How do I stop feeling hateful and bitter towards women, especially women who have sexual experience?
This point of view is completely ingrained inside me, I can consciously tell myself that I'm wrong or w/e but it doesn't change anything, I'm just instinctively distrustful and can't help but assume that every girl is a manipulative whore.
I don't want to be like this.
This is not a thinly veiled woman hate thread, I want genuine advice.
If you think that you know their game so well, turn it in your favor to manipulate their wants for your own sexual whims.
men make them that way. the reason that there aren't female incels is because thirsty men will go bending over backwards and kill each other for a little bit of poon.
I don't know shit about their game. I'm socially inept and haven't talked to a girl my age in three years.
In that case, I'm happy to inform you that most people actually live their lives from day to day without malicious intent. There may exist some issue of time, money, health, housing, patience, and more, but that's something to be cared for, not scorned. Comb your face and remember to smile. People are good.
>just don't be thristy
That is like saying to a hungry man to stop being hungry and asking for food.
>most people actually live their lives from day to day without malicious intent
Is that true though? A lot of young women seem really cuntish.
I imagine if every douchebag that you ever saw hit on you every day, you would be pretty hostile to communicating with randos.
Try a religious study group. You could probably find a nondenominational one if that's your speed.
I'm not religious at all though. I probably wouldn't fit in something like a study group anyway.
>I probably wouldn't fit in something like a study group anyway.
I doubt that you have a learning disability.
Just do some group activity that you are interested in.
The things I'm interested in have no women
I guess I've got to ask. Are you actually interested in women?
Yeah
I'm just socially stunted and can't help but have extreme views on women
Smoke a joint and think up some hobbies for yourself to meet women.
>Smoke a joint
I don't do drugs or drink
That's why it will work for getting you out of your current mindset.
If you don't want to hate:
Realize that other people aren't different from you. Just like you they do what they think (sometimes subconsciously) is the best for them in a situation. Given their situation and experiences, chances are that you would do something similar.
Girl having sexual experience doesn't tell everything. Who did she have sex with? Was it a mistake on her part? Was she pressured into it? If you had a gf in your teen years, would've you had sex with her? Yes? No? 100+ partners is a warning sign, but maybe 2 isn't. Sure, more or less of women are manipulative whores, but hating them is waste of energy. You shouldn't be angry at the weather because it's raining or at humans for being humans.
It's only natural to hate women user, look how the guys who fuck hundreds of women talk about them. They despise the vapid whorish cunts. A big problem would be considering them to be just like you with the same emotions and fears. Women do not think or experience life like men do, they have a completely other experience. Women don't feel happiness or loneliness like men do, so think of them like you think of an animal.
Yes I know all this but I can't help it
I feel completely alienated from normalfags, I don't even understand their thought process or lifestyle. When extended to women and sex it's like I'm trying to grasp a different world entirely and it frustrates me a lot to think that what they deem natural and normal is fucking foreign to me.
I'm also really uncomfortable about the idea of sex and intimacy and a woman who is comfortable with those ideas makes me uneasy by extension.
I don't want to hate them
Atleast you can see that the hatred is a problem in you. I'd say that either experience and/or time will make your feelings more "normal".
Or time will make me more bitter.
Well, it depends on how you think. If you realize that the hatred is coming from within you and your own beliefs and isn't directly caused by other people, I don't think it will drive you to bitterness. Selfhate, selfdoubt etc maybe.
Hatred inevitably comes from within but it's caused by external factors
Why do you not want to hate them?
Because it's a shitty feeling and I'd rather feel good. And I believe my hatred is misplaced, yet still can't get rid of it.
Jealousy is fucking horrible.
It's not that you hate them for having sex, it's that you hate that they're not having sex with you.
I don't know if that's it, I think it's deeper than that but you might be partly right
I don't like promiscuity and that's not caused by my lack of success, I've always disliked trashy women or trashy people in general. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be promiscuous even if I could be.
It's certainly not misplaced. Women deserve hate, but if you feel like knowing the truth of women is causing you to hate them and it's making your life worse. You can always bluepill yourself
Bingo for me. I'll always be bitter and jealous since I'm too ugly and worthless to get laid
>implying sex and food is the same
The redpill, bluepill, blackpill shit is fucking tiring and I don't care about it anymore.
>knowing the truth
I don't know jack shit, I haven't had a conversation with a woman for years. I don't have anything to base my hatred off of, aside from my paranoia and own personal issues.
>How do I stop feeling hateful and bitter towards women, especially women who have sexual experience?
Just start to hate both female and males.
Go misanthropy route
Practice some empathy, just because they got laid doesnt make them lesser than you, youre just jealous
I don't think they're lesser than me, they're obviously more successful
See
That seems like the most counterproductive option you could choose