relationship. Is that really so much to ask for? A girlfriend?