You are failing in life because you have piss-poor emotional bank accounts. You occupy your minds with the wrong shit. Stop spending hour after hour thinking how you look, how successful other people are, how much you're failing, how people have wronged you, how girls give their pussies up to other guys, and all the other shit you weenies chat about.
You're in the shit because of a FUCKING LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM!
You don't want to improve your lives! If you'd have just done something about it five years ago, one year ago... Fuck, if you'd done something about it last week you wouldn't be as fucked up as you are now!
PULL THE FUCKING TRIGGER AND TAKE ACTION IN LIFE! BE ALL YOU CAN BE! STOP WASTING FUCKING TIME!
not everyone can get where they want, someone must always be the bottom of the pyramid
Bentley Nguyen
>tfw you have to do your parent's job in giving yourself a high self esteem I guess I just have to be the man I wish my father was, maybe one day I'll raise a son who isn't like I am now
>just improve your life bro Alright then, HOW do I do that?
Joseph Price
I've been "improving" for a few years now, finally learned to drive, moved out of my parents, got a decent paying job. I've never hated life more than I do now.
John Lewis
>You're in the shit because of a FUCKING LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM!
Yeah it's like a giant catch 22, people who have confidence have great things coming for them. People who lack confidence don't have great things.
> I have been told I lack self-esteem since the age of 13 and guess facking what, I TRIED! > I tried soooooooo hard yet, I failed AND FAILED! >Because I don't have great things, because i can't get great things. >Because of a FUCKING LACK OF SELF-ESTEEM!
>tfw low self esteem because i believe i don't deserve to be happy because nothing good has ever happened to me because i don't try to be happy because i believe i don't deserve to be happy because nothing good has ever happened to me because i don't try to be happy and so on
Nobody deserves Happiness user, they just take it and if you can do this you can break the cycle. I know its hard but please, make a conscious effort to do things that make you happy and force yourself to feel happiness. How you do this is something only you can answer but you need to break out of the mindset of not deserving happiness.
I know this will be extremely hard for you or else you would have already done it but you need to user
Aaron Martin
I'm busy fucking fixing my life going to school working at a career that I'm invested in. Working on my credit to make it good enough to buy things like a car and a house. I'm trying to fix my emotions. But you. No you still say it's not enough. It'll never be fucking enough for you normies. You people keep pushing us into the fucking ground then come here and talk shit about how pathetic we are because you assholes had a good fun fucking time sending us here. I swear when incels and khvs finally lose their shit and start shooting and blowing normies up remember that you had a hand in this and you are just a responsable as all the other normies.
Charles Thompson
>not working makes me happy (or at least not sad) >but have to work because need money >can't afford shit anyway because am a dumb wagie >ergo no way to become happy Not the guy you replied to by the way.
Adrian Bell
I can't tell you how to become happy, sorry about your situation but that shouldn't stop you from trying.
Julian Bailey
You are absolutely correct. I should be on Instagram right now.
Robert Rogers
The essence of the colorlesspill. Sort of.
Isaac Adams
Confidence is a meme, It's just the chicken and the egg. Do people have shit lives because of low self esteem, or so people have low self esteem because of their shitty lives?
Hunter Lewis
N-no user but you don't understand, m-muh world is just, there's no way that we are slaves to our circumstances, you just have to believe in urself and good things will happen!
No amount of improvement or change or feeling you deserve to be happy will make you happier. You're doomed to be at the same level of happiness regardless of your situation or circumstances. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedonic_treadmill
Michael Taylor
Nah, it's impossible to be happy at this point. I have decided to commit suicide before this year ends. Thanks for the good vibes though.
David Cox
>PULL THE FUCKING TRIGGER AND TAKE ACTION IN LIFE! BE ALL YOU CAN BE! STOP WASTING FUCKING TIME! how? you sorts of people always say shit like >get motivated! >be confident! >get off your ass and do something! how? do what? in what way? where do you get motivation? how do you make it last? where do you get willpower? how do you make it last? where do you get discipline? how do you make it last? fucking how?
Find something small in your life that you could fix or put in order, and do it. Break large problems down into small problems that you can handle and solve, deal with them one at a time. Keep doing that over and over and you'll make a lot of progress.
Confidence isn't a mask or an act that you put on to hide the crippling self-loathing that you accept as your default state of being. Confidence is supposed to be your default state and is your inherent right as a person. If you look at a toddler or a puppy it comes into the world confident, it doesn't come into the world hating itself and having to build up confidence by having good things happen to it.
Developing confidence is a process of letting go of emotional baggage, confronting and mastering your fears, and forgiving yourself. It's not a process of trying to gain something that other people have and which you don't.
maybe you can save these younglings, but there is such thing as being fucked in life
Colton White
>Break large problems down into small problems that you can handle and solve thats the problem you cant even solve the small problems without having motivation and discipline everything begins with those two things, and if you dont have them you're just fucked for life
>you cant even solve the small problems Then break them down again until you reach a point where you can will yourself into action.
Is there a dirty glass or empty bottle on your desk right now? Put it in the trash.
>motivation and discipline Discipline is a muscle, you have to train yourself and develop it. It's not something that just magically gets granted to you at birth.
As for motivation, this website and other such trash like videogames and anime will sap that shit right away. Stop coming here, stop wasting yoru time, actually force yourself to face the reality of your life instead of escaping through a screen. And then know that it could be so much better if you'd just try to make it so.
trust me the military isnt going to fix your robotness in fact, it'll just make it worse
Xavier Taylor
It'll probably go something like this though: >draft robots into chair force >robots get Jow Forums >comfy programming/it work for a couple years >minimum normie-tier by the time they're out or neetbux if they're injured
Leo Martin
not at all likely more like >arrive at training base >get shit on my drill sergeants >get shit on and outcasted by the other normie/chad trainees >get shit on (and even punished) for being physically weak and incompetent >for every time you fuck up, you do more physical activity, which you're unable to do, thus leading to more ridicule and hatred thrown your way >eventually forced out because you're too weak and incompetent to be trained to be a solider >come back home and kill yourself from the trauma of the experience join the army they said, it'll make you confident they said, it'll make you strong they said, you'll be happier they said...
